I am at this point in my life where i feel really empty. I hv about 150k to my name, an iphone a laptop. I dont hv a gf cuz i feel like im not ready for one. Im in my mid 20's and i dont really have a job or a certificate. I used to do wild stuff to feel the gap for all the emptiness i felt. Bt even dat isnt enough anymore, i dont know wat to do with myself or my money. And yeah i still live with my parents. Im so bored and confused and depressed, nothing excites me right now and its killing me. I want to go buy earings right now and wear cuz i need to feel alive, i feel so empty. Pls advice me, since there are no shrinks (pysch doctors) in nigeria, pls no insults just advice

Where did you leave the almighty,your creator?
Be consistent and persistent in calling and worshipping him and a direction will come.

You will have to be very patient and immune to distractions.

it will pass.

BTW, go get a hobby, hit the gym, chase girls, find God, etc. Live life.

You have 150k and you don't know what to do with it?

Go and do mmm my friend

You are far better than that. You are not useless. Say u ain't in school is never a barrier, say u are under your parents is not a disadvantage.

There is something you love dear..... there is a talent you have. There I something that you are the only one that can do it better.

Just calm down..... think..... and make urself relevant.

At mid 20.... there is a lot you can achieve

op you are going through a phase, its not uncommon for men in their mid 20s to feel that way. Use the time you have to find yourself, and when you do, look for experienced role models to mentor you. You are empty because you are yet to find your purpose. Every good man finds fulfilment in having a sense of purpose, your contribution to the world.

Eglobalma:
I am at this point in my life where i feel really empty. I hv about 150k to my name, an iphone a laptop. I dont hv a gf cuz i feel like im not ready for one. Im in my mid 20's and i dont really have a job or a certificate. I used to do wild stuff to feel the gap for all the emptiness i felt. Bt even dat isnt enough anymore, i dont know wat to do with myself or my money. And yeah i still live with my parents. Im so bored and confused and depressed, nothing excites me right now and its killing me. I want to go buy earings right now and wear cuz i need to feel alive, i feel so empty. Pls advice me, since there are no shrinks (pysch doctors) in nigeria, pls no insults just advice

Nigga, you are the architect of your own peril....the motivation, happiness and fulfilment you sort after lies within you....don't have time to inspire you to your desired place in life but click my profile and open the thread "what it is like coming from a zero/poor family background and the way to succeed in life", you'd understand that the position you are currently occupying millions of people are praying for God to take them there and where you are aspiring somebody is already seated there...inother for you to get to that level your heart pants after, one rule is, "you must always be self motivated, don't always wait for an encouragement....you chase your happiness and get it for yourself...as for the reason why you say you are "empty", that i don't really grasp...if because you thing it's due to the fact that you don't have a girl to call your own then i doubt your priorities...


For a man who wants to succeed in life, woman should be the last thing in his mind.

How will earings help your life o, just wondering

There is a vacuum that needs to be filled in your life by God,take a step towards Him and you will be surprised when everything else start falling into place. Don't worry it is well.

Eglobalma:
I am at this point in my life where i feel really empty. I hv about 150k to my name, an iphone a laptop. I dont hv a gf cuz i feel like im not ready for one. Im in my mid 20's and i dont really have a job or a certificate. I used to do wild stuff to feel the gap for all the emptiness i felt. Bt even dat isnt enough anymore, i dont know wat to do with myself or my money. And yeah i still live with my parents. Im so bored and confused and depressed, nothing excites me right now and its killing me. I want to go buy earings right now and wear cuz i need to feel alive, i feel so empty. Pls advice me, since there are no shrinks (pysch doctors) in nigeria, pls no insults just advice

Very interesting I understand what you are going through, but am not with my laptop or I would have typed the way to go about this for you.. it is very easy to go about but it will be so long for me to type with a phone..

Firstking01 I love your advise..

but..

Psychologically understanding a problem helps a lot, and your advise lacks the psychological aspect to impact in him..

cc Eglobalma

Smoke some weed, sip some wine... Just kidding

Simple! Get a lot of trustworthy friends

Newbeginnings:
Very interesting I understand what you are going through, but am not with my laptop or I would have typed the way to go about this for you.. it is very easy to go about but it will be so long for me to type with a phone..

Firstking01 I love your advise..

but..

Psychologically understanding a problem helps a lot, and your advise lacks the psychological aspect to impact in him..

cc Eglobalma

Ok, your own contribution is welcome...

Niqqa, u gotta be Industrious, be Adventurous, Ever think of how it's gonna feel, Turning that 150K into Millions, And what's gonna feel like touching lots of lifes afterwards.... Being a philanthropist, Travelling Countries just to Gaze at Mother Nature, Taking a Trip with your bae, just to put a smile on her face, having your fams over for a special Dinner, Laughing and playing with your kids on that lush green Garden......There's Lot more to Life Bro......SMILE ND Tell yourself,You are a MAN ON A MISSION!!!..

Stop Wanking Bruh..

Eglobalma:
I am at this point in my life where i feel really empty. I hv about 150k to my name, an iphone a laptop. I dont hv a gf cuz i feel like im not ready for one. Im in my mid 20's and i dont really have a job or a certificate. I used to do wild stuff to feel the gap for all the emptiness i felt. Bt even dat isnt enough anymore, i dont know wat to do with myself or my money. And yeah i still live with my parents. Im so bored and confused and depressed, nothing excites me right now and its killing me. I want to go buy earings right now and wear cuz i need to feel alive, i feel so empty. Pls advice me, since there are no shrinks (pysch doctors) in nigeria, pls no insults just advice

A New Earth (Awakening to your life's purpose) by Eckhart Tolle might be of great help.

You're not alone.

Most of our activities as humans are driven by an inner void.

Search for talks by a guy named Mooji too.

You can purchase or torrent both, depending on your finances.

Eglobalma:
I am at this point in my life where i feel really empty. I hv about 150k to my name, an iphone a laptop. I dont hv a gf cuz i feel like im not ready for one. Im in my mid 20's and i dont really have a job or a certificate. I used to do wild stuff to feel the gap for all the emptiness i felt. Bt even dat isnt enough anymore, i dont know wat to do with myself or my money. And yeah i still live with my parents. Im so bored and confused and depressed, nothing excites me right now and its killing me. I want to go buy earings right now and wear cuz i need to feel alive, i feel so empty. Pls advice me, since there are no shrinks (pysch doctors) in nigeria, pls no insults just advice

go to church honey. Join a choir even.

Eglobalma:
I am at this point in my life where i feel really empty. I hv about 150k to my name, an iphone a laptop. I dont hv a gf cuz i feel like im not ready for one. Im in my mid 20's and i dont really have a job or a certificate. I used to do wild stuff to feel the gap for all the emptiness i felt. Bt even dat isnt enough anymore, i dont know wat to do with myself or my money. And yeah i still live with my parents. Im so bored and confused and depressed, nothing excites me right now and its killing me. I want to go buy earings right now and wear cuz i need to feel alive, i feel so empty. Pls advice me, since there are no shrinks (pysch doctors) in nigeria, pls no insults just advice

I fell like this too, and i have a laptop and Tecno y3, the difference is i don't have money like you do, and am still chasing a certificate cos of extra year. Why not try and process a visa to a foreign country? That's what am hoping to do after collecting my certificate. Then you can meet new people, even oyinbo girls will make you come alive bro. Cheers ... Best wishes.