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I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by masterbator: 10:33pm On May 13, 2017 |
Good day fellow Nairalanders. I've been in this forum for years now but for the sake of this post, I decided to create a new account to conceal my identity and prevent the humiliation that I have actually brought upon myself from getting much worse and severe. I am a 21 year old undergraduate and I can no longer hide this anymore, masturbation is killing me, this act is slowly eating me away and all I've been doing is watch. I masturbate twice daily and this is killing me. I feel depressed, worthless, dispirited, lost the will to live. I've tried a couple times to stop but it's like trying to quit smoking when the pipe is attached to your body. Without masturbation I can not sleep. Without it, I can't go on for a day. It's like a demon that has chained me down. I can't watch myself destroy my own life and that's why I post here. I've been masturbating for 8 years now and I want to stop it please. I need help. NLders please if you are going through this endless self-destructive loop please indicate your interest in quitting. If you have overcome this deamon, please kindly tell me how? Please I need to break free from this. It's destroying every other part of my life. Please if you're or used to be a victim, please let's work this over together, It seems this is bigger than me!!! Please if you want to reach me this is my number 09023624369. Thanks guys for your assistance. Lalasticlala please help a brother 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Zico5(m): 10:39pm On May 13, 2017 |
I like ur spirit. Let me tell u the truth, everyone pass through this very junction before either willingly or unwillingly. The first stage of ur healing is ability to speak out. Mastubation is very dangerous. I was in ur shoe before but I'm free now for the past ten years. Look, there are some steps u need to take to stop masturbation if u are not yet married. One, see mastubation as abnormal and something u must get rid of cos u may not believe it, there are some evil spirit with the act and this make it difficult to quit. Secondly, stop watching pornography and delete any sexual picture or movies on ur phone. Stop reading anything relating to sex either on romance section in nairaland or novels. Third, stop being in isolation for now until u conqure the act. Also dedicate ur time to something meaningful rather than sex. Run to God for help and make determination to quit at all cost. Finally, there is something attached to masturbation that some of us don't know. Masturbation goes with badluck and intense hatred from people. U must notice that u hate urself once u engage in the act. That is the feeling of people towards u as well. I'm in my 40s and I assure u that u can only conqure by ur own will and determination. Marriage can't stop masturbation. I pray God help u in ur healings. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Jaynom(m): 10:40pm On May 13, 2017 |
Twice a day is normal sir. Engage yourself in activities outside your bedroom, get a job and get a girlfriend 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Nobody: 10:43pm On May 13, 2017 |
Go for counselling and pray about it. Shikena 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by masterbator: 10:43pm On May 13, 2017 |
Jaynom: Thank you for your reply! I am a student. I am not really social person and I've never been in a serious relationship before. Don't you think having a girlfriend will make things worse for me? |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Tunagee(m): 10:44pm On May 13, 2017 |
masterbator: Guy try seek God and accept Jesus as your lord and saviour then ensure u stop watching pornography. Also ensure u stop or desist from staring at ladies backsides and boobs. Most of our ladies of these days are one of the causes of guys masturbating with the sexually provocative things they wear.Please make sure u are not always alone most of the time 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by masterbator: 10:45pm On May 13, 2017 |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Nobody: 10:46pm On May 13, 2017 |
Only sporting for portugal spoil my ticket, last game |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by 4our: 10:48pm On May 13, 2017 |
After viewing thru Na switching to another thread win am |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by talk2alabama: 10:50pm On May 13, 2017 |
Some girl should just fvck this guy abeg .. Any girl dats willing should pm me.. I will pay her to fvck him 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Ndukings92(m): 10:52pm On May 13, 2017 |
not just a girl friend but one that is willing to do at any giving time without excuses.I need not remind u that she must live very close. |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Nobody: 10:58pm On May 13, 2017 |
masterbator: bro you need job 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by jejemanito: 11:10pm On May 13, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Lagban(m): 11:22pm On May 13, 2017 |
It is very hard to quit chronic masturb*tion.i am currently in ur shoes but I do mine once a day and at times three times in a week. I have been masturbation for the past 7yrs. You are idle Datz y, try to keep urself busy , it will minimize the number of times you do it . Masturbation is considered a normal and healthy habit if you do it moderately. Welcome to the VASELINE CREW. Finally, try to fvck a lady, it is sweeter and will help u quit masturbation asap masterbator: 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Gladiator1: 11:24pm On May 13, 2017 |
Jaynom:Wch kind advise be this?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Shelloween(m): 11:26pm On May 13, 2017 |
Always have pepper near by. Anytime you get the urge, rub it on your palms. It works. P.S If you are addicted to masturbation then you are 1. An Introvert 2. Addicted to pornography 3. You don't have a gf 4. You don't have a job solution 1. As an Introvert, you need to get social. Hang out with homies. Don't just stay alone. Whenever you get the urge during the day, leave your house and walk around. If it's at night, rub pepper on your palms! 2. Pornography. Even if you can't stop watching porn. Make sure you rub pepper on your palms BEFORE watching porn. 3. Get yourself a Gf. Dick is meant for pvssy not for the hands. 4. Get your ass a job. Masturbation is not an addiction, it's a habit. You can't just wake up one morning and stop a habit. Take your time. Dont forget.... PEPPER is BAE. 13 Likes |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Burna88(f): 11:33pm On May 13, 2017 |
people nd lies Shaa,see ur monicker seff,When u people ll b thinkin wf ur prick instead of yr ....well no one should quote me o,Im Not just well This night . |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by ladikpe: 11:42pm On May 13, 2017 |
Hello, the main reason you can't do without it, it's because your mind has been consumed by sex and you are not married to discharge your sex urge, each time you watch porn, have sex chat, or anything that will ignite ur urge. I advice you 1- give your life to christ, and you will have hatred for sin including masturbation 2- spend quality time reading the bible. these will renew your mind. And I assure you, it's the only way and the best way 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by TosinDru: 11:44pm On May 13, 2017 |
Burna88:Well said You no well... 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Nobody: 11:44pm On May 13, 2017 |
stop watching porn! |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by RichieDaVinci01(m): 11:46pm On May 13, 2017 |
Do up to 6six rounds with babe Sex will be disgusting |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Shelloween(m): 11:47pm On May 13, 2017 |
ladikpe:Fvcking Christians. You think everything is about the bible? What if he reads the bible and mistakenly turn to SONGS OF SOLOMON? Everything no be bible matter. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by SuperWorld(m): 11:48pm On May 13, 2017 |
The truth is masturbation makes your skin fresher.......you may not believe it..... |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Burna88(f): 11:51pm On May 13, 2017 |
TosinDru:we gather dey,trust me |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Shelloween(m): 11:52pm On May 13, 2017 |
SuperWorld:Ewu. 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Beejayx: 11:53pm On May 13, 2017 |
Lol pepper is Bea! |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by TosinDru: 11:54pm On May 13, 2017 |
Burna88:Well I don't trust you... Thanks, sweet dreams |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Beejayx: 11:55pm On May 13, 2017 |
Shelloween:You deserve an award But It should be made of clay Lwtmb o Una dey think ehn 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by masterbator: 12:00am On May 14, 2017 |
Shelloween: Thank you very much. I fall under all categories. I seem to have very strong sexual urge, I will like to calm it down. |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by masterbator: 12:01am On May 14, 2017 |
TarOrfeek: It's not as easy as you say |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by masterbator: 12:03am On May 14, 2017 |
SuperWorld: That's not true in my case |
Re: I Need Help!!! Masturbation Is Killing Me!!! by Drixxx(m): 12:14am On May 14, 2017 |
talk2alabama:Seconded Abeg... NL bbes just help him,he's probably still a V |
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