The funniest aspect of this issue is that they say most married men cheat,but most women always believe their husbands are the most faithful being ever lived.

So whose husband Is the cheat?

AndyCole16:

Sweet pix....wanna play basket ball?
But seriously is that you?

Thanks....
Yes that's me

kimbra:
And you think if the wife he has at home finds out her husband is cheating, it isn't enough to cause friction in their marriage right?.

If if was $43 million you would be rich

Austin234:
Here are we all blaming married men going after other girls even those who fondly engage in the act.

Before u draw ur conclusion, I want to ask these questions to those girls
1. Whats ur body language when married men flash u money? Does ur mouth say No when ur body mean Yes?
2. How do u dress before these married men? Or do u think they are angels? Seductive dressing can make any body to fall. That is why on the side of men, if u are position of authority, correct it immediately or u shun it.
3. Do u have fun of staying alone with married men thinking after all he is married? This is dangerous. If u work in an office, discharge ur duties responsively. Be respectful but not the point of servitude like helping him to remove his shoes

That is soooooo irrelevant

The first step is the married man ( the one who stood before God and man and took oath and vows to be FAITHFUL!!

Yes the ones dating married men its just karma coming their way but it is the MEN ! The one who is married that is to be blamed
Afterall did jesus chop bread just because he was hungry
But small breast n yansh and thats it . Abeg look mirror joor ..
first to blame is the MAN NEXT IS THE WIFE LAST LAST IS THE SIDE CHIC SHE JUST BEING A HOE WE ALREADY KNOW WHAT HOES DO SO NOTHING NEW .

Safiaa:
Can you imagine the nonsense

'Stupid single girls', yet you can't keep your dick in your pants? What does that make you? Who is the smart one and who is the one stupid here?

Useless excuse of a human being. Shameless herpes infected dog.

Maybe ur father that has herpes and rabies, not me

Have you even seen toaster talkless of husband

Mumu

kimbra:
Lol, it's obvious he has twisted idea of things, so why make it tougher for him?. He should find his square root joor!.

Or a corner to take several seats

Bumbae1:

That is soooooo irrelevant

The first step is the married man ( the one who stood before God and man and took oath and vows to be FAITHFUL!!

Yes the ones dating married men its just karma coming their way but it is the MEN ! The one who is married that is to be blamed
Afterall did jesus chop bread just because he was hungry
But small breast n yansh and thats it . Abeg look mirror joor ..
first to blame is the MAN NEXT IS THE WIFE LAST LAST IS THE SIDE CHIC SHE JUST BEING A HOE WE ALREADY KNOW WHAT HOES DO SO NOTHING NEW .

Polygamy is in our nature

Please use your brain

1. Why are you flashing money to any women besides your wife? Please answer that first

2. When you walk around nigeria, they're women seductively dressed everywhere. Are you going to tell these women to cover up, so married men won't look their way. You're not to dictate how women dress.

3. Is she staying alone by herself. As a married man,
Cant you get up and meet your wife? What are you doing alone with a single woman. She doesnt have any responsibilities. You are responsible for the faithfulness towards your wife.

You men need to accept the truth and take responsibility. Stop looking for excuses in every aspect of your life. Financially, excuses. To be faithful, excuses. Chai...God help our men.

Austin234:
Here are we all blaming married men going after other girls even those who fondly engage in the act.

Before u draw ur conclusion, I want to ask these questions to those girls
1. Whats ur body language when married men flash u money? Does ur mouth say No when ur body mean Yes?
2. How do u dress before these married men? Or do u think they are angels? Seductive dressing can make any body to fall. That is why on the side of men, if u are position of authority, correct it immediately or u shun it.
3. Do u have fun of staying alone with married men thinking after all he is married? This is dangerous. If u work in an office, discharge ur duties responsively. Be respectful but not the point of servitude like helping him to remove his shoes

Divay22:

Thanks....
Yes that's me

You seem very regular here, do you sleep here? *joking though*
how is warri?

Thanks for the comments
as usual the society blames us
as usual we are expected to be chaste
as usual we are the guilty one and the man a saint
but let me put it to u all
99%of men cheat in marriage
90% of women will never discover
married men on nairaland still run after girls on this forum(i dare some of u to talk trash and I will disgrace u with proof)
Take it or Leave it we still try our best to keep them off.
And to all the accusers, am still a virgin and I don't collect their gifts cos my parents can afford those too.

ethereal:
This has got to be the most realistic post on this thread.the fact that a "married man" makes a pass at u doesn't make him less of a person. Many families today live on the largesse and benevolence of these "monsters" called "married men".Its a survival option for many ladies and many date 'em but with wisdom, many have found joy and respite frm such relationships. Marrying a single man isnt a lifetime guarantee for marital bliss.Be with whoever chimes ur bells right and not out of propriety.

I hope sharing your man with another lady will " Chime your bells right" when karma comes knocking. Whatever happens to working (the right way) to survive financial issues? Do we have to be irrational because we are in difficult situations?

Frankies:
The funniest aspect of this issue is that they say most married men cheat,but most women always believe their husbands are the most faithful being ever lived.

So whose husband Is the cheat?

that's the bitter truth
reason I don't discuss marriage with married women

This op is delusional abi she dey sell market??

Times have changed. It's girls that chase married men now not the other way round.

It's easier for a married man to get a pretty chic than for a single guy.

Jengem:


Polygamy is in our nature

Please use your brain

Yes only an illiterate will say such .. u clearly have none so wont ask you to use your instead will pray one day it grows in that skull u carry around

kushme:
....

Now i know... Another simp.. with time you'll understand...

nonsense....if u don't have control over ur sexual organs does not mean others don't...I have friends and myself who were not interested in chasing anything under skirt...what d society say den was dat we were impotent but true to God now., d stupid fellows who were good at gossip have buried deir head in shame...how much more when such a person is married what do u think he will be looking for...

AndyCole16:

You seem very regular here, do you sleep here? *joking though*
how is warri?

Regular pls help me How can i be irregular

Warri is cool and calm

kushme:
....

Now i know... Another simp.. with time you'll understand...

nonsense....if u don't have control over ur sexual organs does not mean others don't...I have friends and myself who were not interested in chasing anything under skirt...what d society say den was dat we were impotent but true to God now., d stupid fellows who were good at gossip have buried deir head in shame...how much more when such a person is married what do u think he will be looking for

Nellychinma20:
years back I would be the first to comment this but with experience I know better.
pray u don't encounter one cos i have one chasing me for 2yrs+ now and I don't think he's giving up in the nearest future

You don't think he is giving up? *shift eyes* seems you are even giving him green light naa....
There are obviously so many ways you could make him hate you totally! Prayer no 1, 2. Threaten the hell out if him 3. Treat him like shit 4. Embarrass him at any slight chance you get 5. Block him off!!!!

Nellychinma20:
Thanks for the comments
as usual the society blames us
as usual we are expected to be chaste
as usual we are the guilty one and the man a saint

how will society blame you for what you did not do?
or is your guilty conscience talking here?

If you say no to his advances and tell him off, society would praise you not blame you.

Nellychinma20:
Thanks for the comments
as usual the society blames us
as usual we are expected to be chaste
as usual we are the guilty one and the man a saint
but let me put it to u all
99%of men cheat in marriage
90% of women will never discover
married men on nairaland still run after girls on this forum(i dare some of u to talk trash and I will disgrace u with proof)
Take it or Leave it we still try our best to keep them off.
And to all the accusers, I don't collect their gifts cos my parents can afford those too.

You don't have to share personal information because some people opposed your thread. It's normal for people to have counter opinions because we are all not from the same roots. It's best to ignore some comments .

Alondrah:
You don't have to share personal information because some people opposed your thread. It's normal for people to have counter opinions because we are all not from the same roots. It's best to ignore some comments .

Happy easter

Divay22:

Regular pls help me How can i be irregular

Warri is cool and calm

Lets talk. I will teach you
pm things

Bumbae1:

Yes only an illiterate will say such .. u clearly have none so wont ask you to use your instead will pray one day it grows in that skull u carry around

Oh stfu

Have u even seen bread to toast u, talkless of man

Like it or not ur man will step out on you

Mgbeke

NnamdiN:
Nobody talks about married women coming unto us. All the blame is on us

Just passing sha

As in!

One must not enter mall, one would be seeing women old enough to be ones aunt staring thirstfully

SpicyMimi:

You don't think he is giving up? *shift eyes* seems you are even giving him green light naa....

No mind her...

She thinks we are all gullible here.

maybe she's collecting money from the married man sef.

Jengem:


Oh stfu

Have u even seen bread to toast u, talkless of man

Like it or not ur man will step out on you

Mgbeke

Pepper dem gang
It is well abeg comot make i see road jare
Big ppl dey talk u carry ur k leg enter my mention

Bumbae1:

Happy easter

Same here

You know who I am right?

Alondrah:
Same here

You know who I am right?

Yessir just give me code next time u change your skirt

PaperLace:

It's a normal thing. Even as a married woman and mother, I get those advances steady. If I am looking for man to chop his money, it won't take me more than a week, but I dare not blame the man.
So why do men blame the ladies?
Men have to start taking responsibility for their actions.

As to why they prefer the married man; this is Nigeria...where guys go about devouring babes then still call same babes hoe. Babes have decided to give to the person that can pay pass. Nothing spoil...


Lols... which kinda friends na? Physical or?

lol crazy u
cyber friends

Safiaa:
Is everything okay upstairs? I hope so. This your post is saying otherwise

Before U insult me, line Up 10men and let a well shaped lady catwalk pass them 8 out of 10 will stare licking lips!

Right

ethereal:
This has got to be the most realistic post on this thread.the fact that a "married man" makes a pass at u doesn't make him less of a person. Many families today live on the largesse and benevolence of these "monsters" called "married men".Its a survival option for many ladies and many date 'em but with wisdom, many have found joy and respite frm such relationships. Marrying a single man isnt a lifetime guarantee for marital bliss.Be with whoever chimes ur bells right and not out of propriety.