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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Arijude(m): 4:56pm On Nov 30, 2016
emmanok24:


What do I expect from a recession infested nut job like you?
Don't mind that 'thing'.
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by AreaFada2: 4:57pm On Nov 30, 2016
Nothing wrong with it but let us be honest.

10 or 20 years from now how will things be like?
Won't the guy go & cheat with a younger lady?

Some will say who will cheat will cheat. But certain circumstances make it more likely.

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by ireneony(f): 5:00pm On Nov 30, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:

6 year older no be girl o, na lady. Me I can't. No matter the love, it will still fizzle after some yrs and then he'll wonder if he was hypnotized or so
but you can marry someone you are older than with 6years undecided..

Smh at some people's stupidiity

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by EzekielBams(m): 5:05pm On Nov 30, 2016
a

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by kaptaintintin: 5:10pm On Nov 30, 2016
For how long will u keep pretending dat love do exist? just wait till u see ur young neighbour waka pass wit bumshort....
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 30, 2016
yedidiah:
I don't believe any thread that says," a friend did this" or, "a friend did that" in most cases, it is either the OP is the one involved, or it is just a hypothetical situation.

Anyway, I can't even marry a girl six years younger let alone one that is six years older.


so someone cannot create a thread for his/her friend again undecided i am not understanding
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by BalogunIdowu(m): 5:12pm On Nov 30, 2016
being older than the wife is not the major reason for a strong relationship but merely to show you are the boss...
actually its no big deal although it might be much for me but I think 5 years is the maximum I can take

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by uwa244(m): 5:14pm On Nov 30, 2016
Gratefulsoul:
Age is just a number. What counts is the mutual understanding between them and the love they share..
it is easier said than done.
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by salamibigi(m): 5:14pm On Nov 30, 2016
Love brot both of them together, maturity would sustain that relationship.
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by tflaymez(m): 5:23pm On Nov 30, 2016
it depends on the both of them...it takes understanding to do such things...some ladies will feel superior y some wouldn't
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 30, 2016
ireneony:
but you can marry someone you are older than with 6years undecided..

Smh at some people's stupidiity
I shake my head at some people's inexperience. Some people like this actually think life starts and ends with nairaland. You can choose to marry someone youre older than with 30yrs sef, its your life. I spoke my mind. What the westerners do and end in divorce is what you think would work in for an African woman? Ladies like you are praying to find a loving husband who's older than them and some resolve to marrying a man younger to them with 2yrs max, but you want to settle for 6yrs difference. My dear you shd marry a teenager o, I thinks its better. Then in the next life marry your grandson mate.

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by HarryTellMe(m): 5:35pm On Nov 30, 2016
My present gf is 11 years older than me.
I'm in charge all the way.
We respect each other.
So, what were you asking again sef?
Remind me

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Mimido2(f): 5:43pm On Nov 30, 2016
deliveryboy:


You are suggesting a man should forget about his family for a woman? You are rare, I pray I will not encounter a woman like you, I also pray non of my family members meet someone like you, Ameeeeen!
see dis one
shocked
was I in anyway referring to u?
abeg, abeg,mind ur business and stay off my mentions >:
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Glorygrace(f): 5:43pm On Nov 30, 2016
Mimido2:
as long as he loves d lady den he should go ahead and get married to her(he should try and explain things to his family and if dey still refuse,he should forget about dem)
love conquers all.

Don't marry a woman older than u.The love will fade with time and disrespect will set in.

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Malakh: 5:45pm On Nov 30, 2016
@ Mimido...In the Hebrew Israelite culture and tradition, the men are always older and greater than the woman because we are the Head, all the man needs his wisdom and love to nurture his wife regardless of how old she is, wasn't Tamar told to wait for Jacob's son to be a man, didn't Naomi ask Ruth if she was gonna wait for her son to be grown, wasn't Miriam rebuked for speaking against Moses because she thought she was older, in the eyes of Yah,the man is always greater and older than the woman,we came first,so I can sleep marry any woman regardless of age but she must be ripe tho.
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by DedeNkem: 5:47pm On Nov 30, 2016
Winnelyn:
Hey guys can you get married to a girl who is 6years older than you , a friend is in a relation with a girl 6years older than him, his family would not accept this, he is really tensed about how to deal with this, will there be any problem marrying her? undecided

It f*ucking doesn't matter! If they have love and happiness, that's what matters!

My wife is a year older than me but looks younger than me. and we're very much in love and happy!

Marrying a younger woman doesn't guarantee sh*it!
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Mimido2(f): 5:52pm On Nov 30, 2016
Glorygrace:


Don't marry a woman older than u.The love will fade with time and disrespect will set in.
it won't fade
cos I've seen a situation like dis
my cousin got married to a lady dat is 5yrs older dan him and dey are doing well,dey even have 3kids
His parents actually went against d marriage and even disowned him but dey later forgave him and reconciled with dem....d truth is family members will castigate but as long as u follow ur hrt dey might be angry for a while but later dey will come around

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Lumig: 5:57pm On Nov 30, 2016
It's just so funny how we use LOVE to cover some inadequacies without having a DEEP AND UNSENTIMENTAL THOUGHTS about the issue. After some years we'll understand what is after 6 is more than 7.

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 30, 2016
In my opinion, I can't but that doesn't mean your friend can't. I think marriage goes beyond age. Understanding of each another and love in the relationship is key.
Also, I don't think I can marry someone 6 years younger than I am.
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Olowo1940: 6:49pm On Nov 30, 2016
Age is very important in marraige and women have high growth in term of given birth and womenhood functions. Pls pray abt it and consider the future problem. Its not Gud bt get a younger of 6yrs old. U will enjoy beta .
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:57pm On Nov 30, 2016
Winnelyn:
undecided
U re sweet. cheesy
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Bsmartt(m): 7:14pm On Nov 30, 2016
Ask Gerald Pique for consultation. He married Shakira that is 10 years older than he is. Love conquers everything.

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Forwetinnah: 7:21pm On Nov 30, 2016
Poorboy:
Sugar mummy things

Shut up joor. ..6 years gap is sugar mummy. What would you tell those gigolos running after their mother's mate and married women?

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Poorboy: 7:36pm On Nov 30, 2016
Forwetinnah:


Shut up joor. ..6 years gap is sugar mummy. What would you tell those gigolos running after their mother's mate and married women?
Hahahahahaha u are pained sorry
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Forwetinnah: 7:44pm On Nov 30, 2016
Poorboy:
Hahahahahaha u are pained sorry

Awwwwwww....coming from a "Poorboy" aka messenger, i can understand
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Poorboy: 7:49pm On Nov 30, 2016
Forwetinnah:


Awwwwwww....coming from a "Poorboy" aka messenger, i can understand
i say sorry boss no vex ooo
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by chiraqDemon(m): 8:08pm On Nov 30, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:

6 year older no be girl o, na lady. Me I can't. No matter the love, it will still fizzle after some yrs and then he'll wonder if he was hypnotized or so
There is also no guarantee that love will not die if the lady is younger...
Its just trust and hope that'll make it work, same thing if the girl is younger..
The only problem is that the nigerian society does not really accept it as in Ops case n many others

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Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by yatty4emmanuel(m): 8:21pm On Nov 30, 2016
age doesn't matter any more, rather understanding & love to achieve a happy end with promising kids.living happily for the remaining days of your life is what matters now even if she is 10-15years older.
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by kingsfield(m): 8:54pm On Nov 30, 2016
Winnelyn,
if they love each other, he should carry on.
#letlovelead
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by Mabelenena(f): 9:13pm On Nov 30, 2016
emmanok24:
My wife is approximately 6 years older that me. We got married December 19, 2015 and weve been blessed with a lovely daughter.

The most important of all you need is LOVE and HONESTY.
How old are you?
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by dabrightt: 10:02pm On Nov 30, 2016
Poorboy:
Sugar mummy things
Your name said it all..POOR BOY POOR BRAIN pele
Re: Marrying A Lady 6 Years Older by emmanok24(m): 10:18pm On Nov 30, 2016
Mabelenena:
How old are you?

I'm in my late 20s. Next question please! grin

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