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Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Handsome777(m): 8:31am On Sep 08, 2016
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

SOURCE: www.nigerianinterest..com

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 9:39am On Sep 08, 2016
I've mastered all this jurh grin

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Handsome777(m): 9:44am On Sep 08, 2016
Then Congratulations, bros!
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by seunny4lif(m): 11:04am On Sep 08, 2016
Stage 1. Money grin grin grin grin
2: Think abt Money grin grin grin grin
3. Go back to 1 grin grin grin grin
4. Money grin grin grin grin grin
5. Even when you are boring as hell, get rich and u will be fun
6. Go back to 1 and thank me later grin grin grin


Modified:
Since 2016 and this topic just got to FP
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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by McBrooklyn(m): 11:20am On Sep 08, 2016
OP, only real mean chyke babe for WhatsApp angry







And it's only fûckboys that do toast a babe for WhatsApp angry

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by DemonMonkey7(m): 1:12pm On Sep 08, 2016
dah.. maka rest ...,

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Handsome777(m): 2:51pm On Sep 08, 2016
Guy nawa for you o...

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 4:26pm On Sep 08, 2016
If you have something to offer, you don't need to act the movie listed above to get her attention.
Guys, work on yourselves, make urself irresistible, don't be bitc.hy or saucy. Shikena.
I for one don't believe in overhauling my life just to impress a certain babe or get along with her, it's not every lady I come across that I should seek to date, some of them don't even have anything inspiring about them, you just keep the friendship at "chat" level.
TBF, it's the lady who should seek to impress me and prove she is different from the typical naija babe.
Ps: Setting up a date or rendezvous with a lady is a one in ten stuff, never my priority. You must have proven irresistible before I decide to hang out with you.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by undisputedk: 4:27pm On Sep 08, 2016
All these 'you're doing it wrong' threads sef..
- How not to sit
- How not to stand
- How not to take water
- How not to breathe
Now this.
Many would agree with me that the aforementioned are but fallacies. Take #1 for instance, when a lady replies your chats very quickly, chances are she's really having a great time with you.

And what's with "not having a texting style"? Palapala. Now, one has to go develop some literary skill just to 'chyke babe on WhatsApp'.

Anyways, grown up men don't ask women out on WhatsApp. It's demeaning, degrading, to say the least to both personalities.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 4:29pm On Sep 08, 2016
Anyways, Weldon Op. I picked one or two positives from the article

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Bustyme(f): 4:42pm On Sep 08, 2016
seunny4lif:
Stage 1. Money grin grin grin grin
2: Think abt Money grin grin grin grin
3. Go back to 1 grin grin grin grin
4. Money grin grin grin grin grin
5. Even when you are boring as hell, get rich and u will be fun
6. Go back to 1 and thank me later grin grin grin

I concur grin

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Handsome777(m): 6:55am On Sep 12, 2016
sapiosexual1:
Anyways, Weldon Op. I picked one or two positives from the article
that's what it is.... God bless!
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by DeLioncourt: 7:03am On Sep 12, 2016
McBrooklyn:
OP, only real mean chyke babe for WhatsApp angry








And it's only fûckboys that do toast a babe for WhatsApp angry

What is this??

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by DeLioncourt: 7:06am On Sep 12, 2016
undisputedk:
All these 'you're doing it wrong' threads sef..
- How not to sit
- How not to stand
- How not to take water
- How not to breathe
Now this.
Many would agree with me that the aforementioned are but fallacies. Take #1 for instance, when a lady replies your chats very quickly, chances are she's really having a great time with you.

And what's with "not having a texting style"? Palapala. Now, one has to go develop some literary skill just to 'chyke babe on WhatsApp'.

Anyways, grown up men don't ask women out on WhatsApp
. It's demeaning, degrading, to say the least to both personalities.

You were making sense until that last part.
I'm tired of hearing grown men don't do this or that.
Is there a manual for how you should do things at a particular age or time?

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by ireneony(f): 7:07am On Sep 12, 2016
Ok

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by datyrone(m): 7:17am On Sep 12, 2016
all this epistle ontop woman matter...iranu

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by NevetsIbot(m): 8:50am On Sep 12, 2016
On point
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by McBrooklyn(m): 10:04am On Sep 12, 2016
DeLioncourt:

What is this??

What is what?? undecided

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Handsome777(m): 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2016
datyrone:
all this epistle ontop woman matter...iranu
You no go understand until woman do you something... that time, the epistle go dey you like one verse..... Abacha

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 7:01pm On Sep 12, 2016
ireneony:
Ok
hey pretty
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Handsome777(m): 8:03pm On Sep 12, 2016
NevetsIbot:
On point
Everly
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by AlphaSoul: 6:53pm On Mar 21, 2021
Handsome777:
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

SOURCE: www.nigerianinterest..com
#7... grin grin
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Seniorwriter(m): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2021
Shit happens

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by DropsMic(m): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2021
following
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Yemike(m): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2021
Girls don't have style.
Before I started dating a girl I used to chat with her like my younger sister, I used to be very blunt but when we started dating I started respecting her.

I was surprised when she told me she liked the blunt and no nonsense version of me that I should drop the Mr nice guy act.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BrutusOj(m): 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
undecided All these Epistles just to date a girl or what?

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by VictoriaNkechi(f): 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
waste of time

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BigSarah(f): 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
grin Some pr Ickes even go ahead and video call, just to show their unshaved snatch
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Dotherightthing: 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
Wow
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Movieguru(m): 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
Lol
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by A305: 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
This post was/is totally unnecessary. You basically teaching guys to pedestalize women they intend laying or starting a relationship with.
— That is a simp move!

WhatsApp or any other social media for communication should solely be used for logistic purpose.

As a real man with balls, You get to interact with a lady face to face and not try to gauge her interest or disinterest in you via chat.

Ask her out on a date, so you both can go verbally express yourselves. No one takes chatting as serious as physical interaction. You both need to get into each other's head via a mental/verbal intercourse, NOT chat! After the the introduction phase or probably getting laid phase had been completed then you can begin to chat her up via whatsapp to show commitment.

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