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Neozy:
Well I can't do any shit for any girl that is not yet my wife. Girls are not to be trusted, most of them have more than one boyfriend. Each for different purpose, they can be collecting money and gift from one and be using the other has errand boy and another one to be helping them with assignments and have another one that they genuily love. If you happen to fall into category one she will store your number with 'my atm' category 2 'my helper'. Guys should take note.
My humble opinion.

So, knowing the above, how can you find a wifey if you distrust every women? Because the only other options are start dating men OR masturbate for the rest of your life?!

MrBrownJay1:
So, knowing the above, how can you find a wifey if you distrust every women? Because the only other options are start dating men OR masturbate for the rest of your life?!

This got me

MrBrownJay1:
So, knowing the above, how can you find a wifey if you distrust every women? Because the only other options are start dating men OR masturbate for the rest of your life?!

I would definitely marry but i won't put my heart until the day of marriage to avoid stories that touch the heart. And by the way I'm not gay and i will never be one and i have never masturbated in my life and i will never cos it's shit to me.

ruggedised:
my companion(lover) asked me to help clean her apartment, I felt bad and wasn't normal for me to due to my ego, but I managed to help her fixed her apartment because of my love for her. Hope I have not let myself down before her and she won't be seeing me as an errand boy or as a house help.

Guys can you do that for your lover if she have tight schedules due to her work

I need serious advise please, I felt I may lose my value/respect for doing that.
NO INSULTS PLEASE

And what is wrong with that? If you feel your self-worth will diminish because you helped a lady clean her place (be it gf or just friend), then you have self-esteem issues. After all ordinary female friends help clean my place, it won't kill me to return such favours.

Wait... why do some men have misplaced ego? In fact how does your ego get affected by engaging in a 'calorie-burning' exercise if you can?

Big smh for you

Neozy:
I would definitely marry but i won't put my heart until the day of marriage to avoid stories that touch the heart. And by the way I'm not gay and i will never be one and i have never masturbated in my life and i will never cos it's shit to me.

And what difference will the day of marriage make to the whole situation you have built up in your own mind?

Innocent question: how old are you?

NB: you lied about 'never masturbating'... you can lie to everyone, but you can't lie to yourself and your God.

Neozy:
I would definitely marry but i won't put my heart until the day of marriage to avoid stories that touch the heart. And by the way I'm not gay and i will never be one and i have never masturbated in my life and i will never cos it's shit to me.

So you won't love, trust, nor respect (I guess) a woman during dating, and suddenly as soon as you marry her, love/trust/respect will flourish miraculously?!

Sadly, know that the same woman you have prior to marriage, is the same you will get after marriage, if not worse. Its highly unusual for women to get "better" after marriage.