kimbra:
All I see here is your sister's desperation to be the guy's wife. He said he isn't ready for marriage, why not free him and channel your energy on other important things. 28 isn't old my dear!. Who said she won't meet any guy with high sperm quality?.

Trick him to marry you and have yourself to blame latter!.

dis is one of the best comment I have hear from a girl u said d right tin u know most times girls all dey want is to get married that wat dey want d guy is not reday yet but or na one fore am not good at all abeg help me tell them

Ask your sister to sit down in private and picture herself with this boyfriend in the next 10, 20, 30 yrs, is he the type of person she will like to spend the rest of her life with ? If her answer is Yes, then advise her to call her boyfriend and sit down and ask about his plans about their relationship. The boy is clearly financially handicapped and is so confused to even start discussing marriage, in a country where the men are laddened with family problems. The boy will obviously complain about the finances and the rest of the issues and these are real issues. If the boy is sincerely not buoyant enough to make promises, considering the fact that promises are free in nature, then it is time to take the love away from her heart, and put the love in her head.

Buhari is the President, unfortunately, so every plan is worth careful consideration.

jashar:
She should free the guy jare.

She can get pregnant through IVF or other means with sperm from her own husband after she marry.

A guy that is not ready is not ready. You can't change that fact. When a guy is ready to settle with a lady, the lady would know. There won't be need for games and manipulations.

My humble opinion.

One more thing, could she please stop sleeping with guys she ain't married to?
It's not the best really.

So ladies shouldn't sleep with their boyfriends except he marries her... really !


A woman with such mind set should just marry herself
.

Your sister MUST not trick the guy to marry her, for other questions........





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ItsQuinn:
Tell your sister to dump the motherfvcker!
She should move on with her life, she can adopt, it's not hard

You make a hell of sense

Cocaineaddict according to you,let him without sin cast the first stone.who made you judge over her?do you think your opinion counts if she is olosho according to your fucking understanding explains to you?go to hell because you are a nobody to pass such judgement on her,go solve your own wahala before pointing another fellow. I don't think you have siblings and even if you does please have you been opportune to no who she really is?don't you Bleep other people sister or maybe you are GAY from what am seeing here,look let me tell you and hold your ears before you open your gutter and talk watch,check and balance yourself big fool. back to your question my good brother,from everything you are seeing here the guy is not ready and before your will end the relationship please let her seat the guy down and ask him if he is ready to settle down, yes it sounds some how but bro,she have to do it for her future sake. For the problem she is having,my dear there is a solution to everything now,nowadays if your husband can't impregnate you,doctors are available to do sperm transplant, please tell her to hold on and be strong and check another good hospital and a good doctor all the best to you and your Family.don't let anybody talk your sister down not even this devils,not even this sheep's in wolve clothen..

JustinSlayer69:
Oh yes...your sister will for sure.

I have a terrible "friend". He has done 10 abortions that i know of. What of the unknowns?

Bachelor @ 40... why won't Karma deal with him?

Back to your sis... I know of a guy nicknamed Mr Fertilizer in school. Impregnated 3 gals within a space of months

PS- Contact members of the Vaseline crew, they abound here



BUSTED - YOU ARE YOUR SISTER. YOU POSTED YOUR AGE IN YOUR ANOTHER STORY

This is a true nairalander. I was also looking at the story. I was smelling that its coming directly from the narator itself. Well I won't blame her she always only to cover her I.d very well

Roon9:
Someday a person would just open nairaland and see his life history. Shuuuu

Hope you haven't seen your life history cause I've seen one similar to mine lol

From all indications,your sista has not truely found her own Man(Matthew19vs4)she should keep on searching,thereafter take spiritual/giant step b4 spreading out her legs.
(2)Your sister has a very rear blood group/genotype,i wont declare her blood group/genotype on air for security reasons and it will take her replica or carbon copy precisely to impregnate her easily...Note-she will even concieved moment she engage in her first sexual intercourse with him when she comes across him or when she comes across a Man with same blood/genotype.
Warning-True/Real love is in the Blood not beauty,stature or pocket.
(3)Your sister is a deity(superhuman)there4 her blood is unique,special and very rear...nevertheless,there is a special Man 4 her but her Man may not be acceptable to her in reality but if she could summon her courage and accept the Man whole heartedly,her end shall be better than her begining.
(4)None of the men approaching her presently is truely her's...they just want to have their own part of her honey-pot and will later dump her which will be more painfull,there4 she should seize up for now and wait patiently.

For more informations,add me on whatsapp(08033795232).

Dis your fabu no dey hard oooo.

Dr said only one percent of men have the kind of sper.m? Huh, that your dr and you are of the same sense measure!

Hwever if it's true, consult another dr, some drs are highly questionable. Some of dem tell fabus.

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JustinSlayer69:
Oh yes...your sister will for sure.

I have a terrible "friend". He has done 10 abortions that i know of. What of the unknowns?

Bachelor @ 40... why won't Karma deal with him?

Back to your sis... I know of a guy nicknamed Mr Fertilizer in school. Impregnated 3 gals within a space of months

PS- Contact members of the Vaseline crew, they abound here



BUSTED - YOU ARE YOUR SISTER. YOU POSTED YOUR AGE IN YOUR ANOTHER STORY

We know that but for now let's just play along and pretend we didn't know mr Daniel belong to the 1% of men with that rare sperm volume and count of a zebra according to the quack who told her that.Imagine her sister divulging all these information to her!

To the topic, don't hide whatever medical condition that you have if you are going into marriage. That's fraud and don't let the pressures from your parents force you to do what you'd regret later. At 29-30 or even beyond that, it's not late to get married. Build yourself and learn to love and appreciate you first. Daniel isn't the only tall, handsome and pretty boy out there. If he has got the sperm count of a zebra, there are lots of intelligent men out there with high quality 'colostrum'. I don't know where you doctor got that '1%' statistics from. Tell him a guy from nairaland called him quack.

Every woman has her own MAN...find yours 2day(Genesis2vs21-24/Matthew19vs4!!!

alan333:
From all indications,your sista has not truely found her own Man(Matthew19vs4)she should keep on searching,thereafter take spiritual/giant step b4 spreading out her legs.
(2)Your sister has a very rear blood group/genotype,i wont declare her blood group/genotype on air for security reasons and it will take her replica or carbon copy precisely to impregnate her easily...Note-she will even concieved moment she engage in her first sexual intercourse with him when she comes across him or when she comes across a Man with same blood/genotype.
Warning-True/Real love is in the Blood not beauty,stature or pocket.
(3)Your sister is a deity(superhuman)there4 her blood is unique,special and very rear...nevertheless,there is a special Man 4 her but her Man may not be acceptable to her in reality but if she could summon her courage and accept the Man whole heartedly,her end shall be better than her begining.
(4)None of the men approaching her presently is truely her's...they just want to have their own part of her honey-pot and will later dump her which will be more painfull,there4 she should seize up for now and wait patiently.

For more informations,add me on whatsapp(08033795232).

alan333:
From all indications,your sista has not truely found her own Man(Matthew19vs4)she should keep on searching,thereafter take spiritual/giant step b4 spreading out her legs.
(2)Your sister has a very rear blood group/genotype,i wont declare her blood group/genotype on air for security reasons and it will take her replica or carbon copy precisely to impregnate her easily...Note-she will even concieved moment she engage in her first sexual intercourse with him when she comes across him or when she comes across a Man with same blood/genotype.
Warning-True/Real love is in the Blood not beauty,stature or pocket.
(3)Your sister is a deity(superhuman)there4 her blood is unique,special and very rear...nevertheless,there is a special Man 4 her but her Man may not be acceptable to her in reality but if she could summon her courage and accept the Man whole heartedly,her end shall be better than her begining.
(4)None of the men approaching her presently is truely her's...they just want to have their own part of her honey-pot and will later dump her which will be more painfull,there4 she should seize up for now and wait patiently.

For more informations,add me on whatsapp(08033795232).

Sir, are you that man? I'm sure you have an idea who that 'man' is and what he is doing at the moment.

that doctor is a fake one....you cannot force a man to marry a woman by force. what one got from the corner of the pot ends in the corner of the mouth.

ItsQuinn:
Tell your sister to dump the motherfvcker!
She should move on with her life, she can adopt, it's not hard

he is not a mudafvcker pls..

if your sister belief in God . God will do it

let your sister husband come to prayer center church of God .Km7 Adofure Idanre Road Akure on first of next month for automatic miracle hour .his life will never be d same . is your Sister husband is in Osun state? if is yes this church is doing crusade program in Oshogbo at freedom park 5 pm till 9pm

One, she had an ectopic pregnancy

Two, she has PCOS

Three, if she doesn't love herboyfriend, she should let him go. She can not be dating someone because she "thinks" his sperm count is over the roof. That's deceptive abeg. Who even said one with HIGH sperm quality "only" can impregnate her? Women with PCOS take in and give birth all the time. It's just a lil difficult for them but with some treatments, there's hope. Desperation can make one make wrong decisions.

http://www.webmd.com/women/tc/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos-topic-overview

Why do so many women think that pregnancy by deception is a good idea?

Why did you call me into this conversation wey no concern me?

schumastic:


she didn't just sleep with random guys she is not married to, she was in a relationship with them..
Sister Mary next time drop your advice n stop being judgemental cus I doubt u r a saint either.

Lmao! Epic

soberdrunk:
We cant be sure if she will find another guy with 'super' sperm but we are sure of two things, your sisters 'generosity' and her dislike for condoms

Lmao..no chill at all.

I can't even discuss such with my sister. Lol

cocaineaddict:
your sister na highway olosho. She get mind tell u say she do abortion and as different men de take Bleep am raw and u jus de listen

If your sis is hot and ready you should enroll her for my sperm resettlement programme....where I dash beautiful women copious amounts of sperm free of charge...no need to thank me, give all the glory to Gad, freely he gave and freely I share

ak22:
if your sister belief in God . God will do it

let your sister husband come to prayer center church of God .Km7 Adofure Idanre Road Akure on first of next month for automatic miracle hour .his life will never be d same . is your Sister husband is in Osun state? if is yes this church is doing crusade program in Oshogbo at freedom park 5 pm till 9pm

Scented come and see advert ohhhh... Automatic miracle awaits your sister(Abi na you sef).
Oya send him a PM kia kia!!!

GogobiriLalas:
If your sis is hot and ready you should enroll her for my sperm resettlement programme....where I dash beautiful women copious amounts of sperm free of charge...no need to thank me, give all the glory to Gad, freely he gave and freely I share

Werey....

Scented:
I asked for the ladies in the house to help me out with advice because I feel they would know better in such a situation. Men who may have ideas can also contribute.

I will try and be short as possible. My sis turns 28 this year. She has been down emotionally for some time now and she is very close to me and it has made me down too.

My sis has been dating this guy for about two years now, the guy is 28/29 years I think. She got pregnant for this guy about a year ago, the guy was not ready for marriage and they decided to abort it. Along the line she wanted to keep the baby though, but a medical condition stopped her from keeping the baby. The doctor said the baby was growing outside the womb with complications and an operation to abort the pregnancy was needed even if she didn't want an abortion in the first place. Two other hospitals confirmed this through scan.

Also, another shocking revelation was discovered, the doctor said she has a medical issue which would make it kind of difficult for her to conceive easily, that she needs a man with a very very high sperm count for her to take in and the chances are slim because just about 1% of men have such rare high sperm count. This meant the guy she is dating has the rare high sperm count and she attested to this because she said of the previous 2 guys she has dated before him, they at some time engaged in sex without protection and she never had taken in before, but as for this guy in question the very first time they had unprotected sex she took in for him. She didn't reveal what the doctor told her to her guy though. Just her and myself know about her medical condition. The doctor even suggested she sticks to her guy because there is slim possibility of finding another man with such high sperm count. The doctor even asked that guy enrol for sperm donation in fertility clinics as his type of sperm count is in high demand and rare. The guy doesn't stay in the same city with her so he couldn't be around during the abortion process and the doctor couldn't tell him any of these revelations.


After the abortion she and the guy have still been dating, although they don't stay in the same city. She said they guy loves her but he is not directly clear about wanting to marry her anytime soon. This dude is the tall and very handsome type and I sometime see him as a playboy because he gets a lot of attention from ladies but my sister says she has never seen any red flag to suspect he has ever cheated on her and he respects and cares for her like a responsible man. I presume the guy still being young for a man(28/29 years) and very handsome doesn't feel its right time to get married but its not the case for my sister as she is turning 28 years soon. For what I know between her and the guy, they love each other deeply but the dude is just not ready yet to get married, both of them are working but the dude isn't too comfortable yet, but at least comfortable enough to get married if he is serious. The dude isn't just saying anything about settling down at all!

Now here are the questions I need to ask the ladies in the house to help me;

1-Should my sister tell the dude everything? Would this make him more emotional towards her and consider marrying her soon or he would feel he is doing my sister a favour in marrying her?

2-Should my sister consider breaking off with him and giving a chance to other serious suitors? She is very beautiful and has a job and men keep asking her hand in marriage everyday. Remember the doctor said her medical condition makes it hard for her to conceive and needs a man with very high sperm count, can she find a man with that rare high sperm count in the other men asking her hand in marriage? The doctor said just about 1% of men have such and if you do the maths the possibility of finding another man with such is very low in probability.

3- Should she try to make the guy get her pregnant again and based on the fact she has had an abortion before for him he would not have the guts to request she aborts it again and would be forced to make marriage plans? Ever since she had the abortion about a year ago the guy and her have become very strict towards unprotected sex, she says they don't even make the mistake to try it again. But we know as a lady she can have her way with him if she really wants to get pregnant. Mind you she may get pregnant but it would not be that easy from my family side because my dad has said he would not give his blessings to any of his daughters who gets pregnant before wedlock.

4-Married ladies, is there a way a woman can smartly make a man consider marrying her faster? Are they any tricks to making a man more eager to marrying you or are there proven ways to push a man who has cold feet towards getting married? Please has any lady been in such a situation before and know what to act accordingly? Please help a sister out.

Thank you all!

She must go see a priestess and woman healer to cure her issue. Especially one that is a priestess of the Moon Goddess Oya.

Sister over sabi... You want your sister to Trick a guy to marry her.. Because of her selfish intereste... Or personal interest. Your 28yr old sister to trick a 27yr old guy that is not ready...maybe because. No job, no house, noting.. Mugu never pay.

How do you know the guy love her?? They're just sexx mate.

I will give you one killing advice.

She have to play a game... Since men do ask her hand in marriage...

All she need to do is to agree to one... And Get a wedding date .

go and get pregnant from this guy....
The guy will be the father of the first child Without him or the husband knowing.

Right after that she can be trying with her husband.. If after some time she did not take in.. She can go back to this guy and get the 2ND child.

Life goes on.

Adoption no dey again?

gonorrhea is the number one cause of ectopic pregnacy

Your sister has been suffering from untreated gonorhea for decades

all you mention is black mail,see why women always end up in trouble,you want to force the man to marry you because of a problem that you have,then at the end you call the man an animal and all kind of name.i have said this and i keep saying it women are naturally wicked auto default setting.if you know he is not ready for marriage why then try to make his life miserable just to satisfy your desires

Scented:
I asked for the ladies in the house to help me out with advice because I feel they would know better in such a situation. Men who may have ideas can also contribute.

I will try and be short as possible. My sis turns 28 this year. She has been down emotionally for some time now and she is very close to me and it has made me down too.

My sis has been dating this guy for about two years now, the guy is 28/29 years I think. She got pregnant for this guy about a year ago, the guy was not ready for marriage and they decided to abort it. Along the line she wanted to keep the baby though, but a medical condition stopped her from keeping the baby. The doctor said the baby was growing outside the womb with complications and an operation to abort the pregnancy was needed even if she didn't want an abortion in the first place. Two other hospitals confirmed this through scan.

Also, another shocking revelation was discovered, the doctor said she has a medical issue which would make it kind of difficult for her to conceive easily, that she needs a man with a very very high sperm count for her to take in and the chances are slim because just about 1% of men have such rare high sperm count. This meant the guy she is dating has the rare high sperm count and she attested to this because she said of the previous 2 guys she has dated before him, they at some time engaged in sex without protection and she never had taken in before, but as for this guy in question the very first time they had unprotected sex she took in for him. She didn't reveal what the doctor told her to her guy though. Just her and myself know about her medical condition. The doctor even suggested she sticks to her guy because there is slim possibility of finding another man with such high sperm count. The doctor even asked that guy enrol for sperm donation in fertility clinics as his type of sperm count is in high demand and rare. The guy doesn't stay in the same city with her so he couldn't be around during the abortion process and the doctor couldn't tell him any of these revelations.


After the abortion she and the guy have still been dating, although they don't stay in the same city. She said they guy loves her but he is not directly clear about wanting to marry her anytime soon. This dude is the tall and very handsome type and I sometime see him as a playboy because he gets a lot of attention from ladies but my sister says she has never seen any red flag to suspect he has ever cheated on her and he respects and cares for her like a responsible man. I presume the guy still being young for a man(28/29 years) and very handsome doesn't feel its right time to get married but its not the case for my sister as she is turning 28 years soon. For what I know between her and the guy, they love each other deeply but the dude is just not ready yet to get married, both of them are working but the dude isn't too comfortable yet, but at least comfortable enough to get married if he is serious. The dude isn't just saying anything about settling down at all!

Now here are the questions I need to ask the ladies in the house to help me;

1-Should my sister tell the dude everything? Would this make him more emotional towards her and consider marrying her soon or he would feel he is doing my sister a favour in marrying her?

2-Should my sister consider breaking off with him and giving a chance to other serious suitors? She is very beautiful and has a job and men keep asking her hand in marriage everyday. Remember the doctor said her medical condition makes it hard for her to conceive and needs a man with very high sperm count, can she find a man with that rare high sperm count in the other men asking her hand in marriage? The doctor said just about 1% of men have such and if you do the maths the possibility of finding another man with such is very low in probability.

3- Should she try to make the guy get her pregnant again and based on the fact she has had an abortion before for him he would not have the guts to request she aborts it again and would be forced to make marriage plans? Ever since she had the abortion about a year ago the guy and her have become very strict towards unprotected sex, she says they don't even make the mistake to try it again. But we know as a lady she can have her way with him if she really wants to get pregnant. Mind you she may get pregnant but it would not be that easy from my family side because my dad has said he would not give his blessings to any of his daughters who gets pregnant before wedlock.

4-Married ladies, is there a way a woman can smartly make a man consider marrying her faster? Are they any tricks to making a man more eager to marrying you or are there proven ways to push a man who has cold feet towards getting married? Please has any lady been in such a situation before and know what to act accordingly? Please help a sister out.

Thank you all!

Dont belief that 1% shit!
Na so i was told in mid 2015 but within 2weeks after our wedding i impregnanted her though she had miscarriage after 3mnths, but now our baby boy is about 3mnths old.
So my advice here is tel her to give green light to any guy she is comfortable with & forgt her ex