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Zico5:
I like ur spirit. Let me tell u the truth, everyone pass through this very junction before either willingly or unwillingly. The first stage of ur healing is ability to speak out. Mastubation is very dangerous. I was in ur shoe before but I'm free now for the past ten years. Look, there are some steps u need to take to stop masturbation if u are not yet married. One, see mastubation as abnormal and something u must get rid of cos u may not believe it, there are some evil spirit with the act and this make it difficult to quit.
Secondly, stop watching pornography and delete any sexual picture or movies on ur phone. Stop reading anything relating to sex either on romance section in nairaland or novels.
Third, stop being in isolation for now until u conqure the act. Also dedicate ur time to something meaningful rather than sex. Run to God for help and make determination to quit at all cost.
Finally, there is something attached to masturbation that some of us don't know. Masturbation goes with badluck and intense hatred from people. U must notice that u hate urself once u engage in the act. That is the feeling of people towards u as well. I'm in my 40s and I assure u that u can only conqure by ur own will and determination. Marriage can't stop masturbation. I pray God help u in ur healings.

Thank you very much Sir for your advice.
Please can I pm you?

Lagban:
It is very hard to quit chronic masturb*tion.i am currently in ur shoes but I do mine once a day and at times three times in a week. I have been masturbation for the past 7yrs. You are idle Datz y, try to keep urself busy , it will minimize the number of times you do it . Masturbation is considered a normal and healthy habit if you do it moderately. Welcome to the VASELINE CREW. Finally, try to fvck a lady, it is sweeter and will help u quit masturbation asap

Please brother are you willing to quit?

masterbator:

It's not as easy as you say

if you detest it, you won't ingest it. so start by detesting pornography and it's destructive content.

from me;
to : that dude dat said is it all bout Bible.. I pray God will forgive u..if u have your Bible, you would knw that the Bible addressed situation of masturbation. Read 1thessalonians 4: 3-8,
the vs4 said that each of you may know how to gain or possess your body to holiness, Make use of diff version of the Bible and learn more..

to: the own who needs help.
am happy u spoke out. someone has said it all. God bless that person. do away with sexual book, talks, movie, pix. the pathetic side of the story is that you might not even do all this and still find ursef masturbating,

the first thing you need to do, is genuinely give your life to Christ, pray for a renewal of body, spirit and soul, and grace to live above sin.. the book of romance says make ur body a living sacrifice , worthy and acceptable. then do away with dose those. I knw God will dry that source immediately.

masterbator:


That's not true in my case

but makes you an enemy of God, the flesh lust after the earthly things, while the spirit seeks the things of the kingdom, which do you wanna choose, nd please don't support wat bad no matter reason. Read isaiah 5:20

Shelloween:
Always have pepper near by. Anytime you get the urge, rub it on your palms. It works.

P.S If you are addicted to masturbation then you are
1. An Introvert
2. Addicted to pornography
3. You don't have a gf
4. You don't have a job

solution
1. As an Introvert, you need to get social. Hang out with homies. Don't just stay alone. Whenever you get the urge during the day, leave your house and walk around. If it's at night, rub pepper on your palms!

2. Pornography. Even if you can't stop watching porn. Make sure you rub pepper on your palms BEFORE watching porn.

3. Get yourself a Gf. Dick is meant for pvssy not for the hands.

4. Get your ass a job.
Masturbation is not an addiction, it's a habit. You can't just wake up one morning and stop a habit. Take your time. Dont forget.... PEPPER is BAE.

Pepper?

masterbator:



Thank you very much.
I fall under all categories. I seem to have very strong sexual urge, I will like to calm it down.

It won't be that easy but YOU CAN DO IT. You must try and get a job, it is very essential.

konjinokillme:


Pepper?

yeah, just rub it on your palms. Even the devil can't masturbate with pepper on his palms.

masterbator:

Where can I go Sir? And I'm an atheist.

Na dem. All dem do is fúçk dem hands....

Mr, in my opinion, all this advice of prayer, evil spirits are plain balderdash! No amount of prayer you'll make that will change you for as long as you're not willing.

Find your trigger point, then unwind it. Something definitely, no matter how little or insignificant, would be there to move you. That's what you should work on. Reverse it or avoid or kill it.

You can also read "effect of masturbation on the body" or "phonography and the human brain".

I think you need a girlfriend.


I believe you can't stop since it's​ about sex.




I'm 21 too




there are so many Hot girls out there,




why suffer your by masturbating?

masterbator:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I've been in this forum for years now but for the sake of this post, I decided to create a new account to conceal my identity and prevent the humiliation that I have actually brought upon myself from getting much worse and severe.

I am a 21 year old undergraduate and I can no longer hide this anymore, masturbation is killing me, this act is slowly eating me away and all I've been doing is watch. I masturbate twice daily and this is killing me. I feel depressed, worthless, dispirited, lost the will to live. I've tried a couple times to stop but it's like trying to quit smoking when the pipe is attached to your body.

Without masturbation I can not sleep. Without it, I can't go on for a day. It's like a demon that has chained me down. I can't watch myself destroy my own life and that's why I post here. I've been masturbating for 8 years now and I want to stop it please.

I need help. NLders please if you are going through this endless self-destructive loop please indicate your interest in quitting. If you have overcome this deamon, please kindly tell me how? Please I need to break free from this. It's destroying every other part of my life.

Please if you're or used to be a victim, please let's work this over together, It seems this is bigger than me!!!

Please if you want to reach me this is my number 09023624369.
Thanks guys for your assistance.
Lalasticlala please help a brother

FOR ME THE ONLY SOLUTION IS FOR YOU TO GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST AND BE SERIOUS WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE AND ATTACK THE URGE WITH PRAYERS WHEN EVER IT COMES. TRUST ME IT WORKS AND PLEASE GO GET BUSY AND AVOID BEING ALONE. THAT IS THE ONLY SOLUTION BRO YOU FIGHT IT SPIRITUALLY.

masterbator:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I've been in this forum for years now but for the sake of this post, I decided to create a new account to conceal my identity and prevent the humiliation that I have actually brought upon myself from getting much worse and severe.

I am a 21 year old undergraduate and I can no longer hide this anymore, masturbation is killing me, this act is slowly eating me away and all I've been doing is watch. I masturbate twice daily and this is killing me. I feel depressed, worthless, dispirited, lost the will to live. I've tried a couple times to stop but it's like trying to quit smoking when the pipe is attached to your body.

Without masturbation I can not sleep. Without it, I can't go on for a day. It's like a demon that has chained me down. I can't watch myself destroy my own life and that's why I post here. I've been masturbating for 8 years now and I want to stop it please.

I need help. NLders please if you are going through this endless self-destructive loop please indicate your interest in quitting. If you have overcome this deamon, please kindly tell me how? Please I need to break free from this. It's destroying every other part of my life.

Please if you're or used to be a victim, please let's work this over together, It seems this is bigger than me!!!

Please if you want to reach me this is my number 09023624369.
Thanks guys for your assistance.
Lalasticlala please help a brother

Where do you live.. A face to face help is much better than anything written in text..

Fitnessdoctor come and see this oooo

MEDICALLY,ITS HEALTHY,DO IT ONCE IN A WEEK OR GET A GIRLFRIEND

masterbator:


Where can I go Sir?
And I'm an atheist.

Buy aboniki balm. And rub on ur palm when ever u feel d urge.

I am not ready to quit except I have someone I sleep with regularly to quench my sexual thirst .

masterbator:


Please brother are you willing to quit?

Kingsley1000:
MEDICALLY,ITS HEALTHY,DO IT ONCE IN A WEEK OR GET A GIRLFRIEND

It might be physically healthy, but it's definitely not good for mental and psychological health.

Shelloween:
It won't be that easy but YOU CAN DO IT. You must try and get a job, it is very essential.

I am still an u'grad Sir

nelsonebby:

I think you need a girlfriend.



I believe you can't stop since it's​ about sex.





I'm 21 too





there are so many Hot girls out there,





why suffer your by masturbating?

Thank you brother. I think a part of the problem is my sex drive. It's too high.
Do you honestly think getting a Gf will help me or make the sex drive worse? Because I know of married couples that still masturbate.

TUNSBOYLE:
Only sporting for portugal spoil my ticket, last game

unrepentant mastubator.
We're trying to save a soul your talking about gambling.

Essentials1:


Where do you live.. A face to face help is much better than anything written in text..

Fitnessdoctor come and see this oooo

I live in Port Harcourt.
You can flash or call or text me if you want us to talk.

pm me

Lagban:
I am not ready to quit except I have someone I sleep with regularly to quench my sexual thirst .

Does it affect you psychologically?

maspero22:
pm me

Sir, I'm having problem doing that. But I've sent a mail. Did you get it?.
You can also flash, call, or text my number there on the post. Thank you Sir

masterbator:
Good day fellow Nairalanders.

I've been in this forum for years now but for the sake of this post, I decided to create a new account to conceal my identity and prevent the humiliation that I have actually brought upon myself from getting much worse and severe.

I am a 21 year old undergraduate and I can no longer hide this anymore, masturbation is killing me, this act is slowly eating me away and all I've been doing is watch. I masturbate twice daily and this is killing me. I feel depressed, worthless, dispirited, lost the will to live. I've tried a couple times to stop but it's like trying to quit smoking when the pipe is attached to your body.

Without masturbation I can not sleep. Without it, I can't go on for a day. It's like a demon that has chained me down. I can't watch myself destroy my own life and that's why I post here. I've been masturbating for 8 years now and I want to stop it please.

I need help. NLders please if you are going through this endless self-destructive loop please indicate your interest in quitting. If you have overcome this deamon, please kindly tell me how? Please I need to break free from this. It's destroying every other part of my life.

Please if you're or used to be a victim, please let's work this over together, It seems this is bigger than me!!!

Please if you want to reach me this is my number 09023624369.
Thanks guys for your assistance.
Lalasticlala please help a brother

Hi bro, I initially didn't want to comment until I read a comment that said masturbation is abnormal!
That's a fallacy! I don't think the issue you have is masturbation.
From what I understand you have two issues
1. You are fixated on sex: I believe you are a virgin at your age there is high hormonal rage which if not properly channeled could make you always have the urge..
2. You are not busy ( intellectually and otherwise): everyone gets Hot once in a while, but I know one gets Hot more when he/she is not exerting one's self. Take your education more seriously, read more, hang out more, join your departmental organization. Keep busy.
Once in a while the urge would come, if you feel like rub one off, but don't let your life revolve round it.
Getting a girlfriend wouldn't help much as you would just start having sex, which also comes with as much self guilt as masturbation( if you are a christian).
Be happy, don't focus your life around it. Live, if you love sports, play football, basketball etc.
If you are tired at the end of the day, believe me na sleep go dey your mind.

Nchabuomo:

Hi bro, I initially didn't want to comment until I read a comment that said masturbation is abnormal!
That's a fallacy! I don't think the issue you have is masturbation.
From what I understand you have two issues
1. You are fixated on sex: I believe you are a virgin at your age there is high hormonal rage which if not properly channeled could make you always have the urge..
2. You are not busy ( intellectually and otherwise): everyone gets Hot once in a while, but I know one gets Hot more when he/she is not exerting one's self. Take your education more seriously, read more, hang out more, join your departmental organization. Keep busy.
Once in a while the urge would come, if you feel like rub one off, but don't let your life revolve round it.
Getting a girlfriend wouldn't help much as you would just start having sex, which also comes with as much self guilt as masturbation( if you are a christian).
Be happy, don't focus your life around it. Live, if you love sports, play football, basketball etc.
If you are tired at the end of the day, believe me na sleep go dey your mind.

Thank you so much for your invaluable advice.
You are correct.
I also believe that's there are two routes; theory and experience when approaching the solution of a problem .
Please which are you taking?
Because most of these things are not as easy as said.
I've tried most of these, they didn't quite work out. I don't know what to do anymore.

masterbator:


It might be physically healthy, but it's definitely not good for mental and psychological health.

The only reason you feel it affects your mental health is because you see it as abnormal.If you don't masturbate, wet dreams comes either why the body must biologically reduce fuild content.
A time as a guy we get random erections, even with out having sexual thoughts. Or just the strong urge to have sex (konji).
It is not demons! It's not the devil! It's a biological process.
Apart from the fact that it enables you find out what you like and don't like sexually, it helps you develop emotionally.
I detest the idea of you wanting to get a girlfriend solely because of sex. You might as well visit a LovePeddler house and have a very good time with no emotional entanglement.

masterbator:


Thank you so much for your invaluable advice.
You are correct.
I also believe that's there are two routes; theory and experience when approaching the solution of a problem .
Please which are you taking?
Because most of these things are not as easy as said.
I've tried most of these, they didn't quite work out. I don't know what to do anymore.

Which have you tried exactly?
I masturbate, if that's what you mean by experience.
Do I live my life around it? No..... Would I enter a relationship just because I want constant knacks? No

Shelloween:

1. Whenever you get the urge during the day, leave your house and walk around. If it's at night, rub pepper on your palms!

2. Pornography. Even if you can't stop watching porn. Make sure you rub pepper on your palms BEFORE watching porn.

PEPPER is BAE.

hahahahahaha

Looool Pepper is bae. You guys wouldn't kill me

Nchabuomo:

Which have you tried exactly?
I masturbate, if that's what you mean by experience.
Do I live my life around it? No..... Would I enter a relationship just because I want constant knacks? No

How do you feel after jerking off?