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Lukmann1:
Why will i wanted my ex back? op it was better you moved on with your live.

Jesus...Ak 57million

The bible says, "behold the old things has passed away".

frenchwine:
Like seriously I don't wanna sound cocky but like I usually tell my hommies, if any girl as much as decides to walk away from your life, don't be cruel to let her just walk. Be a nice gentleman, give her a ride or get her a cab..

wic hommies do u tel.baba calm down.na ur type dey do weird tins to get dia ex bck.dey hia dey form baddo

OP, ur 1to 3 so on point. That is exactly what happened to just this week. We had little issue and she started avoiding me cos she hookd up a new guy promise her marriage.I tried several times to talk, chat with her but no reply even when i wish her happy Xmas añd new year,but I was surprised on Monday when I saw a mssg from her whatsapp saying 'Hi dear' 'happy new year' thanks.
I just ignored her mssg.
Later again, said, season greetings my love. I simply said same to u and never bother to say anything further. Later she called and I let see and came but let her know I have a new girlfriend. She was disappointed and try begging me for a come back.

Ex na Ex...

if you got her back, she has never been your Ex!

well, best 7 ways you can get naija ex girlfriend, work like juju.
1. send her sms 2, ask for her account number 3. send her money 4. send her money again 5. send her more money 6. send more money again 7. send her all your savings.......

she will come kneeling like say you be holy Mary mother of jesus.

NB: d day u stop sending the money, Exship begins!

fuckingAyaya:
i told me Ex hi on watsapp she quickly change her status to NO TRU LOVE I quickly replied her I don't want u back I only want to tell u that I saw ur brother yesterday putting on my T-shirt

Oga importerandexporter...U go de romantic o. See as you take defraud your ex into a come back. Biko, come and con me too...Just whisper the gibberish in my ears huhn huh...I dey year you

younghartz:
♥ ~"“I wish I could go back to the day I met you and just walk away. Because honestly, it would’ve saved me so much hurt and pain.” "~ ♥

eeyah!! *grabs handkerchief * what's the title of this movie again?

Why will i even want to do that

Why?

Lukmann1:
Why will i wanted my ex back? op it was better you moved on with your live.

Asusu!

importexpert:
Bro, Experiencing a break up is not a pleasant feeling. It can even be more terrible if after the initial flood of emotions, you discover how valuable Ngozi/Aysha has been. Now you wonder if there is a way of getting her back because you know your life is better with her than without her.

First of all, I must admit that getting your ex-girlfriend back is not an easy task. Getting her back is a process that would take time and a little strategy on your part. You need to understand that there is no short cut to it. This is not the usual case of misunderstanding in a relationship, but one where the relationship supposedly has ended.

For all the "chop and clean mouth guys" please this is not your thread , this is for people who still have that humanly feeling of love in them.

What can you do to get her back?

1. Give yourselves a break:

You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her. Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is, the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks. Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you know it.

2. Analyze your break up:

What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These are important questions that you need to find answers to.

3. Work on yourself:

Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.

4. Be on good terms with her close friends:

In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats. Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging your efforts. Be on good terms with them.

5. Re-establish rapport:

After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as often as you can.

6. Engage her emotions:

This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.

7. Set the stage for your reunion:

This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet, it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up. Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely wants it that way already.

the person should mek more money

Divay22:
Wait for me

Li........ar!

muller101:
Send her more money. Surprise her with expensive gifts. What money cannot do. MORE money can do it

Nice one at bolded, first heard it from a former governor in Niger Delta.

zicobaba:
Forget Ex'

Gbasibe, Wa sherey

unclezuma:


FTC once again...

https://i.imgur.com/UYG1bAm.gif

Good day sir

Please send me an email tork2bella@gmail.com or drop yours I'd like to ask you something if you don't mind

swtdrms:
Li........ar!

Li........ar
How

iamkingzlee:
Why will i even want to do that

Because you miss her

Divay22:
Li........ar
How

Am pretty sure U've not gone over some of ur ex, and u re here forming iron lady .

Just keep calm and work on getting him back.

swtdrms:
Am pretty sure U've not gone over some of ur ex, and u re here forming iron lady .

Just keep calm and work on getting him back.

No sweet.....
I might like them,but will never date them again,because whatever caused the breakup at first it's still gonna crash the second......
It no use fixing a broken mirror again,cos you'll get hurt the more.......

importexpert:
Bro, Experiencing a break up is not a pleasant feeling. It can even be more terrible if after the initial flood of emotions, you discover how valuable Ngozi/Aysha has been. Now you wonder if there is a way of getting her back because you know your life is better with her than without her.

First of all, I must admit that getting your ex-girlfriend back is not an easy task. Getting her back is a process that would take time and a little strategy on your part. You need to understand that there is no short cut to it. This is not the usual case of misunderstanding in a relationship, but one where the relationship supposedly has ended.

For all the "chop and clean mouth guys" please this is not your thread , this is for people who still have that humanly feeling of love in them.

What can you do to get her back?

1. Give yourselves a break:

You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her. Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is, the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks. Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you know it.

2. Analyze your break up:

What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These are important questions that you need to find answers to.

3. Work on yourself:

Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.

4. Be on good terms with her close friends:

In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats. Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging your efforts. Be on good terms with them.

5. Re-establish rapport:

After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as often as you can.

6. Engage her emotions:

This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.

7. Set the stage for your reunion:

This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet, it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up. Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely wants it that way already.

We hope so! Lol

Spot on, it worked for me. She came back apologising after 1yr+...too bad she had already turned me into a bad guy....no love left in me

Divay22:
No sweet.....
I might like them,but will never date them again,because whatever caused the breakup at first it's still gonna crash the second......
It no use fixing a broken mirror again,cos you'll get hurt the more.......

Wat about when u realized you were at fault? You've always been over reactive and u concluded to change all that, Does that mean the relationship is gonna crash again? We re human and we learn from mistakes. Having made a mistake doesn't mean u can't fix that mistake. So my dear, that's one of the lessons we need to learn all our lives. Mistakes are essential towards a happy life.

Hmm...
Ojanu, come and read oooo

Talk2Bella:
Good day sir

Please send me an email tork2bella@gmail.com or drop yours I'd like to ask you something if you don't mind

Ah!
https://i.imgur.com/ud4ii9h.gif

starrygal:
wic hommies do u tel.baba calm down.na ur type dey do weird tins to get dia ex bck.dey hia dey form baddo

Heheheh Madam I don't live a two-faced life, I'm exactly who I am online and real time.
Abi make I send you her contact make you for ask her wosup as I know say you girls dey like gossip die

unclezuma:
Ah!
https://i.imgur.com/ud4ii9h.gif

Your memes are dope

swtdrms:
Wat about when u realized you were at fault? You've always been over reactive and u concluded to change all that, Does that mean the relationship is gonna crash again? We re human and we learn from mistakes. Having made a mistake doesn't mean u can't fix that mistake. So my dear, that's one of the lessons we need to learn all our lives. Mistakes are essential towards a happy life.

okay......Some EX are not just worth it, even if i have changed,it is better to move forward and I'll try not to make that mistake in my next relationship.......

importexpert:
Bro, Experiencing a break up is not a pleasant feeling. It can even be more terrible if after the initial flood of emotions, you discover how valuable Ngozi/Aysha has been. Now you wonder if there is a way of getting her back because you know your life is better with her than without her.

First of all, I must admit that getting your ex-girlfriend back is not an easy task. Getting her back is a process that would take time and a little strategy on your part. You need to understand that there is no short cut to it. This is not the usual case of misunderstanding in a relationship, but one where the relationship supposedly has ended.

For all the "chop and clean mouth guys" please this is not your thread , this is for people who still have that humanly feeling of love in them.

What can you do to get her back?

1. Give yourselves a break:

You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her. Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is, the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks. Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you know it.

2. Analyze your break up:

What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These are important questions that you need to find answers to.

3. Work on yourself:

Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.

4. Be on good terms with her close friends:

In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats. Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging your efforts. Be on good terms with them.

5. Re-establish rapport:

After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as often as you can.

6. Engage her emotions:

This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.

7. Set the stage for your reunion:

This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet, it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up. Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely wants it that way already.

Your head de there,na so my girl want do me sakara we break u, me pretend like say i no think am,come de nice pass before,do like say i no see her,one salah come i just ask her watin i go give her as salah gift knowing she has test and financially OK.the rest na story, na she ask when you go come my house.

U're on point. But sometimes, what works for Mr A may not work for Mr B.

I don't think any of that shii will work (if I was the girl in question ), although I only read the bolded

why in the whole world with more than 7B people will I want any of my ex's back? #balderdash