Richie0974:


It's not just "this nation" Bro, it's everywhere.

Yep

herlarho:
Y did this make fp

Are you one?

Honestly some situations warrant someone becoming a babby daddy or baby mama. But what hurts is when one makes the mistake twice, Or you knows that a guy doesn't love you yet you open your legs and make love with him without protection, Or having it as an intention of either becoming a baby mama or baby daddy even before any relationship.

mrborntodoit:
Single parenting aka Baby mama/daddy didn't just arrive in Africa, although it is widely frowned at but with enlightenment in the society, it has become a way of avoiding divorce especially when the lady / man knows that he/ she is not ready to settle down at the moment .

It is also part of reproduction so lets multiply

I can see too many baby mama/daddy in the house

Timiblanko:




Back then if you look at your child some how he/she would have understand what you mean, but now children will have you what is wrong with your eye...

lolz, exactly.

Lily4star:


Not just girls, add guys too, it takes two to tangle, the ladies can't sex themselves and make babies can they?

They're the one who bear the brunt, so they should make sure a guy sleeps with them with a condom.
Who bears the most stigma from having a child out of wedlock? A woman. A guy can get a woman pregnant and deny her, nothing will happen.
As much it's also the responsibility of a guy to get protection, the woman should be extra careful.

I need a baby mama buh I aint got no 300k to pay ya black as$ every fvckin month

steppin:

They're the one who bear the brunt, so they should make sure a guy sleeps with them with a condom.
Who bears the most stigma from having a child out of wedlock? A woman. A guy can get a woman pregnant and deny her, nothing will happen.
As much it's also the responsibility of a guy to get protection, the woman should be extra careful.

I get the perspective you seeing it from, you are right

Allwility:
Why y'all hating and judging? What's your ish with baby mamas? Y'all acting up as if you're saints and gonna make heaven first.

So cos no one is a saint , no one should condemn an ugly and immoral trend ?
We should stop preaching repentance and salvation cos we aint saints
No!

Lily4star:


I get the perspective you seeing it from, you are right

Thanks. Finally, someone with a good head on her shoulders.

Prettythicksmi:
I reject every spirit of baby mama in my life IJN Amen

hmm mmm...amen...but it starts with closing your legs to even that boyfriend...

endtime things

Julietcutie:
baby mama is just the new way of making giving birth outside marriage look acceptable... nonsense

Gbam!

It just an excuse to commit adultery bikoo
You are way on point

It's really sad..
Even the so called celebs are projecting it as a norm. I wonder where this world is heading to

Nigerians and hypocrisy, always thinking one sin is greater than the other. When people fuc.k outside marriages without protection, what were you expecting? An SUV?

steppin:
Thanks. Finally, someone with a good head on her shoulders.

That made me laugh

What's wrong with baby mama? We ALL hv sex outside marriage, if pregnancy happens as a result isnt it better for d woman to HV d baby than to rid it? All this marriage nonsense was forced upon us by outside cultures!

If you are not happy in a marriage, you should keep suffering just because you dont want to be tag baby whatever.
Well my take is do whatever that makes you happy cos only you will carry the cross.
Marriage is not a visa to heaven and doesn't make baby whatever right

All this nonsense is because it was given a pleasing name like BABY MAMA.

If it was given a shameful name no body would like to tag it to him/her self, since baby mama/daddy is sweet who no go answeram

That's ma take
Thank me later.

I prefer baby mama to wife any day

It has become increasingly difficult for women to bear children this days. Hence the fear of committing abortion and later having infertility issues. When some women consider this things they just keep the babies especially when they are advanced in age i.e 28 and above. I think what we eat, the polluted air and so many chemicals we use on our bodies in disguise of make up and cream and off course drugs have some bad effects on our overall wellbeing. Many times this women weigh their options and decide to carry the baby instead of aborting. Anybody can be a baby mama cus this days women still menstruate even to the 9th month of pregnancy and they don't even know they are pregnant. Strange world or evolution.

It is not for you to judge. Just pray you don't get caught up in such problems.

flyca:
When I'z younger, I wanted to raise my kids in Nigeria despite the lower standard of living because we had higher moral values there. But that's gone!

So by all means, I'm making efforts to raise them abroad.

Baby mama my foot!

... and its "abroad" that has high moral values?

nNEOo:






Gbam!

It just an excuse to commit adultery bikoo
You are way on point

thanks... imagine someone being proud of being a baby mama what happened to wanting to build up a family with a husband and beautiful kids... this world sef end time things

Thank God for the invention of baby mama I don dey think am since kid say I just want baby no wife and here comes babe mama/baby daddy anyway the name sweet for hear

labanji:
Hmmmm,
The baby momma stuff really eating deep into our African Culture!
It hurts me when people especially ladies go about proudly that a baby mama or baby daddy is enough for them in a relationship.
What's your take people, here are several screenshots of conversations and images who go about it with pride...

Fornication & shameless life.

Okay... what should those of us who has kids outside wedlock do?
Kill ourselves with regret? Hate the child and the mama?
Rush into marrying her when not ready?


If you have a baby mama please love her as much as you can pending when you get married!

Nairaland and Nigerian bloggers are exemplars of bad imitation of western things. They are the ones that keeps using that term "Baby mama" till people start accepting the behavior. Nigerians copy everything without bothering to understand the implications

Baby mama this, baby daddy that.
Any girl that feels she can trick me into that shit hole is damn cos something I never prepared for I won't support.
I know some one will say why then did I bleep her at first? The answer is not every bleeping is meant for reproduction so take note.....

Well its non of my business

Pablo411:
Okay... what should those of us who has kids outside wedlock do?
Kill ourselves with regret? Hate the child and the mama?
Rush into marrying her when not ready?


If you have a baby mama please love her as much as you can pending when you get married!

So what if you already have a fiancee that you're soon gonna wed?
Will you still love the baby mama ??

There's nothing wrong being a baby mama/baby daddy

You can do whatever you want and have whatever life you want. It's your life

Remember only you can make yourself happy by doing what makes you happy

Everybody Bleep! And Na Bleep Dy Bring Pikin... Wetin Concern U If Dy Decide To Swallow The Akumu Belleful.. If U Knw Say U No Dy Bleep Raise Up Ur Hand... Iresu Kokoroko

Pesin enta market to buy ideas and now over sabi don dey worry am.
If i knew this is what civilization will cause i would have advised dad not to buy it.
Funny enough, most guys think this is the best way out of a committed life (husband and wife) and ladies will say, "Europeans are proud single mothers for crying out loud".

The question now is "What is right? What is wrong? When do we say this is right? When do we say it is wrong?
The moment we fell flat for entertainment (music/videos especially) to rule our judgement was the time everything fell off. Boys think that what Wizkid wore for a show is the best of outfit and when he throws images of a lady [with a kid] terming her 'baby mama' that he made a ground-breaking achievement.
Many more morals have gone wrong. We only pray for better days.
#AmJustSaying

Pesin enta market to buy ideas and now over sabi don dey worry am.
If i knew this is what civilization will cause i would have advised dad not to buy it.
Funny enough, most guys think this is the best way out of a committed life (husband and wife) and ladies will say, "Europeans are proud single mothers for crying out loud".

The question now is "What is right? What is wrong? When do we say this is right? When do we say it is wrong?
The moment we fell flat for entertainment (music/videos especially) to rule our judgement was the time everything fell off. Boys think that what Wizkid wore for a show is the best of outfit and when he throws images of a lady [with a kid] terming her 'baby mama' that he made a ground-breaking achievement. Even without a history of been married, we applauded him.
It's not mine to fix. Only that many more morals have gone wrong. We only pray for better days.
#AmJustSaying