I'm amazed at the extent people go to, just because they think I did not listen to their advice.
Someone found me on Facebook and rained curses on me.
I have called on the moderators to delete this thread but they don't want to.
I totally listened to the words of everyone here and I thought about it all for a long time before settling for a decision.
If I've offended you in any way by this post I'm truly sorry.

Whatever decision I took if it turns out good or bad, I'll suffer it alone.

Thank you for your words and please I want the thread shut down. Thank you

Maaamaaa

How did someone find you on FB?


Mimzzy

Ishilove

Dyt:
Maaamaaa

How did someone find you on FB?


Mimzzy

Ishilove

I really don't know but a lot of people mailed me, I responded to some but my email address does not represent my facebook ID.

I gave my phone contact to some persons but I doubt someone can link my facebook through my phone number.

I have blocked the person on facebook and I was adviced not to publish the details of the person here so I don't reveal myself further.

Anyway I'm at peace, I was just bothered that someone could take this too far.

[quote author=Maaamaaa post=50606222]@nuelyoyo I'm so grateful for your concern but I'm fine now...

Although I don't mind having friends here.[/quo

nuelyoyo:
one of the reasons I followed the thread from d first page to the last is coz am in the same town wif u. I know how I felt when I came to town new. No friends and family members to talk to. I could hardly even find my way back home then. I would just tell anyone to just describe how I can get to plaza, then I would know the way to my street. Uyo has been a blessing to me though. It's a town filled with milk and honey for me.

Are you female?

Please don't be offended by my question.

Dyt:
Maaamaaa

How did someone find you on FB?


Mimzzy

Ishilove

Some people take paracetamol for other people's headache. Jeez, psychos. Check them well and you will see that their life lacks purpose and meaning, which is why they will go to the extent of tracing eni eleni to FB.

O ma ga ke

Dyt:
Maaamaaa

How did someone find you on FB?


Mimzzy

Ishilove

I didn't get your mention cos u misspelled my nick. Just going through. I don't Wana say anything again o cos some are already saying we are jealous. Toh... IRMC

Mimzyy:


I didn't get your mention cos u misspelled my nick. Just going through. I don't Wana say anything again o cos some are already saying we are jealous. Toh... IRMC

Jealous?



Yes o
It is really IRMC

@bold,

Awon miserable stalkers.

Make your facebook account private. That way only those who you accept can post things to you or inbox you.

This place is crawling with low lifers.

Except maybe it's your boyfriend's other girlfriend. With the internet, you never know.

Maaamaaa:
I'm amazed at the extent people go to, just because they think I did not listen to their advice.
Someone found me on Facebook and rained curses on me.
I have called on the moderators to delete this thread but they don't want to.
I totally listened to the words of everyone here and I thought about it all for a long time before settling for a decision.
If I've offended you in any way by this post I'm truly sorry.

Whatever decision I took if it turns out good or bad, I'll suffer it alone.

Thank you for your words and please I want the thread shut down. Thank you

Ishilove:

Some people take paracetamol for other people's headache. Jeez, psychos. Check them well and you will see that their life lacks purpose and meaning, which is why they will go to the extent of tracing eni eleni to FB.

O ma ga ke

I'm even suspecting it's one of you people that were busy advising her not to marry the guy and bla bla bla, insulting the guy, and jumping into conclusions like kilode.

Or did you not read this part?

Maaamaaa:
Thank you so oooooooooo much everybody.

I'm so happy because I saw my little bunny today, hmmm I actually cried.

Baby daddy cried too, he was so emotional and he said it's so real. Lolsssssss..

I saw the heart beat beating, the head and the arms and limbs.

Gosshhhhhhh... I'm truly going to be a mummy.. cry cry

I called my mummy and she said she wants to see little bunny too... She was so happy, singing and jumping.

Don't mind her, this is her first grandchild.

I'm so happy and my sickness just vanished.

Thank you all for your support and love.

I love you all.

Ishilove, I find it suspect that none of you who paraded and graced this thread with your chants of "don't marry him" quoted this.

So after she posts how she and her baby-daddy seems to be getting back on track, someone then stalks her to Facebook to give it to her.

Timbuktou abeg come see wetin we dey talk about for this section. And Mindfulness is wondering why I take no prisoners with most of the women on this damned section

Maaamaaa:


I really don't know but a lot of people mailed me, I responded to some but my email address does not represent my facebook ID.

I gave my phone contact to some persons but I doubt someone can link my facebook through my phone number.

I have blocked the person on facebook and I was adviced not to publish the details of the person here so I don't reveal myself further.

The person on Facebook, was it male or female?

And you people should stop responding to mails from Nairalanders saying they want to give advise.
If they can't give their advice here, then they should zip it.

I know it's going to be mostly ladies guilty of this giving offline moral support. An opportunity to be poisonous without backlash from Nairalanders who can smell bullshiit

crackhaus:

I'm even suspecting it's one of you people that were busy advising her not to marry the guy and bla bla bla, insulting the guy, and jumping into conclusions like kilode.

Or did you not read this part?

I find it suspect that none of you who paraded and graced this thread with your chants of "don't marry him" quoted this.

So after she posts how she and her baby-daddy seems to be getting back on track, someone then stalks her to Facebook to give it to her.

Timbuktou abeg come see wetin we dey talk about for this section. And Mindfulness is wondering why I take no prisoners with most of the women on this damned section

I don't know what the story is all about so I will stay out.
But why do you have to insult ALL women when you have a problem with some women?

I am so innocent.

Mindfulness:


I don't know what the story is all about so I will stay out.
But why do you have to insult ALL women when you have a problem with some women?

I am so innocent.

Not ALL babe, I deliberately make my comments open to interpretation.
The guilty ones will read it and know I am referring to them, it's that simple.

I only mentioned you here so you can see your beloved sisters who can do no wrong, in all their splendour & glory.
Maybe you should try reading from the beginning to get a better understanding, if you have the time though.

crackhaus:

Not ALL babe, I deliberately make my comments open to interpretation.
The guilty ones will read it and know I am referring to them, it's that simple.

I only mentioned you here so you can see your beloved sisters who can do no wrong, in all their splendour & glory.
Maybe you should try reading from the beginning to get a better understanding, if you have the time though.

I am watching Montage Heck now. Can you give me a summary, please?

I get your point but nobody is flawless - except for me, of course .

Maaamaaa:
I'm amazed at the extent people go to, just because they think I did not listen to their advice.
Someone found me on Facebook and rained curses on me.
I have called on the moderators to delete this thread but they don't want to.
I totally listened to the words of everyone here and I thought about it all for a long time before settling for a decision.
If I've offended you in any way by this post I'm truly sorry.

Whatever decision I took if it turns out good or bad, I'll suffer it alone.

Thank you for your words and please I want the thread shut down. Thank you

My dear, there are whole lots of frustrated peeps here.. That's why I will never open a thread and seek advice on any problem I have.. Neither will I post pics of my joy and happy memorable moments here or on any media.. Too many bad belle online.. It's sickening.
I have friends and mentor at my place of work , I can talk to anytime am confused about what goes on in my life.. But come here and seek for advice? Hell no!
Peeps here are all out for divorce, separation, and other types of heartbreaking scenarios.
Don't worry be patient, have a thick skin and a deaf ear they will get tired and then stop answering anyone on this thread.. Just keep mute.. And pls remove your number then lastly anyone who insults u on facebook, quickly insult back and block the person...

Those morrafuckers

Mindfulness:


I am watching Montage Heck now. Can you give me a summary, please?

I get your point but nobody is flawless - except for me, of course .

Lol, go away jor..
If it interests you, read it whenever you can.

It isn't that serious though, just called you in to give you a little perspective from my POV.

crackhaus:

Lol, go away jor..
If it interests you, read it whenever you can.

It isn't that serious though, just called you in to give you a little perspective from my POV.

Am interested in your POV but the movie first and then because I have my Kurt Cobain cravings again that I suffer regularly. Thanks for the summary though.

Maaamaaa:


Are you female?

Please don't be offended by my question.

Am not offended at all. I am male. There should be an (m) showing beside my moniker.

Maaamaaa:
Thank you everybody for your sincere opinion. I believe I will move on with my child alone.

Please how do I overcome the shame at work because I can't quit now, I need the money.

What do you tell your child when she grows up?
Her daddy didn't love you and you walked out before the marriage?

Common, rocky times abound in marriage. Be woman enough and tarry on , at least until you know you have given your best.

Supposing you walk away from the marriage and your man still didn't end up marrying that long distanced-relationshio girl?

Most of the folks urging you out are females; the worst to seek advice from in matters like these.

I have seen couples were the man had asked his fiancée to terminate pregnancy because of financial limitation and you also mentioned some financial constraints here too.

Listen, I came in here late, but a lot of factors might be making your man behave weirdly, like becoming a dad, financial uncertainty, the anxiety of fatherly provision and marriage. It happens to us as men.

You will be a fool if you walked out just like that .

You owe that child in your womb a fighting chance!

ceo12:
This is bullshit, some guys are just stupid..in his mind now he is feeling like King Kong, just because she made her feelings known to him from the beginning, my advice ...don't marry that foolish uncivilized idolt, simply because you are pregnant. Is better to be a single mom than to marry someone that you will never be happy with for the rest of your life. How I wish will find a girl that will show me love enough to tell me, she loves me first even when I haven't spent a dime on her. Some guys are just dumb Sha

it's not about finding a girl that will open up that she loves u. It's about she telling u and u loving her. Believe me, there are so many girls dat will tell u they love u and don't fit into Ur specification. Would u now force ur self to love the person even when it's not what u want? Like I usually say, the big issue in relationship these days is - mismatch. U are a guy, u feel for a lady, u open up to her, but she doesn't like u or feel u; am afraid it can't work, and same thing the other way round. That's why u see two pple who are perfectly matched; they love themselves so much that even supreme court can't separate them.

crackhaus:

I'm even suspecting it's one of you people that were busy advising her not to marry the guy and bla bla bla, insulting the guy, and jumping into conclusions like kilode.

Or did you not read this part?

Ishilove, I find it suspect that none of you who paraded and graced this thread with your chants of "don't marry him" quoted this.

So after she posts how she and her baby-daddy seems to be getting back on track, someone then stalks her to Facebook to give it to her.

Timbuktou abeg come see wetin we dey talk about for this section. And Mindfulness is wondering why I take no prisoners with most of the women on this damned section

I unfollowed the thread when she made her decision, so no, I didn't see the quoted part.

I can't carry someone else's matter on my head when I haven't finished dealing with my own issues. I said my piece and long moved on. To each his own.

Na real wa o. Babes biko mention the mods to help take it down. I'm not really surprised about the ediotss calling you out on Facebook. Some people's only means of getting back at 'life's treatment' is hate for everyone. And of course, not everybody who can read can comprehend. It is well...may the good Lord help you and yours.

Crackhaus, nwannem, the mannerisms of many vocal women in this section can only be attributed to witchcraft. Most women here should be avoided like the plague. There is a child being brought into the world and these witches were more than happy to spoil his/her life even before it began.

The woman in question came and said things were getting resolved, their parents have been counselling them. But, no, Le Femnation would have none of it. MaaaMaaa has betrayed the Independent Woman Movement. It is amazing the sort of witches on parade in this section. And, of course, I'm not surprised they reached out to her on Facebook. I'm sure it would be a female doing this nonsense. Sad people looking to shore up their coven.

If I say i'm not surprised at some of you, I will be lying. We all give advice based on our experience and knowledge and sometimes no 2 experiences are the same.
As our faces are different so are our opinions. Were you all expecting just a one sided advice? We will give our opinion but the onus is on the Op to pick some and make her decision.
I'm well aware some males equally advised the Op to forget the man and move on, so for you to come here insulting ladies is very petty, unbecoming and immature. Accusing those that gave contrary opinion to yours as jealous or witches is very myopic and silly.
Live and let's live. You have given your advice, move on. The Op has made her decision so don't cry more than the 'bereaved'.
Happy sunday all

Please, can this thread be closed or deleted.

Cc lalasticlala seun Mynd44

Is there a procedure I have to follow?

Maaamaaa:
Please, can this thread be closed or deleted.

Cc lalasticlala seun Mynd44

Is there a procedure I have to follow?

You've followed it already.

Ishilove:

I unfollowed the thread when she made her decision, so no, I didn't see the quoted part.

I can't carry someone else's matter on my head when I haven't finished dealing with my own issues. I said my piece and long moved on. To each his own.

Nice backtracking

Timbuktou:
Crackhaus, nwannem, the mannerisms of many vocal women in this section can only be attributed to witchcraft. Most women here should be avoided like the plague. There is a child being brought into the world and these witches were more than happy to spoil his/her life even before it began.

The woman in question came and said things were getting resolved, their parents have been counselling them. But, no, Le Femnation would have none of it. MaaaMaaa has betrayed the Independent Woman Movement. It is amazing the sort of witches on parade in this section. And, of course, I'm not surprised they reached out to her on Facebook. I'm sure it would be a female doing this nonsense. Sad people looking to shore up their coven.

Lolz, family section women are lovelorn sadists who are in a grand mission to spread their frustrations and lovelessness around.

Any woman who comes here looking for marital advice could as well be talking to a bunch of female misogamists

crackhaus:

I'm even suspecting it's one of you people that were busy advising her not to marry the guy and bla bla bla, insulting the guy, and jumping into conclusions like kilode.

Or did you not read this part?

Ishilove, I find it suspect that none of you who paraded and graced this thread with your chants of "don't marry him" quoted this.

So after she posts how she and her baby-daddy seems to be getting back on track, someone then stalks her to Facebook to give it to her.

Timbuktou abeg come see wetin we dey talk about for this section. And Mindfulness is wondering why I take no prisoners with most of the women on this damned section

The dude cried for his baby bro. Not for her. Now there's a big difference.

soonest:
If I say i'm not surprised at some of you, I will be lying. We all give advice based on our experience and knowledge and sometimes no 2 experiences are the same.
As our faces are different so are our opinions. Were you all expecting just a one sided advice? We will give our opinion but the onus is on the Op to pick some and make her decision.
I'm well aware some males equally advised the Op to forget the man and move on, so for you to come here insulting ladies is very petty, unbecoming and immature. Accusing those that gave contrary opinion to yours as jealous or witches is very myopic and silly.
Live and let's live. You have given your advice, move on. The Op has made her decision so don't cry more than the 'bereaved'.
Happy sunday all

Welcome to Nairaland.

This man versus woman war has been going on since the inception of this forum. One thing I've learnt from it is that the men are almost always more bitter and petty than they claim the women are. . .

Open a thread about a woman cheating on her fiancee and not been respectful enough, and you'll see a drastic change in the advise given by these so-called men. Then you'll hear things like 'Never make a LovePeddler a wife, dump the sorry bitch, guy you be jew man how you go take that kain thing from woman when women plenty everywhere bla bla bla . . .'

But let it be the other way round (like with this OP ) and any woman who dares advice same is an old bitter hag and a witch looking to recruit for her coven.

I'm used to the hypocrisy by now so I'm not surprised.

Maaamaaa:
I'm amazed at the extent people go to, just because they think I did not listen to their advice.
Someone found me on Facebook and rained curses on me.
I have called on the moderators to delete this thread but they don't want to.
I totally listened to the words of everyone here and I thought about it all for a long time before settling for a decision.
If I've offended you in any way by this post I'm truly sorry.

Whatever decision I took if it turns out good or bad, I'll suffer it alone.

Thank you for your words and please I want the thread shut down. Thank you

Wow, that one na stalking for another level oh.