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| I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Luukasz(m): 7:00pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
I started to crush on lady L when we had an argument in the lecture room about religion and politics, few days later we had a convo on and on we did as she also got the crush. But to my surprise,i'm always the one walkin up to her to start a convo she never makes any attempt until when i started to give her some space. Giving her space yielded results for some weeks, after that i do walk to her and we chat but surprisingly the next day she just ignores like i aint there. Time went by i asked her out but she said she's occupied. After which i gave her space but still i do text and call her twice a week but made my text and calls all about saying hi and telling her to have a sweet sleep. A month later i asked her out once again in the lecture room and she says i'm weird,complicated,not open minded and that my world is different from hers. |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Luukasz(m): 7:15pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Then we went on a semester break, a week after we started the break i pressed the call button and told her about my crush and she says she's occupied yet again. It was my last call to her, since then i stopped the call and text. I also put her aside and moved on, when we resumed sometimes she does walk up to me to have a short chat and sometimes its just hello. The thing is even thou i've moved on i cant stop thinking about her for i'm deeply in love and she's also been trying to gain my attention back for she's also in love by her actions and what she told some of our coursemates. Despite this i've made up my mind not to go back to her, so guys am i egoistic or was i right to put her aside even thou am deeply in love with her  . |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by babyfaceafrica: 7:17pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
You did the right thing...good work..shows you are not a weak and naive guy...more blessings...never force a lady to like you!!....if you do,she will have your mumu button!!!.. And stop thinking of her!!!! 6 Likes |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Nobody: 7:18pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
And your reason for creating this thread is.... |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Luukasz(m): 7:21pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Oyind18:If you dont have an answer to my question then step aside 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Nobody: 7:23pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Luukasz:what is the question Mr Luke? 1 Like |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Luukasz(m): 7:25pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Oyind18:Its best u read the post again |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Luukasz:Sorry I can't  |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 7:37pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
reminds me of when I had a crush on this guy one time, I guess I gave him hints and he finally asked me out, I was so glad but I didn't wanna look easy so I told him I was busy cos I go to work, he asked about my weekends but I said I'd also be busy with some stuffs at home! So he asked for my contact and I gave him a wrong number!! Lolz..... This is someone I really like but was just kinda playing around! Like u, he sees me everyday but never asks me y I did what I did or out for another date!...... So op, if u really like her, give her a chance... Its either she was just being childish like me  and tryna not look cheap or she might have other reasons! U will never know if u don't give it a trial. Gudluk!! |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Adeinfo: 7:44pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous: This is total nonsense. Why playing hide and seek? |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 7:46pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
lolz..... To u its nonsense... But it's kinda like a big deal actually! Adeinfo: |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by JacksonD7: 8:01pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Luukasz: Good job with giving her space, you were starting to appear needy. If you want more tips read or drop a question on the thread below https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by babyfaceafrica: 8:05pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous:you ladies are funny,that is how you leave RMD and follow Churchill.don't worry keep using a guy for fun, when he now gets tired and you finally meet a gentle player,you will know how far.All in a bid not to appear cheap,you throw away a jewel cos of pride |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by ikp120(m): 8:18pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous: Now I see  But no girl should try that with me sha because na delete be that o. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by mazizitonene(m): 8:30pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous:bs.....and that's how you lost and will keep losing good men....and eventually settle with a smooth player..... most serious guys who know what they want and where they are going won't waste precious time playing hide and seek...... |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by ikp120(m): 8:30pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica: Na so they go dey form for good guys and dey fall for bad guys posing as good guys.  .Most babes deserve unfaithful men.  |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 8:31pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
lolz.... Its not called pride dear.... Its called self respect and esteem! Not all guys are worth it though!! U might never understand babyfaceafrica: 1 Like |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 8:33pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
good men ...... No kee me abeg mazizitonene: |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by babyfaceafrica: 8:38pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
ikp120:they do!!!...leave them nah,when they ignore the good ones and accept the players they will now start crying like tiwa and Tonto 1 Like |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by babyfaceafrica: 8:50pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous:kip it up..that is why we have more tonto and tiwa now..instead of joke silvas..it is well |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Dmelkowking50(m): 8:52pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Bro Park Lexus for her front and ask her out again... U go hear different answer.. |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by mazizitonene(m): 8:54pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous: dey dia na wetin wan kee u good men dey o  mesef na good man |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by fineboynl(m): 8:59pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous:the truth of the matter is that it's only players that chase some that way. real and good guys have no time to such. the good guys are mostly the shy guys |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
So the first no was not sufficient? Relationships should not be like waiting for rain. She has the issue not you. Rest assured once you do meet someone and are happy she will suddenly rember you. If you become successful in your career ......her interest will be ten fold. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 9:10pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
lolz ....... NOTED!!fineboynl: |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 9:12pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
u didn't have to! . . . . Seriously u didnt ikp120: |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 9:13pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
story....... mazizitonene: |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by mazizitonene(m): 9:26pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous:lol.....she doubts me.........u know what dey say....about good guys attracting good girls.....so obviously you ain't a good girl......  and u are even In my home state.... |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 9:30pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
ain't good....... Far from it ........ mazizitonene: |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by chiraqDemon(m): 9:31pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Adeinfo:I dont know what they gain from this Abroad woman like u she go ask u and una go date but for naija all these nonsense go de happen Now if they reach 30 no hisband they will start saying that God is wicked Guys dont have time for these games Once u start forming he will move on Na only una de play d game so na only una de always lose D guy nor go lose |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by mazizitonene(m): 9:36pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
darbeelicous:on the contrary....you are too good n innocent .....that's why u keep playing hide and seek u r just trying to hide it....I understand  |
| Re: I Stopped Chasing Her And Moved On Or Was I Egoistic by darbeelicous(f): 9:40pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
...... Ure still very far from it!! Sorry. I don't just play hide and seek if I don't have reasons to...mazizitonene: |
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