Mynd44:

So his not having sex made her get pregnant for someone else?

I hope you know that if they had sex, he would have been tricked to believe that he is responsible so in a way, been celibate helped him

You get sense jare. Baba ogbon

Jabioro:
Your religious life had give you costly life experience. Your preacher and council of elders what do they got to say in this kind of situation? I guess. What God have joined together let nobody put asunder... Wicked woman.. sorry.. Learn to be liberal, Baba himself was a liberal otherwise the world would no longer exist.

Will you shut up?

You suspected , ah u should have done a test na before the marriage uh

even though I highly suspected that my wife was already pregnant with another man’s baby, but I married her anyway.. My suspicions became true when we recently visited a family doctor for routine check ups.

Yet he still went ahead with the marriage instead of him to find out if throughly she's pregnant.

Anyway, let him accept the pregnancy as he said in his statement that "but i marriaed her away ".

Best of luck.

Nackzy:
Brotherly sack that Girl asap....virtually all of them are like that... With deadly secrete...

Not all

Jabioro:
Your religious life had give you costly life experience. Your preacher and council of elders what do they got to say in this kind of situation? I guess. What God have joined together let nobody put asunder... Wicked woman.. sorry.. Learn to be liberal, Baba himself was a liberal otherwise the world would no longer exist.

In the eyes of spiritual law, that marriage didn't hold. The man is free to marry another woman.

Lucky escape! No regrets anyhow just dumb her and marry some one else simples! Oh! Next time don't wait to fork first.

Rebuke:
Weda this is a true story or not, sex is worth waiting for.

Devil uses all avenues to make youths think itz rght to engage in pre-marital sex.

How would he have known the wife cheated on him if he had engaged in sexual immorality wt d so called wife b4 marriage.

He would hav been fathering another man's son.

Deep inside me, sumthn tells me dis story isn't real.

what do u mean the story is not real there is nothing new under the sun .. haven't u heard of a man who train a bastard till he clocks 35 before the wife told him he was not the biological father ..

madridguy:
I blame the mumu man.

Actually the man dodged a bullet.. Atleast he now knows early on that the wife is a cheater.

Waiting before having sex worked on his favor this time. If he was going to the promise land and the lady became pregnant by another guy... That's when you see a grown up guy crying on live TV because the child he raised wasn't his.

This reminds of my coworker whose husband got a vasectomy.. She mysteriously became pregnant and offcourse hangs it on her husbands head until the baby was born and she(the new born ) was black. my co-worker and her husband are both white

Jabioro:
Your religious life had give you costly life experience. Your preacher and council of elders what do they got to say in this kind of situation? I guess. What God have joined together let nobody put asunder... Wicked woman.. sorry.. Learn to be liberal, Baba himself was a liberal otherwise the world would no longer exist.

The woman was involved in fornication, therefore the man is free to leave her. Let her go back to the father of the unborn child.

U suspected that she was carrying another man's baby u went ahead to marry her and u are still calling her your wife.
Are u that daft

Wahala Ya Zo.

the pastors don't believe that there is no sex during the courtship that's why they do pregnancy test. how can you suspect and you did not do one abi you no fit nack

Divorce her and let her face the law of adultery as God said or do u want to marry an adulterz

but most churches that enforce this doctrine always ensure that the bride undergoes series of test before the wedding day. I know of Mfm,deeper life,CAC etc.some will even conduct the test two days to the wedding. This man's forgot? or they don't have marriage committee?

thesicilian:
Divorce her cheating ass ASAP.

Annulment actually. Fraudulent marriage.

It may have resulted from communication gap. The lady didn't say that she was a Virgin. Did the decision to abstain from sex mutually agreed; or the man wanted to impose his Christianity on the woman. What she did is not justifiable but up to the time of marriage, she was single and exposed to tempting sex offers and attention. What the man can do now is to get the marriage annulled of he can't live with it. He shouldn't pretend as if the woman claimed virginity. She might have aborted the pregnancy before marriage and the man will be singing her praises but she chose to keep the baby.

Hmmm... Eleyi gidi gan oooo

sekundosekundo:


In the eyes of spiritual law, that marriage didn't hold. The man is free to marry another woman.

Exactly!
It's marriage by deceit, in Christian marriage, the wedding never hold and the young man is free to walk.

But it seems that our friend is afraid of another marriage expenses.

baddosky1:


Paternity Test nko?

So your GF and wife to be who you are sexually active with gets pregnant and the first thing you think of is a paternity test?

Cire80:
If truly you're a good Christian,.... You're bound to remain with her forever because marriage is for better or worse. If you divorce, then you commit a sin bigger than fornication.

Have you ever read "marriage is for better or for worse" in the Bible?... or divorce is a sin? You guys need to read the Bible instead of swallowing and repeating this crap sooo many so called Men of God be spitting.
@topic.... seems like the guy went ahead with the wedding because of the amount of money he had already invested.....the show had to go on. But why is he complaining now when he knew all this before the marriage? If he is following the Bible....he can divorce her since she has committed adultery. By the laws of man... he is married from the time he signed .... not sure he has grounds for adultery since he can't prove she slept with some else while married. .... correct?

LoveThemChubby:

The likes of you should learn to think objectively before commenting. Do you think he would have stopped her if he had had sex with her? Would his sleeping with her had changed the fact that she is a cheat and was sleeping with other men or automatically changed the paternity of the child?

He has the load bear.. whether he likes it or not hence he has such feeling he supposed to done the test before the wedding

Let the man carry his cross,next world,you will Look before you leap.Haven't said this
bros,to be honest i feel for you.God will help you,because you certainly need God wisdom in these matter.

His on vacation.

Syjibrin:
Madridguy I dey gbadu your way oh how is Sarrki I have not see him online lately

ochukwuma15:


Exactly!
It's marriage by deceit, in Christian marriage, the wedding never hold and the young man is free to walk.

But it seems that our friend is afraid of another marriage expenses.

There's no need for too much expenses again.

Good point but your co-worker no get chill

Badgers14:


Actually the man dodged a bullet.. Atleast he now knows early on that the wife is a cheater.

Waiting before having sex worked on his favor this time. If he was going to the promise land and the lady became pregnant by another guy... That's when you see a grown up guy crying on live TV because the child he raised wasn't his.

This reminds of my coworker whose husband got a vasectomy.. She mysteriously became pregnant and offcourse hangs it on her husbands head until the baby was born and she(the new born ) was black. my co-worker and her husband are both white

madridguy:
I blame the mumu man.

Nor mind am. Nothing new here.

I say it every time here that around 35% of firstborn kids do not belong to supposed biological dad.

Over 25% of all kids do not belong to supposed biological dad.

DNA labs have shown this over the last few years.

However, it is a secret lots of women are ready to kill for in order to keep somebody who knows silent. Especially if the hubby is rich & is her only meal ticket.

Plus polls after polls in recent years put Nigerian women as the most unfaithful. That is double whammy!

While you're doing your churchy no sex dating, yeye guys out there are recklessly pulverising the punany and getting your fiancee preggy on your behalf.
Nice one.

Originalsly:
Have you ever read "marriage is for better or for worse" in the Bible?... or divorce is a sin? You guys need to read the Bible instead of swallowing and repeating this crap sooo many so called Men of God be spitting.
@topic.... seems like the guy went ahead with the wedding because of the amount of money he had already invested.....the show had to go on. But why is he complaining now when he knew all this before the marriage? If he is following the Bible....he can divorce her since she has committed adultery. By the laws of man... he is married from the time he signed .... not sure he has grounds for adultery since he can't prove she slept with some else while married. .... correct?

read Mtt 5, Lk 16. You'll understand this better. I can give you more references if you want

Women don run,u won't see them come out nd cast stone on their fellow women,if it's a man now,they will device several form of punishment nd how devilish he is,make una comment nd condemn oooooo. Make ogun no catch una.

sekundosekundo:


In the eyes of spiritual law, that marriage didn't hold. The man is free to marry another woman.

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