Speechless

First of all, kudos to you for putting up with that s..t for the past five years.

My advice is that you man the Bleep up(its gone on for too long)!!!!!!! sit her down and express your concerns to her and make it clear that you want to understand the issue and would be there to support her in overcoming that issue(s), let her fully comprehend that those actions affect you and likewise if you were doing something it would affect her .

You could give an ultimatum of sorts, that if she fails to explain whats going on and address the matter then the barrier between you as a couple is effectively being kept in place and putting an expiry date on the marriage .

Its definitely not normal behaviour from a spouse

nedu2000:
She's shy/lacking confidence and you've not tried to help her overcome it.
She dey fear say you get bad-mouth and would yab her imperfections

May be, may be not. Shy. Anything can be responsible. Can't fathom.

Guy na wah for you oo. Give her good marathon of sexxx at night she will certainly sleep off afterwards. Put the lights on and examine, if nothing is found make sure you don't cover her up and don't turn the light back off if possible carry chair sit beside the bed till she wakes up.

hmmmmmmmmm wonders shall never end, Y she come marry in d 1st place...

nedu2000:
She's shy/lacking confidence and you've not tried to help her overcome it.
She dey fear say you get bad-mouth and would yab her imperfections

exactly!

She's not confident of her body and doesn't want you to see her imperfections. Maybe you get bad mouth, try telling her how beautiful she is, tell her amazing things about how you desire her body. It will slowly build her confidence and she will let you see her naked soon.

Don't you get intimate That time she's ready for you carry all d duvet go hide and tell her to go get something from the sitting room

Maybe she has some body disease.

Maybe you are like a brother to her

Ok, she's uber self-conscious of her physical flaws or whatever she's hiding. It could even be a thou-shalt-let-NO-MAN-see-thy-nakednesss upbringing that is now deeply rooted in her subconscious. You aren't doing a great job at getting her to feel confident around you. Praise the little you see and it would be easier for her to show you more

How can your wife keep acting like that around you and you haven't done anything about it? Instead you keep telling yourself that is how she has always been.

A lady that loves you can be sweet-talked into nearly anything.

Lies, Lies lies. Not even possible

Wealth3g:

*modification*

Refresh your mentions

TrapQueen77:
[size=38pt]Lai Mohammed[/size]

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calmG:

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Ur smile is PRICELESS

Maybe lalasticlala should take this to FP

Yes, I broke up with my wife because of this same attitude after 20yrs. Though mine was more difficult than this case. She gave me a lot of conditions; see some of the conditions she gave to me below.

No sucking of breast
No sex during the day
No sex when light is on
No fingers
No sex styles,
Sex must not stay longer then 5mins
I was hoping things will change but rather got worse. 2011 June 13th I broke up the relationship, that is after 20yrs.
I found true love last year 2015 Nov 1st. Now I can proudly say I enjoy the fullness of a woman. Thank God

Op r u sure u wife doesn't have a ďick?

As in a hermaphrodite?

she is a man

may be she is bashful of you seeing her nudity when not having sex. but this is really wierd

Na all dis kind thing dey make me fear marriage
Weirdos everywhere
What happened to the 'two becomes one'

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onoerime:
Yes, I broke up with my wife because of this same attitude after 20yrs. Though mine was more difficult than this case. She gave me a lot of conditions; see some of the conditions she gave to me below.

No sucking of breast
No sex during the day
No sex when light is on
No fingers
No sex styles,
Sex must not stay longer then 5mins
I was hoping things will change but rather got worse. 2011 June 13th I broke up the relationship, that is after 20yrs.
I found true love last year 2015 Nov 1st. Now I can proudly say I enjoy the fullness of a woman. Thank God

Na wa oo, your story looks more unbelievable than the op.

I guess you married a spirikoko.

Wealth3g Did she give you any reason for this ?

bornmekus:
5yesrs! I disagree.

Bros u beta agree

Pls come nd ask my bae

OBTSubtle:
Dont be a pervert.. She needs her privacy.


Maybe she's a tranny and hiding her dick from you.

Chai guy you wicked o.

IdeyFindWife:
5 gini?! Shuo, so you mean say na rechargeable lamp you dey take scope area since that time?

I smell, infact, i see one chance.

OP, hope u've had kids by her sha? Otherwise, you might seriously have been shagging something else o. After all, one woman once cried out recently that her impotent husband had been switching his twin on her for long in their matrimonial bed; under the guise of "let's-turn-of-the-lights!"
So, hope you've not been pouring in the wrong meat-roll?

Seriously, sit her down and talk it over. Maybe, she's been through some trauma before that she's yet to open up about. If that's true, be prepared to walk her through it. You've been pateint for 5 years already.

This guy is,not even sure if he has been ""CHOOKING"" the righ place

olorunwa90:
Bros u beta agree
Pls come nd ask my bae

Show me your bae, so that I will ask.

TPAND:
Damn! But hol up!
How do you guys make love, with clothes on?

lol

Wealth3g:
What should be done? My legally-married wife doesn't allow me to see her unclothedness. Is this normal? Advise pls..
Whenever she's naked at home and notices my pressence, she quickly re-adjusts, she even feel free in presence of her sisters by not minding her postures, but when i'm around, it's something else. When she takes her bath and I want to join, she turns it down and locks.
what could be wrong? She has been like dis since we knew, five years ago.
pls advice.

dere ntn wrong with her....she's just having self confidence issues or probably she's a very shy person....compliment her body..make her no u love her d way she is..make her no u dont like d fact dat she covers too much around you..some women are extremely shy dats y most of dem prefers having sex in d dark...some can't even look you in the eye.

1x2x3:
Guy na wah for you oo. Give her good marathon of sexxx at night she will certainly sleep off afterwards. Put the lights on and examine, if nothing is found make sure you don't cover her up and don't turn the light back off if possible carry chair sit beside the bed till she wakes up.

lmao

Lol I can draw the n*de of my girlfriend with my eyes closed... and it hasn't reached a year so what are you talking about

did u marry her as a virgin? if yes i know what to tell u, cos am also experiencing such from my gf though am not yet married......