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I met this girl like two years ago. We have been dating before but I ran away because i was financially broke at that time. I had no good job then and I hid it from her. This year we got back together. I told her the reason why I left then and she accepted my request back not immediately because she said there were men she was seeing but they were not all serious. I told her my plans to marry her and how we will start a new life in a new country. We have even applied for our passport. She met with my siblings but i am yet to meet with her mom(Delta based) who come to lagos frequently.

She told me her past how she slept with 3 men in her office in the space of 3 months because she said she was depressed at that time and who ever came to her at that time, she was ready to give in. she also told me how she was raped last year when returning from home in the night and got pregnant and also aborted the pregnancy without anybody know. She also told me about her previous relationships, her ex and all of that. Even though I found this weird, this did not stop me from loving her. Not that she is beautiful, I just loved her honesty. I had already resolved that there is no perfect girl anymore and I was not perfect either. I had an ex I broke up with back then because of this same reason, she had aborted. I felt I was just unlucky.

I have never impregnated a girl, I use condom always because of fear of HIV and I am always of the opinion that if you get pregnant mistakenly, you accept that responsibility rather than kill an innocent child.(Back to my story).

We started having problems when I looked into her phone and I saw her pings with another guy. She told the guy she wanted to spend the night at his place. We have started dating at that time. Reading further, the guy said he loves her and she also called him love. After weeks, I finally confronted her. She told me the guy is her cousin and that he has interest in sleeping with her. She told me nothing was going on. I asked for his pin and chatted the guy up on my phone but i felt it was not worth it and I dropped our chats.

She loves to stroll at night or exercise at night even though she is slim. I noticed my girl does not pick up my phone every Sunday evening. She always claim she is sleeping. There was a particular morning around 4 am I called we talked and when I ask her to say I love you too. she cut the call. I kept calling she did not pick. She later picked an lambasted me that i was insecure. I suspected she was with a man at that time. She doesn't tell me her movement. I told her if you are coming to the mainland, i need to know because she stays on the Island. She has a family relative where she stays with on the mainland. some times she tells me when her reasons her genuine. Often times her phone will ring and she will only respond several hours later. I had to establish that whenever she sees my missed calls during the day, she must respond back within 3 hours. She said it i was too hard on her and she did not even bother to follow it. We hardly see anymore. she always claim she is busy or needs to rest or needs to see her mom if she is around. Her mom and her dad are both separated and she has refused to tell me why?

Yesterday, was the height of it all. On Thursday, she uploaded a pix of guy holding her by her waist. I did not ask her who he was. so yesterday, I called in the morning around 9.am she said it was her off day after which we had agreed she will call me on Thursday the night before when she gets back from work. i offered to send her recharge card but she refused. I pinged her that night she said she was home but not settled and i said okay. She did not read that message until Friday morning which she still did not call. I then called and i was surprised she did not go to work and she did not tell me she was going to be off. She said she was on the mainland and when I asked what she was doing. Her phone went off. She did not call back until in the afternoon. I immediately pinged her it was over because I do not trust her anymore. I could not eat all through yesterday because I still love her but I must call a spade a spade. She was not remorseful at all and kept saying her phone was dead. I asked who was the guy in the picture and she said they have not spoken for two years now. That it was just a picture.

This is a girl that does not even know how to cook. When she comes, I cook for her. She does not even bother to wash her plate or take it to the kitchen or even arrange my room. My female friend warned me to leave her that she knows all the gimmicks of a lady. I refused to listen to her.

I do not even know what to tell my parents because they all know her. I have come to conclude that most ladies are cheats just the way most men her. You can hardly find a beautiful girl who has never aborted before or slept with just one man.

Do you think I overreacted as it stands she is not even asking for a chance?

Kisschrix come and summary this one for us ooo

You did the right thing..Ladies are cheats...Chronic ones..
[color=#AB56BA] most of them are ready to fūck anything thats ready to give them money [/color]

RoyalBlak007:
You did the right thing..Ladies are cheats...Chronic ones..
[color=#AB56BA] most of them are ready to fūck anything thats ready to give them money [/color]

Not all bro...

She told me her past how she slept with 3 men in her office in the space of 3 months because she said she was depressed at that time and who ever came to her at that time, she was ready to give in. she also told me how she was raped last year when returning from home in the night and got pregnant and also aborted the pregnancy without anybody know. She also told me about her previous relationships, her ex and all of that. Even though I found this weird, this did not stop me from loving her. Not that she is beautiful, I just loved her honesty. I had already resolved that there is no perfect girl anymore and I was not perfect either. I had an ex I broke up with back then because of this same reason, she had aborted. I felt I was just unlucky.

Your suspicion is not far from truth. That is what of they always say when they have skeleton in their cupboard. Anything they say is just a diversionary tactics.

There is nothing wrong with being in love. Where their is problem. Does she feel the same way for you? You are not unlucky bro. I think kind hearted guy like you deserve a woman with unstained quality.Your goodluck may probably be responsible revealing their true colour before it is too late

Yesterday, was the height of it all. On Thursday, she uploaded a pix of guy holding her by her waist.

Has she ever uploaded your pic like that? If no, she's more committed to the guy .

This is a girl that does not even know how to cook. When she comes, I cook for her. She does not even bother to wash her plate or take it to the kitchen or even arrange my room. My female friend warned me to leave her that she knows all the gimmicks of a lady. I refused to listen to her.

Be wise.A woman you want spend the rest of your like with should know how to cook.

I do not even know what to tell my parents because they all know her

Tell them what the girl has been up to.They will have one or two elderly advice they have to offer.Telling your parent coupled with their words of comfort will definitely get you stronger.You deserve better bro.

proffessional fuckload of shii..exposing your incompetence on the web ...

bullcrap

You shouldn't have gone back to Her in the first place

"Ladies are cheats"...where did you get that from?

RoyalBlak007:
You did the right thing..Ladies are cheats...Chronic ones..
[color=#AB56BA] most of them are ready to fūck anything thats ready to give them money [/color]

Bro I mean no disrespect ok, this is not love but stupidity

baski92:
Bro I mean no disrespect ok, this is not love but stupidity

How do you mean? Please explain

KissChrix:
You shouldn't have gone back to Her in the first place

Why?Is that the reason for her attitude?

Op You did the right thing on time before she give you high Bp. she is a LovePeddler , Olosho pretending to be a nice girl to you. move on with your life, calm down and search for a good decent girl to spend the rest of your life with.

Love hurts, especially the true one.
Ladies dont cheat on a guy who truly loves you
it really hurts him.

So clearly you knew you were falling for the wrong girl but you did anyway . Now that things have turned really sour, all women are cheats? I Mtcheeww x infinity.

slimthugchime:
proffessional fuckload of shii..exposing your incompetence on the web ...

bullcrap

Sorry I'm mentioning you, but do you always have to go round hating

OBTSubtle:
Hoes..

Never trust them..

hw kirikiri dey nah

Taiw:
How do you mean? Please explain

baski92:
Bro I mean no disrespect ok, this is not love but stupidity

This is exactly what he means. That the lady has had a lot of question marks for days and you've still been sticking around and still professing love. On a normal level, the so called love should have died months back!

She slept with different kinds of guys in her place of work, how sure are you that she was rape, that did abortion she did was for not the guy that dumped her when he saw cheating on him. Bros after all that you still took her in, sorry to say guy you fall my hand. You no get idea of what love it, you just dey abuse lovr

[color=#ff9900] little depression and she went on a fÛcking spree
Dude break her heart, and I bet she'll fück the whole nation


#hoes_meant_for_digging [/color]

LePrezident:
This is exactly what he means. That the lady has had a lot of question marks for days and you've still been sticking around and still professing love. On a normal level, the so called love should have died months back!

God bless you

Op mhen, y da hell did it take u dis long

OBTSubtle:
Hang in there bro

:/ :>

this is not suppose to be an issue, abeg move on

Right or wrong??

Both