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I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:07pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
hello everyone. am dating a lady who we are neigbours. but there is a big problem that i need your advice. first, her step-brother had carnal knowledge of my 13yrs old sibling. after some time, as if it was not enough, her younger brother also had sexx with the same 13yrs old sibling of mine. they were doing all this in retaliatiation. my mum and my grandmothe like this lady am dating and wants me to marry her. recently, my grandmother visited d parents of this lady am dating. she told them of her desire, nd they welcom the idea. when my grandmother return, she sat me down, told me dat she want me 2 marry d lady. i told her am not ready for marriage, beside dat, am still dependant. she told me dat my dad is there to support, that both my mum and my dad are only waiting for my approval. all effort to get me in was negative. my problm now is, i want to quit the relationship, i can't marry a lady whose brothers had sexx with my 13yrs old sibling just to retalite. hw do i tell her ?? |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Epositive(m): 11:12pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
how old are the brothers? (both step and elevator ) let's start from here |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Nobody: 11:14pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:18pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Epositive:they 20+ nd 17 respectively |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by smartanthony5: 11:21pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
be honest with them.speak up tell them whot happend. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:25pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
smartanthony5:everxbody both in my family nd her own ar aware of everytin. they want me to forgive nd forget. bt am nt d type to forget its part of me. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Epositive(m): 11:26pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Fmartin:which means they can be called adults..... how did you find out ? i mean did ur sibling tell you about it? don't mind questions o , i just want to clarify somethings before i conclude |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by SuperSuave(m): 11:27pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Retaliation for what? For having sex with their sister too? How old are you? What nonsense is that sef? Is your sibling stupid? Was she raped? Are the boys mad? Are you okay yourself? So you can't handle a 20yrs old boy yourself? How old are you again sef? 1 Like
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Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Nobody: 11:30pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
13yrs having sex! my God when I was that age I nor even know wetin be 'S' talkless of 'EX' that's by the way side your gf did not commit the offense her relations did, you can't hold her guilty for something she had no control over. I understand your need to protect your younger sister, and you feel you're responsible for her ordeal But if you wanna break up with your girlfriend FINE people break up every day for no reason at all so you wouldn't be the first. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by SuperSuave(m): 11:30pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Fmartin:Forget the girl and move on with your life then |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:35pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Epositive:u knw, our houses ar close, so we use to mingle lyk its one house. d lady am dating told me dat somebody told her abt it bt she dnt believe it to b true. i told my dad, he beat my little sister nd she confessed. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:38pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SuperSuave:bro my dad refure to take the matter far bcoz he said he wont waste his tym instead, he took my sibling back to d village to her mother. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Doctorfitz: 11:38pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
This ur sister sef na gotv or free to air? 1 Share
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Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:39pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SuperSuave:ok. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:45pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Doctorfitz:adolescents who ar nt under a motherly watch wil do anytin jus to ease their upcoming urge fr coitus. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by babyfaceafrica: 11:50pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Leave |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by SuperSuave(m): 11:52pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
Fmartin:If you can't live with the memory of the sex then you better move on cos you'll still see those guys often if you marry their sister which will inconvenience you, aggreviate you and possibly sometimes make you transfer the aggression towards the girl. Use your head bro, don't let people's opinion influence your decision. They won't bear the consequences with you. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 11:54pm On Apr 12, 2017 |
SuperSuave:actually! thanks dude |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Epositive(m): 12:04am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Fmartin: everyone knows about it and no action was taken ~ that's weird you knew ur girlfriend is their sister before you approached her, didn't you? so why the break up palava? ~ that's indecisive there's nothing wrong in loving your sister, but not protecting her or fighting for her cause when needed is bad..Now trading your love for that sake ~ that's immaturity at its peak a word is enough... |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Nobody: 12:27am On Apr 13, 2017 |
The world is turning upside down, what does a 13 years old girl know about sex. And for the guy who had sex with her, what retaliation are they talking about? Is it for u having sex with their sister or what? I need u op to answer the questions before knowing what to say |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by ipobarecriminals: 5:27am On Apr 13, 2017 |
u never talk true . retaliate over what?How old is ur sister that spread her legs for those 2 goats to eat her cassava and runs?How do u know that they had six with ur sis? |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 7:50am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Oma307:dat am dating their sister |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 7:52am On Apr 13, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:it seems u ar nt even following th thread.. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fourwinds: 8:04am On Apr 13, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:Oboy go back and read from d beginning....u just dey make me vex |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by smartanthony5: 8:10am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Fmartin:i would advice u to make ur choice ur self, dnt allow anybody to tel u who to marry. U know whot u want more than them. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 8:14am On Apr 13, 2017 |
smartanthony5:thanks dude. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Lionessza(f): 8:30am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Fmartin: I do not get you . Was it statutory rape? If so Was it reported to any authorities? . Best thing about your post is that the answer is there. You are not ready , you want to be independent first before committing which makes perfect sense coz no real woman will be comfortable marrying a men who's waiting for handouts from daddy coz eventually the relationship will be ran by daddy not the two of you . Don't be selfish to her and yourself find your place in the world and invite her to it and see if she likes it not your daddy's world coz when he dies your relationship will die. |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Nobody: 9:36am On Apr 13, 2017 |
Were they aware that you are having sex with their sister because it is possible to dating and sex not involved Fmartin: |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by Fmartin(m): 12:07pm On Apr 13, 2017 |
Oma307:that i dnt knw |
Re: I Need Your Opinion... by smartanthony5: 10:37pm On Apr 14, 2017 |
Fmartin:u are welcome |
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