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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BrainSanitizer: 3:56pm On Mar 23, 2021
Thrash!
Ask for her account number and forget all this nonsense!
Real dudes spend time thinking about how to make money and more money.
Why on earth do I need to think of all this shhiiit when I already have the simple formula?
C'mon!
When you've got bills in your pocket, the bells will ring without swinging.
MyOneCent

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Heterodox(m): 3:57pm On Mar 23, 2021
So someone wrote this? Wow!

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Austineva(m): 3:57pm On Mar 23, 2021
seunny4lif:
Stage 1. Money grin grin grin grin
2: Think abt Money grin grin grin grin
3. Go back to 1 grin grin grin grin
4. Money grin grin grin grin grin
5. Even when you are boring as hell, get rich and u will be fun
6. Go back to 1 and thank me later grin grin grin
I believe u, any doubt should ask anty 'Zzor' grin grin
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by lastchild: 3:59pm On Mar 23, 2021
the truth is, all these mistakes listed here to corrected by men in dealing with women, if women are not the one correcting these mistakes just to get you, bro you are nobody

the moment women start correcting these mistakes to get you, just know that you are becoming somebody in life, you are becoming a treasure
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by SweetVibe: 3:59pm On Mar 23, 2021
BigDick70inch:
Which of the dumb mod........pushed thread of 2016 to FP now

Is it that..........there r no hot issue that front page worthy enough more
your moniker no follow at all.
Of all the names to chose?

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by MrNipplesLover(m): 4:00pm On Mar 23, 2021
SMH.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 4:02pm On Mar 23, 2021
Trash. I do all these "no-do's" you talked about and still get to lay them.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by TriCee: 4:02pm On Mar 23, 2021
Do you just stumble on people's numbers and start asking them out on WhatsApp?

I thought people exchange numbers somewhere else before proceeding to WhatsApp as friends.

If you can convince someone to get their contacts, why do you need manual to finish the 'job'?

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by SweetVibe: 4:05pm On Mar 23, 2021
TriCee:
Do you just stumble on people's numbers and start asking them out on WhatsApp?

I thought people exchange numbers somewhere else before proceeding to WhatsApp as friends.

If you can convince someone to get their contacts, why do you need manual to finish the 'job'?
The matter self just tire me.
the op na eleribu

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by coolebux(m): 4:07pm On Mar 23, 2021
All these are just for the grams
There's no known singular formula for chyking a babe successfully
Our sisters down here doesn't always take these WhatsApp chats to heart. Scores have had potential niggies slip through their fingers whilst observing these social etiquettes grin
Facts: if you are so much interested in observing chatting decorum, you're most likely gonna chicken-in and out of relationships/situationships

Save us the rigmarole, chyking no be govt work biko
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Eastcaostboy: 4:19pm On Mar 23, 2021
I've mastered all this jurh grin
master of all you are. That's good for you, bro
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by TitanzStudio(m): 4:20pm On Mar 23, 2021
seunny4lif:
Stage 1. Money grin grin grin grin 2: Think abt Money grin grin grin grin 3. Go back to 1 grin grin grin grin 4. Money grin grin grin grin grin 5. Even when you are boring as hell, get rich and u will be fun 6. Go back to 1 and thank me later grin grin grin
thank you
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BRATISLAVA: 4:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
Yemike:
Girls don't have style.
Before I started dating a girl I used to chat with her like my younger sister, I used to be very blunt but when we started dating I started respecting her.

I was surprised when she told me she liked the blunt and no nonsense version of me that I should drop the Mr nice guy act.

How old were you, and how old was she?
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by TitanzStudio(m): 4:21pm On Mar 23, 2021
I've mastered all this jurh grin
legend
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Topmaike007(m): 4:25pm On Mar 23, 2021
2016 post hit fp 2021...

I BELIEVE GOD WILL ANSWER MY PRAYERS AND TAKE AWAY ALL MY PAINS OF YESTERDAY...













BELIEVE

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 4:25pm On Mar 23, 2021
Nonsense post from someone that has nothing to do!
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BRATISLAVA: 4:26pm On Mar 23, 2021
TriCee:
Do you just stumble on people's numbers and start asking them out on WhatsApp?

I thought people exchange numbers somewhere else before proceeding to WhatsApp as friends.

If you can convince someone to get their contacts, why do you need manual to finish the 'job'?

You need the manual before you conclude all women are trash/useless bichtes once they don't respond to your WhatsApp messages the way you think they should.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Yemike(m): 4:26pm On Mar 23, 2021
BRATISLAVA:

How old were you, and how old was she?
We're both in our early twenties tho I'm older than her.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by MoneyTrees(m): 4:29pm On Mar 23, 2021
Hmmm... I never get disappointed
Today I decide to handpick village gals & it didn't take me 5 sec to see this comment grin
Those niggars ain't doing bad to show you their unshaved snatch ad you call it
1. They wanna see you real cos y'all ladies are the worst fake products out there.
2. A bushy ... Is actually a fetish to some peeps
If you didn't like what u saw... Hit d road quick
Another is waiting to svck d b0lls of the bushy snatch
cheesy grin grin


BigSarah:
grin Some pr Ickes even go ahead and video call, just to show their unshaved snatch

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BRATISLAVA: 4:29pm On Mar 23, 2021
Yemike:

We're both in our early twenties tho I'm older than her.

Too young to conclude.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Yemike(m): 4:33pm On Mar 23, 2021
BRATISLAVA:

Too young to conclude.
Not in this present age sir
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by illicit(m): 4:34pm On Mar 23, 2021
So chatting still get text book


shocked
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Edwin046(m): 4:37pm On Mar 23, 2021
Asin government work abi...

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Mcfi(m): 4:37pm On Mar 23, 2021
Las las who wan gree go gree. No be by all these things

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 4:40pm On Mar 23, 2021
Handsome777:
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

SOURCE: www.nigerianinterest..com


Garbage & Trash. Who got time for Nonsense.....

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by TriCee: 4:40pm On Mar 23, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


You need the manual before you conclude all women are trash/useless bichtes once they don't respond to your WhatsApp messages the way you think they should.
And what made you think I'm of the opinion that ''all women are trash/useless bitches''? That's a very myopic way to think.
I tried to balance my narrative to affect both genders, but you chose to pick on women? Haaa, easy o

No sir/ma, I don't need any manual to chat with people and I don't pick offense if they don't respond to my expectations. Be more open-minded.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by flintk(m): 4:48pm On Mar 23, 2021
Thinking her head is correct
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 4:50pm On Mar 23, 2021
All the epistle over romance matter angry

When does a lady become a trophy

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Incognito403: 4:54pm On Mar 23, 2021
seunny4lif:
Stage 1. Money grin grin grin grin
2: Think abt Money grin grin grin grin
3. Go back to 1 grin grin grin grin
4. Money grin grin grin grin grin
5. Even when you are boring as hell, get rich and u will be fun
6. Go back to 1 and thank me later grin grin grin
Money is to men as beauty is to women.
Money can attract women to you but can't keep them to you.
Beauty can attract men to a woman but can't keep them to her.
Only a good personality guarantees a sustainable marriage.
Even you won't enjoy a marriage that is glued only by money.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by NSK4U(m): 4:56pm On Mar 23, 2021
Well.....


Such good teaching buh mehn, to be safer,


Just have some self value/worth, then 'beautiful pocket'
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by sunnyphem(m): 5:02pm On Mar 23, 2021
guy... hustle first and get money ... na ladies u carry on head like this ... ok ho continue

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