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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 18, 2017
StI'll yet to understand the moral lesson behind shifting this ridiculous topic to front page

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by skedy1(m): 9:41pm On Apr 18, 2017
Summarily, Virginity is not the best gift a woman has to offer to the husband!

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by pweeryambre: 9:41pm On Apr 18, 2017
midehi2:
And one virgin that was married into the family sweeps the house once in 2weeks, hunger will vanish if you enter the kitchen for food, washes clothes with basin in the bedroom....mtcheeeew undecided
lol...hmm for real?
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by noble71(m): 9:42pm On Apr 18, 2017
NAwa ooo

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by gnykelly(m): 9:42pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

[Source: http://www.corpersforum.com/sexuality/what-getting-married-as-a-virgin-does-not-guarantee/]


tell that to holy Mary.
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Nobody: 9:42pm On Apr 18, 2017
Which one be hymen of the mind? LMAO

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Omoluabi16(m): 9:43pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:


No.... but they should stop thinking its all ones need to to get a good home
did any virgin knock on your door to inform you they think they'll get good homes due to their virginity? you've got non virgin written over you. Them don bleep you tire. Live and let live.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by bola4dprec(m): 9:43pm On Apr 18, 2017
Xaos:
Why are non-virgins obsessed with virgins?
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by bola4dprec(m): 9:44pm On Apr 18, 2017
Xaos:
Why are non-virgins obsessed with virgins?
dabi mose da

Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by TemmyWon(f): 9:45pm On Apr 18, 2017
undecided OP you can only sway Virgins by instructions who feel entitled. some remain by choice. eat your bs, I know those, I feel lucky not privileged. Your case is so bad you have to wish bad luck on virgins. I shake head

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by zikter(m): 9:45pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:


Most virgin believe other sins are right in as much as they remain a virgin
all your points aside 1 are valid. but tying virginity to religious point of view may be valid to some but not all. for the fact science is universally accepted, it could have been better to stick with scientific definition of virginity, as not everyone is religious.
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by geekybabe(f): 9:45pm On Apr 18, 2017
To the ladies.
Once d piece of flesh is gone..its gone for life. Its your choice to determine how it happens.
Being a virgin is relative.

Keep yourself. Love your body and cherish it. Dont open it up to filth from free ranging men.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Onwardvic(m): 9:45pm On Apr 18, 2017
But it means u're disciplined and determined.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by gnykelly(m): 9:46pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:


you know am not.... but they should not think thats all what a good marriage is all about
can you answer this honest question.

what is your body count. how many guys.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by tosyne2much(m): 9:46pm On Apr 18, 2017
No how what the OP says, I'm definitely going to keep my virginity for my wife

Nobody should quote me cheesy

Jokes apart, I will always agree with the truth no matter how ugly it is.. You can bash the OP and call her names, you can say this write-up makes no sense but she said the bitter truth which many will find offensive

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by kristian98(m): 9:47pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

[Source: http://www.corpersforum.com/sexuality/what-getting-married-as-a-virgin-does-not-guarantee/]

is this what you use to console yourself after you have been disvirgined?

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by foreverfavoured(f): 9:47pm On Apr 18, 2017
True...but hope this wouldn't end up becoming a source of discouragement to some people
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Merceline(f): 9:48pm On Apr 18, 2017
it is the truth. while sexual purity is highly encouraged, it is a personal decision that doesn't automatically guarantee certain things in life. for instance being a virgin doesn't automatically translate to being honest or neat or hardworking.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by bxcode(m): 9:52pm On Apr 18, 2017
Why would a normal human being bring up a moral standard that is worthy of emulation and write what the person will not gain from living up to such standard. If you are living below that standard, mind your biz and stop telling those above you what they will lose. Have you stopped to think of what you will stand to loose as a result of your own low standard of morality?
To all the virgins, you are rare in our generation. Keep it up. One reward from the seed you have planted will overshadow all the crap Op wrote above.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by nkemdi89(f): 9:52pm On Apr 18, 2017
Very sick thread, in as much virginity doesn't guarantee any of your listed points, that shouldn't mean people shouldn't make their own choice. A girl who decides to be one has her reasons, not all girls are ready to share their private part with one than one man.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Nmadu007(m): 9:52pm On Apr 18, 2017
[color=#006600][/color]kip helpin urslfs feel beta oo...weldon.
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Hassan080196(m): 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2017
This is just nonsense. If virginity doesn't make sense to you, it does to some people. Don't corrupt every virgin girl out there into having sex out of marriage.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Localamos(m): 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2017
bjt:
Are you trying to discourage the virgin crew or what?

Read the article (again) and receive sense.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Nobody: 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2017
bla bla bla undecided

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Nobody: 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2017
If you like write 'epistles' from morning till night, na VIRGIN I go marry last last! angry angry angry

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by newdefinition: 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2017
CaroLyner:
Being a Non virgin doesn't guarantee all that either
exactly

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by Nobody: 9:54pm On Apr 18, 2017
I really don't know what you aim to achieve with this, but my advise to ladies that decide to keep it to the wedding night is
-Let it be strictly because you want to, for your own personal reasons, not because you think it will make your man worship the ground you walk on.
-If your man isn't a virgin, be very prepared_ there are days you might feel cheated.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by kevoh(m): 9:55pm On Apr 18, 2017
This thread is dead on arrival...Just replace virgin in that post with adjectives like non-virgin, christian,muslim,born-again e.t.c and you will get same conclusion.

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by oviejnr(m): 9:56pm On Apr 18, 2017
JohnXcel:
If you like write 'epistles' from morning till night, [b]na VIRGIN I go marry last last! angry
Hehehe, i pray oh. Dey there, even those ones wey dey villa don dey collect. Boys are not smiling grin
Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by cytell56: 9:58pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:
Getting married as a Virgin has been laced with so many lies and fictions. Unfortunately many bought into these lies and became confused when things are not working as they ought for them.

1. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE SEXUALLY PURE.
The bible talk of purity of the body, the soul and the spirit , the body can be touched without tell tale marks, the soul can be so corrupted with evil imagination and the spirit not connected to God. Sexual purity goes beyond an intact hymen...what about the hymen of your mind?

2. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST
The longevity of a marriage is a function of many things that your virginity has no say about. Death, Divorce, Diseases, Disorder, Even the character of your spouse and yours has a say in how long your marriage will be.

3. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WON'T BE BARREN
fruitfulness is a fuction of you and your spouse reproductive capacities and even beyond that, barrenness has many root causes that goes beyond the couple's control.

4. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WON'T CHEAT ON YOU
If a man is not disciplined, he will cheat on you regardless of your virginity status before marriage. Your virginity can't correct covetousness and lust in a man's life.

5. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOUR HUSBAND WILL LOVE YOU.
It takes more than your virginity to be loved, you have your own part to play and he has his. Besides, if a man is not trained or working on loving you, your virginity won't help out. A Man will love you if he choose to and the basis on which he makes that choice is beyond the fact that he met you as a Virgin.

6. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS IN MARRIAGE
God answers our prayers on the basis of his goodness not ours. Your virginity is not a bargaining chip before God, he answers prayers according to his will not according to your virginity.

7. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL HAVE PEACE IN YOUR HOME
Peace in your home is a function of how you and your husband choose to respond and resolve conflict, it's a function of how much you and your spouse want the prince of peace to reign. It's a fuction of your triumph over the spirit of strife or the devil over your home.

8. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GIVE BIRTH TO GODLY CHILDREN
godly children are a product of training, discipline, prayers, hardwork and God's favour. Your children can't be godly just because you as their father or mother is got married as a Virgin. Your lifestyle in marriage is as an important factor in determining the kind of kids you will raise. Besides, many good people are raised by parents who are not virgin when they got married.

9. GETTING MARRIED AS A VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY ATTRACTS GOD FAVOUR
God's favour is recieved on the basis of his goodness, our preparation ànd wisdom. It has nothing to with wether we are Virgin or not when we got married. Mary was not the only pure Virgin in Israel at her time but God decided to choose her, Rahab was a prostitute with a well known office yet she was in Jesus' genealogy, so it is on the basis of his sovereignty

10. As much as I canvass for sexual purity among young people, I cannot but mention the fact that God loves those who are not virgin, he wants them to live their lives according to his Dictate and he loves them just as if they have never lost their virginity.
He is not pleased with those who look down on them for by so doing they make themselves righteous by their own doing.

BY ALL MEANS ABSTAIN FROM SEXUAL SIN

DEVELOP YOUR CHARACTER OR ELSE YOUR VIRGINITY WON'T COUNT FOR ANYTHING TANGIBLE.

REMAIN A VIRGIN FOR PREMARITAL SEX CARRIES ONLY RISK AND REGRETS

STOP RUBBING YOUR VIRGINITY ON OUR FACE.....there are other virtues a man and woman must have, have them and don't be foolish to think being a virgin is all that God wants from you, he wants you to surrender all your being to him let him have a say on your life.

Don't be like the foolish virgins be a wise one that has the EXTRA OIL (something beyond the virginity)

[Source: http://www.corpersforum.com/sexuality/what-getting-married-as-a-virgin-does-not-guarantee/]

This one nah write up or beefing?

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Re: What Getting Married As A Virgin Does Not Guarantee by safarigirl(f): 9:58pm On Apr 18, 2017
corpersforum:
The Truth can be bitter meeeeeeeen
*singing*

You are a ho o
You are a ho o
You are a damaged material....tongue

Aunty, is it your virginity? Eeez it your marriage? Why eez it disturbing you like this? Better goan find where to sew up your vajajay for your man instead of posting rubbish upandan. Eez like one virgin has stolen your man and he put a ring on her finger tongue

*trolling feels so good grin*

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