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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Apina(m): 7:43pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.
I just can't believe there are brain dead peeps like Urself still roaming this forum. Money can never buy u life or love, I know u and those frustrated and confused ignoramuses will in ur defense say its better to cry in a range rover bla bla bla. Ewu! U will die frustrated, unhappy,lonely and unloved cos just like a piece of tissue, ur only purpose will be to clean someone else's sh.it.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Cinderella5(f): 7:52pm On Jun 02, 2017
Apina:

I just can't believe there are brain dead peeps like Urself still roaming this forum. Money can never buy u life or love, I know u and those frustrated and confused ignoramuses will in ur defense say its better to cry in a range rover bla bla bla. Ewu! U will die frustrated, unhappy,lonely and unloved cos just like a piece of tissue, ur only purpose will be to clean someone else's sh.it.
so much pain in your post, eya kpele.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by firstking01(m): 7:53pm On Jun 02, 2017
We have em broke girls on nairaland i swearsad.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Cinderella5(f): 7:53pm On Jun 02, 2017
Acidosis:


Stop blaming the society.. What has a chieftaincy title got to do with love? Obviously, you have never experienced true love.
love without finance is torture.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Cinderella5(f): 7:54pm On Jun 02, 2017
LalaLushness:




Working women are!!!!! They don't care about fanancial status when they can stand on their own two feet... so money becomes a non mdf factor


so you can date a guy that never has to give and dependent on you?
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Apina(m): 7:55pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
so much pain in your post, eya kpele.
Nah...... It's all pity..... I really pity u

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Cinderella5(f): 7:56pm On Jun 02, 2017
Apina:

Nah...... It's all pity..... I really pity u
you sounded like someone in deep pain, sorry.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by TheMortician: 8:00pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

Hahahaha, ironically and brutally truthful. Contrary to what Hollywood has conditioned us to believe, a girl's primary motive for a long term relationship is looking for a strong male to look after her, physical looks is only a bonus. Women actually are drawned to character, attitude and the means of provision far more than the idea of a fine broke dude.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Cinderella5(f): 8:06pm On Jun 02, 2017
TheMortician:


Hahahaha, ironically and brutally truthful. Contrary to what Hollywood has conditioned us to believe, a girl's primary motive for a long term relationship is looking for a strong male to look after her, physical looks is only a bonus. Women actually are drawned to character, attitude and the means of provision far more than the idea of a fine broke dude.
thanks for being honest.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 8:09pm On Jun 02, 2017
Amarabae:
why must a guy financial stavs which can change be an issue.
Maybe its an issue for girls from poor family, if you are from a rich family, money will not be an issue in choosing a guy, havent you see a rich background girl marrying a poor guy and making him somebody?
Some of our mentality need to change pls.
lmao. Maybe in nollywood films, but in real life? NOOO. You don't see girls from rich families or ladies with a lot of money dating poor men. It's a lie. Stop trying to sound like superwoman and face reality. Yes it can change, but how realistic will that change be.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 8:10pm On Jun 02, 2017
Apina:

I just can't believe there are brain dead peeps like Urself still roaming this forum. Money can never buy u life or love, I know u and those frustrated and confused ignoramuses will in ur defense say its better to cry in a range rover bla bla bla. Ewu! U will die frustrated, unhappy,lonely and unloved cos just like a piece of tissue, ur only purpose will be to clean someone else's sh.it.
what is your argument? You're typing trash please.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Toks2008(m): 8:11pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
you have a wrong mentlity.

On the contrary I think you should work on your own mentality...

Being broke is relative and the moment a lady starts sing something wrong in dating broke guys then she must be a leech...

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Safiaa(f): 8:20pm On Jun 02, 2017
Toks2008:


On the contrary I think you should work on your own mentality...

Being broke is relative and the moment a lady starts sing something wrong in dating broke guys then she must be a leech...
No. A leech is the wrong term. I find it so ironic that men will have so much standards and criterias for the women of their choice. From physical criterias that are so shallow to culinary criterias etc. The minute a woman decides she has 'standards' she's a gold digger. I agree that if a woman doesn't have shiiit and she wants a millionaire, she's reaching beyond her level. But for a woman to state that she doesn't date broke men or men below her financial status is completely her preference, especially if she's got money of her own. She's allowed to have her beliefs without being labelled a gold digger or a leech. Men get too emotional and soft when it comes to these topics, you forget to think rationally. Its due to low self esteem.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Alphamale2017(m): 8:35pm On Jun 02, 2017
Amarabae:
Sister, a guy being broke should not be a key issue if you as the lady have something doing to earn some money.
Must you be a financial liability in a relationship?
Even if the guy is broke, you can offer to him intelligent suggestion on how to come out of it, businesses he can venture in, how he can raise capital etc
Na Becos u done marry, u are seeing life from a different perspective . many girls will not agree with u oh. If I were a broke guy, I won't date I swear. I can't stand the shame . I will channel 100% of my energy into anything that will bring money . I once turned down a girl way back way money nor dey. because of this season . she then asked me "when
will u be ready " ?? Lol . I thank God for his help and blessings so far . things are way better now. the thing is, I just can't stand it. I know the embarrassment I faced when there was no money . from then I promised myself I will never engage in it again until I started to make money. I turned down a very very beautiful girl because of that , I don't like unnecessary headache . thank God I didn't stayed with my promise and things are better now. anyways u are talking as a married woman, most slay queen here will not agree with u. almost all will not agree

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 8:36pm On Jun 02, 2017
I dey tell you, in reality they are worse than an olosho grin
Cinderella5:
girls aren't real here, they want to impress guys. You very correct.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by AHCB: 8:44pm On Jun 02, 2017
Quinn22:
I dey tell you, in reality they are worse than an olosho grin
What could be worse than an olosho, Quinn?
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 8:46pm On Jun 02, 2017
Girls coming on NL to impress guys with their comments and for likes grin
Instead of them to say the reality of things
AHCB:
What could be worse than an olosho, Quinn?

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Draei: 8:46pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
girls aren't real here, they want to impress guys. You very correct.
So in your little world of gold-digging fantasy,
any lady who decides to be financially okay
before stepping into any guy's life is trying to
impress the guy?

Now it is more clear the brain tumor in your empty
cracked cerebellum has eaten deep into your senses.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by IdeyFindWife: 8:50pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?

All these "mentally-retar.ded" threads overflogging cliches. Beggi-beggi girls on "ashawo-kobo-kobo" gold-digging levels looking for mugus to leech just dey put persin on RedAlert sef!

Your deliverance will come when you create ur wealth and control ur own reality instead of looking for moneybags upandan; u lot spend way too much time discussing shyt talk, mtcheww!

But, i don't blame you. Na d boys wey dey bother u for chyking to 'cool-bodi' we go blame; we don tell dem say "jobless man nor suppose dey erect preek", dem nor go hear, dey pop Alomo upandan, agbero generation angry angry! U fit una selves!!

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Alphamale2017(m): 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2017
Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.
I understand what u Tryna say. it's not easy dating a broke guy. but u are not fine either. hope u are planning to be independent oh. just in case u don't end up with a rich man

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by AHCB: 8:53pm On Jun 02, 2017
Quinn22:
Girls coming on NL to impress guys with their comments and for likes grin
Instead of them to say the reality of things
You think that's worse than an olosho? Come on now... I know you know hypocrisy is almost a norm now in Nigeria.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by AHCB: 8:58pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?
LOL. Might I ask what your definition of a broke guy is?

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 8:59pm On Jun 02, 2017
What does hypocrisy have to do with what I'm saying?
AHCB:
You think that's worse than an olosho? Come on now... I know you know hypocrisy is almost a norm now in Nigeria.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jun 02, 2017
Sometimes I can't believe the way some people reason on this forum ...how can you say that a woman cannot be broke .

A broke guy now equals an ugly girl .

Like I have said before it's high time we get a dislike button on this forum .

My brothers double your hustle ...sisters double your hustle ...your partner is not your hustle ohhh .

Money is never enough ... Looks will be insignificant in the realm of misfortune .

Strive to get your finances in order .

Well who am I to criticise . Just know that when you leave the so called " broke guy or girl " ...when God blesses them do not go back to the person to ask for help .

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by AHCB: 9:03pm On Jun 02, 2017
Quinn22:
What does hypocrisy have to do with what I'm saying?
I'm saying the girls who say what they say on Nairaland just to get likes, are hypocrites. Which is almost now a norm in Nigeria.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 9:03pm On Jun 02, 2017
Spot on kiss
tobianthony:
Sometimes I can't believe the way some people reason on this forum ...how can you say that a woman cannot be broke .

A broke guy now equals an ugly girl .

Like I have said before it's high time we get a dislike button on this forum .

My brothers double your hustle ...sisters double your hustle ...your partner is not your hustle ohhh .

Money is never enough ... Looks will be insignificant in the realm of misfortune .

Strive to get your finances in order .

Well who am I to criticise . Just know that when you leave the so called " broke guy or girl " ...when God blesses them do not go back to the person to ask for help .
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 9:05pm On Jun 02, 2017
Oh I get you. And it's sad really sad
AHCB:
I'm saying the girls who say what they say on Nairaland just to get likes, are hypocrites. Which is almost now a norm in Nigeria.
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jun 02, 2017
tobianthony:
Sometimes I can't believe the way some people reason on this forum ...how can you say that a woman cannot be broke .

A broke guy now equals an ugly girl .

Like I have said before it's high time we get a dislike button on this forum .

My brothers double your hustle ...sisters double your hustle ...your partner is not your hustle ohhh .

Money is never enough ... Looks will be insignificant in the realm of misfortune .

Strive to get your finances in order .

Well who am I to criticise . Just know that when you leave the so called " broke guy or girl " ...when God blesses them do not go back to the person to ask for help .
you said my mind..I really don't understand why ladies think there ticket to a good life is a rich man... so what happens to girls and ladies that are not so good looking... do they deserve to die single as well.. cause that is what they are saying going by there logic
... no wonder lots of ladies bleach a lot nowadays

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by AHCB: 9:07pm On Jun 02, 2017
Quinn22:
Oh I get you. And it's sad really sad
It's what the society demands. Say things just to get approval from peeps who know lil or nothing about you and do/be the other.

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by youngbelieve(f): 9:10pm On Jun 02, 2017
for me I'd say there's ntin wrong wif dat, buh these days dem boys re ******phew!!..I reserve my comment
Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Quinn22(f): 9:14pm On Jun 02, 2017
They will eat your money and dump you grin
Kai! Broke boys/Men are wicked cheesy
youngbelieve:
for me I'd say there's ntin wrong wif dat, buh these days dem boys re ******phew!!..I reserve my comment

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Re: Girls, How Easy Is It To Totally Love A Broke Guy? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jun 02, 2017
Cinderella5:
In my opinion, a girl loving a broke guy is like a guy loving an ugly girl, it's tough.

Girls how do you cope in loving broke guys?
go and date a billioniare na.dem force u to date a broke guy?

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