Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

I bliv u r jealous of ur brother's love life, find work n stop depending on him; he has his life to live just like every1

@freak101 honestly,you might nt see it bt u're competing with your brother's gf.I strongly suspect you're ibo.She doesnt have to cook your native soup to please you,she's nt ur slave.The day my broda's wife cooks gbegiri and amala,trust me i go chop am like that o.You nid to learn that cultures differ,hw wvd u feel if ur husband's family start criticizing you because u cnt cook their native soup?
I knw it's hard seeing smone else "seemingly" take ur place in your brother's life but it's called growing up.The only place i fault ur broda is for slapping your sis,talk to him abt it.Remember what goes around comes around,dont complain if in future your husband/bf's family treat you the same.You're 17!you shd be tinkn of how to become your own woman instead of seeking to control your brother's life.Please stop being petty!!

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

if u dont like her, no point fighting every cell in ur body just to say d opposite. tell ur bros d truth....he'll tank u for it one day.

From this I am guessing you must be very young, Don't listen to most of the comment.
people do crazy things for love but if you know your brother to never eat Ewedu soup or Hit your sister
or ever neglect your needs, with all these happening within the same week. Then follow your instinct and pray.
Be smart don't do anything to piss the girl off. Just let your brother see things from your perspective.
Be a man about it. if he is really charmed he will not see reason but if he isn't then he will see reason and come back to his senses.

Fourwinds:
u have been in such situation before.?

lol you won't understand

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[quote author=epobot post=52503621][/quote]I'm your father's age mate!
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goingape post=52504296[b:
]I'm your father's age mate! [/b]

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epobot:


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