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DrogoG:
Should people not say anything because they've not heard from the other side? It's not everytime that you get to hear from the other side. If you personally knew the other party, then it's different because you can reach them.

She created this thread because she wanted advice from people. So people will give her advice according what she said.

firstking01:
Still on still, i still think people who claim to love themselves shouldn't see it as a biggie shaving themselves...too many ego and pride problems in today's relationship, misef tire...the kitty you wag with your dick you can't shave it...honestly, if i were the girl i 'll start doubting your love for me and he go tay before you see that kitty.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

WriteBoy:
I don't see how that was a simple request. I would turn it down because I wouldn't want to hurt you.

Shaving oneself is hard how much more another person. Before I shave my pubes, I go to extra lengths to prepare myself -- both mentally and physically. Mentally includes tricking my mind into believing it will be an enjoyable experience when I know the reverse is the case. Physically, I prepare my clipper, scissors, shaving stick, dusting powder, and soothing gel for my crotch when I am done. So you can see that it is not an easy nor simple task. I wouldn't do for it anyone because I don't know how sensitive their skin is.

Please try not to apply everything you read online to your life. I may be mistaken, but the woman advising you is probably from a Western culture where their men are open to trying a whole lot of things. You should factor in the wide gulf between our cultures to see if such advise is applicable to your situation.


You sound very petty -- this censure is not based on your whole personality which I do not know, but rather on the contents of this post. I know that as a woman you want grand romantic gestures in order to be assured of your man's love. But believe me, it is not about you alone. You must also learn to love him within the confines of what he defines as love.


That being said, have you shaved?

DrogoG:
Wow! That it didn't mention sex didn't mean it wasn't about sex! What do you think shaving your partner's private part mean if it has nothing to do with sex?

You're probably a kid who hasn't seen much of life. Having a great sexual relationship with your partner is one of the things that form a great bond. The more intimate the more bond.

Mimi56:
See wahala...
My dear,stop disturbing yourself...buy a shaving cream!!!

fujirice:
So what kind of advice do you think you have given her by calling her man a fool?
To make or destroy them?

Phobia1:
And the kitty will keep stinking to her herself sef. you know how many kitty dey pursue guys dis days? kitty Don plenty pass dick sef. Abegi

jonaifame22:
Since u've been on NL, u dnt even know that I'm a barber, contact me lemme shave it for u, so far it's the one down below, it's not his job! It's something I can do

Smhart1:
So you are one of the ladies that follow those relationship ruining commandments?


The truth is .... You no get hand

Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo

cejaypriesty:
Hahahaha, seriously you bad enh.

DrogoG:
Truth hurts sometimes, I guess.
If you can't shave your woman's pubic hair and call it disgusting, then you don't love her. The guy doesn't love her!

A real man who doesn't want to do anything his woman requests, declines politely.

kateskitty:
We not talking doesn't mean we are broken up
I know I lack wisdom that's why I've come to you for advice

wolu4:
the man shouldn't be angry that she asked him to shave her. to me that is the easiest task for a guy to do.if she gets pregnant who will do it for her,he will definitely do it xcept he doesn't love her.But for the fact that he cannot do it when they are dating, he will never do it in marriage.

WriteBoy:
I know you mean well but shaving creams are a no-no for me. Six years ago I attempted to shave using a hair removal cream, the thing legit burnt my skin. Wasn't an easy experience so I can't use those. I have to be very careful and go through my routine if not -- big trouble for me.

firstking01:
Still on still, i still think people who claim to love themselves shouldn't see it as a biggie shaving themselves...too many ego and pride problems in today's relationship, misef tire...the kitty you wag with your dick you can't shave it...honestly, if i were the girl i 'll start doubting your love for me and he go tay before you see that kitty.

truthsayer007:
Mimi56

Mimi56:
Eeeyh!!!

truthsayer007:
Hiya! , I was just checking u out, u seem very pretty & unnoticed.

Mimi56:
Unnoticed, because I mind my business.

firstking01:
Wrong! wrong!! wrong!!!...if you dnt shave it another guy can help you and you know what that means.