Bro.... Just xplain to her ..... If she can't understand den she better go her way and don't think of begging her, may b she do not like you cos I have once friend an ASHAWO, she demands noting but my love and care...... On my birthday she gave me a wrist watch worth 370k.... so bro if this girl demands a lot let her go cos girl have many ways of saying I don't want you.....

GodwinTobi:
Just kill her.... And go to jail

this bros, you aff mad

tolexy123:
Hello nairalanders, please I want you to advice me on how to handle my excessively demanding girlfriend. She demands money excessively from me at regular intervals (everytime i go to visit her which is now discouraging me from visiting her now) without considering my pocket and its really making me to see her from another angle negatively as a gold digger and it's affecting my true feelings for her.

I don't want to be too rude to her but at the same time, I want her to get the information across to her. its not like am not financially supportive or am broke but I want to exercise some financial disciplines in her cos am thinking of seeing her as more than my girlfriend but this is not telling well about her.

Mature advice please!

Any lady who makes herself a debit alert in your life should be dumped. You even call such a girlfriend?

We've been there and truth is no woman should come into your life and you become poor or poorer.

Have this as a rule.

abeg give her all ur earnings

Lol she is your girlfriend you can't make her understand she is overdemanding. When you marry her i wonder what you will do. Communication is key speak it out!!!

since ur not broke continue till you are broke.

schumastic:


of all the whole solutions you can think of in this world, this is the best you came up with.
to say am disappointed is an understatement, OP come and see if this is your gf mentor

who cares whether you are appointed? I said give her before she asks and you won't have that problem, simple. its the kind of girl he has already chosen to date, talks don't change them unless he just breakup with her cos she's sure gonna look for someone else. I did not signup on NL to impress you soo...

How do guys end up with girls like this?

Tell her she's becoming too demanding and should please curtail her demands because things are becoming difficult now... If she refuses to understand or she flares up, she's not the one for you.

Tell her on whatsapp if you won't do it one-on-one.

Op, do u want her to Look for another guy? to avoid her cheating or double dating, u have to provide all her demands since u truely love her. my guy knows very well that any day he stop to provide my demands! the relationship ends that very moment. but the mean issue is that i don't love him rather i used him as my Atm to provide my needs and the need of my true lover.

...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

Max24:

Really ?

yes its a simple solution, know your gf.
take tonto for example, she's never gonna have this prob with her hubby, after all OP claims he isn't broke.

tolexy123:
Hello nairalanders, please I want you to advice me on how to handle my excessively demanding girlfriend. She demands money excessively from me at regular intervals (everytime i go to visit her which is now discouraging me from visiting her now) without considering my pocket and its really making me to see her from another angle negatively as a gold digger and it's affecting my true feelings for her.

I don't want to be too rude to her but at the same time, I want her to get the information across to her. its not like am not financially supportive or am broke but I want to exercise some financial disciplines in her cos am thinking of seeing her as more than my girlfriend but this is not telling well about her.

Mature advice please!

Is very simple bro...

Let me give u an instant...

If u have a generator at home, and every moment u fuel it.... Even when u fix it, it keeps getting worse...

What will u do to the generator?


Two options
1. U sell it off

2. U dump it and get a good one..

That's all....

tolexy123:
thanks for your contribution bro. if I talk to her as u rightly said, she might see me as depriving her or as a stingy boyfriend and dat hurts

is she ur first love?

Im gonna be a little bit blunt

BREAK UP WITH HER FAST FAST

ARE YOU A LEARNER?

get her established if you are sure of marrying her,don't if you are not sure.secondly,talk to her about how you feel towards her behaviour, mind you,be polite in pouring out your mind.if she persists after talking to her,give her half of any money she demand from you,and if she grumble always after you giving her money,then stop giving her money for sometimes and see her reaction.if she is after your money,she will run away from you without you saying it is over,but thank God if she stays.this is the confirmation test.

Bro, it simply means that any guy with money can get inside her pants. Let me: do you have what it takes to compete financially with Aristos and Ballerticians? There are so many pretty girls out there.

asitis752:
am sure the girl is giving the money to the other guy she loves. With my experience in relationships, It's very difficult for a lady that truly loves you to request for money even when she genuinely needs it not to talk of requesting for it always. I always ask my partner maybe she needs my financial assistance but she will always say no. She prefers to go get it from her mum. And this is a lady that always buy gifts for me

and you are happy

kamcygirl:
Op, do u want her to Look for another guy? to avoid her cheating or double dating, u have to provide all her demands since u truely love her. my guy knows very well that any day he stop to provide my demands! the relationship ends that very moment. but the mean issue is that i don't love him rather i used him as my Atm to provide my needs and the need of my true lover.

Gold digger

You can handle her like the handle of a wheel barrow or manhandle her like a bottle of orijin

Stop asking her for sex anytime you visit her

xendra:
who cares whether you are appointed? I said give her before she asks and you won't have that problem, simple. its the kind of girl he has already chosen to date, talks don't change them unless he just breakup with her cos she's sure gonna look for someone else. I did not signup on NL to impress you soo...

truth is i don't care either i was only disappointed cus your like will still come out and say all girls are not the same if a guy generalize but here you are giving him a silly advice, which am very sure you won't give your bro or any male relative of yours.

Na who carry you go her place?

Fok da hell outa her life den send her parking.

Does she have fire on her head. You're a man , act like it don't give when you don't feel like and give when you want to. What's wrong with all these children.

Give her cucumber, she won't demand for money again

A feel so bad when I see young men being taken for granted like this.

That's why sometimes I suggest that any unmarried young man should use like 3 years to be a playboy and understand how to treat women and how woman are wired, how to be a boss in the eyes of a woman, being a boss isn't about being rude or harsh to women or beating them up, but understanding them like a book. Fine, any civil man knows he needs to spend some cash on a lady for certain duties or circumstances but never let a lady make you her bank or like its her right to be fed financially by you.

I'm pretty sure your girlfriend is a student, ladies in this category are usually needy of financial advantages in relationships but if you know your onions even a broke student girlfriend won't milk you dry.

Look, I can't really go deep into how to handle women skillfully because I can write a book on that, but most times a young lady who is over demanding to a fault is usually a lady to be tagged as a side b-itch, you place her on a platform where she longs for more from you but can't get it and still also can't let go of you, she becomes so addicted but deprived that she unconsciously accepts the condition you have placed her and takes what you offer, if its just your attention, company or intimacy then she becomes contended to it and silently keeps hoping for more, woman love men who cause mystery and edginess in them, some greedy girl will not be able to handle such and would just walk away, and that's what every playboy likes, for a b-itch to walk away on her own!

Look young man, get your act together and stop letting girls take men to be fools, I hate it when women think every man is a p-ussy boy who can't live without her honeypot or something, I don't blame ladies, its p-ussy guys who droll after women and beg for women's attention that makes women feel they can act stupid and selfish, men need to stop that trash and make relationships more of commensalism rather than it being parasitically minded. A relationship ought to be something enjoyable for man and women and not a parasite feeding on a dumb host!

Lajet:

Gold digger

u can say that again, oya face your front.

seriously ah had a grl like dat, she neva loved me, so all she did was alwys asking for money, 2 frustrate me out of da relationsh. tnk God ah realized ealier, nd quited.

I am just thinking, maybe you are the type that impress girls with money when wooing them...
Wise up ogbeni, you are not her father. If you can give her, it should be out of your free will ...But you should stop making a duty to give her money

xendra:
Give her before she asks you won't have this problem.

No sense.

tolexy123:
Hello nairalanders, please I want you to advice me on how to handle my excessively demanding girlfriend. She demands money excessively from me at regular intervals (everytime i go to visit her which is now discouraging me from visiting her now) without considering my pocket and its really making me to see her from another angle negatively as a gold digger and it's affecting my true feelings for her.

I don't want to be too rude to her but at the same time, I want her to get the information across to her. its not like am not financially supportive or am broke but I want to exercise some financial disciplines in her cos am thinking of seeing her as more than my girlfriend but this is not telling well about her.

Mature advice please!

Break up with her.

schumastic:


truth is i don't care either i was only disappointed cus your like will still come out and say all girls are not the same if a guy generalize but here you are giving him a silly advice, which am very sure you won't give your bro or any male relative of yours.

that advice is not silly but can be taken wrongly by broke guys who think it's a plot to wreck them, but a guy that understands that logic always wins