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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by tiswell(m): 3:58pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:

This is the height of confusion. did i get it wrong? should i have remained with him? please advice.

I feel like i am the problem. maybe i should just disappear. solve the problem for both of them. i really do love the incumbent.

Which is ex and incumbent again sad

get married already and stay away from immorality...shalom!

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Kaybaba5(m): 4:12pm On Feb 14, 2017

LordIsaac:
Hmmm....that's what happens when we expect too much from people and lack patience to accept what they can offer at the moment!

Because everybody is in haste

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by autonomous22: 4:29pm On Feb 14, 2017

Your ex can Neva mean well for u, he just want to b stealing another mans food (that is u) while he is happily dating someone else ..... chase him now before he frustrates your life.

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by beckytunde(f): 4:30pm On Feb 14, 2017

Hmmmm na wa ooo
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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by teebillz: 4:31pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:

This is the height of confusion. did i get it wrong? should i have remained with him? please advice.

I feel like i am the problem. maybe i should just disappear. solve the problem for both of them. i really do love the incumbent.

Incumbent? Are you an office? Once una hear one word, na to the abuse and misuse am remain. I will be like, "Sir, meet my incumbent girlfriend" How does that sound?

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 4:51pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:

This is the height of confusion. did i get it wrong? should i have remained with him? please advice.

I feel like i am the problem. maybe i should just disappear. solve the problem for both of them. i really do love the incumbent.

see how mugly you are...switching back n forth like gears

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by olaolaking: 5:03pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
i dont think he is the rebound guy.
the issue here is its a long distance thing with the incumbent.
the ex is a walking distance and he understands me totally.
plus he knows my weak points.
i broke up cos of genotype.

Are you think that reason is no more relevant?

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by clemmonce(m): 5:05pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:

This is the height of confusion. did i get it wrong? should i have remained with him? please advice.

I feel like i am the problem. maybe i should just disappear. solve the problem for both of them. i really do love the incumbent.

hey op you need an advice? go to foreign forums, you see people who are ready to listen to you and also ask you questions and good solutions
Nairaland is full of kids and immature people. You hardly get a good answer here
go to tinybudha.com
enotalone.com
and some other good forums.

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by clemmonce(m): 5:21pm On Feb 14, 2017

Rayhandrinni:
see how mugly you are...switching back n forth like gears

she asked for an advice dont insult her. you got nothing to say ? move away

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by coolestofall(m): 5:43pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
i dont think he is the rebound guy.
the issue here is its a long distance thing with the incumbent.
the ex is a walking distance and he understands me totally.
plus he knows my weak points.
i broke up cos of genotype.

Xory, got a question. U broke up because of genotype, abeg d genotype don com change?
Just asking

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 6:47pm On Feb 14, 2017

clemmonce:
she asked for an advice dont insult her. you got nothing to say ? move away

did she adhere to your advice? buzz off you mug

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Kassidy90(m): 7:35pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
I strongly suspect my incumbent knows you and sent you to speak on his behalf.
These are his exact words.
I am suspecting you Kass.

Smile...... U re very funny I don't know ur incumbent it's just that I had same experience as u, in fact I was working in the same establishment with my ex while my gf now my wife was schooling in East, my ex was ever available for all my needs and wants I was almost carried away then I ask myself why did we broke up self then I realized I was playing wit fire so I used the reason for our break up as a baseline in my dealings with her and as for my gf I trust her n I knw her being away is for the betterment of both of us in future tho body no be firewood anytime I misses her Mile 2 straight to enter motor to go n see her, Glory be to God she here now using my stomach as pillow n squeezing her face coz am online.. grin

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Bamz(m): 8:00pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
i dont think he is the rebound guy.
the issue here is its a long distance thing with the incumbent.
the ex is a walking distance and he understands me totally.
plus he knows my weak points.
i broke up cos of genotype.

Eeya. A moment of silence. Yes I've been there too. Dust yourself oh, contrary to popular belief, love is done more with the brain, the heart keeps pumping blood. It's a form of addiction that's nonmaterial and whether good or bad is solely dependent on who we get addicted to.

I have an ex like that that is married and still loves me.

You should leave your ex the heck alone. Use your brain, I repeat 'use your brain'. Hope you copy my traffic.

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by clemmonce(m): 8:01pm On Feb 14, 2017

Rayhandrinni:
did she adhere to your advice? buzz off you mug

see this low lifer ...

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Bamz(m): 8:03pm On Feb 14, 2017

NemzySeries:
unfortunately itz dsame issue d nation is going tru, d country's Ex ( Goodluck Jonathan ) happen to b more available within d country dan her incumbent fulani (Buhari) datz roaming arnd d globe

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Bamz(m): 8:03pm On Feb 14, 2017

NemzySeries:
unfortunately itz dsame issue d nation is going tru, d country's Ex ( Goodluck Jonathan ) happen to b more available within d country dan her incumbent fulani (Buhari) datz roaming arnd d globe

Exes will forever be exes mate.

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 8:04pm On Feb 14, 2017

itzemar:
incumbent? . better do election for them

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 8:10pm On Feb 14, 2017

clemmonce:
see this low lifer ...

hahaha oh my word...and the first thing that comes to your mind is that word "low lifer" fuccin hell man...arent you just one frustrated twattt? youve got no idea who i am, you dont...fucc off now wouldya?

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by clemmonce(m): 8:26pm On Feb 14, 2017

Rayhandrinni:
hahaha oh my word...and the first thing that comes to your mind is that word "low lifer" fuccin hell man...arent you just one frustrated twattt? youve got no idea who i am, you dont...fucc off now wouldya?

see this idiot. from the coherence of your speech it tells a lot about who you are. Mumu

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Erums(m): 8:51pm On Feb 14, 2017

Alero3Arubi:

This is the height of confusion. did i get it wrong? should i have remained with him? please advice.

I feel like i am the problem. maybe i should just disappear. solve the problem for both of them. i really do love the incumbent.

Define women: a set of specie not knowing what they want since time immemorial

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 15, 2017

clemmonce:
see this idiot. from the coherence of your speech it tells a lot about who you are. Mumu

arent you just a lost sheep without cause....take your problems elsewhere...dont bore me . Agent of Stupid

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:29am On Feb 15, 2017

Bamz:
Eeya. A moment of silence. Yes I've been there too. Dust yourself oh, contrary to popular belief, love is done more with the brain, the heart keeps pumping blood. It's a form of addiction that's nonmaterial and whether good or bad is solely dependent on who we get addicted to.

I have an ex like that that is married and still loves me.

You should leave your ex the heck alone. Use your brain, I repeat 'use your brain'. Hope you copy my traffic.

Your Ex still loves you?
Hmmm.
I don't want that at all.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:31am On Feb 15, 2017

Kassidy90:
Smile...... U re very funny I don't know ur incumbent it's just that I had same experience as u, in fact I was working in the same establishment with my ex while my gf now my wife was schooling in East, my ex was ever available for all my needs and wants I was almost carried away then I ask myself why did we broke up self then I realized I was playing wit fire so I used the reason for our break up as a baseline in my dealings with her and as for my gf I trust her n I knw her being away is for the betterment of both of us in future tho body no be firewood anytime I misses her Mile 2 straight to enter motor to go n see her, Glory be to God she here now using my stomach as pillow n squeezing her face coz am online..

Sharply go offline abeg.
Don't let that frown become growl ooo.
Thanks though.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 15, 2017

tiswell:
Which is ex and incumbent againget married already and stay away from immorality...shalom!

And you are absolutely correct.
Thanks.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:33am On Feb 15, 2017

autonomous22:
Your ex can Neva mean well for u, he just want to b stealing another mans food (that is u) while he is happily dating someone else ..... chase him now before he frustrates your life.

Ex ain't got no babe.
Don't ask me how I know.
At least not yet.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:34am On Feb 15, 2017

teebillz:
Incumbent? Are you an office? Once una hear one word, na to the abuse and misuse am remain. I will be like, "Sir, meet my incumbent girlfriend" How does that sound?

Very fantastic actually. grin

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:34am On Feb 15, 2017

clemmonce:
hey op you need an advice? go to foreign forums, you see people who are ready to listen to you and also ask you questions and good solutions
Nairaland is full of kids and immature people. You hardly get a good answer here
go to tinybudha.com
enotalone.com
and some other good forums.

Thanks.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Bamz(m): 9:40am On Feb 15, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
Your Ex still loves you?
Hmmm.
I don't want that at all.

If I feed the love, yes she still does. We were separated by a similar case as yours, something out of our control.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Nobody: 9:43am On Feb 15, 2017

Bamz:
If I feed the love, yes she still does. We were separated by a similar case as yours, something out of our control.

Smh.
Don't want that for my Ex.
I would hate to see him hurt.
He is a good person.
Really good.
And he was...
What am I doing!!!
Ok forget.
Thanks all the same.

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by Bamz(m): 9:47am On Feb 15, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
Smh.
Don't want that for my Ex.
I would hate to see him hurt.
He is a good person.
Really good.
And he was...
What am I doing!!!
Ok forget.
Thanks all the same.

Lol relax. When one of you gets married, all of this should change. If you don't break up with someone intentionally, that mutual affection just lies there somewhere waiting to be awoken.

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Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by clemmonce(m): 2:27pm On Feb 15, 2017

Alero3Arubi:
Thanks.

you are welcome

Re: When Your Ex Is More Available Than Your Incumbent by albacete(m): 11:48am On Dec 01, 2017*

@ Alero3Arubi, whether the story is real or fabricated, that's the best decision you can take in such a situation.

You wouldn't want to have kids, train them up to university level and watch them die prematurely.

You can equally love another.

P:S. See as I con resurrect 10 month old thread.
I guess OP is married now. wink

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