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Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by tunmininu(f): 12:48pm On Apr 30, 2007

Hey guys,i don't really understand u, Are u talking about men 30s or big daddies of about 50 and above?
I think it all depends on what we want.For me,my boyfriend is 9 years older than i am and we are getting on well.A guy of my mate might not be able to pamper me and care for me the way he is doing.He drops me off at work everyday and he finds time to come and pick me off sometimes.He advises me on somethings that has to do with my future.He's always there to give a helping hand.
I doubt if a guy of my mate could reason in that direction.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by moondust(m): 1:53pm On Apr 30, 2007

age is just a thing of numbers, I've seen older men who act and reason like birdshit
and also younger men who are mature beyond their age,
so age shouldn't determine who u have a relationship with.
its all got 2 do with the mind and intellect.
An observant girl should know
when a Man of prospect crosses her path. nuff said

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by BillGatesFan(m): 9:33pm On May 09, 2007

Ladies dates older men just for two reasons, one MONEY and secondly those who dates older men are those that don't like sex all the time,so they prefer older men who won't be digging them all the time like young men. You should know that not every woman loves sex.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by ATLANTA96(m): 11:26pm On May 21, 2007

SO MANY LADIES FEEL THAT THE YOUNG ONCE ARE NOT REALLY CARING ENOUGH.
AND THESNME TIME THEY CAN'T SPEND ON THEM ,
BUT THAT IS OKAY, KOOL, BUT THE MOSTH WICK ONCE WILL EVEN PREFFER MARRIED
MEN, THAT MAKES THE WHOLE THING BAD, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by ATLANTA96(m): 11:30pm On May 21, 2007

what do u think about it?

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by cuju: 1:24pm On Jun 19, 2007

I can't date someone my age. Has to be 4/5 years older.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by Echidime(m): 8:19am On Jun 20, 2007

Nothing attract women in this world like MONEY,even if a man is 15 years younger a lady she will date him,and if the man is 20 years older she will still date him so long as he has the CASH. Only comfort makes a woman love a man, nothing more. All those pretending love songs are nothing but ILLUSIONS of the highest ORDER.

Secondly, is SEX,how long her man can last in bed determines if she can stick to him or not,even at that he MUST have money oooooo because na sex I go chop will be her everyday song to the man.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by Oluoma4chi: 11:12am On Sep 28, 2007

tunmininu:
Hey guys,i don't really understand u, Are u talking about men 30s or big daddies of about 50 and above?
I think it all depends on what we want.For me,my boyfriend is 9 years older than i am and we are getting on well.A guy of my mate might not be able to pamper me and care for me the way he is doing.He drops me off at work everyday and he finds time to come and pick me off sometimes.He advises me on somethings that has to do with my future.He's always there to give a helping hand.
I doubt if a guy of my mate could reason in that direction.

HOW I WISH cry

BUT AM SURE MY GUY WILL DO THE SAME IF AROUND kiss

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by mellow(m): 11:56am On Sep 28, 2007

When I am old and they still follow me then and only then

can I know why they follow older men. _{But who really cares?}[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by iykefred(m): 9:28am On Sep 29, 2007

money and security, atleast thats's what i think

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by Kitefly: 6:44am On Oct 01, 2007

Personally, I think younger women and older men is OK since such age gap relationships are become more and more common these days. Also some survey show there are more and more younger men turn to older women. So why there are some expert sites serve for the age gap relationships, and I know a great age gap love support site Agematch.com can give you the answer. wink

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by ufobabe(f): 10:55am On Oct 01, 2007

older guys are more caring, loving and otherwise than young guys of this generation

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by SisiNene1(f): 12:21pm On Mar 14, 2008

older guys will handle u more maturely.younger guy usually jealous,from experience.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by fluter: 8:53pm On Dec 05, 2009

Lately I've been harassed by younger guys I work with. I'm a mature 57yrs. old Black man (not African American) There's a difference. I look much younger than I'm. I know I have always appealed to most women of all ages and races. I never gave it much thought considering my background and upbringing. Being older I listen between the lines. What I see and hear is the majority of young men today, very insecure and naive (walking videos) talking out the side of there neck.
Trying to be a man. Thinking that youth gives them some advantage in life (young and dumb) The last generation of real men was in my era.
The younger woman and boy men today know it. These youngsters today are lost morally and are faking that they know what life is about and don't want to be taught. When I was young I suspected this day would come. So pull your pants up partner and shut up and open your ears and mind. You might learn something. Let the old man pass, 60'S Ruleand you know it

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by oakestiara: 6:22am On Mar 09, 2010

Well i need some advice. I am takling to an older man at the moment. He is a great guy and just sweet, funny caring, and so forth. We have so much in common to. From music to foods it is just a great thing to me. And as young and crazy as this sounds, when I am around him I feel natural I feel like myself. I feel on top of the world. He really makes me happy. This is our situation though. i am 21 years old and he is 41 years old. He has 3 children also and has been previously married. All those things I cast aside because that is his past and everyone has one. He is a teacher and a part time musician. I am a model and a student in college. People may judge us on the outside because I am young and attractive and he is older (but he is attractive too!

). But I am concerned. I know that I have asked him if he was okay anbd happy dating me, and he said yes. I beileve him too. I just wonder if it is worth it to continue to keep dating. I know he is 20 years my senior but I care about him and I think its worth it. I think he is worth it. Can i get some advice?>

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by oakestiara: 6:30am On Mar 09, 2010

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by chizyjay: 9:30pm On Apr 07, 2010

I feel older men are more understanding and caring, than younger ones

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by gombos: 9:15pm On Apr 13, 2010

Men mature more slowly than women, being with an older man equals out the level of maturity and usually ensures you don't end up with a childish man. Nothing more to it

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by matureman1: 1:36am On Aug 08, 2011

I'm a 44 soon to be 45 my girl friend is 12 yrs. younger than I however she can really test my patience’s we've been together a while now and she is having growing pains or something. She wants a baby but she acts like a child at times. When she says she loves me I think to myself she doesn’t know the true meaning of the word. I rather she say I like you a lot rather than lie or miss interrupt the meaning. I show her through action what I LOVE YOU means and I think she miss the mark every time we argue no compromise for issues I truly find childish.
If a mature man only keeps young women for sexual purpose he is not a mature man. There’s more to a women than what is between her legs. Just like there’s more to a man than how deep his pockets are and the has a penis. That is very superficial

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by MrsChima(f): 1:44am On Aug 08, 2011

Because OLDER mem date younger girls. DUH.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jun 13, 2012*

everyone with her choice

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by queensmith: 7:05pm On Jun 13, 2012

I will never date an old man, i wouldnt even date a guy thats over 26 talkless of an old one. I'm still extremely disgusted at my friend who married one of our teachers. Why will a vibrant young woman marry an old man is a very good question.

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by ivorybabe88(f): 4:15pm On Oct 16, 2012

da808cutie: personally, if i were to go out with an older man, it would be because he's a lot more matured in mentality.

ummmm hell yea, women go for older guys because there more mature, and they know what they want in life, n have already exprienced the crazyness of life, and so are more laif back then the young ones who are still panty chasers.......when dating a guy of the same age as me, i always feel like the lack maturity

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by jpphilips(m): 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2013

mali: Why ladies date older men: When you see a pretty lady going out with a much older man, some will say she is a gold digger, that she has no love for the man or it was because of the man's money that she is going out with him. This may be true in some cases, but there some things that attract young ladies to older men and not just their money.

In the first place some ladies like attention: they like aman who can pet them, make them the fucos and centre of their lives. Older men treat a woman this way more than younger men. An older man would be proud that he has such a beautiful girl to call his own. He would be very appreciative of what he has, so he will treat her with much reverence. He will pay her all the attention she needs, and pet her, treat her like a queen and a lady.

But a younger boyfriend will not give her all the attention or treat her thesame way. What do you think?

How many young gals do you see with very poor Old men?

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by swagallyugly(m): 9:06am On Dec 19, 2013

what bout the older men that these ladies "baby" huh

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by Edusouls(m): 3:51pm On Feb 08, 2015

hahaha that's always the case with models, flirts and they love money like mad, a 20years older man than you? my girl you at the back of ur mind u love money and you are with him cos he provides for you and stop talking rubbish...

oakestiara:
Well i need some advice. I am takling to an older man at the moment. He is a great guy and just sweet, funny caring, and so forth. We have so much in common to. From music to foods it is just a great thing to me. And as young and crazy as this sounds, when I am around him I feel natural I feel like myself. I feel on top of the world. He really makes me happy. This is our situation though. i am 21 years old and he is 41 years old. He has 3 children also and has been previously married. All those things I cast aside because that is his past and everyone has one. He is a teacher and a part time musician. I am a model and a student in college. People may judge us on the outside because I am young and attractive and he is older (but he is attractive too! ). But I am concerned. I know that I have asked him if he was okay anbd happy dating me, and he said yes. I beileve him too. I just wonder if it is worth it to continue to keep dating. I know he is 20 years my senior but I care about him and I think its worth it. I think he is worth it. Can i get some advice?>

Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men by Edusouls(m): 4:00pm On Feb 08, 2015

girl ur age bracket is excellent, he 9 years older,that's good, at least 10years gap for the male is the maximum..you are more honest with ur self than your fellow golddiggers that defend their extreme acts for money by justifying their relationship with their fathers mates...

tunmininu:
Hey guys,i don't really understand u, Are u talking about men 30s or big daddies of about 50 and above?
I think it all depends on what we want.For me,my boyfriend is 9 years older than i am and we are getting on well.A guy of my mate might not be able to pamper me and care for me the way he is doing.He drops me off at work everyday and he finds time to come and pick me off sometimes.He advises me on somethings that has to do with my future.He's always there to give a helping hand.
I doubt if a guy of my mate could reason in that direction.

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