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busybeei5:

eipreel:
Madam I thought you've moved to Mars o

Toks2008:
I will only gist you if you are above 26 and single.

amokeme:
Am not above 26 Age is now a barrier for gist

Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day.

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

AngelsAndStars:
so? where there is likelihood of a negative outcome occurring it is only rational to be insecure. we've seen too much to ignore some hazards. don't speak as though insecurity is a sin. say something smarter.

Toks2008:
Lol!...you are not catching the drift....too bad...

AngelsAndStars:
so? where there is likelihood of a negative outcome occurring it is only rational to be insecure. we've seen too much to ignore some hazards. don't speak as though insecurity is a sin. say something smarter.

amokeme:
Ok then...
Would have loved to hear it tho.

Qhazel:
Hey, smartass! You lost those toothy grins somewhere. Loosen up!

Joavid:
You're a He-goat!

Iefosa:
Wow... I don't know how to react to this .

I have this Damn hot girl, she is super hot with wicked curves and all, we met in school started talking and things went smoothly. Started dated and boom everything was fine.. Even though she told she was single, I had to believe that lie and just pretend it's true.
But as time goes, events unfolds lol, first I noticed she is a phone freak, she with her phone up till 12, 1am at night. She doesn't allow me touch her, dare not go near her boobs lol, and when it's time to have sex have to plea plea and plea and we do just half round lol and she say it's OK let's sleep haha.

I also realized she is happier when I got stuffs on my way back from work, to save her from cooking, gosh she hates cooking, and the kitchen is always messed. I do dishes and all, man I was in love.

The last time I was at hers, I stumbled upon a letter from one of her admirers, and demanded to know who the person was, you should see her reaction and she was busy following about requesting me to give back the paper. Frankly I had nothing to do with the letter I was just trying to understand if that person was there that evening. She lied and said it happened along time ago, bla bla, she was searching for stuffs and found it in purse and dropped it on the table. She went to bed and slept. I was so tired, so I slept off too. When I woke in the money, I wanted to play with her a little before getting set for work, she screamed and ask me to stop. Then I realized she was mad about last night. I got ready, dropped her letter and left till this moment, she never wrote or called. Then it was crystal clear to me and I realized the following :

1. I was nevr her number one and would nevr be.

2.She seems happier and romantic only when I buy mds and BKs or kfcs.

3.Her phone always faced down when she is a compromising position lol

4. Our Sex life sucks

5. She never likes me, just the freebies and some hype from a friend that made her considered me.

Buttom line is guys, op is right, especially good, young successful guys, nice ass is great, the sensation is awesome, great boobs are awesome fr fantastic satisfaction... But But But, don't trade these for your self worth, goodness, intelligence, great cooks, serious minded. There are girls out there for us who are good cooks( I seriously need this one) intelligent( not a feminist type though) Atleast she knows what's going on around her, not just fb and snap chat. Good command of English, neat, personal hygiene. Gawd I learned a lot o

tspun:
Thanks, is almost as if that advice is for me.

All my life I have always wish to marry a slim girl with height. But now I am face with a short beautiful fair decent lovely girl who has showed me love more than anyone as ever done.

I love everything about her except her height. Am just praying for God to give me the grace to see pass that because I am tire of searching and i really want to settle down.

Toks2008:
Thank God you did not waste 13years with one as I did.

UjSizzle:
Wow. Are you for real?
Decent young women do not deserve randy men. They deserve as much peace of mind as the men you're advising here.

I can't even believe you wrote this nonsense.

Odunharry:
.Easy madam.. How's you today? Its been a while

zed7:
This i consider to be my free advice to young men who are single and successful.
Please stay away from a trophy wife. I know that it may seem cool to flaunt that beautiful girl around as your wife and you desire beautiful kids but most times, these flashy girls have too much attention and wouldn't hesitate to follow the next man even after marriage.

Marrying a beautiful girl does not in anyway guarantee a happy marriage. Most of these ladies don't care being single mothers because they know that they are beautiful and would always attract men.

The trend now is for ladies to get married, get a child and move on to the next man. They know your funds will guarantee their kids will have a decent life while they have the freedom to taste all the perks of singlehood. We should stop falling for these tricks.

There are many responsible women out there who might not be so attractive but they are willing to be married and stay married. Wealthy single guys should go for these girls, they guarantee a more stable home and peace of mind.

For the randy guys who can't keep it in their pants, after getting married to that decent girl, you can keep the flashy gold diggers as side chicks if you like. Like they say, you can't turn a ho to a house wife.

This is my free advice to all successful young dudes. Be wise, stay wise.

chimah3:
What an advice!!!

I'll pass!!

An ugly woman does not guarantee a good wife either!!


Only God can help you pick the right partner! And properly courting your partner before marriage to know their flaws and if you can keep up with them for the rest of your life!


I have a woman...she's fine as heaven and she's the best thing ever!!! So speak for yourself and stop giving misleading advices!

DLGUY:
A man who wants peace of mind shouldn't marry a woman who is too flashy because of the constant attention she'd get.

Except maybe he's getting into the marriage just for the show off.

Nothing beats having a happy and stable home without unnecessary intruders who come as admirers.

lefulefu:
lol there is a difference b/w a lady being too flashy and a lady just being beautiful.if for instance u with an attractive lady who only has eyes for u and loves u deeply..are u saying u will dump her just because ppl admire her? .brother any babe wey e dey her mind to cheat...admirer or no admirer dem go still nack am aphako .

lefulefu:
gbam!!!
i have seen ladies with demon-like ugliness with real nasty attitudes.op just have petty beef for beautiful ladies .

Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day.

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.....you nail it with the last word (physical appearance)

chimah3:
Lol! you Dey mind am! He won't say the fine girl that rejected him !

UjSizzle:
I'm fine, thank you.
How are you?

Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day.

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......