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It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 6:03pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Some of us women have spent and wasted some if not most of our time trying to force ourselves into a heart that refuses to embrace us.This time and place hurts and it will hurt until we realize our worth as women. All relationships have bitter days but if those days outweigh the happy ones then something is wrong, you cannot spend your life begging for love from someone who came into your peaceful life and claimed they loved you but failed to prove it and in fact fail everyday and pretend not to notice. You get used to this life, the life of not being loved, you get used to rejection, you let it define you. Self-esteem snatched from your grasp and eventually you start believing that you deserve it and it is right. But the truth is it is not! No man alive should be able to UnCloth you of your confidence and happiness of being a phenomenal woman that you are. The effort invested in any relationship must be equivalent. Be careful not to become a slave in a relationship as you are trying to make it work. Remember.... Unlike marriage leaving this place is easy, you do not have to sign any papers or have to explain yourself to family or cry over lost bride price money or any nonesnse that wives use as a reason to hold onto a broken marriage. It hurts but what will hurt you more is seeing him finally leave you for the woman he loves genuinely after so much endurance and time wasted on a man who's actions spell out the symptoms of a unrequited love. A man who has no love for you in return, no love for you at all yet had been the first to utter the words. So you keep on holding onto them and hope that they'll be as meaningful as the first day they were whispered. You keep on praying for a miracle like a wife trying to keep a family together. Be careful not to burden yourself with pain in the quest of trying to be in a stable relationship. I don't know much but I do know that a man who truly loves a woman will never hesitate to let them know and feel that they are genuinely loved. 6 Likes |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Yinkey6(m): 7:41pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Summary Pleease Summary Pleease |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 9:39pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Yinkey6:summary for who for what |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 9:49pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
In the first paragraph, women... In short; Summary pls |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:14pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Bluezy13:But yourll not even ladies |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 10:32pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:Sometimes, ladies issue interests men. By the way, you are cute with pink lips without makeup. Are you single?? |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:37pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Bluezy13:than u should read the whole passage. Thank You ....I'm not single |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 10:45pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99: The passage is for the ladies, I only happened to come around. Nevertheless, it wouldn't hurt if you could still have a friend beside. would it?? |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:49pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Bluezy13:yeah sure it wouldn't ... guess you are my new found friend |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 10:58pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:Hehehe... Guess not. I am. Friends know each other's names. I'm Alex. |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 11:03pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Bluezy13:I'm Nomfanelo. pleasure knowing you Alex |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 11:05pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99: Pleasure knowing you too. Nomfanelo, may I know its meaning?? |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by frankkydee(m): 11:09pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
1 Like |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 11:14pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
[b][/b] Bluezy13:well it's a Zulu name meaning my parents were expecting me . |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 11:16pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
frankkydee: we getting somewhere 1 Like |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 11:24pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99: and how proud were they at your looks. Anyways, nice having you around. I should turn in. Hope to see you again tomorrow. Oh, would be a pleasure to PM you for "assurance's sake", don't you think |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by frankkydee(m): 11:26pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Bluezy13:I'll surely be around tomorrow... see you thn my dearest friend |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Bluezy13(m): 11:46pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:alright, and you too |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Vizzim: 11:56pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99: Not sure he asked if yr single |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 7:36am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Vizzim:are you telling me that or? |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Vizzim: 9:24am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:It depends on how you decode the message. |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Warhawk(m): 9:57am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:and what are you doing on Naira land ?? |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:01am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Warhawk:I don't think that's any of your business though. not being rude or anything 1 Like |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Warhawk(m): 10:11am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:well it is.. This is a forum for Nigerians!! |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 10:25am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Warhawk: Thank you for the heads up... but I'm still not bothered |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by davidflipcy5856(m): 11:45am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Nomfanelo99:ignore him dear |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 11:51am On Nov 17, 2016 |
davidflipcy5856:trying to |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Akinlekanwr(m): 12:17pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
I think the op made a lot of sense |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 12:27pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Akinlekanwr:thank u |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by darbeelicous(f): 1:01pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Hmmmmmm, dearest nofanelo u have to be careful o because naija dudes ain't gat no chill at all, esp in dis ressession. Lolz.......... By d way, nice write up though, I concur! |
Re: It Will Hurt Until You Put An End To It by Nomfanelo99(f): 1:11pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
darbeelicous:lols I know them very well |
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