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DUMMY. AJEGBOD NWENI KUNRA
AFTER INNUMERABLE NUMBERS OF MEN HAD SCATTERED YOUR RIVER
OLORIBURUKU

If you are a virgin at 21 plus, please FLAUNT it. Lsve all these jealous deflowered girls and remain faithful tk your brlief.

This post is misleading, why virgin when the points you raised also affect non virgin?

Maychang:
I totally agree with all points discussed in this write up.

why won't you agree? Dey don tear ur own too.

geronimoedeh1:
I don't fancy virgins for this simple reason
most of them wen disvirgind always wanna explore....
A girl that have been bashed and disappointed by niggas are more likely to settle down because they have seen it all so it doesn't trip them that much anymore and they usually value that man dat finally took them in.
A virgin wen disvirgind always think shex missing something... wanna test others..

Ok, I pray God find a good prostitute for you as a wife so that she can trully stay with you, after taking on 5 - 10 men daily for 10 years. Hahahahaha!!!

Jolar101:
I'm unable to comment on politics thread.


Maybe non virgins here will help us out

help oo, my other account was banned for no apparent reason today sef, can't comment in romance section too

corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

the second dumbest post Ilve ever seen on NL

ShawttySoFyne:
What non_virgins say to make themselves feel better

lol, if i had a million dollars, i will gladly dash you half just for this awesome comment of yours

Getting married as a virgin however meant the CUNT has not been polluted ! And this is one vigin made in nigeria !

All this Virgin people don come again. Yes it's good to be a virgin if you want to but married guys like us that are not virgins, should we go hang ourselves?

Xaos:
[color=#808080]Why are non-virgins obsessed with virgins? [/color]

uh they use every opportunity to insult them

True talk.

Op is an Olosho

Nawa for people ooh.......

I have never understood the virginity is....

In the end everybody gets fvuked so what the biggie....

I mean on the average all this virginity ish won't pass 10 years.

You are most probably going to still be a Virgin till 16 and by 26 you would be married, while your punna would be bashed for upwards of 40 years.

So what's the deal?

If it was Virgin for life I would say OK confirm.

Infact 2 years into marriage, your punna would have been so smashed eh?

I still can't get whole ish. Anyways in the end which isn't so far away, we all smashed.

this one weak me

Localamos:
Read the article (again) and receive sense.

Bros you don't need to insult me, I only asked a question which the OP have already answered

corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

[Source: http://www.corpersforum.com/sexuality/what-getting-married-as-a-virgin-does-not-guarantee/]

Stupid post. Nairaland and it's anti virgin and anti Christian campaign

Xaos:
[color=#808080]Why are non-virgins obsessed with virgins? [/color]

I tire o. This looked like a good write up until the end when it looked like the person who wrote it was a bitter person who lost theirs and is now a little resentful towards those that kept theirs. What a way to ruin what would have been a good write up.

corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

[Source: http://www.corpersforum.com/sexuality/what-getting-married-as-a-virgin-does-not-guarantee/]

Sounds like you are bitter person who is angry at those who kept theirs.

What would have made this a better write up is if this came from someone who got married a virgin not someone who is lashing out at those who kept theirs. Then to top it off, you now put a half naked woman and attach it to the write up to prove what exactly? Sorry buddy but this is as shallow as shallow does.

corpersforum:
The Truth can be bitter meeeeeeeen

and what exactly was the point of posting a sexually suggestive picture next to your topic again? What is the correlation?

Jesusgirl92:
you dey mind dem?

I do want to marry a virgin. I want someone with experience.

corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

[Source: http://www.corpersforum.com/sexuality/what-getting-married-as-a-virgin-does-not-guarantee/]

Olosho

All this write up is nothing but pure lies virginity makes God to answer your prayers quickly.

Op is really pained b/cos she is no longer a Virgin, I contradict all that u have written as against the virgins, b/cos God 'll so much honor them with the opposite of what u wrote down there.

All i have to say is, if youre above 21 and still a virgin, i applaud your self control. We understand that virginity doesnt gurantee anything, but it works the other way round too. Life is generally unpredictable, so it makes your points somewhat invalid.

I dont really agree with the tone of your thread. Virgin or not theres someone out there for everyone. Do what makes you happy and keep it pushing. This thread is indirectly telling females to have no sense of pride for keeping themselves pure, which i think is wrong. It takes more to keep your virginity than to lose it, trust me. I normally stand by controversial threads, but i really cant on this one sis. I'm sorry.

Virginity is a state of the mind. I repeat "....VIRGINITY IS A STATE OF THE MIND.."

My 100,000 pounds.....

Nice post.

So becoming a cheerful giver will guarantee all these in marriage right?

What's anybody's business with whoever wants to keep her virginity for whatever reason as long as the person isn't carrying it on her head like gala, which I hardly come across. Only threads by non-virgins subtly or outrightly castigating virgins.

All I see is insecurity dripping from this post, no virgin is looking down on you for not being one, it's all in your mind.

Being a virgin doesn't guarantee what you wrote in your post, being a non-virgin doesn't either. It's a choice.

Live and let live.

Incline:
You make sense, op. When money or cheating problems come up, your going into the marriage as a virgin won't save you. Being a virgin doesn't mean you won't have problems, doesn't mean your wife or husband won't cheat, doesn't mean you won't have any other issues. Besides as a woman it's not like you won't get pregnant for your husband, after you have a child no one's going to remember your virginity again. Be the best version of yourself, have something to take to the marriage besides your virginity.

Ciara wasn't a virgin... she had a son already before she met her christian hubby who wasn't a virgin either, they're happy together and expecting another child, both stayed celibate till they got married. Meagan Good wasn't a virgin till she met her Pastor hubby who wasn't a virgin either but both stayed celibate till they got married. Point is when you meet the right person whether you're a virgin or not, it won't matter. The man or woman you're destined to marry's going to marry you, virgin or not, stop giving yourself headaches. Any man who can't see beyond a woman's virginity is sick. Nigerians have the wrong priorities, i swear. You wonder why your country's messed up. The energy people should be spending to improve the country's being spent on virginity like your world revolves around virginity virginity.

I dear to quote u that our world revolves around virginity, it seems ur beloved wife have already lost her's before u married her. But on a serious note I don't understand how some men knowing fully well that some fellow men like them have entered that woman u still went ahead to make her ur wife, even if it's b/cos of character are there no virgins that possess such character & virtues

Incline:
You make sense, op. When money or cheating problems come up, your going into the marriage as a virgin won't save you. Being a virgin doesn't mean you won't have problems, doesn't mean your wife or husband won't cheat, doesn't mean you won't have any other issues. Besides as a woman it's not like you won't get pregnant for your husband, after you have a child no one's going to remember your virginity again. Be the best version of yourself, have something to take to the marriage besides your virginity.

Ciara wasn't a virgin... she had a son already before she met her christian hubby who wasn't a virgin either, they're happy together and expecting another child, both stayed celibate till they got married. Meagan Good wasn't a virgin till she met her Pastor hubby who wasn't a virgin either but both stayed celibate till they got married. Point is when you meet the right person whether you're a virgin or not, it won't matter. The man or woman you're destined to marry's going to marry you, virgin or not, stop giving yourself headaches. Any man who can't see beyond a woman's virginity is sick. Nigerians have the wrong priorities, i swear. You wonder why your country's messed up. The energy people should be spending to improve the country's being spent on virginity like your world revolves around virginity virginity.

This is wrong on so many levels. The fact that you are a virgin might not mean that your marriage will be perfect but it means that it would save you a whole lot of trouble. It would mean that you won't go into your marriage with so much unnecessary baggage which a lot of couples and the unnecessary scar tissues in your heart from all the nonsense you have been through. There are so many people that go into there marriage with so many issues from there past relationships its not even funny so i don't understand why the writer would write something so reckless. If those guys want to keep theirs let them do so just don't demean there efforts by typing up this rubbish.

aflyingbird:
Good. I've a friend (not me o) who's now single whose bf cheated on her throughout their relationship. She was a virgin, still is, from what she says. A man who wants to cheat's going to cheat even if he met his wife a virgin but you, it's great your wife's virginity's going to prevent you from cheating on her.

But it makes it easier for her to walk away from the cheater than if she had been physically intimate with the guy. Besides, she doesn't run the risk of being pregnant or having a sexually transmittable disease so it his loss not her's.

chloride6:
Nawa for people ooh.......

I have never understood the virginity is....

In the end everybody gets fvuked so what the biggie....

I mean on the average all this virginity ish won't pass 10 years.

You are most probably going to still be a Virgin till 16 and by 26 you would be married, while your punna would be bashed for upwards of 40 years.

So what's the deal?

If it was Virgin for life I would say OK confirm.

Infact 2 years into marriage, your punna would have been so smashed eh?

I still can't get whole ish. Anyways in the end which isn't so far away, we all smashed.

Uhm, besides the possibility of contacting a host of sexually transmitted diseases, having a child out of wedlock and a multitude of emotional issues that come with it i guess its no big deal.