by hollyannriordan
He hasn't answered me for three days straight, so I claim that I'm finished with him. That I don't want anything to do with him anymore. That I deserve better than scum like him.
But then his name pops up on my phone screen and I forget all about the promises I made myself. The butterflies eclipse my anger, making me forget that I was even upset in the first place.
Maybe I forgave him because he used an excuse about how he lost his phone or how he's been swamped with work and I forced myself to believe his lies.
Or maybe he didn't even acknowledge the fact that he's been MIA and we both played pretend, acting like everything was fine, like everything was normal.
Either way, I don't care, because he's here now and the now is all that matters. Now, he's paying attention to me. Now, he's interested in me. Now, I'm happy.
But that happiness doesn't last for long, because he keeps doing the same damn things over and over again. He talks to me. Flirts with me. Wins me over. And then he disappears. For one week. Two. Comes back. And the cycle starts again.
Part of it is my fault, because I let him do it, I let him get away with his vanishing act without calling him out on it.
I keep giving him chances that we both know he doesn't deserve, because I have hope that he's eventually going to stay. Because I like playing pretend as much as he does, acting like we're headed toward something serious, like maybe we're meant to be.
The problem is that I have too much faith in people. They make promises to me that everyone else knows they can't keep, but I believe that they can. That they're being authentic and are actually going to do what they say they're going to do.
I've been screwed over so many times that you'd think I'd be a cold hearted skeptic by now -- but I'm not. I'm still as hopeful as ever. I still believe in the goodness of people. I still think positively
But now, i think maybe i shouldn't, i would not be walked over. I should stop giving chances to guys who would still screw me over.. It stops now

Mchew

that means you are a fool

MayhorE:
that means you are a fool

Why the insult?

[quote author=dingbang post=56240357]Mchew[/quo

Unfortunately, you are dating a fvckboy,alias bad guys. That's their trait and trademark. They are often very good in bed....Take heart or break up.

Funny thread

FreeSpirited:
Unfortunately, you are dating a fvckboy. That's their trait and trademark. They are often very good in bed....Take heart or break up.

Ohh so thats wat it means

escapefromusa:


Ohh so thats wat it means

Yea. They will turn you on and off...They also win with sweet mouth and solid excuses

MayhorE:
that means you are a fool

u ar d fool here

Thank God your tittle says "BOYS"
The truth is you're nothing but a piece of meat to him, your singular purpose(to him) is to ease his conji

spencerlouis:
u ar d fool here

I said so because you sounds like one

Marisol911:

Why the insult?

because only fools act like that, using basket to fetch water, is that not lack of Sense, and she came here saying they give *guys* chances they didn't deserve, who DM EPP

Jaynom:
Thank God your tittle says "BOYS"
The truth is you're nothing but a piece of meat to him, your singular purpose(to him) is to ease his conji

Dats true.thank God u are wise nw

aderosh:

Dats true.thank God u are wise nw

You're pretty

Lol

Noted

I dont see d need for insults when some of us here would do worse when in love.it's easy to judge and condemn from afar
I know how u feel dear i just wish u will take a stand,start by talking To him And if he doesn't change please dear block him and start Afresh its not easy but its worth trying to save yourself from d emotional circle.

Marisol911:
by hollyannriordan
He hasn't answered me for three days straight, so I claim that I'm finished with him. That I don't want anything to do with him anymore. That I deserve better than scum like him.
But then his name pops up on my phone screen and I forget all about the promises I made myself. The butterflies eclipse my anger, making me forget that I was even upset in the first place.
Maybe I forgave him because he used an excuse about how he lost his phone or how he's been swamped with work and I forced myself to believe his lies.
Or maybe he didn't even acknowledge the fact that he's been MIA and we both played pretend, acting like everything was fine, like everything was normal.
Either way, I don't care, because he's here now and the now is all that matters. Now, he's paying attention to me. Now, he's interested in me. Now, I'm happy.
But that happiness doesn't last for long, because he keeps doing the same damn things over and over again. He talks to me. Flirts with me. Wins me over. And then he disappears. For one week. Two. Comes back. And the cycle starts again.
Part of it is my fault, because I let him do it, I let him get away with his vanishing act without calling him out on it.
I keep giving him chances that we both know he doesn't deserve, because I have hope that he's eventually going to stay. Because I like playing pretend as much as he does, acting like we're headed toward something serious, like maybe we're meant to be.
The problem is that I have too much faith in people. They make promises to me that everyone else knows they can't keep, but I believe that they can. That they're being authentic and are actually going to do what they say they're going to do.
I've been screwed over so many times that you'd think I'd be a cold hearted skeptic by now -- but I'm not. I'm still as hopeful as ever. I still believe in the goodness of people. I still think positively
But now, i think maybe i shouldn't, i would not be walked over. I should stop giving chances to guys who would still screw me over.. It stops now

This girl sha with fake stories!.. Na u dem invent copy and paste for?

MayhorE:


because only fools act like that, using basket to fetch water, is that not lack of Sense, and she came here saying they give *guys* chances they didn't deserve, who DM EPP

So,is that what is paining you?

FreeSpirited:
Unfortunately, you are dating a fvckboy,alias bad guys. That's their trait and trademark. They are often very good in bed....Take heart or break up.

Yea right?

Yesiambeautiful:
I dont see d need for insults when some of us here would do worse when in love.it's easy to judge and condemn from afar
I know how u feel dear i just wish u will take a stand,start by talking To him And if he doesn't change please dear block him and start Afresh its not easy but its worth trying to save yourself from d emotional circle.

Thanks a bunch, at least somebody on this thread has sense

Jaynom:
Thank God your tittle says "BOYS"
The truth is you're nothing but a piece of meat to him, your singular purpose(to him) is to ease his conji

Thats clear enough now,thank u

TrapHedges:
Lol

I think i missed the joke

All ur post is about relationships,dat makes me wonder if...

Sanemind:
All ur post is about relationships,dat makes me wonder if...

if wat

Marisol911:

if wat

if you have a life outside relationships

Marisol911:

if wat

you know the rest

dingbang:
if you have a life outside relationships

Oh, you want me to tell you a story about how i go to church and attend classes or how I eat or what? . Guy swerve if you don't have sense

Marisol911:

Oh, you want me to tell you a story about how i go to church and attend classes or how I eat or what? . Guy swerve if you don't have sense

lol... She don para.

schumastic:
THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BELIEVE IN THAT SHIT CALLED LOVE.. INFATUATED PEEPS EVERYWHERE

hmm. what to do na.. love is an integral part of life