When i saw the heading i knew it was gonna be an igbo girl...this is one thing i hate about em the igbos...they are extreme tribalists....as a southerner that i am i prefer doing things with a northerner, westerner or still my fellow southerners...


SayNoToTribalism.

firstking01:
When i saw the heading i knew it was gonna be an igbo girl...this is one thing i hate about em the igbos...they are extreme tribalists....as a southerner that i am i prefer doing things with a northerner, westerner or still my fellow southerners...


SayNoToTribalism.

Wen i saw the heading, i knew it would be a yoruba biitch crying over the tribe they are most obsessed with in Nigeria. Go and marry ur own.
Wen it comes to pussy and dick u scream tribalism but wen it comes to telling igbos they will never be allowed to rule Nigeria, u are content.
Go and marry ur fellow Afonja and stop talking nonsense.


#SayNoToAfonjaObsession

TimmyPapa:
She's very serious very very she's from Enugu

She has told you her fears and even her feelings.
She's obviously going to listen to her family, as she says she understands their struggles over her.
Please, let her go.
Its a different thing if she's strong in her beliefs towards the love you both claim to have for each other.
But she has second doubts and is not ready for the trouble she will have to face with her family.

Go and look for your own wife. I say this because she would still leave you at the end of the day to marry her parent's choice.

legitnow:



Wen i saw the heading, i knew it would be a yoruba bitch crying over the tribe they are most obsessed with in Nigeria. Go and marry ur own.
Wen it comes to pussy and dick u scream tribalism but wen it comes to telling igbos they will never be allowed to rule Nigeria, u are content.
Go and marry ur fellow Afonja and stop talking nonsense.


#SayNoToAfonjaObsession

I don't even know what you are spewing…seems you are optically shortsighted abi

In this political climate, wen people are talking about Biafra and Hausa threatening thunder and brimestone, this one is crying over spilt milk.
Yoruba are not in Igbo people best of Book and to be frank intertribal marriage is based on mutual friendship, cooperation and consent between tribe. Igbo and Yoruba are Enemy. Y do u want to marry ur enemy?

Oyindidi:
Funny enough, I vowed never to marry from my tribes ( my dad and mom's tribe). Even my kids won't marry from there. If they listen to me.

N which tribe is DAT? Hope not Yoruba ooooo......coz I got my eye on U...

firstking01:
I don't even know what you are spewing…seems you are optically shortsighted abi

Marrying from ur tribe is the norm, intertribal or interracial is the exception, dont turn it on its head.

Oyindidi:
Just don't like our men, they flirt a lot

.......

legitnow:
Is it a crime to marry from your tribe?

Wetin dey pursue yoruba men from their women?

U hate Igbo, tell igbo dey will never rule Nigeria, support HausaFulani in killing of Igbo, Ur tribe man Awolowo dreamt up a plan that cost 3 million igbos their life, then ur entire tribes men want to marry from the same igbo.

Una wan finish dem?

Ur a fool! Nobody hates u but most don't agree with ur attitude..... N u dare accuse awolowo? Who started d war by plotting d first ever coup in d country? It has been since then DAT nobody trusts u!!!
Now get d fvck OUT

Intertribal marriages rarely last.
Take data on majority same ethnic group marriages and intertribal marriages, u will see that the rate of divorce is far higher with intertribal marriages. There are few intertribal but record high level of divorce in comparison to the later.

Even take celebrity sample, the rate of divorce in this marriages is very high.Tonto Dikeh, Monalisa Chinda Uche Iwuji to Juwon Lawal, divorced after baby. Monalisa Chinda to Segun Dejo Richards divorced after baby, Ngozi Nwosu, Stepnora Okere Stella damasus divorced after baby and Clarion Chukuwura used for baby by Shina Peter, used by Tunde Abiola and divorced and then Femi Odunaye and divorced.

luminouz:

Ur a fool! Nobody hates u but most don't agree with ur attitude..... N u dare accuse awolowo? Who started d war by plotting d first ever coup in d country? It has been since then DAT nobody trusts u!!!
Now get d fvck OUT

Dude, u are talking to somebody that does not care about u one bit, we just want u guys to stop coming to disturb us in our house.

#enoughisenough

legitnow:


Dude, u are talking to somebody that does not care about u one bit, we just want u guys to stop coming to disturb us in our house.

#enoughisenough

Why reply den tribalist?

I rembr in ma service year dir is dis igbo guy dat hated yoruba so much but y...nd it not as if d igbos lik demselvs

TimmyPapa:
I rembr in ma service year dir is dis igbo guy dat hated yoruba so much but y...nd it not as if d igbos lik demselvs

A yoruba man telling us igbo dont like demselves, can u see y dey pursued u from their house before u infect their daughter with ur hatred? U think u have right to marry their daughter? Dey also have right to refuse. That is wat freedom entails.

legitnow:


A yoruba man telling us igbo dont like demselves, can u see y dey pursued u from their house before u infect their daughter with ur hatred? U think u have right to marry their daughter? Dey also have right to refuse. That is wat freedom entails.

In fact dis guy is d most hated in our lodge
2igbo guys were cookin together den.. he went nd brok dir relationhip...he fougt wit almost alll d corpers den..

TimmyPapa:

In fact dis guy is d most hated in our lodge
2igbo guys were cookin together den.. he went nd brok dir relationhip...he fougt wit almost alll d corpers den..

For your info, i am yet to see a group that love each other as the igbo. They are the most united tribe in Nigeria. Their unity is perceived as a threat to other tribes in Nigeria that is y u hear things like igbo domination and a sadistic mofo open a thread to cry about being rejected. I feel ur pain.

If u want to know a group that hate each other, it is Yoruba, that is y dey keep running t other tribes to beg marriage. Even their Ooni of Ife refused to marry a Yoruba. Their Oba are thugs and constantly at each other neck. U want to talk about like start from your tribe which u belong, dont jump into other tribes u know nothing about to talk nonsense.

One yoruba king is a muslim, hating the Christian yoruba King. This is a reflection of yoruba society and their disdain for one another.

Mere hand shake rejected.

legitnow:



For your info, i am yet to see a group that love each other as the igbo. They are the most united tribe in Nigeria. Their unity is perceived as a threat to other tribes in Nigeria that is y u hear things like igbo domination and a sadistic mofo open a thread to cry about being rejected. I feel ur pain.

If u want to know a group that hate each other, it is Yoruba, that is y dey keep running t other tribes to beg marriage. Even their Ooni of Ife refused to marry a Yoruba. Their Oba are thugs and constantly at each other neck. U want to talk about like start from your tribe which u belong, dont jump into other tribes u know nothing about to talk nonsense.

One king is a muslin hating the Christian yoruba King. This is a reflection of yoruba society and their disdain for one another.

Mere hand shake rejected.

Massob or Ipob or niger delta. Wch 1 agree

TimmyPapa:

Massob or Ipob or niger delta. Wch 1 agree

Fcuck u punk! Dont let me catch u crying like a biitch over a pussy dat dont belong to u again.

legitnow:


Fcuck u punk! Dont let me catch u crying like a biitch over a pussy dat dont belong to u again.

See uu.. then tell ur gals to stop lovin us

TimmyPapa:

See uu.. then tell ur gals to stop lovin us

Are u alone in the lovin? Wat will the Whiteman, Edo and Hausa say about that?
I bet u have no job and very poor? No wonder they pursued u.

If it is exclusive sef, it is with us the Igbo men.
Do u know how many of our women wait on us for marriage?

If u were a woman, u would be called names like slag, slut, Ashawo. Do u know y?
U are ready, willing and waiting, just about any woman with the igbo tag will activate the marriage button in ur Afonja head.
Igbos have come to realize this.

The only problem is after kids, u move on to the next, becos polygamy is deep in ur blood.
Look, i will tell u any nonsense that i like here, becos u are an idiot as far as am concerned.

TimmyPapa:
I don't understand.. dir Is dis lady i met 2 years ago nd smthg popped up btw us.. we strted dating sinc last year. I am a yoruba she is an Igbo gal.. now we are about stepping things up.. Most time wen we ar together she's always lost in thought and wen if I ask wat d mattr is..she ll tell me nt to worry but one day I frankly pester her and she den told me that her parent won't allow her marry a yoruba guy.. I was like why @ dis present age? She said her parent has tried on her nd she won't wana betray dem....and I could remember the first time I told ma fwen about d lady d moment I mention she was igbo he told me immediately guy forget her..... pls I Don't understand is it a crime to marry someone u love from another tribE...

Another Yoruba crying over Igbo

vicmangs:
Even so, after the marriage there maybe no peace and hermony between the two families.

@Timmy, I don't know everything.
But I'm telling everybody willing to hear that if my family maltreats my wife, I AM 100% RESPONSIBLE FOR IT.
how can my family come to my house and insult my wife?
That person will receive thunder and brimstone from me.
I'm an adult and my family's role is to advice and mine is to do and they should keep their boundaries.
Thank GOD I have a great family

TimmyPapa:
I don't understand.. dir Is dis lady i met 2 years ago nd smthg popped up btw us.. we strted dating sinc last year. I am a yoruba she is an Igbo gal.. now we are about stepping things up.. Most time wen we ar together she's always lost in thought and wen if I ask wat d mattr is..she ll tell me nt to worry but one day I frankly pester her and she den told me that her parent won't allow her marry a yoruba guy.. I was like why @ dis present age? She said her parent has tried on her nd she won't wana betray dem....and I could remember the first time I told ma fwen about d lady d moment I mention she was igbo he told me immediately guy forget her..... pls I Don't understand is it a crime to marry someone u love from another tribE...

don't let what any one says get to you. It's ur happiness.. Fight for it...

TimmyPapa:
I rembr in ma service year dir is dis igbo guy dat hated yoruba so much but y...nd it not as if d igbos lik demselvs

@TimmyPapa, it's like your still stuck on tribalism yourself.
If you don't stop it, even the winds will work against you.
You have to be true to what you want so GOD himself can work for you too.
Hard to tell you the lady I am after is Yoruba.
Listen, you must first love that girl, her family and her people (tribe), if not the marriage won't last.
And this is why intertribal marriages don't last, "you love the lady but not her people".
I live and work in the west and can bring up a 100 of this issue you brought up but I make the best of my future in-laws (if GOD helps me at last).
Don't mind all these tribalists from both divide in nairaland here wasting their energy.
I TRUE CHRISTIAN AND I "CANNOT" HATE ANYONE MADE BY GOD, TALK MORE SOMEONE FROM ANOTHER TRIBE I HAVE NEVER MET.
TIMMY, stop being a tribalism yourself. That's my advice

Cherez:

@TimmyPapa, it's like your still stuck on tribalism yourself.
If you don't stop it, even the winds will work against you.
You have to be true to what you want so GOD himself can work for you too.
Hard to tell you the lady I am after is Yoruba.
Listen, you must first love that girl, her family and her people (tribe), if not the marriage won't last.
And this is why intertribal marriages don't last, "you love the lady but not her people".
I live and work in the west and can bring up a 100 of this issue you brought up but I make the best of my future in-laws (if GOD helps me at last).
Don't mind all these tribalists from both divide in nairaland here wasting their energy.
I TRUE CHRISTIAN AND I "CANNOT" HATE ANYONE MADE BY GOD, TALK MORE SOMEONE FROM ANOTHER TRIBE I HAVE NEVER MET.
TIMMY, stop being a tribalism yourself. That's my advice

See am nt bn tribalistic I am just proving to d guy that igbos r more tribalitic compared to yorubas

It's not you , it's that whole family. Marry someone who will contribute to the social,emotional and intellectual intelligence of your children not stifle it with archaic views on tribes and life in general.

vicmangs:
Even so, after the marriage there maybe no peace and hermony between the two families.

Bro! ...they will have no choice ... N if they decide to try any funny move ... I will cut relationship wit parents but will still be sending money for feeding ...

As for my brothers ...we as like a blood army ...we all go in d same direction! ... My dad worked his way without any of his extended family support yet we ar surviving ... If he can do it!... What stops me from doing such!

I just hate that statement of rejecting someone I strived to have as a wife for life! ... I know yu would say what of if my wife leaves me or our marriage doesn't work out well!

Bro! ... I would rada die Dan crawl back n ask for deir forgiveness! ... I fight for wat I want n love! ... Am prepared to face the ThrillingConsequences of my Actions! ... It is either I stand or I die! ...I don't crawl ...I don't leap ...for any help!

I will not choose a woman before my family but I will choose my life before my family ...Nd that's why I RecoilTheTriggerOfMyStand that My Wife is My Life! ...Nt a maidenOfTheOtherRoom!

swagguElite:
Bro! ...they will have no choice ... N if they decide to try any funny move ... I will cut relationship wit parents but will still be sending money for feeding ...

As for my brothers ...we as like a blood army ...we all go in d same direction! ... My dad worked his way without any of his extended family support yet we ar surviving ... If he can do it!... What stops me from doing such!

I just hate that statement of rejecting someone I strived to have as a wife for life! ... I know yu would say what of if my wife leaves me or our marriage doesn't work out well!

Bro! ... I would rada die Dan crawl back n ask for deir forgiveness! ... I fight for wat I want n love! ... Am prepared to face the ThrillingConsequences of my Actions! ... It is either I stand or I die! ...I don't crawl ...I don't leap ...for any help!

I will not choose a woman before my family but I will choose my life before my family ...Nd that's why I RecoilTheTriggerOfMyStand that My Wife is My Life! ...Nt a maidenOfTheOtherRoom!

Guy you're a man, I am in love with these words of yours.
This kind of mind is what we need in this country, TRUE PATRIOTS able to rise above sentiments and uphold Nigeria or what they truly believe in.
Man, you be true ELITE.
@Timmy, if you cannot statistically prove it with a good level of confidence then you might prolly be one of them here on nairaland.

Cherez:


Guy you're a man, I am in love with these words of yours.
This kind of mind is what we need in this country, TRUE PATRIOTS able to rise above sentiments and uphold Nigeria or what they truly believe in.
Man, you be true ELITE.
@Timmy, if you cannot statistically prove it with a good level of confidence then you might prolly be one of them here on nairaland.

Brother am taking my stand.....
Even wen I first aske her out she said she has nevr dated a yoruba guy nd can nevr do it...buh now she's dwelling in d love

SEXONLY:
TimmyPapa, I will strongly advise you to quit the relationship with immediate effect. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage/home. There is nothing you will do that will make her family to change their perceptive and i want you to know that it required more than LOVE to stay in a marriage. Leave their daughter for them now and get yourself another lady because if anything should happened to their daughter you will regret coming to this world.
My bitter advise.

IF YOU NEED A PICKER IN THE UNITED STATES, CONTACT ME FOR BUSINESS.

This rubbish u call advice doesn't make sense one bit. So u can see into the future to know if sonething negative would happen to the marriage? Even people whom both parents agree cab face issues latter in the marriage. Op I can assure if u r tuelly serious den it's only a matter of time. Show seriousness by going with a male elder member of your family atleast. I v seen plenty of cases like this and in the end love prevailed. Hardly any Igbo family that u will go to now as a non Igbo dat they will accept u immediately. Igbos don't just marry the children but the both families. And your girl also has her role to play by making her patents realise u r a good person and the one for her.

Cherez:


Guy you're a man, I am in love with these words of yours.
This kind of mind is what we need in this country, TRUE PATRIOTS able to rise above sentiments and uphold Nigeria or what they truly believe in.
Man, you be true ELITE.
@Timmy, if you cannot statistically prove it with a good level of confidence then you might prolly be one of them here on nairaland.

Yu overwhelm Me Wit ATintedBlushingOnThePedalsOfMyCheek! ... Thanks a lot ...my friend!