amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Woman, I have seen men after preganant women, so you carrying a two months old baby doesnt keep u away. You did wrong, you should have objected that u are nt giving any number, shut him down.....sorry to say if you were my wife, I would be mad too.

iPopAlomo:
Sorry...
I need to understand how hard to say "I am so sorry... I'm married..." is...?!!!

That's six words mehn... six Fucking short words!!!

Some women are so confused. They want to be addressed as Mrs yet want to maintain the same lifestyle as been single. This is how it starts, next thing you hear "Na devil work".

I even want something that will make my butt bigger sef

thornapple:

Quite a terrible man. There was even nothing to correct. Giving a guy wrong number is a very clever way of putting him away peacefully.
Had it been she acted like the husband suggested by bluntly turning down his request for her number, then the guy persists and starts begging and the husband walks in on them, that would have been a worst case scenario.

you are terrible sha

amyzon:
Thank u all for all the advice , I have learnt my lesson and it won't happen again. Thanks for all the insult too. I have been apologizing since and he has forgiving me. Thanks alot

your husband has forgiven you, but the useless egocentric flirtatious men of Nairaland have hung your ass on the stake for roasting.
Happy for you, guide your marriage jealously.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

What a diagrace.. As if you dont know men can flirt with anything inside skirt. Even with a pregnant woman some guys would flirt. Am in the profession and i know how this work. Deep inside you my dear.. You were falling for him.. Take it or leave it

Ifyjuli25:
I even want something that will make my butt bigger sef

let that young Doc doggy you for 3 months in a row I bet u ur yansh go big pass Kim own

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

I somehow understand why you did that. You are the type of person that doesnt like to be rude and because the guy didnt come out expressly to tell you why he wanted your number, you didnt want to assume it was for a sinister reason and at the same time you didnt feel comfortable giving him the real number. Some guys pick offence when they ask for your number and you immediately assume its because they want to ask you out. Next time, ask why he wants your number first then if he doesnt have a good reason, tell him your husband is waiting outside and probably wont approve unless it is related to additional information about your visit to the hospital. When a guy asks for your number and you immediately jump and say you are married, some of them will just take offence and ask you if they asked you out or if they asked you for sex. They can even throw insult on top so I understand you. In such situations, giving a wrong number is not so bad to avoid too much talk.

I'd rather reject a guy's request politely than give him a fake contact. I don't remember ever giving any guy a fake contact which is why I get upset when a guy asks me I hope you didn't give me a wrong number. I'm a realist so I don't do that

AZeD1:

Her action doesn't signify anything. Only shallow minded people think like that.

you sir ,is d shallow minded person here. no offense.

TrumporIdie:
you will wooz her because she gave fake number? Isn't that domestic violence? Idiots like you who will beat up a woman for flimsy reasons are the same type of men who despite being married still sleep with other women up and down, hypocritical baastard.

You won't gain cheap popularity through me...

"if you can't get the sarcasm of my post" flee from my post please...


You are nothing but a cheap clown before me.. By calling someone a bastard....

Nor be say I curse you... Just stand in front of a mirror make you look your life... How e bend reach!!

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

Mrs this are excuses to justify a shameful act. Pls learn that this is a shameful act n very disrespectful to your man. Ever imagine going on a picnic with husband n somewhere along the line you caught him give a random lady some fake numbers. I guess you would not lose any sleep over that.

THIS POST IS A HIT AFTERRALL......TELL YOUR HUSBAND.

agongajoseph:
you are terrible sha

Why are you talking as if you are not as terrible?.

maasoap:
Sorry, you didn't make sense, at all.

Maybe you are the husband.

[quote author=nma4god post=54175878]he sucks big time......can't be with such a person.....just for him to open up and correct her he can't ....what a husband..[/quot

So u don't see anything wrong in a married woman with two months old baby on her back, and her husband waiting not far away, to entertain a clear flirtatious advances from a young doctor, and to give him her real or fake number? Is that a sign of a responsible woman who respects her hubby or even d baby on her back? Is that not to encourage d doctor, since she's still to visit the hospital subsequently, or will she continue giving him wrong numbers? It is clear u are not in any committed relationship. Play on and enjoy your life, but stop insulting the husband who feels justifiably insulted.

blesoh:
It was very wrong of you to have even given him the number, second mistake, why did you tell ur husband? Some things are better left like that. And the doctor is not even responsible seeing that you just gave birth and your husband is just outside waiting.

Leave the doctor out of this.. Every one had the right to be stupid... Its you that wil stand ur ground to say no.. Men are flirty in nature. .. The few cautious ones do so as a result of religion, public eyes and other factors... Remove all those and i bet all men are the same.. The fault lies with her for actingike a kid even when it seems youre an adult.

thornapple:

Why are you talking as if you are not as terrible?.

I'm more terrible but urs has style

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

Your boo is over reacting. His type won't let JSS 3 girls buy pure water and go in peace.
You just need to stop giving out "fake" number since it gives out a REAL availability signal. No harm in saying I'm married.

nma4god:
like I said earlier ,individuals are diff....I definitely will laugh at it most esp when I know who I married and the fact that I trust him enough to accept to be his wife.....and if for any reason I do not find it funny,I will make it clear to him that what he did didn't go down well with me....as a loving spouse he will apologize and that will be the end of it...I won't hang on it all day not to talk of close to 3days,that's rubbish....bottom line is 'know who u are with and trust them enough to be with them'....there is absolutely no point in marrying someone u can't leave at home and travel and still have peace of mind,no way

Nice....

agongajoseph:
I'm more terrible but urs has style

lol. You gave it the style.

Getintouch2004:


Na chyking be this?

Lol no na biz proposal..why your mind go chykin?na wa for u o ..so somebody cannot have biz plans with a woman again?

thornapple:

lol. You gave it the style.

lol.... go jhoor....lol.... was pulling ur legs, don't mind me

In all honesty I think your husband overreacted. His action goes to show that he is intolerant and lacks understanding. That means if you do something more serious than this he wouldn't hesitate to divorce you.

Some men would even laugh over it and forget about it as if nothing happened since they have no reason to doubt their wife but the reverse is the case as far as your husband is concerned.

I just hope your husband isn't the unforgiving type otherwise you will have to work your butts out pleading for one offence for several years which isn't cool at all.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Since you're not the type to insult a guy that approaches you, if the young doctor was a bus conductor, would you still give him a wrong number or ask him to get lost?

Ole! Ashawo! Oloshi!

tammie24:
but he didn't know about it

She TOLD him!

If she gave a real number
You think she will tell him about it?

If your spouse/hubby/lover tells you he almost kissed a girl last night but stopped her. How would you feel? You'd prolly ask "What were you doing that almost led to a kiss?"
It no longer matters if he told you or not.
He might as well just keep it to himself.

You need to focus on the larger picture here.
I can imagine telling my wife i slept with my secretary and someone advising her to forgive me cos if i didnt tell her, how would she have known and this is a sign that i deserve her forgiveness.

freecocoa:
If you think things like that don't happen, then it's either you don't live in the real world or you are simply naive.

Did I say it doesn't happen in real life?
Way back in 2005, when we started NL, we discussed real issues cutting across all sectors of human life and actually met these ppl in life. Stories like these had evidences.
The difference is so clear now.
Monikers are created and stories are just fabricated to draw traffic.
Don't quote one when you don't understand what one says.

Snow5:


Bross no.. U check am na... E nor make sense na

This girl just make the pineapple when I dey chop now now just sour for my mouth...

Had it been nairaland get "Konk" button eh.... I for press Konk for her head this evening..


She nor even feel remorseful self.. She still dey follow people argue here....

Lol

u no go know say wetin u do wrong until u see ur load out of una door tomoro morning... mumu. infact text the number of ur husband to me, i want to discuss something with him

agongajoseph:
lol.... go jhoor....lol.... was pulling ur legs, don't mind me

You didn't know what i was pulling at......your nose..

AZeD1:

The Doctor can get her number from her file or somewhere else and this same thing would happen, so what difference does it make if she gave him her number or not?

then that's a different ball game, that's unproffesional of him to do...against work ethics....he'll be sacked for that.

thornapple:

You didn't know what i was pulling at......your nose..

chai...my nose has suffered. .....watsapp me let's continue d discussion 07087090067....