If you are successful young man getting married to a lady who genuinely loves you becomes very very difficult. Only God can help you find a woman who truly loves you. As much as we pretend there are many women around the truth is there are very few genuine ladies around who wouldn't end up with you cuz of money.

Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day.

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

Where have u been?
Have been searching for u for decades now.
Thank God the journey has come to end,
I ain't gonna let you slip again.........

DLGUY:

God bless you OP.

I wouldn't consider myself successful until I hit my first Billion.
But until then, I'm not even considering marrying any of these Olosho's.
Thank God I have some finess in my gene so I won't be worried about producing beautiful kids.

The woman who gave birth to me was and still is a damsel.

Thanks OP FOR this advice.

I bless God I never went on a date with that witch.
Apparently, there's a blessing in every dissappointment.

You truly can't turn a ho to a wife.

Bro it smells like you've got an interesting story to tell on how you dodged a witch

Blonchilli:

Bro it smells like you've got an interesting story to tell on how you dodged a witch

Bro I'm not interested in telling stories.
Just relieving my personal experience.

Blonchilli:

Jesu!!! Swear that's not you on your profile pic, your melanin is too much

amokeme:

Yeah you are correct. You see those "girls" that will be flocking around you like bees.. are exactly the kind you definitely deserve with this mentality. So it is a win win situation.

Actually, when you make the money as a man, you have varieties of girls to choose from... You ll be your own boss and making decision wouldn't be an issue for at all

Merceline:
you will definitely have bitches. but not true love or respectable ladies with class and intelligence. you will have yahoo girls and gold diggers

My dear, you are obviously not getting my point... Ladies come around when they are aware you've made it. Without money, there is absolutely nothing like love. No girl will stay around when as a guy you are a broke ass...

When you do have the money, they'll come around and the only problem you'll have is making decision. So you see, money answereth all things including women

TheSlyone2:
Make the money and see girls flock around you like bees...


Money over Bitches

Money answereth all things. Be wealthy, in the process, observe the lady who is real to you from the beginning(or middle of your process to wealth).
In you miss her then, you would overcome it though, but it would be a challenge to find a wife favoured of the Lord.

DLGUY:


Trust me.
She keeps saying she rejected me while I never really wanted her.

But I let her win just to uphold her dignity as a woman so I'll accept that she rejected me.

Leave those folk, sometimes I wonder why they struggle with men for equality. They should first of all deal with their indecisive, unstable, confused and fragile psychology. Those folk are highly unreliable.

Medunah:

Be shinning your teeth there abi

MrSly:

Leave those folk, sometimes I wonder why they struggle with men for equality. They should first of all deal with their indecisive, unstable, confused and fragile psychology. Those folk are highly unreliable.

That's the right word.
Unreliable.

Medunah:

Be shinning teeth

[quote author=Ezionye post=54733596][/quote] visit brothel and see ladies that sleep with hundred men per day.

tspun:
Thanks, is almost as if that advice is for me.

All my life I have always wish to marry a slim girl with height. But now I am face with a short beautiful fair decent lovely girl who has showed me love more than anyone as ever done.

I love everything about her except her height. Am just praying for God to give me the grace to see pass that because I am tire of searching and i really want to settle down.

Being a child of God is more than being born again. It is an awareness of God's presence in ours expressed in character and attitude.
God's character expressed in someone's life is the most important, physical beauties are the extras.
I hope God's grace enables you.

Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day.

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

This is why I have decided not to go for flashing beauty but very calm one with an average sweet body...I have learned a big lesson from my past affair.

Most hot ladies are useless and brainless...they think all that matters is their hot body with nothing else to offer.

Apologies to the hot and reasonable ones out there but the bad ones have given you all a terrible reputation...hot chic my foot

TheSlyone2:

Actually, when you make the money as a man, you have varieties of girls to choose from... You ll be your own boss and making decision wouldn't be an issue for at all

With the bold, I take it that money is the ONLY thing you can bring to the table then?
A reasonable woman won't date your kind for anything. So yeah, you only have the bee girls you talked about to choose from

OK... I will tell my brothers

amokeme:

With the bold, I take it that money is the ONLY thing you can bring to the table then?
A reasonable woman won't date your kind for anything. So yeah, you only have the bee girls you talked about to choose from

Do you seriously wanna do this? Are you aware of the vital role money plays in today's marriages? Do you know how many marriages have broken up as a result of the man not being able to fend for his family??

Now, as a man, you won't expect me to venture into marriage without having a stable income. Even the society at large will ridicule you if such happens...

Now, from your words, true love trumps money and material things... Are you serious right now?
How many marriages are built entirely on true love?

You seem like a lover gurl. Do I've got one question for you.. Can you marry a broke ass in the name of love?

That's a very wrong conclusion and hasty generalization. So I should become ugly to remain faithful? That's a big lie, anyone that wants to cheat will cheat whether beautiful / Ugly , poor or rich.

DLGUY:


How can someone I've never met before break my heart.

You all must be disillusioned to think ing such.

How do you even love or obsess over someone you've never met?

I wish you knew me better, you'd know I'm not even easilly impressed with women.

I only showered her with too much attention which got to her head and ofcourse she bailed out when she realised she wouldn't get what she wants from me.

The only thing I felt bad about was the fact that she was using my weakness against me.
Little did she know I'm way more than she thought I was.

I wish you knew how easy it is for me to get a girl but I choose not to waste my time and energy on them.

I was only trying to save the friendship we had but now I've realised she's not even worth the effort after seeing her.

Don't be fooled by the pictures, most of them don't look anything near the photo filters.


Heart broken my foot.

Sometimes people wonder why I'm still single at this age and most times I just want to keep mum because wettin dey after number 6 pass 7.

Most of these hot ladies are bad news and are better left to be used and dumped by as many randy guys as possible...rather than for them to strive to be fulfilled, they tend to look for guys that can buy them...for the sake of respect for my ex I would have pasted some crazy conversations we had which opened my eyes to the fact that most hot girls are disasters and a waste of time and resources....this is why you see the not too hot babes getting married to sweet dudes while the useless hot ones remain single till menopause catch up on them and most of them who are lucky to be married usually get dumped by the husband.

Sometimes I think a woman's outward beauty can be a curse on her if not we'll managed.

Mountbatten:
Smart men don't get married in this day and age due to how messed up modern women have become. In today's society, marriage only benefits women with the divorce laws, child support and alimony.

I am yet to meet someone who can tell me the point of getting married. If it's for having kids, you can either adopt or get a surrogate without getting married.

A single man can chose how to spend his money and time. If you can't keep your little head down then there's escorts or women of the night to take care of that. Most women today aren't worth marrying hence the high divorce and cheating rate.

Cristiano Ronaldo and Leonardo Di Caprio are examples of smart men.

But thise divorce laws don't apply in Nigeria. They are used in the states anf other Western countries. I think in Nigeria, once there is a divorce, the woman goes back to her father's house and she pays back the bride price. I think its different.

elantraceey:
That's a very wrong conclusion and hasty generalization. So I should become ugly to remain faithful? That's a big lie, anyone that wants to cheat will cheat whether beautiful / Ugly , poor or rich.

This is the line most of them use to hide their nature but only very few are truly different and I hope you are not one of the bad ones.

Mountbatten:
Smart men don't get married in this day and age due to how messed up modern women have become. In today's society, marriage only benefits women with the divorce laws, child support and alimony.

I am yet to meet someone who can tell me the point of getting married. If it's for having kids, you can either adopt or get a surrogate without getting married.

A single man can chose how to spend his money and time. If you can't keep your little head down then there's escorts or women of the night to take care of that. Most women today aren't worth marrying hence the high divorce and cheating rate.

Cristiano Ronaldo and Leonardo Di Caprio are examples of smart men.

But for the fact that I am a believer in Christ who hates sexual immorality, I will never go near that scam called marriage.

Too many sweet ladies willing to go down with you and you have all your freedom without any emotional attachment but how can I explain to God my reason for sleeping with different ladies....sone times I wish there is no commandment against indiscriminate sx.

Toks2008:


This is the line most of them use to hide their nature but only very few are truly different and I hope you are not one of the bad ones.

An average looking girl today can become a 'hot chic' tomorrow when good money is involved so the difference is some choose to be extravagant and showcase their 'body' while others don't. If you really know the kind of lady you want it won't be difficult finding the 'different' one.


As for question, what difference will a yes or no make? You'll still believe and conclude whatever you want to.

there's nothing like love. go get yourself money. and fvck bad girls as you like.

Ok we successful guys done hear, we go look deeper now....

Ok we successful guys done hear. We go look deeper....

elantraceey:



An average looking girl today can become a 'hot chic' tomorrow when good money is involved so the difference is some choose to be extravagant and showcase their 'body' while others don't. If you really know the kind of lady you want it won't be difficult finding the 'different' one.


As for question, what difference will a yes or no make? You'll still believe and conclude whatever you want to.

I don't know your definition of a "hot chic" but a hot lady will be hot even in her poor state.

DLGUY:


E no even concern me because I know they are 90% lies.

Bro. I went through your posts and realised who you are. It yaff do na. Since last year, you still ranting about this same chick. You know, not every girl will want us. You said it yourself that you ain't obsessed. So stop making it look like you are.

Haba!
Garri ijebu on my mind.