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. by lordreigneth: 5:19am On Mar 17, 2017
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Re: . by Cutehector(m): 5:21am On Mar 17, 2017
Give her the money.. Things are hard...

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Re: . by walearoy(m): 5:28am On Mar 17, 2017
lordreigneth:
Hello all good morning all
Yesterday I visited my girlfriend in her house,
When I saw her she was in bad mood I asked her why and she began to narrate her story how broke she was and been unemployed after finishing her NCE
She was almost crying.....

Then I encouraged her.... I just met her not long and I love her so much but I don't like spending money on woman because they termed such men as mugun

She has already demanded 30k from me for a business she wants to do here in port Harcourt to make ends meet tho she is a Yoruba lady.

Not that I don't have the money but ladies at times termed such men as mugun u will think u are helping them but they go around showing their friends the mugun.
But when I visited her yesterday she almost broke into tears when narrating her ordeal... Should I give her the money or part of the money for her business or I shouldn't give her anything...... Pls urgent advice from matured minds... Thanks

Send the money to me, I'll give it to her for you
Re: . by lordreigneth: 5:35am On Mar 17, 2017
walearoy:


Send the money to me, I'll give it to her for you
what are u looking for on my thread
I said matured mind to comment only

You are still a baby
Re: . by lordreigneth: 5:36am On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
Give her the money.. Things are hard...

If I give her and termed it to something else nko?
Re: . by Cutehector(m): 5:41am On Mar 17, 2017
lordreigneth:


If I give her and termed it to something else nko?
then you call it quits. If u give her and she puts it in good use kwanu?

Ok I know its ur cash buh just give it a try ... Tell her look am not giving this money to u because I don't know what to use money to do, I just want to trust you dat you ain't lying to me.. Please put it in good use.. After saying this ask for her account number.. Whatever she says next will determine if u will give the money to her or not

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Re: . by BlackDBagba: 5:42am On Mar 17, 2017
Don't give it to her. Let her go and earn it herself. When you eventually start giving her, she'll appreciate you.

My opinion.
Re: . by Ashleydolls(f): 5:47am On Mar 17, 2017
Bros please be nice
If she has an alternative, she wouldn't be demanding it from you. Moreover you said she's been moody and she kept on crying. You should probably ascertain if what she wants to use the money for is real, carry out your findings and if it's positive, give her.
She's your girlfriend, not just a random babe

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Re: . by magabounce(m): 5:47am On Mar 17, 2017
Lmao!!!
U want free punny wfawt paying ko
Ma fren camman give her d 30k
U neva nack 30k commot frm d punny grin grin grin grin
Re: . by walearoy(m): 5:48am On Mar 17, 2017
lordreigneth:
what are u looking for on my thread
I said matured mind to comment only

You are still a baby

1. What am I looking for on your thread? - oga this is social media, when you own your own nairaland, PERSONALIZE IT! angry
2. I am still a baby? - So you who cannot decide if to give your said girlfriend a meger N30k, but need advice from social media is the matured person? I'll rather prefer to remain a baby, than to be matured like you. angry
3. God bless you grin

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Re: . by Nobody: 5:49am On Mar 17, 2017
Shey u don give your mama wey send you go school 30tasan this month?
Re: . by Cutehector(m): 5:55am On Mar 17, 2017
Ashleydolls:
Bros please be nice
If she has an alternative, she wouldn't be demanding it from you. Moreover you said she's been moody and she kept on crying. You should probably ascertain if what she wants to use the money for is real, carry out your findings and if it's positive, give her.
She's your girlfriend, not just a random babe
look a girl doesn't need to be all Moody and tear filled to demand cash...did someone in her family die?

We are men and we understand when we may be likely decieved or not.. Dats why he is trying to be careful. But nevertheless, its his money. And I have advised he should still give her.. Not because of those tears she is putting up..

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Re: . by wordbank(m): 6:01am On Mar 17, 2017
Guy e be like u no sleep cos of woman mata
See, woman mata na for shoulder dem dey carry am so if e heavy u, u troway am. If u carry am for heart na heart attack!
Just teach am How to fish, even Jesus do am.
As a waterside boy, I go say no dey dull urself
Re: . by Nobody: 6:06am On Mar 17, 2017
lordreigneth:
Hello all good morning all
Yesterday I visited my girlfriend in her house,
When I saw her she was in bad mood I asked her why and she began to narrate her story how broke she was and been unemployed after finishing her NCE
She was almost crying.....

Then I encouraged her.... I just met her not long and I love her so much but I don't like spending money on woman because they termed such men as mugun

She has already demanded 30k from me for a business she wants to do here in port Harcourt to make ends meet tho she is a Yoruba lady.

Not that I don't have the money but ladies at times termed such men as mugun u will think u are helping them but they go around showing their friends the mugun.
But when I visited her yesterday she almost broke into tears when narrating her ordeal... Should I give her the money or part of the money for her business or I shouldn't give her anything...... Pls urgent advice from matured minds... Thanks
Give her the money, ain't you the guy your wife steals from? I said it on that thread that you're stingy. See your lame excuse angry

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Re: . by banjicom(m): 6:07am On Mar 17, 2017
lordreigneth:


If I give her and termed it to something else nko?

Just do it for love bro, after all she is your girlfriend. She might be the one to help you tomorrow.

If you can afford to give her d money, please give it to her with all your mind and do not expect nothing in return, remember she is very broke at the moment. It will comes back to you in another way.

Besides 30k is nothing, i have seen foolish men and senseless guys spend more than 500k in clubs just in a single night.

Give if you feel like giving no strings attach and if u don't want to give just forget it. But expect nothing in return
Re: . by bustykasa(f): 6:18am On Mar 17, 2017
my dear give her d money afterall u love her as ur girlfriend...wat if she gets it from anoda man now u will say she has cheated or left u cuz of money
Re: . by osazeeiyeks(m): 6:19am On Mar 17, 2017
Give her the money. At times you have to have faith in people.
Re: . by firstking01(m): 6:33am On Mar 17, 2017
lordreigneth:


If I give her and termed it to something else nko?
Don't give her yet jor, it's just too early in the relationship to give a woman that kinda money...what of her people?, as an NCE holder she can work in the bank, help her search for job, i mean instead of giving her fish to eat teach her how to catch the fish herself...one major reason i said you shouldn't give her money yet is, you just met her according to you, if you start by giving her money then you 've layed the foundation of the relationship with money and she 'll be asking you of money at every interval of her wants....worst part is she's a ph girlundecided
Re: . by Nobody: 6:38am On Mar 17, 2017
firstking01:
Don't give her yet jor, it's just too early in the relationship to give a woman that kinda money...what of her people?, as an NCE holder she can work in the bank, help her search for job, i mean instead of giving her fish to eat teach her how to catch the fish herself...one major reason i said you shouldn't give her money yet is, you just met her according to you, if you start by giving her money then you 've layed the foundation of the relationship with money and she 'll be asking you of money at every interval of her wants....worst part is she's a ph girlundecided
angry as na ph girl, so make we fry beans?
Re: . by 7footre(m): 6:39am On Mar 17, 2017
The fvcks wrong with you man? You are married and shamelessly come here seeking advice about giving a side girl money?

You almost divorced your wife cos of 5k she transferred from your account but contemplating giving such amount to a side biatch .......

Don't let the devil use you Mr, act your age
Re: . by firstking01(m): 6:40am On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
angry as na ph girl, so make we fry beans?
Nope, fry semoundecided
Re: . by Nobody: 6:41am On Mar 17, 2017
firstking01:
Nope, fry semoundecided
He claimed to be married, what is he doing with the girl?

Re: . by firstking01(m): 6:43am On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
He claimed to be married, what is he doing with the girl?
Really?, cc lordreigneth are you married?
Re: . by Nobody: 6:44am On Mar 17, 2017
firstking01:
Really?, cc lordreigneth are you married?
See the screenshot
Re: . by firstking01(m): 6:46am On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
See the screenshot
Just saw it now, dam, and the wife might be at home crying of how the nigga is starving her financially??
Re: . by Nobody: 6:47am On Mar 17, 2017
firstking01:
Just saw it now, dam, and the wife might be at home crying of how the nigga is starving her financially??
She is stealing his money for upkeep. grin
Re: . by Cutehector(m): 6:50am On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
See the screenshot
hi detective
Re: . by Tazdroid(m): 6:53am On Mar 17, 2017
Did she "demand" the money or request for it because if it is the former, she should know that you haven't said your vows yet


Anyway, assist her in the best way you can. From each man according to his means
Re: . by Nobody: 6:55am On Mar 17, 2017
Cutehector:
hi detective
gringrin good morning
Re: . by firstking01(m): 6:56am On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
She is stealing his money for upkeep. grin
A wife stealing money from the husband kwo?, mehhn, that's the height of infidelity on the man's own side...but, on a more serious note, why would a man starve his wife financially?
Re: . by Cutehector(m): 6:57am On Mar 17, 2017
Oyind18:
gringrin good morning
I tire for ur matter...
Re: . by Nobody: 6:59am On Mar 17, 2017
firstking01:
A wife stealing money from the husband kwo?, mehhn, that's the height of infidelity on the man's own side...but, on a more serious note, why would a man starve his wife financially?
You can check the thread out

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