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Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by chenel: 11:07pm On Jan 02, 2017
2nd of January 2017, my girlfriend of almost 1 year came visiting, it started out in an interesting way as we talked about how we wanted the year to go. We had plans and projections about what we wanted. Two hours later, in the midst of our discussion she took my phone and wanted to go through it, because I never had any skeleton in my cupboard I let her take the phone and go through it. She went to my whatsapp and started going through. Now she saw a particular name, she knew her as my ex colleague, and she went ahead to read our chat. Sincerel, I wasn't worried, she read the whole of our conversation next thing she is saying stuffs like I am not proud of her that I never mentioned it to her that I was in a relationship, and that I even used words like I wish I had someone like her. That it is because I am not proud if her and I feel she is worthless that why I never mentioned it. Now she started crying profusely, picked her bag and phones and walked out and said it was over. Now I have been begging, and trying to explain that I never meant any harm or never had any ulterior motive towards my ex colleague. She is insisting that I have been playing her all along and she has seen the real picture.
Guys I love thus girl... I need her back... I need your input.[color=#000000][/color]
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by 2SWT(f): 11:08pm On Jan 02, 2017
Like seriously

I'd say she did the right thing

I can't be with a guy who is not proud of me.

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Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by IamLEGEND1: 11:12pm On Jan 02, 2017
knowing how some guys are,I'll assume that after all is said & done,you'll still go running back & beg her like a pùssy. so I won't waste my time typing long sturvs.

let me start by pointing out the obvious just in case you missed it- You have a very insecure bítch/girlfriend on your hands.
The one major downside to having one of those is their inability to fully become self-confident and secure enough in any relationship. ANY RELATIONSHIP!
So if you go beg am to take you back,just know say na manage you go dey manage am dey go like that until you inevitably grow tired of her whiny nature and dump her for good.

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Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by godfrey01(m): 11:12pm On Jan 02, 2017
chenel:
2nd of January 2017, my girlfriend of almost 1 year came visiting, it started out in an interesting way as we talked about how we wanted the year to go. We had plans and projections about what we wanted. Two hours later, in the midst of our discussion she took my phone and wanted to go through it, because I never had any skeleton in my cupboard I let her take the phone and go through it. She went to my whatsapp and started going through. Now she saw a particular name, she knew her as my ex colleague, and she went ahead to read our chat. Sincerel, I wasn't worried, she read the whole of our conversation next thing she is saying stuffs like I am not proud of her that I never mentioned it to her that I was in a relationship, and that I even used words like I wish I had someone like her. That it is because I am not proud if her and I feel she is worthless that why I never mentioned it. Now she started crying profusely, picked her bag and phones and walked out and said it was over. Now I have been begging, and trying to explain that I never meant any harm or never had any ulterior motive towards my ex colleague. She is insisting that I have been playing her all along and she has seen the real picture.
Guys I love thus girl... I need her back... I need your input.[color=#000000][/color]


forget her ...who love help... get yourself busy with your work I swear you nor go get time to talk about woman
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by jaymichael(m): 11:23pm On Jan 02, 2017
chenel:
2nd of January 2017, my girlfriend of almost 1 year came visiting, it started out in an interesting way as we talked about how we wanted the year to go. We had plans and projections about what we wanted. Two hours later, in the midst of our discussion she took my phone and wanted to go through it, because I never had any skeleton in my cupboard I let her take the phone and go through it. She went to my whatsapp and started going through. Now she saw a particular name, she knew her as my ex colleague, and she went ahead to read our chat. Sincerel, I wasn't worried, she read the whole of our conversation next thing she is saying stuffs like I am not proud of her that I never mentioned it to her that I was in a relationship, and that I even used words like I wish I had someone like her. That it is because I am not proud if her and I feel she is worthless that why I never mentioned it. Now she started crying profusely, picked her bag and phones and walked out and said it was over. Now I have been begging, and trying to explain that I never meant any harm or never had any ulterior motive towards my ex colleague. She is insisting that I have been playing her all along and she has seen the real picture.
Guys I love thus girl... I need her back... I need your input.[color=#000000][/color]
You are dating a kid. Women Will go through your personal files hoping to find things to get mad at you for. If they don't find any, they still get mad at you for not finding anything to get mad at you for.

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Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Kentura(m): 11:27pm On Jan 02, 2017
This is how they behave.

1. Maybe she's tired of you and just needs a small reason to drop your ass.

2. She's just acting out, farshi her, make her jealous and she'll come around..

3. Beg her, she'll take you as a softie, don't beg her, she'll say u don't love/value her.
I tire for girls of nowadays sha
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by marshalcarter: 11:43pm On Jan 02, 2017
Lol...my goin to be ex cnt even tell ppl m her guy.....a frnd once asked her if i was her guy nd she said a big NO....omoh Since den...ve gotten over the bastard...smiley



op...if she refuses...let her be....undecided focus on ur future niiundecided
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by 2dice01: 11:44pm On Jan 02, 2017
2SWT:
Like seriously
I'd say she did the right thing
I can't be with a guy who is not proud of me.
so he should design your name on his cloth huh...change bae diss is 2017
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by 2dice01: 11:45pm On Jan 02, 2017
Well that is your new year present ..some girls with mumu excuse
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by mengho(m): 11:51pm On Jan 02, 2017
Something thats hard to handle, something fragile but strong enough to break a heart...So God Made Girls.

Go apologize brother
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by eezeribe(m): 11:59pm On Jan 02, 2017
chenel:
2nd of January 2017, my girlfriend of almost 1 year came visiting, it started out in an interesting way as we talked about how we wanted the year to go. We had plans and projections about what we wanted. Two hours later, in the midst of our discussion she took my phone and wanted to go through it, because I never had any skeleton in my cupboard I let her take the phone and go through it. She went to my whatsapp and started going through. Now she saw a particular name, she knew her as my ex colleague, and she went ahead to read our chat. Sincerel, I wasn't worried, she read the whole of our conversation next thing she is saying stuffs like I am not proud of her that I never mentioned it to her that I was in a relationship, and that I even used words like I wish I had someone like her. That it is because I am not proud if her and I feel she is worthless that why I never mentioned it. Now she started crying profusely, picked her bag and phones and walked out and said it was over. Now I have been begging, and trying to explain that I never meant any harm or never had any ulterior motive towards my ex colleague. She is insisting that I have been playing her all along and she has seen the real picture.
Guys I love thus girl... I need her back... I need your input.[color=#000000][/color]

Just let her go... She had already broken up with you in her mind and was just looking for an alibi to justify her action...
You just dated a drama queen
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by vicstar(m): 12:00am On Jan 03, 2017
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• too flimsy, I feel she just wanna break up, anyway I can't be on the same scene with a drama queen undecided •°•
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by 2SWT(f): 12:03am On Jan 03, 2017
2dice01:
so he should design your name on his cloth huh...change bae diss is 2017
hahaha

That's not it. What I mean is a guy who really loves me should be able to tell anyone who cares that he is already taken. Even if he doesn't tell the person that I'm the one.
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:03am On Jan 03, 2017
Very dramatic and quite immature behaviour from both of you actually. Both of you need to grow up and learn how to communicate that one is your flaw,and learn that self esteem is the foundation for feeling secure in a relationship ( that's more her issue).
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:05am On Jan 03, 2017
Raine80:
Very dramatic and quite immature behaviour from both of you actually. Both of you need to grow up and learn how to communicate that one is your flaw,and learn that self esteem is the foundation for feeling secure in a relationship ( that's more her issue).
why do you enjoy typing long epistles? Whyyyyyyy?
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:07am On Jan 03, 2017
wHyyyyyyyyyY:
why do you enjoy typing long epistles? Whyyyyyyy?
Because I can.
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by luminouz(m): 12:08am On Jan 03, 2017
Raine80:
Very dramatic and quite immature behaviour from both of you actually. Both of you need to grow up and learn how to communicate that one is your flaw,and learn that self esteem is the foundation for feeling secure in a relationship ( that's more her issue).
One word stood out here....communicate! N dats what I want with u....for real....lemme get to know u.....haba....ego oyinbo.....its 2017 ooo! grin kiss
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:13am On Jan 03, 2017
Raine80:

Because I can.
it must be really stressful. Isn't it?
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:13am On Jan 03, 2017
luminouz:

One word stood out here....communicate! N dats what I want with u....for real....lemme get to know u.....haba....ego oyinbo.....its 2017 ooo! grin kiss

You are cheeky wink
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by luminouz(m): 12:14am On Jan 03, 2017
Raine80:

You are cheeky wink
Dats d third time u will call me DAT!
Errmmm.....are my cheeks DAT big babe? tongue tongue tongue
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Greenbullet(m): 12:15am On Jan 03, 2017
chenel:
2nd of January 2017, my girlfriend of almost 1 year came visiting, it started out in an interesting way as we talked about how we wanted the year to go. We had plans and projections about what we wanted. Two hours later, in the midst of our discussion she took my phone and wanted to go through it, because I never had any skeleton in my cupboard I let her take the phone and go through it. She went to my whatsapp and started going through. Now she saw a particular name, she knew her as my ex colleague, and she went ahead to read our chat. Sincerel, I wasn't worried, she read the whole of our conversation next thing she is saying stuffs like I am not proud of her that I never mentioned it to her that I was in a relationship, and that I even used words like I wish I had someone like her. That it is because I am not proud if her and I feel she is worthless that why I never mentioned it. Now she started crying profusely, picked her bag and phones and walked out and said it was over. Now I have been begging, and trying to explain that I never meant any harm or never had any ulterior motive towards my ex colleague. She is insisting that I have been playing her all along and she has seen the real picture.
Guys I love thus girl... I need her back... I need your input.[color=#000000][/color]
you are an a hole,un appreciative idiot, you are probably a flirt.
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:16am On Jan 03, 2017
wHyyyyyyyyyY:
it must be really stressful. Isn't it?
Water of a ducks back actually
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:16am On Jan 03, 2017
When will spouse / partners learn that a clean phone never equates a clean heart.Checking partners' phones should be outdated already, Its a waste of time.

Op you are not totally sincere here, why give us half of the story? What led to telling an ex ' I wish I had someone like you ' ? Are you have doubts in your relationship? Are you missing some part of your ex? Do you still have residual feelings for your ex? Do you compare your ex with your recent girlfriend?.

Women may be dramatic, insensitive, impatient and emotional. But one thing stands there is an iota of the opposite in these features and they remain the best judge of actions. smiley

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Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:19am On Jan 03, 2017
Raine80:

Water of a ducks back actually
So natural. But your thumbs, they don't hurt either? I mean why type ''leave your seat this moment and proceed to where I am standing without no further delay" when you can just type "come here Now"? Dnt yu think the thumbs suffers?
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:20am On Jan 03, 2017
Person go just siddon carry man phone dey find wetin she go use hurt herself with.

Some years back, dat was how one went tru my texts while I was asleep, saw some dirty msgs and had to wake me up demanding I tell her who the girl is. Poor thing cried her eyes out dat night, me no send, I face wall sleep wella.

OP, I suggest you ignore her, she will come around.
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:20am On Jan 03, 2017
Alondra:
When will spouse / partners learn that a clean phone never equates a clean heart.Checking partners' phones should be outdated already, Its a waste of time.

Op you are not totally sincere here, why give us half of the story? What led to telling an ex ' I wish I had someone like you ' ? Are you have doubts in your relationship? Are you missing some part of your ex? Do you still have residual feelings for your ex? Do you compare your ex with your recent girlfriend?.

Women may be dramatic, insensitive, impatient and emotional. But one thing stands there is an iota of the opposite in these features and they remain the best judge of actions. smiley
What is the difference between (') and (" )?
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:29am On Jan 03, 2017
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:37am On Jan 03, 2017

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Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Nobody: 12:38am On Jan 03, 2017
wHyyyyyyyyyY:
I didn't ask for story. I asked simple question. Whyyyyyyyyy refer?
It will do you more goodsmiley
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 12:41am On Jan 03, 2017
Alondra:
It will do you more goodsmiley
Still telling me story. And that link didn't really tell exactly what the difference is. So tell me
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Chimezie198(m): 12:42am On Jan 03, 2017
Greenbullet:
you are an a hole,un appreciative idiot, you are probably a flirt.
Oga easy na
op been snatch ur girlfriend before?
Re: Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because She Thinks I Am Not Proud Of Her by Greenbullet(m): 12:45am On Jan 03, 2017
Chimezie198:
Oga easy na
op been snatch ur girlfriend before?
I know guys like him,na dem dey like get 3 gf.

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