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What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 8:59am On Jan 31, 2017
Please I want you guys to advice from a reasonable and typical Nigerian point of view. I said in my previous post that my upcoming artist boyfriend was adamant about going for a label audition, cos he believes that after shooting his video big labels will be looking for him.

There's assurance that this new label will sign him, he has gone for their audition and they were really into him. Just yesterday, he started Gisting me about how some big bros and artist like him kept on discouraging him that he is too big for a small label, what if big labels come knocking after the video? Is that not a lose?


He doesn't have money to put the video on big stations o! Only Hip TV and he was like they would put "this unsigned artist..."

I am not thinking in line with his frnds cos I believe that he can build himself and become known so far the label keeps promoting his songs and video. A bird at hand they say is better than ten's in forest.

Pls if you were in his shoes what will u do? Get signed by the new record label or hope to get signed by big one after your video shoot.

Mods, Airforce1, pls I would like this to be on front page

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Cameleon72(f): 9:06am On Jan 31, 2017
Try both
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:14am On Jan 31, 2017
McBrooklyn:

Why don't u always say smth? That is how u drew this line on my last post angry

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:14am On Jan 31, 2017
grin


At least there's a record label who are interested on his talent..

Don't be like airforce boi... He's been in and out of the studio but he never even have a single hit yet lipsrsealed

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by yomi007k(m): 9:15am On Jan 31, 2017
undecided


Na wa ooo.... even Olamide had to start wt Alapomeji of Id cabassa...


Since he doesnt have money for the video, d logical thing is to' slave' first wt a good label then work hi way up.




We r all slaves in ds world......

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:17am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

Why don't u always say smth? That is how u drew this line on my last post angry

So what did you want me to say when ion even understand what you wrote up there?? undecided

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by rawpadgin(m): 9:18am On Jan 31, 2017
first of, upload his music here let's see if his ego matches his talent

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:18am On Jan 31, 2017
McBrooklyn:


So what did you want me to say when ion even understand what you wrote up there?? undecided
U did. Or u could just read again

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:19am On Jan 31, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


At least there's a record label who are interested on his talent..

Don't be like airforce boi... He's been in and out of the studio but he never even have a single hit yet lipsrsealed

And did you have to compare his/her imaginary boyfriend with Airforce1?? undecided

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:20am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

U did. Or u could just read again

OK... First of all, are you feminine or masculine?? cool
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:23am On Jan 31, 2017
McBrooklyn:


OK... First of all, are you feminine or masculine?? cool
I am obviously a female, so pls if you were in my boyfriend's position what will u do?

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by cwitch: 9:24am On Jan 31, 2017
Lol......What if big label don't come after the video? .......see?
Life is risky
If the big label come they can pay this small one off after all they discover him first

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:24am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

I am obviously a female, so pls if you were in my boyfriend's position what will u do?

Well, I'd choose the latter if it were to be me... cool
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by joliyp(f): 9:25am On Jan 31, 2017
dnt ve idea on label

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:26am On Jan 31, 2017
McBrooklyn:


Well, I'd choose the latter if it were to be me... cool
You'd prefer to wait to drop your video then HOPE for big labels to come looking for u?
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Airforce1(m): 9:27am On Jan 31, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


At least there's a record label who are interested on his talent..

Don't be like airforce boi... He's been in and out of the studio but he never even have a single hit yet lipsrsealed

Shut up TrapShit

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:28am On Jan 31, 2017
joliyp:
dnt ve idea on label
Hmm. The annoying thing is he doesn't even have the video money ready yet, he is paying like half and it is certain that the director will not release the video to him until he is done paying the money, meanwhile he has no paying job.

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:29am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

You'd prefer to wait to drop your video then HOPE for big labels to come looking for u?

Yeah, because according to your post up there... You said there is a bigger percentage that they're gonna sign him after dropping his video... cool

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:31am On Jan 31, 2017
McBrooklyn:


Yeah, because according to your post up there... You said there is a bigger percentage that they're gonna sign him after dropping his video... cool
Don't get me wrong. That is just what he and his friends are hoping on, not like a big label is hitting on him or giving him attention. I believe that there are upcoming artist out there that have released numerous videos but have they been called by any big label? I just like to see things the way they are.

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:35am On Jan 31, 2017
Airforce1:


Shut up TrapShit



Only mumu like u will react... grin


I'm NOT surprised at all..

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:35am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

Don't get me wrong. That is just what he and his friends are hoping on, not like a big label is hitting on him or giving him attention. I believe that there are upcoming artist out there that have released numerous videos but have they been called by any big label? I just like to see things the way they are.

Well, tell your boyfriend to work harder and pray harder too... cool
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:36am On Jan 31, 2017
McBrooklyn:


Well, tell your boyfriend to work harder and pray harder too... cool
Thanks
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by McBrooklyn(m): 9:38am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:
Thanks
You're welcome... cool
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Airforce1(m): 9:45am On Jan 31, 2017
TrapQueen77:




Only mumu like u will react... grin


I'm NOT surprised at all..

Stop mentioning me in your uninspiring comments Arab Woman.

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 9:57am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

Hmm. The annoying thing is he doesn't even have the video money ready yet, he is paying like half and it is certain that the director will not release the video to him until he is done paying the money, meanwhile he has no paying job.
why?
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 31, 2017
Teempakguy:
why?
He says he wants to focus on his music
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 10:14am On Jan 31, 2017
TrapQueen77:




Only mumu like u will react... grin


I'm NOT surprised at all..
come trap,though shall not insult a man!!!remember

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 10:15am On Jan 31, 2017
TrapQueen77:
grin


At least there's a record label who are interested on his talent..

Don't be like airforce boi... He's been in and out of the studio but he never even have a single hit yet lipsrsealed
how did you know?!!!
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 10:18am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

He says he wants to focus on his music
exactly what I thought the reply would be. anyway, you need to tell your boyfriend that it's already too late for that. if he really wanted to focus on music, would have done that before getting a girlfriend. because getting a gf is the exact opposite of what you would expect from a "focused"

that aside, he should start working immediately. It might not be a job, but something close. this is because of the "six degrees of separation rule" which states that the average person is six contacts away from anyone in the world. as a fact, the more people you know, the more closer you would be to anyone. if he really wants to make it big, he should, in addition to his music (and gf) he should spend his time building a network of people. this he can do by offering value. which he can only do by working.

I recently read the story of 'small doctor' and according to him, he met his benefactor while offering transportation services. mike rosenberg, singer of hit song; met his benefactors while going on paid gigs. etcetera.

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Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 31, 2017
Teempakguy:
exactly what I thought the reply would be. anyway, you need to tell your boyfriend that it's already too late for that. if he really wanted to focus on music, would have done that before getting a girlfriend. because getting a gf is the exact opposite of what you would expect from a "focused"

that aside, he should start working immediately. It might not be a job, but something close. this is because of the "six degrees of separation rule" which states that the average person is six contacts away from anyone in the world. as a fact, the more people you know, the more closer you would be to anyone. if he really wants to make it big, he should, in addition to his music (and gf) he should spend his time building a network of people. this he can do by offering value. which he can only do by working.

I recently read the story of 'small doctor' and according to him, he met his benefactor while offering transportation services. mike rosenberg, singer of hit song; met his benefactors while going on paid gigs. etcetera.

Thank you. I support him financially and I am not in any way disturbing or distracting him.
Re: What Would You Do If You Were In My Boyfriend's Position? Please Help by Nobody: 10:49am On Jan 31, 2017
rockstarB:

Thank you. I support him financially and I am not in any way disturbing or distracting him.
I'm not saying you are. I'm saying the entire concept of a girlfriend is time consuming and by even having one, calls his "focus" into question. makes it seem like an excuse to not work for a living.

anyway, since you are supporting him financially, you should just pay for his video. if you can't afford it, you'll see why he needs a job.

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