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2dugged:
I can't believe you would say the bolded bold, so after 4 years of dating, you still don't consider me worthy to put a ring on it?, i am so hurt right now

2dugged:
I can't believe you would say the bolded or embolded , so after 4 years of dating, you still don't consider me worthy to put a ring on it?, i am so hurt right now

thesuave10:
Actually she left because she wanted to explore and she felt there was more out there for her

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.



Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in the Taliban, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.

cococandy:
And handsome men don't flirt?

2dugged:
I can't believe you would say the bolded, so after 4 years of dating, you still don't consider me worthy to put a ring on it?, i am so hurt right now

MicroBox:
Don't be deceived,it's not African thing alone. Hilary Clinton can never rule America because she's a woman...
the earlier you accept nature,the better.

obataokenwa:
I'm the one that's suppose to be hurt and not you. I'm tired of fun, want to have a regular with clear conscience.

12inches1:
Equity is that if I'm working and you're working you should pay equal bills and not hide behind the idea of "I am a woman". Equity is that when it comes to making decision you dont shy away. I can go on and on. Like someone has already said women in Nigeria only remember that they are women when there is a huge load to carry or huge responsibility or bills to pay.

elitejosef:
#copied#

I AM A WOMAN!!! -

So what?
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.....

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"

I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.

So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.

I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh"
And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.

Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.

Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.
Because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living.

A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.
But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Happy new year.

sweetrace:
The op is absolutely correct. The fact that so many share your opinion based on the number of likes you have, simply shows that she is right. You're not a woman living in today's world. Let's make that Nigeria. Successful women are still called w.hores. Not just by men, but also by ladies who are yet to achieve their own success, or who think they have no morally correct or legal way of achieving it.

A lady is successful, but not yet married? She is told to get married. We've seen this countless of times on nairaland. Linda Ikeji, Rita Dominic, Genevieve Inaji... Go and get married is the regular comment that heralds their achievements.

I don't think the op is a feminist, she is just telling it the way it is.

johnson232:
I am a woman!!! I am a woman.... lolzz na man u be before?

MrsMurphy:
This is the true definition of what mainly African women go through

2dugged:
Oya now, come and put a ring on it

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in the Taliban, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.

MarieSucre:
Toks2008 is a funny dude as in cococandy I never see im kind before. he just hates women with a passion ehn! I don't understand. Did he not have a mother figure in his life?

uzolexis:
Equity means being fair not equal and of course women don't shy away in decision making and most working women contribute to household expenses as well.

Estharfabian:

You mean a petty thief, A diehard male pedophile, A Rapist, A Male Armed robber, A nutjob( MAD MAN) is SUPERIOR to Your sisters, Daughters and future female generations? Because they've all got Diicks dangling between their legs?


Bravo! You just outdid yourself.

[color=#1980BC]And how can a prostitute, a female ritualist, baby mama or club girl be superior to your father,brother and male relations in your family simply because they've got vaginas?

Congratulations! You just played yourself. [/color]

obataokenwa:
Do you got what it takes to run this race. The dream is too big.

AngelsAndStars:
equality means being equal not being fair.

example if a girl slaps me, one I know physically I can beat. ama slap her so hard my finger prints will remain on her cheek forever. that's not fair(because clearly am more stronger), but hey am justified

why do you think Russia and USA trample upon other countries? military. is it fair no. then build your own military.

equality means equal. not fair. learn that.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And how can a prostitute, a female ritualist, baby mama or club girl be superior to your father,brother and male relations in your family simply because they've got vaginas?

Congratulations! You just played yourself. [/color]

Sweetheart, You and I know this is Hogwash.


I never said I Wanted being superior. he did.
So, Your argument basically holds no water. goodluck next time!

PS-Club girl, baby mama? Those people are also lesser beings too? Y'all could literally Churn Out garbage to stay relevant.

2dugged:
bring it on

uzolexis:
where did you see equality in my post, try to understand a comment 1st before you get over yourself to give a smart ass reply....I said EQUITY not EQUALITY, learn the difference.

AngelsAndStars:
you must be insane.

didn't they have an election? didn't she lost? if she had won electoral college Vite stuff wouldn't she have been president elect? Prime Minister of Germany and Britain ain't they females? formal president of Brazil? South Korea?
fvck do you have in your skull?

2dugged:
bring it on

AngelsAndStars:
check.

my wrong. i assumed you meant equality since this thread has digressed to that forgive my mistake.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Every human deserves fairness. It's not a gender issue. [/color]

uzolexis:
where did you see equality in my post, try to understand a comment 1st before you get over yourself to give a smart ass reply....I said EQUITY not EQUALITY, learn the difference.

[color=#1980BC]Every human deserves fairness. It's not a gender issue. [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And how can a prostitute, a female ritualist, baby mama or club girl be superior to your father,brother and male relations in your family simply because they've got vaginas?

Congratulations! You just played yourself. [/color]