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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 5:38pm On Apr 27, 2017
I see. Can you tell me where students can work to generate a substantial income?. This doesnt include using a special talent or any thing in that nature. Just general work, which is not rare to do. I'm just curious to know actually
golddust6000:
I who told you nigerian student dont have opportunity to work? I even like the way Nigeria set their own standard. You can work and make money as long as you have the strenght to work.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:40pm On Apr 27, 2017
Men are no longer men, indomie generation lazy constantly broke pained dudes every where. Yall go and work, make money, and be free from the bondage of poverty, Cos you all think like assholes. Sisisy men looking for women to feed them undecided
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 5:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
Aww cry I feel your pain. It will get better hun. Just continue to work hard. It is well cry
Acetyl:
Yeah but really the example I used.Is like you telling a lady you don't have much but felt it's necessary taking her out but on getting there she saw the way you spend and Immediately start telling you she need this and that. And these are things you starved yourself of to get.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by gazlyn(f): 5:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
D lady should also reciprocate his love.buy him gifts and subsequently take him out.it's not a big deal if you can afford it

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acetyl(m): 5:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
Xtopher123:


That is because there is no Understanding in the Family..

My Mom Cartered for my family for over 5 years after my dad lost his Job while trying to build a Startup..

She never for once openly disrespected him nor did my dad till date ever complained she did.. That is called understanding.. Any man that thinks his wife would disrespect him has never for once respected his wife and is Stupidly Insecure
bro those are women of substance, my own mum is also a woman of high pedigree to her husband and we the children but in this era of slay queens, it's hard to find o. Na p***y they just want offer nothing more.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 5:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
grin grin grin
Dominicah:
Men are no longer men, indomie generation lazy constantly broke pained dudes every where. Yall go and work, make money, and be free from the bondage of poverty, Cos you all think like assholes. Sisisy men looking for women to feed them undecided
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by golddust6000(m): 5:42pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
I see. Can you tell me where students can work to generate a substantial income?. This doesnt include using a special talent or any thing in that nature. Just general work, which is not rare to do. I'm just curious to know actually
you said where? When i was still a student i was working as a house keeper in a hotel, i told my supervisor that i am a student then he scheduled the work roaster to my favor, most of they guys working with me at that time were all student.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acetyl(m): 5:43pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
Aww cry I feel your pain. It will get better hun. Just continue to work hard. It is well cry
I Don even dump her ass, no time for nonsense, good ladies are out there...

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by ithink7: 5:45pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

OP, don't be a spoilt brat. Relationships should be give and take. Both party should invest if it is to last.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Adanne9110(f): 5:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
Unemployment can lead to a lot of things..my opinion pls,correct me if am wrong. If a lady is employed at least to meet her needs,I dnt see any reason why she should xpect much from a partner...the interest should be how often does he give u full attention to really know who he is? Wot piss me off in a man is one who doesnt invest. Dnt spend on me but give me the confidence that oure unborn babies are secured,start somewhere so that when the woman comes in she will see where to key in. I dnt want to see a man that rides xpensive car but has been living in a rented apartment for years... I want to see at least quarter plot of land...so if a man wants let him be stingy,so long as I can make ends meet,his money his bizness for now but his investment,my business in future...reminder,,#itsmyopinionooooooo

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by collinscabal(m): 5:48pm On Apr 27, 2017
EmekaBlue:
You were making 50% sense until you wrote this...

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
You said it all


Typical nigerian girl poor mentality
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by lereinter(m): 5:50pm On Apr 27, 2017
dont worry only the time i wan fcok i will invite u and after the action i will give u money abi

am i still stingy

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Safiaa(f): 5:51pm On Apr 27, 2017
Alright
Acetyl:
I Don even dump her ass, no time for nonsense, good lady are out there...
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by ChiefEmekaVilla(m): 5:52pm On Apr 27, 2017
I can't believe what I just read. If your advice for females in a relationship is to only receive then you are myopic and neanderthal in all facets of life. I am not saying it's good to be stingy but it should be a two way street. I'd buy gifts for my girl to surprise her and she does likewise. So you want to cross leg at home for your man to buy credit for you everyday? C'mon gerarrahia my friend!!!
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Adanne9110(f): 5:53pm On Apr 27, 2017
Adanne9110:
Unemployment can lead to a lot of things..my opinion pls,correct me if am wrong. If a lady is employed at least to meet her needs,I dnt see any reason why she should xpect much from a partner...the interest should be how often does he give u full attention to really know who he is? Wot piss me off in a man is one who doesnt invest. Dnt spend on me but give me the confidence that oure unborn babies are secured,start somewhere so that when the woman comes in she will see where to key in. I dnt want to see a man that rides xpensive car but has been living in a rented apartment for years... I want to see at least quarter plot of land...so if a man wants let him be stingy,so long as I can make ends meet,his money his bizness for now but his investment,my business in future...reminder,,#itsmyopinionooooooo
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
Adanne9110:
Unemployment can lead to a lot of things..my opinion pls,correct me if am wrong. If a lady is employed at least to meet her needs,I dnt see any reason why she should xpect much from a partner...the interest should be how often does he give u full attention to really know who he is? Wot piss me off in a man is one who doesnt invest. Dnt spend on me but give me the confidence that oure unborn babies are secured,start somewhere so that when the woman comes in she will see where to key in. I dnt want to see a man that rides xpensive car but has been living in a rented apartment for years... I want to see at least quarter plot of land...so if a man wants let him be stingy,so long at i can make ends meet,his money his bizness for now but his investment,my business in future...reminder,,#itsmyopinionooooooo

You are the first lady actually saying this my entire life Lmao. I'm scared oh. I'm trying hard to beleive you.

Don't spend on you ke ? Aye mi !

I told a girl I was toasting that I just payed 20% for a plot of land. That i will be paying gradualy. Her next question was when am I buying a Car ? Fear catch me.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by phenomem(m): 5:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
pryme:
Op you are not so smart, you are just another material girl blessed with a slow working brain, I won't be surprise if you are a very pretty girl, cos most you pretty girls think it's enough to be pretty and that should be enough for what you have to offer.

I said you are short sighted cos you can't see that what you demand in a relationship is only going to run the man down. If the man is not wise and dump your ass you will ruin him financially.

From your write up it's obvious you are liability.

LIABILITIES HAS NEVER MADE A MAN RICH, ONLY INVESTMENTS DO.

'Nuff said.


Wa gbayii. Geh wey I never know if Na wife material. Come dey spend money on like se I be her atm machine. If I want olosho to furcke and pay, I know how to get one. I wonder what is wrong with our ladies nowadays that they can't stay loyal to a poor man and rise together with him. All they want is a made man just because they are a little pretty. Pretty wey no Jawo. Mtchew

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acetyl(m): 5:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
Adanne9110:
Unemployment can lead to a lot of things..my opinion pls,correct me if am wrong. If a lady is employed at least to meet her needs,I dnt see any reason why she should xpect much from a partner...the interest should be how often does he give u full attention to really know who he is? Wot piss me off in a man is one who doesnt invest. Dnt spend on me but give me the confidence that oure unborn babies are secured,start somewhere so that when the woman comes in she will see where to key in. I dnt want to see a man that rides xpensive car but has been living in a rented apartment for years... I want to see at least quarter plot of land...so if a man wants let him be stingy,so long as I can make ends meet,his money his bizness for now but his investment,my business in future...reminder,,#itsmyopinionooooooo
A mature comment.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 5:55pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
grin grin grin
see all of them barking like dogs in heat, poverty is a disease.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Hugo55(m): 5:56pm On Apr 27, 2017
" The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver". [/quote] OP what have you been smoking! Really!

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by jiorhemen(m): 5:56pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Men are no longer men, indomie generation lazy constantly broke pained dudes every where. Yall go and work, make money, and be free from the bondage of poverty, Cos you all think like assholes. Sisisy men looking for women to feed them undecided
The same admonition applies to women too. You too, go and work and stop looking for men to feed you

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by lereinter(m): 5:56pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
pained much.
op u lack moral training
they tell u truth u dey write pained much
yu better go do ashawo so u can be receiving from guys

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Acetyl(m): 5:58pm On Apr 27, 2017
Safiaa:
Alright
Thanks
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by uk10(m): 5:58pm On Apr 27, 2017
[quote author=quivah post=55977277][/quote]if u have a problem with what i said ,say it rather than highlight i particular sentence,give ur opinions,abi are u the type that does not want to help their man,besideswhat i meant by small busines is that if u have some skills like sewing etc ilu can always help out and what i meant by blogging is that if ur good socially or u a techy kind of girl u can start up a blog just to help him,pls next time give ur opinions instead of pictures undecided
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by ElDadd: 5:58pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Men are no longer men, indomie generation lazy constantly broke pained dudes every where. Yall go and work, make money, and be free from the bondage of poverty, Cos you all think like assholes. Sisisy men looking for women to feed them undecided

See who is talking about poverty, expecting your boyfriend to be sending you 100-100 Naira MTN card..
Broke bastardd.
People are building empires with their boyfriends, opening joint accounts,
If you don't know Beyoncé bought her husband a jet!
Tell me what Jay-Z won't do for that woman.
You're here saying a woman should be dependent on a man.

Even my grandma sold pap, while my grandpa worked with the government. Marriage is not a paid job hoe.. Marriage is team work.

Broke olosho kobo-kobo

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by victorking: 5:59pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
broke guys are a pain in the arse, it's a suffering and smiling relationship.

I agree with you on this one. Though its not a crime to be broke but a crime to be comfortable dating a woman in that broke situation. Its natural for a man dat has pride and self respect to spend on his woman but its not an entitlement, its a choice.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Apr 27, 2017
cruchenuti:


He doesn't until he gets money. Let's call a spade a spade please.

The only girls I dated when I was broke was back in school. Ofcourse, I was broke then and also a student just as she is. So therefore she won't ask me for much.

But outside of school environment. Omo forget oh. If you no get money. Relationship is not for you.

Hmmm... To each own ...I see where you are coming from . But I feel for any lady or man who will date someone who has come into new source of income and lack of experience to treat their partner right .

God will help us .

This word broke is relative to you know .
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by uk10(m): 6:00pm On Apr 27, 2017
jiorhemen:

The same admonition applies to women too. You too, go and work and stop looking for men to feed you
exactly what am saying,even my mom had a shop to support my dad when she was young,i dont understand women nowadays

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by nell4: 6:00pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
my dear Nigerians are so unbelievable. They like to live in denial. You are 10000% correct. For someone that have not witnessed this scenario wil not know the right thing to comment or better still keep it themselves and dieing silently . Nigerians like to endure and always look up for better tomorrow forgetting there is no time. This topic is too deep for those that grasp the information.

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Xtopher123(m): 6:01pm On Apr 27, 2017
Acetyl:
bro those are women of substance, my own mum is also a woman of high pedigree to her husband and we the children but in this era of slay queens, it's hard to find o. Na p***y they just want offer nothing more.

Exactly,

I wonder what Kinda Family the OP came from.. She's already displaying she's a lazy ass bitch and sooner than later would be turned to a House-wive by her so called over spending Husband.. Let her better wise up before its too late
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aremzyolly(m): 6:01pm On Apr 27, 2017
Broke guys or rich guys??

Were you delivered by your mama to depend on guys??


You talk about money and love at the same time ...two elaborate topic!!!

Is your brain using tiger battery ??


I just dey waka pass

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Xtopher123(m): 6:06pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
lazy broke stingy nigga, you don't deserve decent ladies. It's people like you who want a woman to feed them.

I'll rather have an "Indecent" But Hardworking Lady feed me than Have your Sorry Zealous "Over Decent" Self as a Wife waste my Money on Frivolities just because you want to be spent on... #IDIAT

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