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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by smartty68(m): 9:28am On Apr 17, 2017
Ok
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by DukeNija(m): 9:29am On Apr 17, 2017
Everything on point except number 11.
When she shows and proves her 110% commitment then she more than deserves my 110% commitment and loyalty.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Emmyloaded: 9:31am On Apr 17, 2017
Shocking: See what TBoss said to Rueben Abati’s Article
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Sojebrand(m): 9:36am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:
*I know some of you will come here to say money is all that matters but pls, don't, I repeat...don't ever use money to get a woman. It's a weak way out, she'll chop your money and go. She might stick to you as her pension manager while getting sweet love from someone else. Your money would be used to cover their overhead costs.

*When you find a good woman, keep her. Don't go sleeping around. Vaginas are the same, maybe a lil difference in the diameter or what you feel for the owner.

*Once in a while, resist the urge to bring out prick. Pretend like you're not in the mood that day. It boosts your self-control and desirability ratings.

*That you took a girl on a date or gave her cash/gift doesn't mean she must follow you to your house and allow you bend her like straw on your bed, while you administer prick with tangential expertise. If you want women that will give you sex for the money, go to Allen.

*If a woman turns your proposal down, be mature enough to take it.
Don't go slutshaming her or all those silly things some of you do!

if for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.

Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by verygudbadguy(m): 9:36am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:


*If for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.

Correct babe!

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Nobody: 9:41am On Apr 17, 2017
In addition to No 8, when she tells you she's gonna call back and she doesn't, don't ever call her again

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Flamzey00(m): 9:41am On Apr 17, 2017
Wen she demand for t-fare before she wld attend ur first date; it's either she is a brokeass bae seeking for mugu or coming for short time duty#Osho#
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Nobody: 9:46am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:


Let me tell you something as a lady, Nigerian men would continue getting Basic1 sex styles till they learn to be more open minded.
Women wanna wow their men in the other room, but no one wants to be judged. No one wants her man wondering how many men she has spread the legs to various degrees for.

You arc that ass for a Nigerian man, instead of him to worship it...he pauses and starts wondering how many niggas you been arching it for. You give him a BJ and he starts asking how many guys you have given a BJ. Y'all ask too much gadamn questions!!!

Sadly, majority of you ask these questions not even to know a sister better, but to judge her.


Wow!!! Here's a woman I totally want to hook up with.

Chai!!! but its Easter. Please let me not fall into temptation
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by busybeei5(f): 9:47am On Apr 17, 2017
So long a letter
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Nobody: 9:47am On Apr 17, 2017
Straight-forward advise but so many guys would not follow it.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by ebby9z(m): 9:48am On Apr 17, 2017
The points raised by the OP are guidelines I've always followed while interacting with females since I've been an adult.
I don't call a girl more than twice at most and I won't call back of she doesn't beep or call back no matter how hard-pressed I am to talk to her.

I don't always chat with them on Whatsapp. I let their messages hang around a while before responding at times. It's not pride, it's preserving some self - respect for yourself

If I buy something for a lady, she must appreciate it else she's not getting another. Ladies tend to take guys' gifts for granted.

I don't have time to be asking you out forever, time poorly spent is irretrievable. I loathe wasting time

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by MrPresident1: 9:49am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:

... to bring out prick..., while you administer prick with tangential expertise.

What is 'bring out prick', do you mean prickles undecided how do you administer prickles angry

Kindly explain because in America we only know prickles cool
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Nobody: 9:51am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:


Let me tell you something as a lady, Nigerian men would continue getting Basic1 sex styles till they learn to be more open minded.
Women wanna wow their men in the other room, but no one wants to be judged. No one wants her man wondering how many men she has spread the legs to various degrees for.

You arc that ass for a Nigerian man, instead of him to worship it...he pauses and starts wondering how many niggas you been arching it for. You give him a BJ and he starts asking how many guys you have given a BJ. Y'all ask too much gadamn questions!!!

Sadly, majority of you ask these questions not even to know a sister better, but to judge her.
I've been seeing ur posts on here for a while now and I must say you're one of those few intelligent women on this forum.Your sense of reasoning,maturity,outspokenness and wittiness is out of this world.Keep it up sis kiss,from a lady to you I'm proud of you.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Princefrankie1(m): 9:52am On Apr 17, 2017
Just Spectacular.
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Odunharry(m): 9:56am On Apr 17, 2017
importexport God bless.. on point
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Ustec: 9:57am On Apr 17, 2017
importexpert:
There are certain things that as a guy, you must take notice of in your partner. Most guys are really clueless about dating when compared to women. Sometimes, they make many guys feel like learners.
The simple truth is that things might go wrong no matter what you do. It is therefore important you look out and know what to avoid in a relationship. I have penned down a couple of things.

1. If a lady misses a date you both agreed on and doesn’t call to apologize, let her go. There is no time to waste on one woman. If she does call to apologize, let her be the one to request another time so as to make it up to you. If she doesn't show up again, forget about her. She doesn't value your time.

2. Never let any woman disrespect you. If she does and she refuses to apologize and change for good, drop her. You don't want to be with someone who tears down your self esteem or does not know your worth.

3. Dating an indecisive lady can be frustrating. When you find yourself with one, give her space. You should not try to force people to make up their mind. Let her coming to you be out of choice and not compulsion.

4. Never try to buy a lady's affection. Trust me, that's one path you don't want to walk. If a woman does not like you, your expensive gifts will not change her mind. Instead, you will end up becoming be a “financial boyfriend” who sorts out her needs, aka “mugu”.

5. Never beg a woman to give you a chance. If you think she eventually gives you a chance, then you're mistaken. She probably showed you pity. And you know something about pity in relationships? It does not last long.

6. If a woman uses sex as a negotiating tool, dump her sorry ass. She is only manipulating you and nothing more. Sex is not a favour or reward!

7. Never let a lady be sure that you are crazy about her to the point that she feels too confident. In fact, never affirm your love immediately to her. Suppress that feeling to talk about it till she has shown you all possible green lights that she loves you.

8. If you give her a phone call twice and she doesn't answer, do not give her a call again. It is called desperation, and woman can smell it from a distance. You what it does to them, remember? Instead, just send a text.

9. Do not compare her to your ex. In the same way, if she talks about her ex with you to the level of comparisons, let her go ASAP. You will never be enough for her. You don't want to spend your energy trying to fill a shoe that was not yours in the first place.

10. Trust your instincts. The first problem with guys when they start feeling emotional about a lady is that they let the feelings overwhelm their sense of reasoning. Someone told me the other day that he let go of his logical self to date a woman. Huh? Do not make that mistake.

11. Never show 100% commitment to a lady. No matter how sweet she may be, she is not yours till you both tie the knot. Don't even assume that she will not leave. Realize that until you both wed, there is nothing like complete commitment.

12. Maintain an air of mystery. Never divulge too much about yourself too soon. Keep her in wonder of who you are.

13. Except you know how to chat with a lady and keep the sparks on, save the conversation for your dates. You may make use of that platform when you have come quite a distance with her.

14. Women desire attention just like guys desire sex. It is your own weapon. Even if she asks for it, be frugal about it. Never let her talk you in to giving her your complete attention. It may backfire soon since what one gets used to can easily be abused.

15. Do not make all the efforts in a relationship. I for one have a policy that I will take only two steps and wait for the lady to take at least one step. Whosoever invests more in a relationship gets emotional tied more than the other person.

16. Never change who you are for a woman. Never! If you must change, let it be because you feel the need to and not because you want to impress a lady.

17. Never lose your voice to a woman. Do not become a “yes man” to anything she says. It does not get her attracted to you; instead, it makes you look like a wimp. If there is something you do not agree about, state your opinion. If you think she did wrong, let her know
about it and don't keep mute about it.

18. Except you want to, never date any girl who has more problems than you do. Chances are that she may draw you in to all of it and you'd soon be overwhelmed. If you must date such a woman, be sure of what you are stepping in to.

19. If you ever find yourself with a possessive, over-jealous or domineering lady, drop her fast. She is not worth the stress. You will save yourself a lot of trouble by doing so.

20. Be alert about attempts to manipulate you. Recognize when. She is trying to get you to do something or not. Ensure you follow the decision of your will. Do not let the tears get to you or the pleadings get to you. You may do otherwise if you deem it fit to make a compromise on your stand, but guard against manipulation.

21. If a lady ever cheats on you, there is no remedy for it. Let her go. It is an already established fact that women who have affairs end up developing a bond with whosoever the other person is. The mere fact that she cheated means you should call it quit.

These are just a couple of essential dating etiquette guys should know and date by.
You can add more or share your thoughts about specific points through the comment box.

You done go import all the drill nugget.come here abi..!
DON must here this..!cheesy
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by marvwhite: 9:57am On Apr 17, 2017
see sense everywhere....



#learnt alot
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by bukatyne(f): 9:59am On Apr 17, 2017
@importexport:

Your points were jellying till it seems you want men to eat their cake and have it.

If you want respect, be respectful and respectable

If you want commitment, be committed to the relationship yourself.

As the Bible rightly says, if you want friend, show yourself friendly.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by bukatyne(f): 9:59am On Apr 17, 2017
@importexport:

Your points were jellying till it seems you want men to eat their cake and have it.

If you want respect, be respectfuland respectable

If you want commitment, be committed to the relationship yourself.

As the Bible rightly says, if you want friend, show yourself friendly.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by tonio2wo: 9:59am On Apr 17, 2017
Tiri gbosa for the OP and FTC fella.
No.11 so on point.
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by noble71(m): 10:01am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:
*I know some of you will come here to say money is all that matters but pls, don't, I repeat...don't ever use money to get a woman. It's a weak way out, she'll chop your money and go. She might stick to you as her pension manager while getting sweet love from someone else. Your money would be used to cover their overhead costs.

*When you find a good woman, keep her. Don't go sleeping around. Vaginas are the same, maybe a lil difference in the diameter or what you feel for the owner.

*Once in a while, resist the urge to bring out prick. Pretend like you're not in the mood that day. It boosts your self-control and desirability ratings.

*That you took a girl on a date or gave her cash/gift doesn't mean she must follow you to your house and allow you bend her like straw on your bed, while you administer prick with tangential expertise. If you want women that will give you sex for the money, go to Allen.

*If a woman turns your proposal down, be mature enough to take it.
Don't go slutshaming her or all those silly things some of you do!

*If for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.
Babe you must be relationship expert. nice write up.

Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by bukatyne(f): 10:02am On Apr 17, 2017
Pocohantas:

I agree with you as per se.X and the solution is to be sexually decent.

Again, the guys should understand that some ladies actively learn about se.X because they want to pleasure/enjoy their husbands.

It must be very hard getting married to the average Nigerian man sha.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Rasbel(m): 10:02am On Apr 17, 2017
some difficult stuffs up there..but kudos to the OP
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Coldfeets: 10:02am On Apr 17, 2017
Importexpert my guy!!!

This is what we call AlphaMale Code 101

Any guy that does not know or apply these codes is not fit to be called a MAN.

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by LordIsaac(m): 10:04am On Apr 17, 2017
importexpert:
There are certain things that as a guy, you must take notice of in your partner. Most guys are really clueless about dating when compared to women. Sometimes, they make many guys feel like learners.
The simple truth is that things might go wrong no matter what you do. It is therefore important you look out and know what to avoid in a relationship. I have penned down a couple of things.

1. If a lady misses a date you both agreed on and doesn’t call to apologize, let her go. There is no time to waste on one woman. If she does call to apologize, let her be the one to request another time so as to make it up to you. If she doesn't show up again, forget about her. She doesn't value your time.

2. Never let any woman disrespect you. If she does and she refuses to apologize and change for good, drop her. You don't want to be with someone who tears down your self esteem or does not know your worth.

3. Dating an indecisive lady can be frustrating. When you find yourself with one, give her space. You should not try to force people to make up their mind. Let her coming to you be out of choice and not compulsion.

4. Never try to buy a lady's affection. Trust me, that's one path you don't want to walk. If a woman does not like you, your expensive gifts will not change her mind. Instead, you will end up becoming be a “financial boyfriend” who sorts out her needs, aka “mugu”.

5. Never beg a woman to give you a chance. If you think she eventually gives you a chance, then you're mistaken. She probably showed you pity. And you know something about pity in relationships? It does not last long.

6. If a woman uses sex as a negotiating tool, dump her sorry ass. She is only manipulating you and nothing more. Sex is not a favour or reward!

7. Never let a lady be sure that you are crazy about her to the point that she feels too confident. In fact, never affirm your love immediately to her. Suppress that feeling to talk about it till she has shown you all possible green lights that she loves you.

8. If you give her a phone call twice and she doesn't answer, do not give her a call again. It is called desperation, and woman can smell it from a distance. You what it does to them, remember? Instead, just send a text.

9. Do not compare her to your ex. In the same way, if she talks about her ex with you to the level of comparisons, let her go ASAP. You will never be enough for her. You don't want to spend your energy trying to fill a shoe that was not yours in the first place.

10. Trust your instincts. The first problem with guys when they start feeling emotional about a lady is that they let the feelings overwhelm their sense of reasoning. Someone told me the other day that he let go of his logical self to date a woman. Huh? Do not make that mistake.

11. Never show 100% commitment to a lady. No matter how sweet she may be, she is not yours till you both tie the knot. Don't even assume that she will not leave. Realize that until you both wed, there is nothing like complete commitment.

12. Maintain an air of mystery. Never divulge too much about yourself too soon. Keep her in wonder of who you are.

13. Except you know how to chat with a lady and keep the sparks on, save the conversation for your dates. You may make use of that platform when you have come quite a distance with her.

14. Women desire attention just like guys desire sex. It is your own weapon. Even if she asks for it, be frugal about it. Never let her talk you in to giving her your complete attention. It may backfire soon since what one gets used to can easily be abused.

15. Do not make all the efforts in a relationship. I for one have a policy that I will take only two steps and wait for the lady to take at least one step. Whosoever invests more in a relationship gets emotional tied more than the other person.

16. Never change who you are for a woman. Never! If you must change, let it be because you feel the need to and not because you want to impress a lady.

17. Never lose your voice to a woman. Do not become a “yes man” to anything she says. It does not get her attracted to you; instead, it makes you look like a wimp. If there is something you do not agree about, state your opinion. If you think she did wrong, let her know
about it and don't keep mute about it.

18. Except you want to, never date any girl who has more problems than you do. Chances are that she may draw you in to all of it and you'd soon be overwhelmed. If you must date such a woman, be sure of what you are stepping in to.

19. If you ever find yourself with a possessive, over-jealous or domineering lady, drop her fast. She is not worth the stress. You will save yourself a lot of trouble by doing so.

20. Be alert about attempts to manipulate you. Recognize when. She is trying to get you to do something or not. Ensure you follow the decision of your will. Do not let the tears get to you or the pleadings get to you. You may do otherwise if you deem it fit to make a compromise on your stand, but guard against manipulation.

21. If a lady ever cheats on you, there is no remedy for it. Let her go. It is an already established fact that women who have affairs end up developing a bond with whosoever the other person is. The mere fact that she cheated means you should call it quit.

These are just a couple of essential dating etiquette guys should know and date by.
You can add more or share your thoughts about specific points through the comment box.
Wisdom for he that has an ear!
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by sekzy99(m): 10:06am On Apr 17, 2017
Nice one. Thumb up to u op! And the ftc guy
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Rotimi16(m): 10:06am On Apr 17, 2017
Gbayi bro.. I love this!
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by TroubleMaker47(m): 10:08am On Apr 17, 2017
importexpert:
There are certain things that as a guy, you must take notice of in your partner. Most guys are really clueless about dating when compared to women. Sometimes, they make many guys feel like learners.
The simple truth is that things might go wrong no matter what you do. It is therefore important you look out and know what to avoid in a relationship. I have penned down a couple of things.

1. If a lady misses a date you both agreed on and doesn’t call to apologize, let her go. There is no time to waste on one woman. If she does call to apologize, let her be the one to request another time so as to make it up to you. If she doesn't show up again, forget about her. She doesn't value your time.

2. Never let any woman disrespect you. If she does and she refuses to apologize and change for good, drop her. You don't want to be with someone who tears down your self esteem or does not know your worth.

3. Dating an indecisive lady can be frustrating. When you find yourself with one, give her space. You should not try to force people to make up their mind. Let her coming to you be out of choice and not compulsion.

4. Never try to buy a lady's affection. Trust me, that's one path you don't want to walk. If a woman does not like you, your expensive gifts will not change her mind. Instead, you will end up becoming be a “financial boyfriend” who sorts out her needs, aka “mugu”.

5. Never beg a woman to give you a chance. If you think she eventually gives you a chance, then you're mistaken. She probably showed you pity. And you know something about pity in relationships? It does not last long.

6. If a woman uses sex as a negotiating tool, dump her sorry ass. She is only manipulating you and nothing more. Sex is not a favour or reward!

7. Never let a lady be sure that you are crazy about her to the point that she feels too confident. In fact, never affirm your love immediately to her. Suppress that feeling to talk about it till she has shown you all possible green lights that she loves you.

8. If you give her a phone call twice and she doesn't answer, do not give her a call again. It is called desperation, and woman can smell it from a distance. You what it does to them, remember? Instead, just send a text.

9. Do not compare her to your ex. In the same way, if she talks about her ex with you to the level of comparisons, let her go ASAP. You will never be enough for her. You don't want to spend your energy trying to fill a shoe that was not yours in the first place.

10. Trust your instincts. The first problem with guys when they start feeling emotional about a lady is that they let the feelings overwhelm their sense of reasoning. Someone told me the other day that he let go of his logical self to date a woman. Huh? Do not make that mistake.

11. Never show 100% commitment to a lady. No matter how sweet she may be, she is not yours till you both tie the knot. Don't even assume that she will not leave. Realize that until you both wed, there is nothing like complete commitment.

12. Maintain an air of mystery. Never divulge too much about yourself too soon. Keep her in wonder of who you are.

13. Except you know how to chat with a lady and keep the sparks on, save the conversation for your dates. You may make use of that platform when you have come quite a distance with her.

14. Women desire attention just like guys desire sex. It is your own weapon. Even if she asks for it, be frugal about it. Never let her talk you in to giving her your complete attention. It may backfire soon since what one gets used to can easily be abused.

15. Do not make all the efforts in a relationship. I for one have a policy that I will take only two steps and wait for the lady to take at least one step. Whosoever invests more in a relationship gets emotional tied more than the other person.

16. Never change who you are for a woman. Never! If you must change, let it be because you feel the need to and not because you want to impress a lady.

17. Never lose your voice to a woman. Do not become a “yes man” to anything she says. It does not get her attracted to you; instead, it makes you look like a wimp. If there is something you do not agree about, state your opinion. If you think she did wrong, let her know
about it and don't keep mute about it.

18. Except you want to, never date any girl who has more problems than you do. Chances are that she may draw you in to all of it and you'd soon be overwhelmed. If you must date such a woman, be sure of what you are stepping in to.

19. If you ever find yourself with a possessive, over-jealous or domineering lady, drop her fast. She is not worth the stress. You will save yourself a lot of trouble by doing so.

20. Be alert about attempts to manipulate you. Recognize when. She is trying to get you to do something or not. Ensure you follow the decision of your will. Do not let the tears get to you or the pleadings get to you. You may do otherwise if you deem it fit to make a compromise on your stand, but guard against manipulation.

21. If a lady ever cheats on you, there is no remedy for it. Let her go. It is an already established fact that women who have affairs end up developing a bond with whosoever the other person is. The mere fact that she cheated means you should call it quit.

These are just a couple of essential dating etiquette guys should know and date by.
You can add more or share your thoughts about specific points through the comment box.
Bless u brother.
May ur days be long!

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by ReubenE(m): 10:09am On Apr 17, 2017
afoshat:


Oh yes that's exactly the key but most of the chef do not understand this they are just satisfied with cooking the food in a wheel barrow position and for only about ten mins, where's the fun in that, y was Cleopatra tagged best appetizer, because she knows just how to mix it, how to be ontop and grind d mortar, how to bend down and steer the soup, u know those things but quite a number of u ladies cannot prepare a good soup in different formats.
you're damn funny.
Terrific guy...
Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Oyehomie(m): 10:10am On Apr 17, 2017
pocohantas:


For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you.
Lol at this....

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Re: 21 Modern Dating Etiquettes For Guys by Odunharry(m): 10:10am On Apr 17, 2017
Coldfeets:
Importexpert my guy!!!

This is what we call AlphaMale Code 101

Any guy that does not know or apply these codes is not fit to be called a MAN.
Lmao.. true

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