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nice one

Lilyqueeny:
lol

how have you been

I've been good... abi you 'fashied' my side after getting all those admirers. How have u been?

pocohantas:
Let me tell you something as a lady, Nigerian men would continue getting Basic1 sex styles till they learn to be more open minded.
Women wanna wow their men in the other room, but no one wants to be judged. No one wants her man wondering how many men she has spread the legs to various degrees for.

You arc that ass for a Nigerian man, instead of him to worship it...he pauses and starts wondering how many niggas you been arching it for. You give him a BJ and he starts asking how many guys you have given a BJ. Y'all ask too much gadamn questions!!!

Sadly, majority of you ask these questions not even to know a sister better, but to judge her.

I love you sister! no homo! you're so on point!!!

LePrezident:
I've been good... abi you 'fashied' my side after getting all those admirers. How have u been?

hahahaha

I've been fine

pocohantas:
*I know some of you will come here to say money is all that matters but pls, don't, I repeat...don't ever use money to get a woman. It's a weak way out, she'll chop your money and go. She might stick to you as her pension manager while getting sweet love from someone else. Your money would be used to cover their overhead costs.

*When you find a good woman, keep her. Don't go sleeping around. Vaginas are the same, maybe a lil difference in the diameter or what you feel for the owner.

*Once in a while, resist the urge to bring out prick. Pretend like you're not in the mood that day. It boosts your self-control and desirability ratings.

*That you took a girl on a date or gave her cash/gift doesn't mean she must follow you to your house and allow you bend her like straw on your bed, while you administer prick with tangential expertise. If you want women that will give you sex for the money, go to Allen.

*If a woman turns your proposal down, be mature enough to take it.
Don't go slutshaming her or all those silly things some of you do!

*If for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage
Lol! u nailed it
.even if your words were raaw.
not a feminine approach though. Most ladies like to knee their thought in their heads.ones more I say u really nailed it.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.

l

Lilyqueeny:
hahahaha

I've been fine

Good to know... ive not been seeing you on nigerianbase.com. .. I even sent you a message there

IkpemhiTG:
l

Lolz u r really mouthed

LePrezident:
Good to know... ive not been seeing you on nigerianbase.com. .. I even sent you a message there

I've been busy
I will make out time

Lilyqueeny:
I've been busy
I will make out time

Alright, can't wait for your response

pocohantas:
For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.

Brilliant posts from you on this topic, but on this last paragraph I quoted, I'd rather both Sango and Amadioha keep visiting me than tell any lady apart from my siblings or blood relation that her BF is cheating on her. The demerits far outweigh the merits. I tried it last 5 years and I end up regretting it till this day. Only few ladies can handle it maturely without making the whistle blower regret he ever blew the whistle. I won't advice any guy to reveal the truth to the lady, let her find out by herself or at best, give her very coded but subtle signs for her to decode.

best ever seen here. thanks bro . am copying to share now . brilliant words

importexpert:
There are certain things that as a guy, you must take notice of in your partner. Most guys are really clueless about dating when compared to women. Sometimes, they make many guys feel like learners.
The simple truth is that things might go wrong no matter what you do. It is therefore important you look out and know what to avoid in a relationship. I have penned down a couple of things.

1. If a lady misses a date you both agreed on and doesn’t call to apologize, let her go. There is no time to waste on one woman. If she does call to apologize, let her be the one to request another time so as to make it up to you. If she doesn't show up again, forget about her. She doesn't value your time.

2. Never let any woman disrespect you. If she does and she refuses to apologize and change for good, drop her. You don't want to be with someone who tears down your self esteem or does not know your worth.

3. Dating an indecisive lady can be frustrating. When you find yourself with one, give her space. You should not try to force people to make up their mind. Let her coming to you be out of choice and not compulsion.

4. Never try to buy a lady's affection. Trust me, that's one path you don't want to walk. If a woman does not like you, your expensive gifts will not change her mind. Instead, you will end up becoming be a “financial boyfriend” who sorts out her needs, aka “mugu”.

5. Never beg a woman to give you a chance. If you think she eventually gives you a chance, then you're mistaken. She probably showed you pity. And you know something about pity in relationships? It does not last long.

6. If a woman uses sex as a negotiating tool, dump her sorry ass. She is only manipulating you and nothing more. Sex is not a favour or reward!

7. Never let a lady be sure that you are crazy about her to the point that she feels too confident. In fact, never affirm your love immediately to her. Suppress that feeling to talk about it till she has shown you all possible green lights that she loves you.

8. If you give her a phone call twice and she doesn't answer, do not give her a call again. It is called desperation, and woman can smell it from a distance. You what it does to them, remember? Instead, just send a text.

9. Do not compare her to your ex. In the same way, if she talks about her ex with you to the level of comparisons, let her go ASAP. You will never be enough for her. You don't want to spend your energy trying to fill a shoe that was not yours in the first place.

10. Trust your instincts. The first problem with guys when they start feeling emotional about a lady is that they let the feelings overwhelm their sense of reasoning. Someone told me the other day that he let go of his logical self to date a woman. Huh? Do not make that mistake.

11. Never show 100% commitment to a lady. No matter how sweet she may be, she is not yours till you both tie the knot. Don't even assume that she will not leave. Realize that until you both wed, there is nothing like complete commitment.

12. Maintain an air of mystery. Never divulge too much about yourself too soon. Keep her in wonder of who you are.

13. Except you know how to chat with a lady and keep the sparks on, save the conversation for your dates. You may make use of that platform when you have come quite a distance with her.

14. Women desire attention just like guys desire sex. It is your own weapon. Even if she asks for it, be frugal about it. Never let her talk you in to giving her your complete attention. It may backfire soon since what one gets used to can easily be abused.

15. Do not make all the efforts in a relationship. I for one have a policy that I will take only two steps and wait for the lady to take at least one step. Whosoever invests more in a relationship gets emotional tied more than the other person.

16. Never change who you are for a woman. Never! If you must change, let it be because you feel the need to and not because you want to impress a lady.

17. Never lose your voice to a woman. Do not become a “yes man” to anything she says. It does not get her attracted to you; instead, it makes you look like a wimp. If there is something you do not agree about, state your opinion. If you think she did wrong, let her know
about it and don't keep mute about it.

18. Except you want to, never date any girl who has more problems than you do. Chances are that she may draw you in to all of it and you'd soon be overwhelmed. If you must date such a woman, be sure of what you are stepping in to.

19. If you ever find yourself with a possessive, over-jealous or domineering lady, drop her fast. She is not worth the stress. You will save yourself a lot of trouble by doing so.

20. Be alert about attempts to manipulate you. Recognize when. She is trying to get you to do something or not. Ensure you follow the decision of your will. Do not let the tears get to you or the pleadings get to you. You may do otherwise if you deem it fit to make a compromise on your stand, but guard against manipulation.

21. If a lady ever cheats on you, there is no remedy for it. Let her go. It is an already established fact that women who have affairs end up developing a bond with whosoever the other person is. The mere fact that she cheated means you should call it quit.

These are just a couple of essential dating etiquette guys should know and date by.
You can add more or share your thoughts about specific points through the comment box.

TroubleMaker47:
It's called loyalty!
Bros before hoes!

You don't expect me to snitch on a broda who's got ur back since time immemorial to a chic he probably would say bye someday! Haba! Even God detest such disloyalty

Had to quote you just to say....
GBAM!!!!!!
Nice one!

Ndifereke:
Brilliant posts from you on this topic, but on this last paragraph I quoted, I'd rather both Sango and Amadioha keep visiting me than tell any lady apart from my siblings or blood relation that her BF is cheating on her. The demerits far outweigh the merits. I tried it last 5 years and I end up regretting it till this day. Only few ladies can handle it maturely without making the whistle blower regret he ever blew the whistle. I won't advice any guy to reveal the truth to the lady, let her find out by herself or at best, give her very coded but subtle signs for her to decode.

Gbam too!!!

oblak00:
But she must not have experiences, porn is a good substitute for those experiences. That's why many girls and guys learnt one or two skills. As for me, I prefer her laying on her back while I raise her 2 legs up and arrest her thighs with my hands while I thrust in and out

Porn is not necessarily a good substitute.
The things they act out there are not usually realistic in real life, and if you just try it like that on a regular person, might not work out well.

I've had a girl rubbing my dicck violently up and down like she was trying to sandpaper the entire skin off it, cos she sees those pornstars do it like that. Had to tell her that...o babe, abeg this is skin o, not wood, take m easy.

pocohantas:
How about you cook the okro or the egusi in different ways. Today with bitterleaf, tomorrow with vegetable...
That is...a good head today, tomorrow from behind, next tomorrow...sex in the bathroom. Can't we spice it up?

when I started reading ur text I vex small but with this I av learnt a lot from uuuuu. you such a wise lady God bless you. and this is exactly what I will apply to my relationships to spice my beddings up. can't afford to look out apart of my bae, she is all I got don't wanna risk her for other things

pocohantas:
Let me tell you something as a lady, Nigerian men would continue getting Basic1 sex styles till they learn to be more open minded.
Women wanna wow their men in the other room, but no one wants to be judged. No one wants her man wondering how many men she has spread the legs to various degrees for.

You arc that ass for a Nigerian man, instead of him to worship it...he pauses and starts wondering how many niggas you been arching it for. You give him a BJ and he starts asking how many guys you have given a BJ. Y'all ask too much gadamn questions!!!

Sadly, majority of you ask these questions not even to know a sister better, but to judge her.

This one cracked me up. Interestingly, you're very right and it's just so obvious. I read a lot of comments on sexuality here and it tells me the mindset of most male folks. Once a lady is bold enough to express her sexuality, she's either seen as a love-peddler or something else. In the end, we differ from one another.

Ndifereke:
Brilliant posts from you on this topic, but on this last paragraph I quoted, I'd rather both Sango and Amadioha keep visiting me than tell any lady apart from my siblings or blood relation that her BF is cheating on her. The demerits far outweigh the merits. I tried it last 5 years and I end up regretting it till this day. Only few ladies can handle it maturely without making the whistle blower regret he ever blew the whistle. I won't advice any guy to reveal the truth to the lady, let her find out by herself or at best, give her very coded but subtle signs for her to decode.

Funny guy, it's not that serious na. I get you your point though. What I am against is them stringing her along by hailing her, can't they mind their business?

Sincere4u:
I believe there are no hard and fast rules in love and dating cos individuals differ.
What might work in one instance might fail totally in another and you stand the chance of losing a dream someone.

Some of ur points make some sense but a number of them are for those who are really learners that will learn by applying them in relationships and look for the OP afterwards in anger and frustration.

Sincere4u we really need to talk. Please!.
Reply my pm.

I'm not mincing words when I say this is one of the best thread I've seen so far as regards advising guys on nairaland, I hope guys take to this instruction and be the macho man in a relationship.

Sincere4u:
I believe there are no hard and fast rules in love and dating cos individuals differ.
What might work in one instance might fail totally in another and you stand the chance of losing a dream someone.

Some of ur points make some sense but a number of them are for those who are really learners that will learn by applying them in relationships and lookp for the OP afterwards in anger and frustration.

On point bro

pocohantas:
How about you cook the okro or the egusi in different ways. Today with bitterleaf, tomorrow with vegetable...
That is...a good head today, tomorrow from behind, next tomorrow...sex in the bathroom. Can't we spice it up?

Correct babe!!!!! your sex life is 100, I can feel it 4rm miles away nne m!!! #Goodstuff

Don't judge me but these are reasons why relationships and marriages are failing today, these are only qualities of a self centered and egoistic man who believes he's perfect and has high standards. The secret to relationship most times is patience and endurance, one has to learn to overlook some sh*t

I have already broken some of these

pocohantas:
Let me tell you something as a lady, Nigerian men would continue getting Basic1 sex styles till they learn to be more open minded.
Women wanna wow their men in the other room, but no one wants to be judged. No one wants her man wondering how many men she has spread the legs to various degrees for.

You arc that ass for a Nigerian man, instead of him to worship it...he pauses and starts wondering how many niggas you been arching it for. You give him a BJ and he starts asking how many guys you have given a BJ. Y'all ask too much gadamn questions!!!

Sadly, majority of you ask these questions not even to know a sister better, but to judge her.

Through

Nice idea

pocohantas:
How about you cook the okro or the egusi in different ways. Today with bitterleaf, tomorrow with vegetable...
That is...a good head today, tomorrow from behind, next tomorrow...sex in the bathroom. Can't we spice it up?

pocohantas:
*I know some of you will come here to say money is all that matters but pls, don't, I repeat...don't ever use money to get a woman. It's a weak way out, she'll chop your money and go. She might stick to you as her pension manager while getting sweet love from someone else. Your money would be used to cover their overhead costs.

*When you find a good woman, keep her. Don't go sleeping around. Vaginas are the same, maybe a lil difference in the diameter or what you feel for the owner.

*Once in a while, resist the urge to bring out prick. Pretend like you're not in the mood that day. It boosts your self-control and desirability ratings.

*That you took a girl on a date or gave her cash/gift doesn't mean she must follow you to your house and allow you bend her like straw on your bed, while you administer prick with tangential expertise. If you want women that will give you sex for the money, go to Allen.

*If a woman turns your proposal down, be mature enough to take it.
Don't go slutshaming her or all those silly things some of you do!

*If for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.

No I disagree with number one....chubby kpekus
Is like paradise
Others I agree

pocohantas:
How about you cook the okro or the egusi in different ways. Today with bitterleaf, tomorrow with vegetable...
That is...a good head today, tomorrow from behind, next tomorrow...sex in the bathroom. Can't we spice it up?

My mentor