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Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 01, 2017
Jeddy100:
UK.. I am in the accountancy field!!!
If you must secure a well paying job in this country in that your field then it's mostly by favouritism.

I would advice you remain there. There are better opportunities there than in Nigeria not to talk of basic amenities.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 01, 2017
Jeddy100:
There is no place lilke home
anywhere u lay ur head is home my brother.i will advice u to marry a lady there,settle down and live ur life to the fullest.if possible invite ur close siblings living in nigeria to start a new life in there.who knows....u might just be the guy to father a child who might be the first black prime minister if u get married to a british woman.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Jeddy100(op): 2:29pm On Mar 01, 2017
Tokziby:
So adding a single T (for typo error) has now converted ur thread into an English Grammar class, well done sir. Sorry sir oooo, omode lo se mi oo... deleted the whole thing, hope u are happy now.
Even better.. thank you sir, next time just give your solicited opinion without the need to pick on an error...
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
anywhere u lay ur head is home my brother.i will advice u to marry a lady there,settle down and live ur life to the fullest.if possible invite ur close siblings living in nigeria to start a new life in there.who knows....u might just be the guy to father a child who might be the first black prime minister if u get married to a british woman.
He mustn't marry a British lady. He could simple get a Nigerian wife here or there but shouldn't come back.

I think the medicals sell better in Nigeria than management.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Jeddy100(op): 2:30pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
anywhere u lay ur head is home my brother.i will advice u to marry a lady there,settle down and live ur life to the fullest.if possible invite ur close siblings living in nigeria to start a new life in there.who knows....u might just be the guy to father a child who might be the first black prime minister if u get married to a british woman.
I understand your sentiments.. but things arent always rosy overseas. You know the issue of xenophobia.. well it doesn't only exist in RSA, it is every where in the world, it is just more subtle in western states.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Mar 01, 2017
Jeddy100:
I understand your sentiments.. but things arent always rosy overseas. You know the issue of xenophobia.. well it doesn't only exist in RSA, it is every where in the world, it is just more subtle in western states.
lol if the brits were xenophobic a muslim wouldnt be mayor of london.lol forget aboutt south africa...we africans dont love ourselves.we talking of uk.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
He mustn't marry a British lady. He could simple get a Nigerian wife here or there but shouldn't come back.

I think the medicals sell better in Nigeria than management.
hmm coming back here to marry a lady would be risky oo.u know how deceiving some girls can be if they notice op is a jardonite.if he must marry here then it should be a long standing girlfriend he knew b4 travelling out or hook up with a naija babe there.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
hmm coming back here to marry a lady would be risky oo.u know how deceiving some girls can be if they notice op is a jardonite.if he must marry here then it should be a long standing girlfriend he knew b4 travelling out or hook up with a naija babe there.
They know how they choose their wives. grin

When some go over there from here the environment overwhelm them that they start misbehaving. While most of their foreign counterparts don't last long in marriages.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Jeddy100(op): 2:44pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
lol if the brits were xenophobic a muslim wouldnt be mayor of london.lol forget aboutt south africa...we africans dont love ourselves.we talking of uk.
That is true, but there is definitely racism, you wont understand guy, the point is, there is still no place like home, somewhere that where you are successful, you can recognize that you did it in your roots, on grounds where u originate from, u get?
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Jeddy100(op): 2:45pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
hmm coming back here to marry a lady would be risky oo.u know how deceiving some girls can be if they notice op is a jardonite.if he must marry here then it should be a long standing girlfriend he knew b4 travelling out or hook up with a naija babe there.
I dont have any long term girlfriend, I qill have to find a solid naija girl here, one who wont deceive me
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
They know how they choose their wives. grin

When some go over there from here the environment overwhelm them that they start misbehaving. While most of their foreign counterparts don't last long in marriages.
it was here i read about a nigerian guy based in Atlanta working in a security firm there.he came back to naija looking for a wife.he eventually saw a nice girl from a good family.married her,took her to the US and enrolled her in a nursing school.can u imagine when this lady became a nurse she started disrespecting the man.she divorced the man,had him kicked out of his own house and prevented him from seeing his own two kids she had for him.the man later snapped,then went to the house,shot her then turned the gun on himself.so u see the stress of him searching for a wife back home all amounted to nothing.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by stalinho(m): 3:04pm On Mar 01, 2017
PUSSYHOE:
come back and marry our girls they need husband
do u need one?
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Mar 01, 2017
Jeddy100:
I dont have any long term girlfriend, I qill have to find a solid naija girl here, one who wont deceive me
Aghh bros if u dont have a long standing naija babe here then just forget about it.am saying this cos it will be the bad ones who will be chasing u cos they too want to relocate to europe as well by any means possible.a friend of mine also in the uk came back to naija to marry but then it was with his long standing babe he dated while in the university in naija.if u must date a naija babe wat of those ones over there?
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:15pm On Mar 01, 2017
PUSSYHOE:
come back and marry our girls they need husband
wat of the surplus guys around here?
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
it was here i read about a nigerian guy based in Atlanta working in a security firm there.he came back to naija looking for a wife.he eventually saw a nice girl from a good family.married her,took her to the US and enrolled her in a nursing school.can u imagine when this lady became a nurse she started disrespecting the man.she divorced the man,had him kicked out of his own house and prevented him from seeing his own two kids she had for him.the man later snapped,then went to the house,shot her then turned the gun on himself.so u see the stress of him searching for a wife back home all amounted to nothing.
My family friend in Oklahoma was dating a girl back here before he moved to the states. This guy came back and married her but would only come once in a month to see her. She had her first child in Nigeria then the husband moved them to the States. She got into school and was doing nursing. Then she later had a second child. The guy bought her a brand new car to ease her movement. She suddenly started disrespecting the husband, the guy found out she was having an affair with her course mate who he was even older than.

Mind you she was like two yrs older than the husband and when they have misunderstandings she calls the husband a "small boy". As when the man found out he confronted her, she went to the bathroom used her nails to scratch her neck then called the police on the husband, the man was taken to the station but was released later. She stopped doing things in the home, then once took the man's kids out of the home and was squating with some feminist black American friends she made there.

The husband told her parents and the advice they gave her fell on deaf hears. Mind you!, this lady was living in a batcher house in PH here, her father is a local obioma who patch clothes for people but her husband built a standard house for them in there village and even moved her siblings to a comfortable apartment. The guy is too Godly to divorce her, by the Grace of God they are living peacefully now.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by whywhyogun: 3:21pm On Mar 01, 2017
the op has a rich father who has money enough to send him abroad, so how can you guys be so naive? if he comes back to nigeria, he is still a preyer in nigeria. he would not be reduced to a sheep. he would not suffer by coming back. he can choose to do whatever he can do abroad, and 10 times more. if he can study and work and marry a white woman abroad, what can he do in nigeria? to wreak a havoc out of your imagination!
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Jeddy100(op): 3:23pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
Aghh bros if u dont have a long standing naija babe here then just forget about it.am saying this cos it will be the bad ones who will be chasing u cos they too want to relocate to europe as well by any means possible.a friend of mine also in the uk came back to naija to marry but then it was with his long standing babe he dated while in the university in naija.if u must date a naija babe wat of those ones over there?
The naija babes over here are spoilt and are not good wife material.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
My family friend in Oklahoma was dating a girl back here before he moved to the states. This guy came back and married her but would only come once in a month to see her. She had her first child in Nigeria then the husband moved them to the States. She got into school and was doing nursing. Then she later had a second child. The guy bought her a brand new car to ease her movement. She suddenly started disrespecting the husband, the guy found out she was having an affair with her course mate who he was even older than.

Mind you she was like two yrs older than the husband and when they have misunderstandings she calls the husband a small boy. As when the man found out he confronted her, she went to the bathroom used her nails to scratch her neck then called the police on the husband, the man was taken to the station but was released later. She stopped doing things in the home, then once took the man's kids out of the home and was squating with some feminist black American friends she made there.

The husband told her parents and the advice they gave her fell on deaf hears. Mind you!, this lady was living in a batcher house in PH here, her father is a local obioma who patch clothes for people but her husband built a standard house for them in there village and even moved her siblings to a comfortable apartment. The guy is too Godly to divorce her, by the Grace of God they are living peacefully now.
But then they both were able to resolve their diffrences somehow cos they have been dating b4.the risk involved when a guy comes home to marry a total stranger just because she was recommended by family members far outweighs the advantages.you could end up with a schemer,a gold digger etc.no time to study her because there is just no time.but with a girlfriend i already know her flaws.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
But then they both were able to resolve their diffrences somehow cos they have been dating b4.the risk involved when a guy comes home to marry a total stranger just because she was recommended by family members far outweighs the advantages.you could end up with a schemer,a gold digger etc.no time to study her because there is just no time.but with a girlfriend i already know her flaws.
Women are complicated. I must say. grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Mar 01, 2017
Jeddy100:
The naija babes over here are spoilt and are not good wife material.
lol bros its like u never jam some for here grin.dont be deceived by wat u see in naija home video.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
Women are complicated. I must say. grin
very very grin grin grin grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
very very grin grin grin grin
But not all. At least I'm not. grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
But not all. At least I'm not. grin
nawwwww u not complex at all at all wink.a girl like u would give a man peace of mind.its ur type a guy has in mind when he prays to God for a good wifey.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
nawwwww u not complex at all at all wink.a girl like u would give a man peace of mind.its ur type a guy has in mind when he prays to God for a good wifey.
Lol. grin cheesy
People misunderstand me a lot sha!, my own be say make person no make me vex. My temper is the only thing I hate about me.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
Lol. grin cheesy
no
People misunderstand me a lot sha!, my own be say make person no make me vex. My temper is the only thing I hate about me.
no body is perfect na cheesy.if temper is wat u fear abt urself then that one na small matter na.what most guys pray not to have as a partner is a lady who is an unrepentant cheat and uncaring.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
no body is perfect na cheesy.if temper is wat u fear abt urself then that one na small matter na.what most guys pray not to have as a partner is a lady who is an unrepentant cheat and uncaring.
My dear!, cheating is bad but you don't want to know what I would do when pissed. grin

So I once got this small ferrari phone an older friend gave me as a gift. I loved the phone cos it was unique and one in a million. I think I had a misunderstanding with my ex on phone and after he dropped the call on me I smatched that phone to the wall. My strong ferrari shattered. grin

The funniest thing was after some hours I went back to the phone and tried to fixed it components back but couldn't, I just removed my sim and put the pieces in the trash bin. What did I achieve?, I later lied that the phone was stolen cos I didn't want to be chastised by my siblings. grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
My dear!, cheating is bad but you don't want to know what I would do when pissed. grin

So I once got this small ferrari phone an older friend gave me as a gift. I loved the phone cos it was unique and one in a million. I think I had a misunderstanding with my ex on phone and after he dropped the call on me I smatched that phone to the wall. My strong ferrari shattered. grin

The funniest thing was after some hours I went back to the phone and tried to fixed it components back but couldn't, I just removed my sim and put the pieces in the trash bin. What did I achieve?, I later lied that the phone was stolen cos I didn't want to be chastised by my siblings. grin
choi!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked u get temper reach like dat? if u vex like dat near me i go baff u with icey cold water to cooli ur temper grin grin grin grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
choi!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked if u vex like dat near me i go baff u with icey cold water to cooli ur temper grin grin grin grin
Lmao. cheesy grin cheesy grin
I really wish cold water would help sha. grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
Lmao. cheesy grin cheesy grin
I really wish cold water would help sha. grin
hahahaha grin it will help believe me grin grin grin grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Mar 01, 2017
kimbra:
My dear!, cheating is bad but you don't want to know what I would do when pissed. grin

So I once got this small ferrari phone an older friend gave me as a gift. I loved the phone cos it was unique and one in a million. I think I had a misunderstanding with my ex on phone and after he dropped the call on me I smatched that phone to the wall. My strong ferrari shattered. grin

The funniest thing was after some hours I went back to the phone and tried to fixed it components back but couldn't, I just removed my sim and put the pieces in the trash bin. What did I achieve?, I later lied that the phone was stolen cos I didn't want to be chastised by my siblings. grin
I wish se I Sabi vex. grin grin.
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Mar 01, 2017
lefulefu:
hahahaha grin it will help believe me grin grin grin grin
You don try am before? grin. Some people get PhD in vexation o grin
Re: I Studied Overseas.. Should I Come Back To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Mar 01, 2017
Dextology:
I wish se I Sabi vex. grin grin.
Your own better. Anger spoils things. grin
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