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ifyalways:
When was the last time you had a proper meal ?

Hungerbad ooo

efonat:
"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples

efonat:
"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples

ifyalways:
Really ?

Dear Lawd

NevetsIbot:
Its painful as 'fear women' isnt written in the bible

ifyalways:
He said the girl was drunk abi? Its a forgivable offence if he truly cares about her. Forgive her and help her be a better person. That's what love is all about.

Lastly only mgbeke's and ekuke's fight for love ; real love is never fought for. It's a free bird, will always come back to you if its truly yours.

Edit : Its the Romance section ? little wonder
The mentions from semi rettards, clever by half and frankly comic dimwits. no be here o

ifyalways:
When was the last time you had a proper meal ?

Hungerbad ooo

thunderbabs:
See dem dey talk....females sha buh if na guy hin gf catch like dt, u go dey tlk nonsense, men are d same shit talk

ifyalways:
He said the girl was drunk abi? Its a forgivable offence if he truly cares about her. Forgive her and help her be a better person. That's what love is all about.

Lastly only mgbeke's and ekuke's fight for love ; real love is never fought for. It's a free bird, will always come back to you if its truly yours.

Edit : Its the Romance section ? little wonder
The mentions from semi rettards, clever by half and frankly comic dimwits. no be here o

sugarbelly:
See some of the unclad pix taken @ http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/04/see-what-this-man-did-to-his-cheating.html

ifyalways:
He said the girl was drunk abi? Its a forgivable offence if he truly cares about her. Forgive her and help her be a better person. That's what love is all about.

Lastly only mgbeke's and ekuke's fight for love ; real love is never fought for. It's a free bird, will always come back to you if its truly yours.

Edit : Its the Romance section ? little wonder
The mentions from semi rettards, clever by half and frankly comic dimwits. no be here o

Doctorfitz:
Correct guy. Just that when she wakes up give her just one hot slap and then drive her... Explain to her u slapped her not because she cheated buh because of the bed sheets u'd have to dry clean...

lefulefu:
u mean hockey stick? thats how a typical naija man go behave na haba!

Uno fit be like that America guy

Piercy:
I am really impressed.. I can still remember when something similar happened to me... Travelled all the way to ex bae house and found her supposed brother on her bed half naked... Lol she was scared as hell.. I simply greeted the guy.. Lol nigga didn't even know me... I said hi to her while she stood like a duck watching.. I said my good bye and left.... Now that's a girl I dated for four years never cheating or looking lustfully at some other gal... Lol funny how good men get into trashy relationship.. I was really hurt as my guys turned it into a comedy for me... But I am grateful I didn't change my attitude towards girls and all ... Somewhere somehow some time the right person comes

Love Machine:
This Monika seems female.

Tuham:
Uno fit be like that America guy

Shiitposter:
They have a kid though, their relationship isn't just some casual hit and go out to dinner kind of thing. Even if it was how can you bring a man into your own man's house? WTF are saying dude? and how do you know she isn't naked from waist down? i mean that's the only side that penetration takes place and it was covered.

NevetsIbot:
Its painful as 'fear women' isnt written in the bible

sugarbelly:
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When most people find their partners in bed with someone else, their first reaction is to scream and yell, but one betrayed boyfriend instead decided it was the perfect opportunity for a photo shoot.

After Duston Holloway from Emory, Texas, walked in to his bedroom and found his girlfriend passed out drunk next to a random guy, he opted to keep his sense of humor about the unfortunate situation.

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Instead of flipping out, he starting snapping photos of them in bed, and he even posed for a selfie in front of the them, later sharing the images on Facebook.

'When you come home to another man in your bed with the one you loved! Good men deserve good women.' he wrote using a peace sign emoji.

The images see Duston's now-ex-girlfriend passed out next to another guy, and while she has her shirt on, he does not.

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The unknown man looked right at home in Duston's bed, and when one Facebook user messaged him to ask if he woke them up, he admitted that he initially wanted to 'kick his a**'.

'But I calmly just took selfies and walked like a boss lol,' he added. 'I did tap her to wake her up but she was drunk as a skunk passed out.

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'I was gonna ask if I was gonna have to sleep in the spare bedroom and what kinda breakfast the dude liked lmao.'

Unsurprisingly, Duston's amazing photos went viral, and thousands of people from all over the world have reached out to him to praise him for staying calm, cool, and collected while finding himself in such a miserable situation.


'Good for you on being the bigger person! I'm sure one day you will find someone will think the world of you!' a woman named Hailey told him.


Giving back: Duston has since taken to Facebook to thank his supporters

Another guy named Maximus offered to take him out to help him find other ladies.

'Yo saw an article about a trick that played you. You ever come out to Cleveland Ohio I got you bro, We'll find you a few to run through. Cheers bruv! [sic]' he wrote.

Duston later returned to Facebook to thank everyone for the support he has gotten.

'I've had thousands of messages thousands upon thousands of people from all over the world congratulate me on being a better man and walking away,' he wrote.

He added that at the time he had 'thought my world fell apart' but the support he received after posting the story left him feeling like 'the world ain't as bad as we think.'

Source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4445222/Man-takes-pictures-girlfriend-bed-MAN.html

shurch:
Devil just forgot to follow him home. He try

ifyalways:
He said the girl was drunk abi? Its a forgivable offence if he truly cares about her. Forgive her and help her be a better person. That's what love is all about.

Lastly only mgbeke's and ekuke's fight for love ; real love is never fought for. It's a free bird, will always come back to you if its truly yours.

Edit : Its the Romance section ? little wonder
The mentions from semi rettards, clever by half and frankly comic dimwits. no be here o

ifyalways:
He said the girl was drunk abi? Its a forgivable offence if he truly cares about her. Forgive her and help her be a better person. That's what love is all about.

Lastly only mgbeke's and ekuke's fight for love ; real love is never fought for. It's a free bird, will always come back to you if its truly yours.

Edit : Its the Romance section ? little wonder
The mentions from semi rettards, clever by half and frankly comic dimwits. no be here o

Franzinni:
duster or what is that your name.... Tell us the truth.... You have been cheating too in fact you were coming from side chicks house when you saw you main chick with her side dude in bed.... And as the player code goes...

Don't hate the player.... Join the game...

But you try aha because if was Baba mulika.... He will on the tiger Gen and connect the sillencer to the room.... Then go back to his babes house for the night..