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Marcelo290:
Some Nigerian girls are very dumb bro, reason I hardly go on dates, my house is my meeting place oh.. so I decided to go on date with this girl, aspa high class babe way she the form, we went to a well known place around town, I bought food, meat and drinks for her to make sure she is satisfied, she is a very boring type of girl which is a huge turn off for me, after everything we parted our ways. The next day this girl chatted me up on whatsapp and demanded I sent airtime to her, person way I just meet, I just dey reason the matter, so cos I spent on her for our first outing, her mind don tell her say she don see better maga? me that hardly spend on girls, rather it's the other way round... I just told her I don't have anything on me at that moment, she didn't gimme any reply, later in the evening I chatted her up, yet she refused to reply, I just laugh free her matter... after about a week she started calling again, but trust me, I already counted her off, she sent loads of messages, for were.. me sef no reply her till date...

You have to be extra smart when dealing with these girls or them go chop you clean mouth, it should be a win - win situation

@mekaboy, did u miss this? you just dey defend confused and parasitic people for nothing. A girl who has an independent mindset wouldn't feel bad if a guy does not buy her anything. I understand you are trying to be optimistic but bro I am REALIST... i say things the way I see it. period!

lazeal:
it is not wrong...I have visited a girl and GOT nothing as well. I do not hold it against her. Na she decline and I didn't force her. Bro, these girls are confused bunch!

===> https://www.nairaland.com/3823689/nigerian-girls-most-useless

check that out. I know the dude who posted it and I was there when it happened. This one got all the attention and drink too. What did she do?

Admit it, they are confused lots abeg. It has nothing to buying something or not.

Your changing your story gradually. From not buying anything to she declining. Which one do we believe?


It's not a must that a girl go like you. Or are you blaming her for being skinny then? Lol.

Just don't go on revenge on girls who did not like u then, before u do what u will regret.

forreelinc:
Movie: 1000 X 2 = 2000
KFC: 2000 X 2= 4000
Pizza for her friends = 4000
Souvenir: 5 000
Uber: 5000
Durex: 500
Sharp corner hotel room : 5000
All togeda na 25k you need for first date
Best of luck

Because I be dangote's pikin abi? . Shey I dae run NGO wey I go buy pizza for her friends, abeg make them park

mekaboy:
Your changing your story gradually. From not buying anything to she declining. Which one do we believe?


It's not a must that a girl go like you. Or are you blaming her for being skinny then? Lol.

Just don't go on revenge on girls who did not like u then, before u do what u will regret.

I said I didn't buy and did I give my reason for not buying? NO!

It wasn't her fault but why did she come back even when I had lost her number? I think I deleted that number after it happened.

WHY did she contact me in 2013 and 2016? WHY? WHY? WHY? And after seeing me, she increased the tempo... as in, she was seriously calling me, initiating chat... you seem to like gold diggers bro.

lazeal:
I said I didn't buy and did I give my reason for not buying? NO!

It wasn't her fault but why did she come back even when I had lost her number? I think I deleted that number after it happened.

WHY did she contact me in 2013 and 2016? WHY? WHY? WHY? And after seeing me, she increased the tempo... as in, she was seriously calling me, initiating chat... you seem to like gold diggers bro.

OYA now, go and carry out your revenge as planned and let us know how it went.

mekaboy:
OYA now, go and carry out your revenge as planned and let us know how it went.

lol

mach98:
Because I be dangote's pikin abi? . Shey I dae run NGO wey I go buy pizza for her friends, abeg make them park

make we stop to dey fall hand na. Wetin dey for 25k?
Make we hustle so we go make money wey we go dey take yab babe you feel me?

lazeal:
@mekaboy, did u miss this? you just dey defend confused and parasitic people for nothing. A girl who has an independent mindset wouldn't feel bad if a guy does not buy her anything. I understand you are trying to be optimistic but bro I am REALIST... i say things the way I see it. period!

Our problem in this country is that we feel that there must be a reward for every kobo you spend on a girl. Sometimes the money u spend is just for the company.

Yes there are different types of girls for different guys. If this is not your type you look for your type. That does not mean u won't spend on a date because of what the last girl did.

I don't buy credit. If you ask me to buy you credit, I tell u I don't do it . To some other guy he won't have a problem sending credit to the girl.

So if a girl comes up with a demand that I am not comfortable with, I let u know straight up. If it will end the friendship, fine. At least I know we are not compatible.

But that won't stop me from spending to have a comfortable date.

mekaboy:
Hmm, 10k in your pocket in today's Nigeria, is not over impression. Is it cigarette and pure water that the both of u will take on the first date with 1k?

God Go Punish You As You Make Me Laff SoTey I Throwey The Food Wey I Dey Chop....


its just 2 much una no go kee me with laff

Chai
Are we this difficult

mekaboy:
Our problem in this country is that we feel that there must be a reward for every kobo you spend on a girl. Sometimes the money u spend is just for the company.

Yes there are different types of girls for different guys. If this is not your type you look for your type. That does not mean u won't spend on a date because of what the last girl did.

I don't buy credit. If you ask me to buy you credit, I tell u I don't do it . To some other guy he won't have a problem sending credit to the girl.

So if a girl comes up with a demand that I am not comfortable with, I let u know straight up. If it will end the friendship, fine. At least I know we are not compatible.

But that won't stop me from spending to have a comfortable date.

You seem to see me are a stingy dude . I don't know any girl who has come in contact with me for "something" that didn't chop my money lol. Bros, I am a forking giver. I don't want to say what went out of my pocket in December. cos this same you defending them now will call me a mumu. I no wan talk too much on this issue, my weak point is even that "giving' cos one played on my intelligence when she noticed I like her.

See, the greatest lesson I have learned after the last "3 nasty spending spree" is look before you leap. Some girls don't deserve any thing good. All those telling the OP to spend this or that might be leading him into pit where a girl might take advantage of him.

lazeal:
You seem to see me are a stingy dude . I don't know any girl who has come in contact with me for "something" that didn't chop my money lol. Bros, I am a forking giver. I don't want to say what went out of my pocket in December. cos this same you defending them now will call me a mumu. I no wan talk too much on this issue, my weak point is even that "giving' cos one played on my intelligence when she noticed I like her.

See, the greatest lesson I have learned after the last "3 nasty spending spree" is look before you leap. Some girls don't deserve any thing good. All those telling the OP to spend this or that might be leading him into pit where a girl might take advantage of him.

So that OP bought a girl a plate of rice with drink 2k and gave her transport money, be say she is taking advantage of him? Anyway, I blame the economy.

mekaboy:
So that OP bought a girl a plate of rice with drink 2k and gave her transport money, be say she is taking advantage of him? Anyway, I blame the economy.

u never jam... in fact it is not advisable to start a relationship by spending too much lol. Most Nigerian girls have shallow reasoning.

You guys are funny. For GOD so loved the world that he gave.

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