folasayolyn:




at least she knew the president oh.

so that is your own scale of intelligence? Amazing!

Hmmm

Mimzyy:
You have not met a born pretender and I pray you don't. Then you'll understand that some people are experts at hiding their true self until they get married then unleash the inner demon.

This reminds me of a friend that tried to test her boyfriend with another friend. 'Twas planned that the other friend will try to seduce the guy to know if he will fall for it. She ended up losing the guy to the lady.

While it is ok to wana test your partner, we should be careful with our approach.

I liked your post just because of the first line. The mistake my uncle made was that he fell for someone who pretended to the point that we all thought she was an angel.
Barely two months into the marriage, she showed her true colours. I won't even hesitate to call her a devil.

@OP

These types of testing you listed here in particular and any other type at large makes no real sense (no insult intended toward your person). This is so because any girl that has intentions of retaining you as her final bus stop, from the inception of meeting you, would put up maximum pretentious regalia to outsmart you with such tests.

Why testing someone when you can know their attributes? I mean, attitude - which represent passing or failing of a temporary test can be faked. Whereas attribute - which is the main thing to look out for - is innate.

Any highly sensitive and analytical mind don't need more than few times of physical and oral correspondences to know another's attributes.

jelil01:
they are many ways to test your partner. Using another gal/boy to test your partner is very risky. Just brainstorm, there are many ways.

Seriously, I can't even imagine doing it.

My cousin brother ones hug my gf while greeting & I saw that the hug was intense. I got angry deep inside & quickly requested that we leave.

In another case, my friend got her number & do call her but he never told me that they always talk while she travelled. When she came back, she told me my friend do call her & I asked her how he got her number, she said that he requested & she felt we were close, she gave him. Immediately, I asked her to delete his number & she should stop all forms communication with him.

Test my babe with my friends ke? I don't want a situation where I will end up in prison cos I fear the consequences of my actions If anything goes wrong. It's better someone I don't know browse my woman instead of a close friend.

Mimzyy:
You have not met a born pretender and I pray you don't. Then you'll understand that some people are experts at hiding their true self until they get married then unleash the inner demon.

This reminds me of a friend that tried to test her boyfriend with another friend. 'Twas planned that the other friend will try to seduce the guy to know if he will fall for it. She ended up losing the guy to the lady.

While it is ok to wana test your partner, we should be careful with our approach.

The girl went too far na. Besides simple IQ tests aint bad at all.
Nobody falls in love like a fool these days. Remember that whatever you ignore today can come back tomorrow to hunt your hapinesss.
A word is enough for the wise

Eddodoh:

Seriously, I can't even imagine doing it.

My cousin brother ones hug my gf while greeting & I saw that the hug was intense. I got angry deep inside & quickly requested that we leave.

In another case, my friend got her number & do call her but he never told me that they always talk while she travelled. When she came back, she told me my friend do call her & I asked her how he got her number, she said that he requested & she felt we were close, she gave him. Immediately, I asked her to delete his number & she should stop all forms communication with him.

Test my babe with my friends ke? I don't want a situation where I will end up in prison cos I fear the consequences of my actions If anything goes wrong. It's better someone I don't know browse my woman instead of a close friend.

Browse?
Nice one though, LOL

Eddodoh:

Seriously, I can't even imagine doing it.

My cousin brother ones hug my gf while greeting & I saw that the hug was intense. I got angry deep inside & quickly requested that we leave.

In another case, my friend got her number & do call her but he never told me that they always talk while she travelled. When she came back, she told me my friend do call her & I asked her how he got her number, she said that he requested & she felt we were close, she gave him. Immediately, I asked her to delete his number & she should stop all forms communication with him.

Test my babe with my friends ke? I don't want a situation where I will end up in prison cos I fear the consequences of my actions If anything goes wrong. It's better someone I don't know browse my woman instead of a close friend.

lol. Me sef no dey trust my frnds with my gf.. .. ..

Prevention is better dan cure jareh

MChaze25:

Browse?
Nice one though, LOL

Yeah!!! They might end up fvcking each other.

I don't even subscribe to my woman going to meet my friends when we have disagreement.
Women are too emotional and that's an opportunity for conny friends to hit on her.

Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

These types of testing you listed here in particular and any other type at large makes no real sense (no insult intended toward your person). This is so because any girl that has intentions of retaining you as her final bus stop from the inception of meeting you would put up maximum pretiontion regalia to outsmart you with such tests.

Why testing someone when you can know their attributes? I mean, attitude - which represent passing or failing of a temporary test can be faked. Whereas attribute - which is the main thing to look out for - is innate.

Any highly sensitive and analytical mind don't need more than few times of physical and oral correspondences to know another's attributes.

My dear the truth is that anybody can fake any attitude too.
The weakness of women lies in their tongues. Are you a learner?
Just ask her simple questions and watch her fumble if she is the bad character type

Eddodoh:

Yeah!!! They might end up fvcking each other.

I don't even subscribe to my woman going to meet my friends when we have disagreement.
Women are too emotional and that's an opportunity for conny friends to hit on her.

on point you are

Gaara101:

I liked your post just because of the first line. The mistake my uncle made was that he fell for someone who pretended to the point that we all thought she was an angel.
Barely two months into the marriage, she showed the true colours. I won't even hesitate to call her a devil.

She must have been desperate without your people or uncle knowing it. Anyway if your uncle doesnt complain about it, then let her be.
She won but might not always win all the time. Such ladies change back later to regret after everybody abandons her.

motherfucker:
so that is your own scale of intelligence? Amazing!

Choi! What's with the transfer of aggression. Na ne chyke your babe for you. Ntooor

let them. know

folasayolyn:



Choi! What's with the transfer of aggression. Na ne chyke your babe for you. Ntooor

lol

MChaze25:

She must have been desperate without your people or uncle knowing it. Anyway if your uncle doesnt complain about it, then let her be.
She won but might not always win all the time. Such ladies change back later to regret after everybody abandons her.

Oh, he tried hiding it, but it got the point where he just couldn't do it again.
The marriage is officially over.

MChaze25:

My dear the truth is that anybody can fake any attitude too.
The weakness of women lies in their tongues. Are you a learner?
Just ask her simple questions and watch her fumble if she is the bad character type

It's either that you didn't read well my comment or you don't know the difference between attribute and attitude.

Mimzyy:


Lol. Thanks. I don't intend to go down that lane.

And i had made a mistake clouds your brains after 5-15 years of marriage. sorry from the other side

Gaara101:

Oh, he tried hiding it, but it got the point where he just couldn't do it again.
The marriage is officially over.

too bad for him.....
He needs to re-evaluate his values about women and be serious with it.
Its a hard life being a divorcee especially when you pass through character betrayals from the woman you married.
He should learn to call the bluff as early as possible. No woman hides completely. If only you can wear your thinking cap and watch her closely.
Tests are good and it saves alot in the future

Diplomaticbeing:


It's either that you didn't read well my comment or you don't know the difference between attribute and attitude.

ok sorry about that but both can still be hidden under the cloak of deception

MChaze25:

too bad for him.....
He needs to re-evaluate his values about women and be serious with it.
Its a hard life being a divorcee especially when you pass through character betrayals from the woman you married.
He should learn to call the bluff as early as possible. No woman hides completely. If only you can wear your thinking cap and watch her closely.
Tests are good and it saves alot in the future

I agree with the last line but I believe the test should go both ways. You could even surprise yourself.
Let me post a link about what I mean. It's an answer posted by Prof. Richard Muller on a similar topic.
How can you be sure the person you’re going to marry is the one? https://www.quora.com/How-can-you-be-sure-the-person-you%E2%80%99re-going-to-marry-is-the-one/answer/Richard-Muller-3?srid=wkDE&share=58f77a08

opsylojay:
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If you like,don't learn from this

greatnaija01:
BRO is the TEST done before or during or after sleeping with them??

It's best u do it before,during and after sleeping with them.... but seriously u don't really stop testing ur woman its just that she grads from point to point or she drops out

folasayolyn:




at least she knew the president oh.

Sai baba right?........its more like telling you that the name of her counrty is NAIJA.
Wonderful

Gaara101:

I agree with the last line but I believe the test should go both ways. You could even surprise yourself.
Let me post a link about what I mean. It's an answer posted by Prof. Richard Muller on a similar topic.
How can you be sure the person you’re going to marry is the one? https://www.quora.com/How-can-you-be-sure-the-person-you%E2%80%99re-going-to-marry-is-the-one/answer/Richard-Muller-3?srid=wkDE&share=58f77a08

Tests are good both ways. My woman tests me and i always know when they come. Sometimes i fail and she just pardons me probably because i pass more than i fail. I once failed a test and she was like;- you know i can just flog you right now for that answer right?..giving me a stern look
We laughed it off and we were good. It becomes a problem to her when i keep failing woefully and uncontrollably. If she later decides to dump me and move on, then i have learnt my lessons which are to think before talking

ironheart:
test is done before sleeping with her. When she fails then sleeping mode is activated.

True story. Met my girl at the point i was moving house. She wanted to visit n i took her to the old house with rug left. Told her thats my house. We ended sleeping on rug for three days n she does the cooking, cleaning n never complained, offered to buy me blanket n mattress. Told me it will get better. If you are the one, will u let her go? Now i do virtually everything she ask for without asking. She is a jewel n a wife. We are working towards a future together.

call me for Videography n photography duties.. God bless the future

Gaara101:

I agree with the last line but I believe the test should go both ways. You could even surprise yourself.
Let me post a link about what I mean. It's an answer posted by Prof. Richard Muller on a similar topic.
How can you be sure the person you’re going to marry is the one? https://www.quora.com/How-can-you-be-sure-the-person-you%E2%80%99re-going-to-marry-is-the-one/answer/Richard-Muller-3?srid=wkDE&share=58f77a08

Tests are good both ways. My woman tests me and i always know when they come. Sometimes i fail and she just pardons me probably because i pass more than i fail. I once failed a test and she was like;- you know i can just flog you right now for that answer right?..giving me a stern look
We laughed it off and we were good. It becomes a problem to her when i keep failing woefully and uncontrollably. If she later decides to dump me and move on, then i have learnt my lessons which is to think before talking

folasayolyn:




at least she knew the president oh.

Lukatew... Just tell me you are dumb instead of supporting that nonsense she said...

SirMichael1:


Lukatew... Just tell me you are dumb instead of supporting that nonsense she said...

Ok sir I am dumb. mtchewwww

MChaze25:

Sai baba right?........its more like telling you that the name of her counrty is NAIJA.
Wonderful

at least she spelt it naija not 9ja

folasayolyn:




Ok sir I am dumb. mtchewwww

I'm sorry. Really sorry. That didn't come out right

What I meant to say was that "You're completely and really dumb."

What sorta reply was that? "At least she knows the president" really? is that what's filled in that cracked skull of yours?.

Go else where, maybe to the States. Then wait for someone to ask you "Which country are you from"
.. Then answer Naija. "At least you know your country"

MChaze25:

And i had made a mistake clouds your brains after 5-15 years of marriage. sorry from the other side

Is this English language?