I don't know these things about my gf yet I want to marry her

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
stop lying

Lying?
Isn't it nice?

dingbang:
please dont be silly today. U can clearly see the link..

It's no excuse, you still jonse.
The No. 5 no even follow at all.

Shortyy:
BULLSHITE

have help u

I'm not even thinking all this things yet, or is dere any lady here that can make me to start thinking of all this things

skarlett:
I agree with the poster above me

Thirded!

All these won't make a man Marry u, I can assure u, marriage is a different ball game, every man thinks differently, I have a married friend a girl, while she was serving(Nysc) she cheated on her boyfriend den now hubby, did it stop him from marrying her? No!! Ofcourse he was angry, any body would,but this girl, pleaded ,retraced her steps, now they've bin married for 5 years with 2 kids, their marriage is heaven on earth but pls note to single girls ,this is my friends story, it might be different for u if u cheat, my opinion though

dingbang:


Marry you – Guys need to know a lot before they marry you.Guys are weird when it comes to marriage, and from what they tell me, it’s all about timing. But I’m not so sure it is. When it comes to popping the question, guys often treat marriage like an investment — and that means they do due diligence. So here are 7 good things men check out in a lady before proposing.





1. He needs to know he’s ready to actually make the leap to a long-term commitment.

Unfortunately, timing is an issue. If he feels he’s not at the right time of his life, he’s not going to propose. You can’t force his hand, either. Usually, guys decide they’re ready when they’re financially stable and realizing that the singles scene sucks.

So what about guys who got married because the lady got pregnant?

dingbang:

2. He needs to know you’d be a good wife.

He wants someone who would be presentable around family and who might make a good mother for his kids. He wants to know that you won’t turn into a shrieking harpy once the ring is on, and that you will be willing to do your part to keep him proud.

You should visit the family section often or talk to counsellors to know how moot this point is.

dingbang:


3. He needs to know you’re responsible.

Marriage is a legal contract, and that means that it will have serious consequences in his financial realm. What most guys fear is that they’ll marry a woman who will drive them into bankruptcy through bad spending habits, refuse to do housework while they stay at home, and basically just act like an overgrown, selfish kid. They don’t want that! They want an adult who will actually contribute, and they won’t marry someone who doesn’t fit that bill.

See my post on trophy wives below.

dingbang:

4. He needs to know that he can lose you if he doesn’t marry you

I’m a firm believer that men need a kick in the rear before they will propose. If you keep giving them the idea that a life without marriage is fine, they won’t marry you because they’re already enjoying the gravy train without it. If he gets the idea that you’ll be with him regardless, he won’t pop the question.

Same as above.

dingbang:

5. He needs to know that he’s in a good financial position.


Most guys won’t marry if they are dirt poor, even though money doesn’t have to do anything with love. For them, it’s often a pride thing. If he’s broke or his income isn’t stable, he won’t feel ready to marry.

Minimum wage is 18k and there are lots of guys who don't even earn up to the minimum wage and they are married. Heck some people get married without jobs..

dingbang:

6. He needs to know he can trust you to stay loyal.

Simply put, guys don’t take well to cheating. In fact, they take to it even worse than women do. If they feel like you wouldn’t be able to keep it in your pants, they will not marry you — ever.

What about guys who get married to prostitutes? Or guys who caught their ladies cheating but still went ahead with the marriage?

dingbang:

7. And, obviously, he needs to know that you have the same long-term goals as him.


It makes no sense to marry a woman who wants everything you hate in life. This would basically be the same as shooting yourself in the foot. Guys know this, and they will only pop the question to a woman who will work with their life plan.

What about those who just want a trophy wife? you think they a give a F*&k about long term goals?


Can peope stop coming up with stuffs like this? About 3 billion men and you think you can get a consensus on something as mundane as marriage?

tosyne2much:
I don't know these things about my gf yet I want to marry her

den you need God's intervention for the marriage to last!!

2kaybiel:


Lying?
Isn't it nice?

no

dingbang:


7. And, obviously, he needs to know that you have the same long-term goals as him.


It makes no sense to marry a woman who wants everything you hate in life. This would basically be the same as shooting yourself in the foot. Guys know this, and they will only pop the question to a woman who will work with their life plan.

this one is a big factor for guys i think. You both need to share common (or at least you need to be comfortable with each other's) long term values and aspirations

dingbang:
am sorry, these are the basic things a man needs to reason before proposing....

Bros, are you married?

Marriage, education nd religious are things nigerians over-rated 2much but still dnt get it right. Pls ladies beautified ur life so as to survived with or without a man and u wil see a gud man knocking at ur door.

Mimi56:
Ehn ehn!!! He needs to know!!! He needs to know!!! He needs to...chai. so this is it Issorite

wat do u know?

Very good post. Very good.

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
Always swearing
How come you surprisingly adding flesh/weight? Unbelievable

Someone that eats adds flesh/weight

Shortyy:

Someone that eats adds flesh/weight

perhaps you've not been eating before now, right?

wHyyyyyyyyyY:
perhaps you've not been eating before now, right?

Go look at Flavour's old pic and look at him now. Bye.

Shortyy:

Go look at Flavour's old pic and look at him now. Bye.

What the fcukkkkkkk is "he needs to know . . ."?

Afonja go learn English mbok

5-7 Most important, Oga Dingbang, your head dey dere

emmanuel596:
Thought I was gonna see something new and different....no matter how much u love and treat a woman nicely the ones that would cheat and mess around will still do so

that is if the guy is dating a hoe

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dingbang:
am sorry, these are the basic things a man needs to reason before proposing....

sm guys dont knw this.....

chiefojiji:
I'm not even thinking all this things yet, or is dere any lady here that can make me to start thinking of all this things

pls who will wantu marry shadow.. U dnt need it yet sef

sharliz:
pls who will wantu marry shadow.. U dnt need it yet sef

sharliz...... wateryu looking for upandan


betta go carry ur yansh one place now before I change am for u..... :p

Nairalanded:
Here is a little bit of my contribution: A lot of girls are single/unmarried because they wanna get paid for being in a relationship.

Guy your comment is a bomb shell..How come the inspiration??

Someone should help tell me the process of getting engage ooooo. Make I nor go fvckup on Sunday being my boo bday

Stelvin101:
Someone should help tell me the process of getting engage ooooo. Make I nor go fvckup on Sunday being my boo bday

lol do u want to spend the rest of your life with her?

dingbang:
lol do u want to spend the rest of your life with her?

Shuooo see ur funny question. Of course na or u think I wan her to Lord of the ring?

Stelvin101:


Shuooo see ur funny question. Of course na or u think I wan her to Lord of the ring?

its not a funny question.. Since you have affirmed it, so next step is to reason if she is the type dat loves outdoor surprises or indoor surprises... U have to know