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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ayesco202(m): 8:55pm On Apr 05, 2017
paulavon:


It is quite deep, it takes a lot of maturity and sense of forgiveness to do this. Even my wife died not want to hear anything about them, she was very angry with them. But she did not believe the first guy will request for my CV and give me a good job.
You are right sir. It really takes a lot of maturity and a sense of forgiveness. I seem to have this malicious character I exhibit whenever someone offends or hurts me. Though, deep within me, I still care but I just distance myself and this has become a part of me. I reunited with one this evening on whatApp and I think it is cool. I've really learnt something worthwhile from you sir. Thank you very much.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2017
paulavon:
Never cut off anyone from your life or burn the bridges of friendship even if they have done You wrong in the past.

A guy who stole my money amounting to 700k,after some years helped me to get a high paying job in an international oil and gas company.

Another friend who I borrowed some money and refused to pay, he later helped in linking me up with a good business deal.

So in life you learn from past mistakes but still maintain contact.

Life has also taught me not to envy anyone I see in the day because I don't know what they do at night.

Sometimes u just have to cut off some people from ur life because there no need to stick with people who will hurt, use, dump u even family members. I did it and it helped. That's one thing that life has taught me. #positive vibes....

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by kannyluv(f): 8:58pm On Apr 05, 2017
Tosbi:
Thats because they truly love you and don't want you derailed... You won't appreciate it now but will when you grow and get married. Trust me, as a female child they have really done well for you to preserve you cos i would equally do same to my female kids too.

Your future husband would appreciate these more and be grateful to them.

...they made me stay indoor is not as a result of giving me home training or parental training.......my people are wicked and friends ..NO COMMENT.....just me & my God
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by OkuFaba(m): 9:21pm On Apr 05, 2017
Trust no man. Even the pastor or Rev. Fr in ur church. I've experience shits i cant say even in the next 50yrs to come
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by messiedidylakes(f): 9:32pm On Apr 05, 2017
that it's not about how far but how well, that not all that smile to the camera are truly Happy, that what will be will be, that life is what you see it to be, that God's timing is different from man timing, that your life is more amazing that you thought it is while those you wish to be like you might be better than.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by montezz(f): 10:15pm On Apr 05, 2017
Never trust a man. No matter how perfect they may seem lol.
Life owes you nothing. Don't get angry when someone who does less achieve more. Life is never fair.
Never rely on anyone.
Always choose to be happy with or without anyone.
Enjoy life....work smart....travel and love.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Sike(m): 10:28pm On Apr 05, 2017
And Finaly, Remember To Always Follow Ur Heart.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by mctowel01: 10:28pm On Apr 05, 2017
maasoap:

Short and simple but hard fact. I learned this when my wife won US Visa Lottery 2013, last edition for Nigerians.
Since then, I understood that no one owed me anything.
Sorry about it. Can you please share and enlighten us on what transpired after getting the visa?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Boboye4slim(m): 10:45pm On Apr 05, 2017
Alero3Arubi:

I just can't pretend and its costing me my happiness right now. But by God I'm learning that for the next time. And lying too. God knows I've tried to be very real.
I tell you! but they'd think you're forming or being selfish

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Boboye4slim(m): 10:45pm On Apr 05, 2017
Alero3Arubi:

I just can't pretend and its costing me my happiness right now. But by God I'm learning that for the next time. And lying too. God knows I've tried to be very real.
I tell you! but they'd think you're forming or being selfish

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by babilicious: 10:45pm On Apr 05, 2017
That life outside God is meaningless for me
As a woman never to have another woman as my best friend
trust God always, study my bible and pray persistently
show love to all

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Dankamaru(m): 11:33pm On Apr 05, 2017
The more you know with clarity who you are, the less vulnerable you are to what other people will say and think about you.
Be yourself...It's all about you not about them.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Mzsolmi(f): 11:57pm On Apr 05, 2017
kannyluv:
it makes me cry when I hear people talking positively about their family.......mine is a different case..........I knew not the joy of a family.....Is it because my parents are no more?. Sad mood activated
awwww...sorry sweedy,I totally feel yo pain.I only lost my dad and it felt like the world should just end talk more of loosing both...Ha! I go just kuku die join them. be strong dear and work hard for a better,sweet and comfortable future, they gon be happy and proud of you wherever they are.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by SupaTee: 12:35am On Apr 06, 2017
DON'T NEAR PON..... NOT TO TALK OF ZI
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Nobody: 12:36am On Apr 06, 2017
Be careful with who you let get close, because they're a backstabbers distance away.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by centboy123456(m): 1:09am On Apr 06, 2017
ephi123:


Generally in life, I have found it actually works out better not to mention certain things you have in mind until after it's done. That eliminates the noise and distraction from people around.
Whatever step it is you are about taking, I will encourage you to be strong and go for it. I wish you the best.



think u very much u just gave me something that nobody have ever gave me am going hold on these words Godbless u

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by BBBlaze: 3:48am On Apr 06, 2017
Dont trust anyone, not even yourself!
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by kenx1(m): 3:56am On Apr 06, 2017
Never to trust anybody...if u wana succeed stay clear from your family
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ABOKI9ja: 4:53am On Apr 06, 2017
montezz:
Never trust a man. No matter how perfect they may seem lol.
Life owes you nothing. Don't get angry when someone who does less achieve more. Life is never fair.
Never rely on anyone.
Always choose to be happy with or without anyone.
Enjoy life....work smart....travel and love.
I agree with all ur point except first line point
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by Schwartz: 6:21am On Apr 06, 2017
ayesco202:
You are right sir. It really takes a lot of maturity and a sense of forgiveness. I seem to have this malicious character I exhibit whenever someone offends or hurts me. Though, deep within me, I still care but I just distance myself and this has become a part of me. I reunited with one this evening on whatApp and I think it is cool. I've really learnt something worthwhile from you sir. I'm sorry about the demise of your wife. Thank you very much.
I think it was a typo
He wanted to type did not died
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by maasoap(m): 7:45am On Apr 06, 2017
mctowel01:

Sorry about it. Can you please share and enlighten us on what transpired after getting the visa?
Ha, my brother refused to help. Her brother refused to help. Na so the we lost the opportunity.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by paulavon: 7:57am On Apr 06, 2017
ayesco202:
You are right sir. It really takes a lot of maturity and a sense of forgiveness. I seem to have this malicious character I exhibit whenever someone offends or hurts me. Though, deep within me, I still care but I just distance myself and this has become a part of me. I reunited with one this evening on whatApp and I think it is cool. I've really learnt something worthwhile from you sir. I'm sorry about the demise of your wife. Thank you very much.

I am glad my write up is having a positive impact on you. I was like you when I was younger, I hardly forgive but as I grow older I realized keeping grudges against someone do have a negative impact on me.
I have modified my previous post, my wife is not dead, I wanted to write "did".
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ayesco202(m): 8:01am On Apr 06, 2017
paulavon:


I am glad my write up is having a positive impact on you. I was like you when I was younger, I hardly forgive but as I grow older I realized keeping grudges against someone do have a negative impact on me.
I have modified my previous post, my wife is not dead, I wanted to write "did".
I have also modified mine too. Goodmorning
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ayesco202(m): 8:01am On Apr 06, 2017
Schwartz:

I think it was a typo
He wanted to type did not died
Modified.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by makasimatics(m): 9:32am On Apr 06, 2017
kannyluv:
......Oh my God.friends and family had made me to remain indoor and stick with my small phone..from school to house,from house to church,from house market.nothing more.......

Na so oooo!!!!
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by debuscket(m): 9:44am On Apr 06, 2017
Always use condom
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ben4ever(m): 12:32pm On Apr 06, 2017
Chubhie:
That we are all super humans but only if we awake to this reality.

Everyone in your life this very moment is cosmically rigged for a "role"

We Are All One.
Do you have evidence or anything that supports it
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by montezz(f): 2:05pm On Apr 06, 2017
ABOKI9ja:
I agree with all ur point except first line point
U again?
The first line is 100℅ true fa
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ABOKI9ja: 3:15pm On Apr 06, 2017
montezz:

U again?
The first line is 100℅ true fa
it is 100 False, we are not the same and we cant be the same
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by montezz(f): 3:16pm On Apr 06, 2017
ABOKI9ja:
it is 100 False, we are not the same and we cant be the same
I hear.
How are you?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson Life Has Taught You? by ABOKI9ja: 3:22pm On Apr 06, 2017
montezz:

I hear.
How are you?
fyn n u?

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