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Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by baby124: 7:09pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
AreaFada2:Africans are so much in the dark because of people like you that believe in having sex everywhere. Rather than devoting time to building your children and giving them a good quality of life. Not having so many kids that lack the care and attention kids need. They end up with bitter nuisances who their brain development have been stalled from the trauma of such a life. They learn to be desperate to survive, not content. This is what causes the ills and immoral behavior all over Africa today. You scientific jargon is largely false and desperate. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
AreaFada2: Sorry I'm not a typical nigerian hypocritical Christian. yes the reason why naija will remain like this forever is because her citizens worship men & money instead of God .They don't fear God but very religious ritualists. They killed their conscience so much that you are seen as the fool when you do good to be different. Many of them worship God with their lips. I do not see any pastor as my mentor. By the power mercy & grace of Almighty God through Christ, can't remember the years I fall sick let alone visiting hospital or chemist God forbid! I must be a privilege child of the Almighty God. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by AreaFada2: 7:28pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
baby124: Really? How do you know that? My graddad was monogamous even around 1899. My dad is monogamous too. How do you know for certain what my preferences are? My kids live in an environment 90% African kids do not have. With the best education, healthcare, life prospects like future employments, etc. Even your president had to use scarce forex to seek similar healthcare. Lol! I can see that everything you say is in sheer ignorance. Because I raise issues that exist in Nigeria that people like you chose to be hypocritical about doesn't mean that is my way. Someone like you only care about your narrow personal interest. Sorry, the world does not revolve around anyone of us only. Believe it or not, the ladies who sleep with those men would not do it if they had better propositions. They would also not get pregnant anyhow if they were empowered to look after themselves better. That should be your fight. Not to speculate about the lives of people you do not know. If you have any personal anger against any man who may have used you, please take your anger there o. Peace. Please explain what is wrong with my scientific jargon madam. Thank you. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
I guess you're talking about non-Christians. it's just easier and stressfree to marry one wife this days. Plus financial obligations. 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by baby124: 7:34pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
AreaFada2:Don't appear to support or advise on issues you will not take yourself. You call me hypocritical, but you are showing big signs of hypocrisy and you are just talking on this topic for talking sake. If your grand father was polygamous, do you think you will have the opportunities you have today? The chances of that are slim as he will be spread too thin to provide for your father, who in turn was able to provide for you. Try to give advise you will take yourself. Cheers. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by AreaFada2: 7:38pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
eee777: I thank God for your health. But from my personal experience, most patients (especially chronic ones) are elderly people. My dear being ill is not because one is not favoured by God. Or one is a sinner. It is one major problem we have with many people from Southern hemisphere. They stigmatise illness and many refuse to come forward early. It makes work more difficult. A very healthy person in youth up to middle age or even 60 plus can later enjoy less good health. There is something patients argue often. Africans will most likely do because of lower life expectancy generally. When you tell them cancer is an illness of old age , they say "but I know a man of 35 who died of cancer". Yes, it happens but not the norm. Most patients are older people. I wish you more good health. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 15, 2017 |
AreaFada2: I remember growing up as a young boy & coming back from primary or secondary school you see healthy aged fathers & mothers in their 90s & 100 but sadly in our time it is rare. most of the things we eat these days are poisons but to us we are enjoying. I know that line always use by nigerians. If someone dies of a kidney disease for example & you tell them mind the way you drink & the junks you eat. they quickly point a person that just died of the disease who didn't do any of those stuff . that is naija. some even use the line "something must kill a man" . for me I believe in divine health & not against people getting sick & visiting hospital We can only do our part & allow God do the rest but we do nothing & waiting for miracles & instant gratification Big Amen to the bolded & I wish you too good health always I've been secretly reading your post for years . keep it up 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Destined2win: 10:08am On Apr 15, 2017 |
bukatyne:Wow. I so love you for this comment 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 10:09am On Apr 15, 2017 |
TrumporIdie: Bia! Op mind yourself o No be only take them off streets. There are lots of single men out there single ladies can Marry from. If and only if they decide to work with the single upcoming guy.. Not looking for a cosy ready made home to attach themselves in. WTF! I come from a polygamous home and it was hell on earth. Thank God have broken free from my family entanglements . 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Intelcorei7: 9:07pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
TrumporIdie: See the genuine reason here : https://www.nairaland.com/3712311/before-marry-second-wife-photo |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Because APC is in government! 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Abojupupa: 9:08pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
TrumporIdie:Who says? I'm waiting for them to toast me first. |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Vince77(m): 9:08pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Just when you think you have seen and heard it all. |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Actually planning taking a 2nd wife this year. Most women this days ain't loyal, my wife have made life unbearable for me since I told her I want to get her a sister and a companion. But definitely by the end of this year I must. Actually plan marrying three from d three different tribes. My first wife is Ibo which makes easier because Ibo's hate d second wife stuff. 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Jengem: 9:10pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
bukatyne: Rubbish 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by VirginFinder: 9:10pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
AreaFada2: @bolded It's outright falsehood that there are more women than men. The reverse is actually the case. The last census results will guide you. The problem is that all categories of women - the good, the bad and the ugly - all want tall/dark/rich/handsome/comfortable/responsible men which are very few in number. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by KINGOZEK(m): 9:11pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
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Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by menstrualpad: 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus:You sound very bitter 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by YelloweWest: 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Because we are Christians and it's not allowed Because one wife is enough trouble Because women don't like to share 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Philinho(m): 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
if they're to divide a woman,I'll marry a half |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by DeRay98(m): 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
TrumporIdie: She's a demon 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:13pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Because there are more men than women. If you marry more than one woman, which ones will other men marry? 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Intelcorei7: 9:15pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
TrumporIdie:See the reason here :https://www.nairaland.com/3712311/before-marry-second-wife-photo |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 9:15pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
One problem is enough Abeg |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
WTF!I will rather remain single that share dick with my fellow gender,that is rubbish.Mi o raye oshi 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
No money lah |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by abbeyty(m): 9:16pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by dragonking3: 9:16pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
AreaFada2:You deserve a presidential handshake for this comment. Men are actually created to marry more than one wife but due to situations were the man is unable to take care of the children is what pushed people to marry only one wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by YelloweWest: 9:18pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
seyigiggle:If I have nothing to thank God for at least I thank Him for bringing me into a Christian family!!! I wonder what moslem women go through.... how do they cope with sharing |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by DeRay98(m): 9:18pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus: Baby Mamas re the result of ambitious girls attempts to use pregnancy to trap a guy they are in love with and desire to keep yet they are not certain the guy 'll willingly take them to the altar. If a guy didn't consent to having babies with why blame him for failed attempt to trap him.? |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by BABANGBALI: 9:19pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Who tolded you that we stops?i just tooked my third wife three month ago. Mtcheeeeeeew 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by yomi007k(m): 9:19pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
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