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Bamz:
Who broke your heart?

You

Septre:
Adam i thought you only know how to analyze finance and issues relating to it I like the way your mind works

Thanks for the compliment.

Do have a pleasant weekend.

-Lord

BaesDiary:
Introverts have been tagged names ranging from shy, secretive, proud to slow. Infact, people are of the opinion that introverts are people with low self esteem. Most think that introverts would rather stick to a corner of the room, interact with few or no person, than make themselves the center of attraction in a gathering. While the belief that introverts would rather keep to themselves is true, the notion that they suffer low self esteem is pure fallacy.

However, despite the quiet and calm nature of the introverts, there are situations where the recessive ability to act like an extrovert is turned on. One of such situation is when they fall in LOVE!

So, what are the signs an introvert is in love?

1. They let you into their fears and insecurities. Once they fall in love with you, you find them sharing their pains and secrets, which they might have not shared with any soul.


2. They become a chatterbox when they are with you . So, you think an introvert doesn't like talking? That's not true, they have not just met who they are comfortable with.

3. You see the lively side of them. If you think an introvert is boring, it's because you have not seen them with the person who they love. Once they fall in love with you,  the word 'boring' becomes a thing of the past.

4. They bare it all. Introverts may be secretive, but not with the person they love. Once they are in love, you become their human diary. And when there's any news, they talk to you about it first! This is simply because they are comfortable with you.

5. Yes, they are reserved, but they could get vocal in defending the person they are in love with.

6. They could go out of their comfort zones to prove a point. Imagine an introvert dancing with their lover, in the presence of people who have never seen them danced.

7. They could be hilarious. If you think introverts are 'dry' people with no sense of humour, you are probably wrong. When they are with their loved ones, they can be really hilarious, you'd wonder how they came about such comedy!

8. They can tell you the truth. They are honest with whosoever they fall in love with. If you want to know the truth about something, ask an introvert who is in love with you.

9. Yes, they love having their me-time, but they can still share it with that special someone.

10. They become more loving. As you two get deeper in the relationship, they love you more, they show more affection which is seen in the things they do for and with you. With time, you know they can be very romantic.

This post first appeared on this blog - Bae's Diary!

Source: http://www.baesdiary.com.ng/2017/04/10-signs-introvert-is-in-love-with-you.html#more

Op you are absolutely correct,a million likes for this post.I avoid people sometimes just because of my bad temper,the insinuation that introverts are people with low self esteem is nothing but a sheer mischief.

suzan404:
You

Lol I'm only capable of breaking glass cups. Your heart will be safe with me, give me a chance.

LordAdam16:
Really?

Most people are ambiverts. In fact, if I were to make a rough guesstimate, I'll say around 80% of the population are ambiverts leaning at various degrees to either of the two poles--introversion and extroversion.

So don't make this an us versus them thing. Personality like many things is a spectrum or a continuum. Two opposite ends with most people laying somewhere in the middle.

The guy you quoted could very well be an ambivert who tilts less to the introversion side than you do.

Complete introverts are rare. They usually never really open up fully to anyone except people who've shown themselves to be worth it like a favorite sibling, parent or best friend. Which oftentimes cancels girlfriends and acquaintances as people to be overly jovial with. And they most likely have a phobia for going outdoors or meeting other people, which is different from having a preference for staying indoors (which is what most people who identify as introverts but are actually ambiverts do).

That said, being an introvert is not all joie de vivre. If you've never fantasized about taking a dip in the clear waters of Mauritius, traveling to the Pink lake in Australia, or binge drinking while partying to a $100k per show DJ in Ibiza, Spain; you haven't lived.

Go to a concert, meet people for the fun of it, speak in front of an audience for a cause you believe in, volunteer to help others; you'll most likely find it rewarding even though it would sound like a tall order at first.

-Lord

your lucky i like reading, cuz this your post ehn....

soflygerian:
[/quote][quote author=LordAdam16 post=56042813]Really?

Most people are ambiverts. In fact, if I were to make a rough guesstimate, I'll say around 80% of the population are ambiverts leaning at various degrees to either of the two poles--introversion and extroversion.

So don't make this an us versus them thing. Personality like many things is a spectrum or a continuum. Two opposite ends with most people laying somewhere in the middle.

The guy you quoted could very well be an ambivert who tilts less to the introversion side than you do.

Complete introverts are rare. They usually never really open up fully to anyone except people who've shown themselves to be worth it like a favorite sibling, parent or best friend. Which oftentimes cancels girlfriends and acquaintances as people to be overly jovial with. And they most likely have a phobia for going outdoors or meeting other people, which is different from having a preference for staying indoors (which is what most people who identify as introverts but are actually ambiverts do).

That said, being an introvert is not all joie de vivre. If you've never fantasized about taking a dip in the clear waters of Mauritius, traveling to the Pink lake in Australia, or binge drinking while partying to a $100k per show DJ in Ibiza, Spain; you haven't lived.

Go to a concert, meet people for the fun of it, speak in front of an audience for a cause you believe in, volunteer to help others; you'll most likely find it rewarding even though it would sound like a tall order at first.

-Lord

your lucky i like reading, cuz this your post ehn....

LordAdam16:
Really?

Most people are ambiverts. In fact, if I were to make a rough guesstimate, I'll say around 80% of the population are ambiverts leaning at various degrees to either of the two poles--introversion and extroversion.

So don't make this an us versus them thing. Personality like many things is a spectrum or a continuum. Two opposite ends with most people laying somewhere in the middle.

The guy you quoted could very well be an ambivert who tilts less to the introversion side than you do.

Complete introverts are rare. They usually never really open up fully to anyone except people who've shown themselves to be worth it like a favorite sibling, parent or best friend. Which oftentimes cancels girlfriends and acquaintances as people to be overly jovial with. And they most likely have a phobia for going outdoors or meeting other people, which is different from having a preference for staying indoors (which is what most people who identify as introverts but are actually ambiverts do).

That said, being an introvert is not all joie de vivre. If you've never fantasized about taking a dip in the clear waters of Mauritius, traveling to the Pink lake in Australia, or binge drinking while partying to a $100k per show DJ in Ibiza, Spain; you haven't lived.

Go to a concert, meet people for the fun of it, speak in front of an audience for a cause you believe in, volunteer to help others; you'll most likely find it rewarding even though it would sound like a tall order at first.

-Lord

Wise words,respect!

suzan404:
heartbreak keh

every spirit of denial of heartbreak......may Amadioha suspend dat gym session immediately and strike...

MissCuppy:
I am an introvert. It's so sweet to be one.

Date an introvert and have peace of mind .

l will like to date u

I am dating an introvert and I'm not scared because I know what she always does all the time. Her life follows a specific routine. I am the only one who disrupts that routine. Home, work, church and back home. I trust my girlfriend and she trusts me too.
Introverts make the best wives

Kentrasso:
She's probably not. Some introverts are super shy and very sensitive. Over the phone or behind a screen they don't get to see your reaction to what they say so they type freely. But in person they are sensitive to your facial expressions, hand gestures and everything so it's harder to speak in person. Trust me once you do not judge or make them feel stupid they would become very free with you.

you're so on point my dear.....God bless you real good

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CrownStarPro:
I am dating an introvert and I'm not scared because I know what she always does all the time. Her life follows a specific routine. I am the only one who disrupts that routine. Home, work, church and back home. I trust my girlfriend and she trusts me too.
Introverts make the best wives

Nice!

TheLordIsGr8:
every spirit of denial of heartbreak......may Amadioha suspend dat gym session immediately and strike...

.......hehehehe

Bamz:
Lol I'm only capable of breaking glass cups. Your heart will be safe with me, give me a chance.

Lmao....I don't trust you

suzan404:
Lmao....I don't trust you

A leap of faith is all you need.

LordAdam16:
Really?

Most people are ambiverts. In fact, if I were to make a rough guesstimate, I'll say around 80% of the population are ambiverts leaning at various degrees to either of the two poles--introversion and extroversion.

So don't make this an us versus them thing. Personality like many things is a spectrum or a continuum. Two opposite ends with most people laying somewhere in the middle.

The guy you quoted could very well be an ambivert who tilts less to the introversion side than you do.

Complete introverts are rare. They usually never really open up fully to anyone except people who've shown themselves to be worth it like a favorite sibling, parent or best friend. Which oftentimes cancels girlfriends and acquaintances as people to be overly jovial with. And they most likely have a phobia for going outdoors or meeting other people, which is different from having a preference for staying indoors (which is what most people who identify as introverts but are actually ambiverts do).

That said, being an introvert is not all joie de vivre. If you've never fantasized about taking a dip in the clear waters of Mauritius, traveling to the Pink lake in Australia, or binge drinking while partying to a $100k per show DJ in Ibiza, Spain; you haven't lived.

Go to a concert, meet people for the fun of it, speak in front of an audience for a cause you believe in, volunteer to help others; you'll most likely find it rewarding even though it would sound like a tall order at first.

-Lord

Nice piece

BaesDiary:
Introverts have been tagged names ranging from shy, secretive, proud to slow. Infact, people are of the opinion that introverts are people with low self esteem. Most think that introverts would rather stick to a corner of the room, interact with few or no person, than make themselves the center of attraction in a gathering. While the belief that introverts would rather keep to themselves is true, the notion that they suffer low self esteem is pure fallacy.

However, despite the quiet and calm nature of the introverts, there are situations where the recessive ability to act like an extrovert is turned on. One of such situation is when they fall in LOVE!

So, what are the signs an introvert is in love?

1. They let you into their fears and insecurities. Once they fall in love with you, you find them sharing their pains and secrets, which they might have not shared with any soul.


2. They become a chatterbox when they are with you . So, you think an introvert doesn't like talking? That's not true, they have not just met who they are comfortable with.

3. You see the lively side of them. If you think an introvert is boring, it's because you have not seen them with the person who they love. Once they fall in love with you,  the word 'boring' becomes a thing of the past.

4. They bare it all. Introverts may be secretive, but not with the person they love. Once they are in love, you become their human diary. And when there's any news, they talk to you about it first! This is simply because they are comfortable with you.

5. Yes, they are reserved, but they could get vocal in defending the person they are in love with.

6. They could go out of their comfort zones to prove a point. Imagine an introvert dancing with their lover, in the presence of people who have never seen them danced.

7. They could be hilarious. If you think introverts are 'dry' people with no sense of humour, you are probably wrong. When they are with their loved ones, they can be really hilarious, you'd wonder how they came about such comedy!

8. They can tell you the truth. They are honest with whosoever they fall in love with. If you want to know the truth about something, ask an introvert who is in love with you.

9. Yes, they love having their me-time, but they can still share it with that special someone.

10. They become more loving. As you two get deeper in the relationship, they love you more, they show more affection which is seen in the things they do for and with you. With time, you know they can be very romantic.

This post first appeared on this blog - Bae's Diary!

Source: http://www.baesdiary.com.ng/2017/04/10-signs-introvert-is-in-love-with-you.html#more

To all the extroverted dudes out there who gave up on me too soon.
See what you missed.

folakemigeh:
Introverts are the best to date and marry. They hardly cheat and when they are in love with u, it's really true

Why you sooo fine thoughhhh

I hope he hasn't notice these signs in Me, I'd be damned.

why do u think so?

I hope he hasn't notice these signs in Me, I'd be damned.

why do u think so?