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Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by firstking01(m): 11:53am On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
sorry 2 disappoint u buh am nt as hungry as u r...
Wow, your arrogance says it all, i 'll pass.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Nobody: 11:55am On Sep 14, 2016
firstking01:
Wow, you arrogance says it all, i 'll pass.
no,dnt go...pls come back lets argue...rubbish
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by firstking01(m): 11:57am On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
no,dnt go...pls come back lets argue...rubbish
I see nobody to argue with here, you ain't worth a mini secs of my time cool.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Nobody: 11:59am On Sep 14, 2016
firstking01:
I see nobody to argue with here, you ain't worth a mini secs of my time cool.
ok,bye..
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by firstking01(m): 12:02pm On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
ok,bye..
Merci Beaucoupundecided
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Nobody: 12:05pm On Sep 14, 2016
firstking01:
Merci Beaucoupundecided
young man,go get a job asap,this joblessness is nt good for ur life
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by firstking01(m): 12:07pm On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
young man,go get a job asap,this joblessness is nt good for ur life
Ok!!!
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by nuelzz04(m): 12:18pm On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
i have noticed this abt u,u dnt read to comprehend ,u read to comment....
did i say anything abt nt telling him am nt interested??...sometimes,its good 2 use ur head once in a while..
because she doesn't agree wit u doesn't mean she does not comprehend ......Dats ur preference ...n she has hers








D last tym I checked we all v rights to our opinion angry
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by iwatch: 12:21pm On Sep 14, 2016
rosalieene:
one thing I have realized is that, once you are close to a guy, they always develop feelings for you.
not really. If a guy never liked you from the beginning, it wouldn't happen.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Nobody: 12:27pm On Sep 14, 2016
nuelzz04:
because she doesn't agree wit u doesn't mean she does not comprehend ......Dats ur preference ...n she has hers








D last tym I checked we all v rights to our opinion angry
why u kom dey frown facehuh ...u know me b4?
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by nuelzz04(m): 12:36pm On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
why u kom dey frown facehuh ...u know me b4?
OK no vex .....I don smile now grin
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by KunleSteel: 1:09pm On Sep 14, 2016
Someone once said "Intimacy breeds affection". Meaning there is high tendency for feelings to develop between Guy and Girl if they are close friends.

So after six years and after knowing him so well, you can't imagine yourself dating him, you think he would have stood a chance if he had asked you out just after three months?

Seems this dude never stood a chance from the onset.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by rosalieene(f): 2:04pm On Sep 14, 2016
iwatch:
not really. If a guy never liked you from the beginning, it wouldn't happen.
I am a girl, and I know what I am saying
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by iwatch: 2:31pm On Sep 14, 2016
rosalieene:
I am a girl, and I know what I am saying
Aunty, I didn't argue that with you, did I? What I mean is that if he didn't like you from the very beginning, nothing of such will happen.

I am also aware that, like the OP, girls do not like dating guys who has become too close to them.

But the BEST relationship is built on friendship, which where girls like the OP miss it. In a relationship built on friendship, there is hardly a dull moment, it's almost as if you are dating yourself because you know yourself, not a stranger. It's sad only a few take advantage of such opportunity when the need arises.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by KunleSteel: 2:37pm On Sep 14, 2016
iwatch:
Aunty, I didn't argue that with you, did I? What I mean is that if he didn't like you from the very beginning, nothing of such will happen.

I am also aware that, like the OP, girls do not like dating guys who has become too close to them.

But the BEST relationship is built on friendship, which where girls like the OP miss it. In a relationship built on friendship, there is hardly a dull moment, it's almost as if you are dating yourself because you know yourself, not a stranger. It's sad only a few take advantage of such opportunity when the need arises.
*chop knuckle*
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by iwatch: 2:48pm On Sep 14, 2016
KunleSteel:
*chop knuckle*
I don chop am bro. I will also like to point something out is guys like the one the OP has rejected do not rush for a reason. One of the most hidden fact is that they are not there for sex. They are not there to chop and clean mouth. They delayed, studied you and saw qualities that another guy wouldn't see aside a sex object.

I had a similar experience when I served not long ago. I took my time to study this girl and fell in love with her qualities. She has got perfect home skills.

I didn't rush because when I really mean well for someone, I take my time to study them and so another corper rushed into her. He acted nice initially, fetch water and did all those things but the moment he got what he wanted, he changed completely. She started complaining, became unhappy etc.

I still ignored the fact that I saw all those and opened up to her. Guess what? She turned me down cheesy
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sorextee(m): 3:06pm On Sep 14, 2016
i once met a girl in my office.. I fell in love instantly. we exchanged numbers.

we started talking. she was to travel out, after two weeks(she skools abroad)
before she traveled, I quickly told her im in love with her. she called me a THIRSTY NIGGA
that I should take things slow, that im too fast.. let me just stop here..

we humans are different.. some girls like sharp guys, in the sense that ASK ME OUT QUICKLY.
while some like friendship before relnship. based on research, the former doesn't last long.
but the latter mostly lead to marriage.

that's why the say the best person to marry is to marry your friend

if it will take that guy this long to finally open up to you, it means his intentions are genuine.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sorextee(m): 3:07pm On Sep 14, 2016
chop another knuckle cheesy cheesy


iwatch:
Aunty, I didn't argue that with you, did I? What I mean is that if he didn't like you from the very beginning, nothing of such will happen.

I am also aware that, like the OP, girls do not like dating guys who has become too close to them.

But the BEST relationship is built on friendship, which where girls like the OP miss it. In a relationship built on friendship, there is hardly a dull moment, it's almost as if you are dating yourself because you know yourself, not a stranger. It's sad only a few take advantage of such opportunity when the need arises.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by iwatch: 3:10pm On Sep 14, 2016
sorextee:
chop another knuckle cheesy cheesy
lol. I don chop am. Make una no kill me with knuckles.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by iwatch: 3:11pm On Sep 14, 2016
Most girls turn down guys who would have been best for them.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sorextee(m): 3:15pm On Sep 14, 2016
I know a guy that had to pretend to be gay, just so he will be close to the girl. when he finally opened up, she went berserk.. they are married now sha.. smiley

sinaj:
my advice to the guys is that if u love a gal,tell her immediately and dnt wait for the right time cos by then u will be so deep in the friendzone that u wnt be able to come out again
u shud be d one to read to comprehend.


Was referring to diz paragraph madam.
Some girls prefer dating their lng time frnds to guys they haven't known for lng.

That's why u hear some girls telling guys they are not ready, not because they ain't ready but because they are yet to b comfortable with d guy.

Some girls in ur shoe will gladly accept his dating proposal because they would prefer to date a friend.

U dnt just generalize, there is something called research.

U don't wake up one morning and attribute a theory to everyone just because it happened to u.

One man meat is another's poison.

GRACIAS!
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by KunleSteel: 3:29pm On Sep 14, 2016
iwatch:
I don chop am bro. I will also like to point something ...

...I still ignored the fact that I saw all those and opened up to her. Guess what? She turned me down cheesy
Did she give a reason? Was it the " I see you as a brother" or the "what took you so long"?
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by LogoDWhiz(m): 4:57pm On Sep 14, 2016
rosalieene:
one thing I have realized is that, once you are close to a guy, they always develop feelings for you.
Hmm!
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by iwatch: 5:00pm On Sep 14, 2016
KunleSteel:
Did she give a reason? Was it the " I see you as a brother" or the "what took you so long"?
Bro, most girls are confused. I don't know what they use to gauge whom to accept and how to decline.

She didn't give reason when I asked her why. She said she just said "ummm I can't"

More like she took a deep breath and concluded lol.
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sinaj(f): 5:00pm On Sep 14, 2016
sorextee:
I know a guy that had to pretend to be gay, just so he will be close to the girl. when he finally opened up, she went berserk.. they are married now sha.. smiley
I love a relationship dats based on friendship.

It survives tough times more
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sinaj(f): 5:03pm On Sep 14, 2016
sorextee:
i once met a girl in my office.. I fell in love instantly. we exchanged numbers.

we started talking. she was to travel out, after two weeks(she skools abroad)
before she traveled, I quickly told her im in love with her. she called me a THIRSTY NIGGA
that I should take things slow, that im too fast.. let me just stop here..

we humans are different.. some girls like sharp guys, in the sense that ASK ME OUT QUICKLY.
while some like friendship before relnship. based on research, the former doesn't last long.
but the latter mostly lead to marriage.

that's why the say the best person to marry is to marry your friend

if it will take that guy this long to finally open up to you, it means his intentions are genuine.
I would have called u a thirsty nigga too grin

I prefer relationship based on friendship. It's simply the best nd survives more
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sorextee(m): 6:27pm On Sep 14, 2016
Actually, Im not a relnship person too. I take my time, to study first.. But this girls own, as she said shes travelling out, I had to act fast, before she comes back with a white guy...



sinaj:
I would have called u a thirsty nigga too grin

I prefer relationship based on friendship. It's simply the best nd survives more
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by sinaj(f): 7:14pm On Sep 14, 2016
sorextee:
Actually, Im not a relnship person too. I take my time, to study first.. But this girls own, as she said shes travelling out, I had to act fast, before she comes back with a white guy...
lol I understand
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Eowriand389: 7:49pm On Sep 14, 2016
Hello every one, how are you? smiley
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Nobody: 9:17pm On Sep 14, 2016
Eowriand389:
Hello every one, how are you? smiley
shebi i ve warned u abt skipping ur drugshuh....
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Nobody: 10:07pm On Sep 14, 2016
CindyeMerAld:
if ur nt interested b4,u berra nt come and be interested nw....if u become frnds with a gal for long,dnt later ask her out cos the attraction is nt there anymore,ur just like a brother 2 her by then..
says who? undecided...i'm dating my bestfrnd of 5 yrs..4 yrs as best frnds only..1 yr as best friend and bf...oya talk anoda one undecided
Re: So Deep In The Friend Zone.... by Berbierklaus(f): 11:07pm On Sep 15, 2016
MzLarem:
says who? undecided...i'm dating my bestfrnd of 5 yrs..4 yrs as best frnds only..1 yr as best friend and bf...oya talk anoda one undecided
Hey babe wink

I just got back from ban grin
saw your updates and I'm liking them,You have a natural penchant for writing and its nice smiley

I pray these people do us well o wink
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