sekundosekundo:


I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate for that matter. I love her so much.

haryomikun:
That's quick. Marrying her within 6 months

dovelike:

That's where trust, love and God comes to play

dovelike:
Yes, this thing has puzzled me for a while but why do guys wait for their girlfriends to get pregnant before getting married to them? This is the trend we see now. Celebrity examples are Tonto Dike, Laura Ikeji, PSquare just to mention a few. Not to talk of most people I know personally. This removes the sacredness of a pure union.

Is it that the pregnancy removes a cloak from their eyes and they realize that they want to get married to their girlfriends (something that didn't know before?) or they just want to do right by the lady, thereby, entering into a marriage they are not ready for.

This doesn't guarantee lasting and fruitful marriage for both of them because they both were kind of forced into it and not from their own genuine will, as it's meant to be.

dovelike:

I know. But if a guy doesn't want to, he wouldn't. Pregnant or not pregnant. Flavor, Tuface. But most guys see it as a sign to get married

Newmanluckyman:
... A woman should learn how to take charge of her body. A woman that wants to get pregnant will get pregnant and the one that doesn't want will not. Not every sexual relationship results in pregnancy. Pre-marital sex is purely for recreational purposes unless the woman decides/says otherwise.

waldigit:

Your post made me know I live in different world. Well in our own believers world, your post is an aberration, punishable and rare.

dovelike:
What type of world?

dovelike:
What type of world?

Gurumaharaji:
Doctors have wash bitter leaf wit some girls womb thru abortion...It just a way to avoid story dat touches d heart
meanwhile, testing is allowed b4 buying goods

Gurumaharaji:
Doctors have wash bitter leaf wit some girls womb thru abortion...It just a way to avoid story dat touches d heart
meanwhile, testing is allowed b4 buying goods

Gurumaharaji:
Doctors have wash bitter leaf wit some girls womb thru abortion...It just a way to avoid story dat touches d heart
meanwhile, testing is allowed b4 buying goods

Newmanluckyman:
... A woman should learn how to take charge of her body. A woman that wants to get pregnant will get pregnant and the one that doesn't want will not. Not every sexual relationship results in pregnancy. Pre-marital sex is purely for recreational purposes unless the woman decides/says otherwise.

kimbra:
Is it just the guys?, most girls would desperately tie a pregnancy on the guy just so they're called "Mrs" at the end of the day. It has it's repercussions.

If any guy loves you enough, you don't have to get pregnant before he does what's required of him. My opinion!.

bukiboy:

are you married?

Jacksparr0w127:
How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho

missyge:
Fhey can go for test to check her womb bfre marriage.

I cnt agree to get pregnant bfre marriage anyway, unless if the pregnancy na mistake

Jacksparr0w127:
That's too long. Nobody got time to go for such test

Blonchilli:

Hope you read on nairaland the guy that waited till wedding night and found out his wife is pregnant for another guy

missyge:
I
oohhh i see. Meang u dont even go for other checkups . like hiv, blood group and co. I rest my case

haryomikun:

That's quick. Marrying her within 6 months

sekundosekundo:


When you find your missing bone, no need of wasting time.

missyge:
Hmmm
Y are u rushng? You want to recivng Amvca?

or nxt we see on NL: See Couples dat met and got married within 2weeks.

Anyway i wish u marital success. I need ur annointing cos im expecting my husband

Jacksparr0w127:
how do you know this?

haryomikun:

You should have quoted sekundo lol. No b me nack woman within 6 months