Vivipop:

Na wa o Shiit is serious!

Are u the one in the bumshort wit sunglasses?

soberdrunk:
The truth is in this era of 'slay queens' and 'instagram celebs', it is very hard to find a 'single', 'beautiful', 'intelligent', 'mature' lady that is worth settling down with, 'almost' every fine girl now has the 'runs girl' mentality and even our musicians like Yemi Alade are not helping matters, what type of song is "If you love me you go buy me ferrari, if you love me, you go pay me salary"! Gone are the days when ladies used to pick their partners based on 'prospects', now its based on 'wallet', the annoying part is that even the 'working class' ladies too have also developed this 'runs girl' mentality that my man must reward me financially, as if relationship is now 'employment'

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follyshade:
like what please specify

am still waiting for your reply.

Lordshola:

am still waiting for your reply.

sori dnt reply pm

funmisticqueen:
broke nigga spotted. E pain you. Soup wey sweet na money dey cook am

Is dat enuf reason to turn a nigga into atm machine

MISSOPTIMIST:
The marriage blow just started getting hot for me.. I guess I caught the fever.. now I want to marry.. it's a natural procedure.... so let d smart guy with a life I'll need to help come forth.. [Helpmeetandhelped].

Pishure please

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alexialin:




Smiles thanks
No it's alright

Am ready to get married and stay married. I can't deal with divorce at all.
My kind of man Must be Easy going, No drama, Understanding , Sincere, Must have a Conscience, Must have goals, Be Hardworking, Monogamous, Loyal, Be Family oriented, Be a Team player, Romantic and Wise.
Cause am everything I placed up there. And I can't settle for less.

Wait for Jesus Christ

KevinDein:

You sound so intelligent and wise the entire time on this thread. Almost too wise if I may say (just kidding )

I reckon all these bags of knowledge and wisdom have been acquired over years, most likely with lots of ups and downs along the way.

Keep it up, ma'am.

My dear, when I was in my early twenties, I was shallow minded, dreamy and thought life and everything revolves round my feet, I would say I was in a world of my own.
But as the years go by, I received heavy knocks on the head, deathly blows in my heart, my heart see pepper o lol, severe hard punches in my abdomen, all these am saying is not the physical aspect o. But the emotional aspect. I died several times emotionally and picked up myself again and again.
I thought I wouldnt make it out of my despair state of mind and the dark tunnel I saw myself in. Until one fateful day God rescued me and I was completely set free from my state of mind.
And all through these life processes. I made sure I learnt one or two or several mistakes from my past. So it won't occur in my present life and in my future.
That's why I am what I am today.
Mistakes of the past, I will never indulge in anymore. I look through every situation with sharp clarity and always place my self on the other person's shoes before I arrive at any solution.
That's why certain bad situations people go through is to refine them and make them stronger to attain the goals ahead and be able to keep those goals when u eventually have them in your palms.
But i thank God.. He saved me, made me wise, a deep thinker, strong emotionally and more focused.

And thanks so much for the compliment

I don't even know what to comment on this thread self....Anyway make I book attendance.

But men, with the way this thread is going, it could get up to 50 pages.

Anyway Sha, If I have my way, I would like to get married by 27....

Tisong:
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Wait for Jesus Christ

Jesus Christ is already seated in my life

jbaby265:


Damn you said it all

the truth is only one in 10 of long term relationships end in marriage, and the worse part is that at the end the guy ends up meeting a lady after that and proposing almost immediately

slydog:
Nice thread. I'll be 29 later this year with a prayer to settle down on or before I clock 30.
I think I made a mistake couple of years back by not settling down when I had the chance with a girl; I just got a job she just finished nysc and was all over me to settle down, wish I grabbed that opportunity. Babe is today married with a daughter and we hang out, take her and her daughter to fast food and chill, no hard feelings.
Like the op said, I'm just too choosy now. I'm a final year doctoral student, two years ago I used to say I will not marry any girl who doesn't have at least a masters degree. Last year I dropped that to at least a bsc and working, men this year I just want a God fearing, good Lady..... I've been too choosy I guess.
Met an Akwa ibom chick couldn't move further (I'm AS and oh am from the south west) so it also kinda compound issues.
Single presently, hopeful this year nonetheless.

Awwww

follyshade:

like what please specify

Can we be friends?

debbie223:
Truth b told i'm really an indoor kind of person,if i'm nt working on a job then i'm home.And yes i'm kinda careful kos most guys are only interested in my body and bt hw do go abt dis?Most times i'm lonely and wish i had a man in my life.

Pishure please

Just passing by

hmmm a lot has been said here though am 28 am not in any relationship but I have friends maybe I will chose someone among them that has the qualities of a wife material when am ready to settle down but for now marriage is not my top priority my top priority now is to be financially stable not to put my future my in untold hardship when am married to her God will see me through

ehix89:
Na Leriebloom I find reach here, since she isn't here i'm out

Lol. Didn't know u were single

2dugged:
the truth is only one in 10 of long term relationships end in marriage, and the worse part is that at the end the guy ends up meeting a lady after that and proposing almost immediately

Two adults of age who both know what they want are not likely to waste any time dating for long. They tend to go right to the point without dilly dallying.

Your posts have been spot on.

Me don tire for all this naija girls self na rev father be the next option.

KevinDein:

Two adults of age who both know what they want are not likely to waste any time dating for long. They tend to go right to the point without dilly dallying.

Your posts have been spot on.

thanks, but I must point out that being an adult and being ready to settle down are two different things, commitment is another level that has other factors

herkeem:
Can we be friends?

Ofcus we are already

ottalo1:
Me don tire for all this naija girls self na rev father be the next option.

lmao dt will be a beta option

Ok. I'm eligible bachelor went to see my ex gf's parents 2 days later i got a shocker that she isnt interested any longer. Been single since then haven't seen a woman that I can trust. I love intelligent and independent women,a woman who got shit together and God fearing which is absolutely important. But unfortunately these set of girls are scarce,we can hardly find them.

forever24:

You can't be serious

Are u surprise? Dem dey plenty, we call them jew men back in the day.

Toks2008:
Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across this set of single guys and ladies out there as they are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform to interact.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 yrs and above as well as single ladies of 25yrs and above.

*Mods please note that this is not a dating or meet up thread hence should not be moved to dating and meet up zone.

Thanks

wow nice one OP kudos to u

2dugged:
the truth is only one in 10 of long term relationships end in marriage, and the worse part is that at the end the guy ends up meeting a lady after that and proposing almost immediately

Am a victim of such and I can never advice my younger sis (thank God I don't have) to go into such.. Cos it's really heartbreaking

Nickymezor:
Just passing by

Thanks

Dont Freak Out!!!

blessedgal:
hmmmm,just out from a failed relationship that hurt so bad, Mk I read comment so I can HV joy jare.

I pray you have the strength to get over the hurt.

Don't think much of it, the best lies ahead.

Just here to observe and read comments...though in my mid twenties and 'girlfriendless'.

Nickymezor:
Just passing by

Abeg stop here joor

Been a while dear, how have you been?.

SalC:
Abeg stop here joor

Been a while dear, how have you been?.

I have been okay.. How re u doing?...hapi Easter Sis