LalaLushness:


There should be no set rule or guide in how much you spend
You spend according to your wallet size ....

That's what u will say on nairaland. When he takes you out and can't buy a plate of rice in an eatery, when he chats u up later you delay and respond with kk.

mekaboy:


That's what u will say on nairaland. When he takes you out and can't buy a plate of rice in an eatery, when he chats u up later you delay and respond with kk.

Who he dey buy plate of rice for

Hmmm hmmmm hmmm plssssssssss
I can get him a sack of rice ...
You need to start dating working class chics your destiny will be bright ..

mekaboy:


That location that 1k can afford a nice time for a guy and a girl on a first date might not be descent or comfortable for a lady.

My budget is for Lagos and even Abuja.

Here in Ilorin, you can go watch a movie for that price on Mondays and Wednesdays viva cinema is 500 naira for movies,you can visit unilorin zoo or even take her to a restaurant and get her food 600 naira and drinks 400.
Or go to KFC,chicken and chips is 1650 naira with drink, and many more comfortable places you both can be. In case you don't have a car,taxi is 50-100 naira from anywhere in Ilorin.
Tell me if that's not comfortable and decent enough.

Like I said it depends on your pocket and calibre or should I say class

LalaLushness:

Who he dey buy plate of rice for

Hmmm hmmmm hmmm plssssssssss
I can get him a sack of rice ...
You need to start dating working class chics your destiny will be bright ..

He said average Nigerian. Even a girl that earns 40k is working class. Even if you go on a date with a bank regional manager, there is the basic she expects of you else it will be an insult to her person.

This is not western movie but Nigeria.

Berbierklaus:

Here in Ilorin, you can go watch a movie for that price on Mondays and Wednesdays viva cinema is 500 naira for movies,you can visit unilorin zoo or even take her to a restaurant and get her food 600 naira and drinks 400.
Or go to KFC,chicken and chips is 1650 naira with drink, and many more comfortable places you both can be. In case you don't have a car,taxi is 50-100 naira from anywhere in Ilorin.

So u just take her to movie? You won't ask her if she cares to have something to eat? Even if she ate at home before coming out, with the stress of the bus and gallop on Nigeria roads, she would need to refill.

Like I said, if you just drink water and let her eat, you save more.

mekaboy:


He said average Nigerian. Even a girl that earns 40k is working class. Even if you go on a date with a bank regional manager, there is the basic she expects of you else it will be an insult to her person.

This is not western movie but Nigeria.

Sorry I only do western mentality .. if I like I can pay for it all
Next date he can ... it's give n take..
Like I said some women have no interest in a guys wealth .. as long he works ambitious, can look after himself ( not mummy or daddy bailing him out) then its all good this does not apply to the ladies in your area I guess

mekaboy:


So u just take her to movie? You won't ask her if she cares to have something to eat? Even if she ate at home before coming out, with the stress of the bus and gallop on Nigeria roads, she would need to refill.

Like I said, if you just drink water and let her eat, you save more.

So when you go to the movies with a girl,you go there and eat away like gluttons abi?

You can't get just popcorn and drinks and be happy?
See I'm not disputing your 10k,all in saying is that even 1k will do the trick depending on your location,and pocket,so we are saying the same thing.

LalaLushness:

Sorry I only do western mentality .. if I like I can pay for it all
Next date he can ... it's give n take..
Like I said some women have no interest in a guys wealth .. as long he works ambitious, can look after himself ( not mummy or daddy bailing him out) then its all good this does not apply to the ladies in your area I guess

Story. A guy that can't afford a descent meal on a first date can take care of himself without bailout ?Even this your monica says you will be worse.

LalaLushness:

Sorry I only do western mentality .. if I like I can pay for it all
Next date he can ... it's give n take..
Like I said some women have no interest in a guys wealth .. as long he works ambitious, can look after himself ( not mummy or daddy bailing him out) then its all good this does not apply to the ladies in your area I guess

That's all that matters most. But sadly, don't apply to most females.

mekaboy:


Story. Even this your monica says you will be worse.

Kai dem don damage una
Too bad o laterz

Kondomatic:
Here's a break down of my budget for our first date.

Tfare to where you will drop. N100.

Bike wey go carry us N70

N50 pure water.

2 roasted corn. N50 each.

6 pears. N20 each.

Tfare back to the park N70

Back to my house N100


TOTAL N610


Still expensive.

Kuku no go date na

KennyID17:


That's all that matters most. But sadly, don't apply to most females.

Booboo tell them again lol
They think all Nigerian ladies are useless like the ones they date mtcheew
Meet me for that pawpaw tree

mekaboy:


Story. A guy that can't afford a descent meal on a first date can take care of himself without bailout ?Even this your monica says you will be worse.

Judging someone by an online nane/moniker they use don't sound cool.

Just saying.

Berbierklaus:
Kuku no go date na

Make love just dey there dey waste?

LalaLushness:

Booboo tell them again lol
They think all Nigerian ladies are useless like the ones they date mtcheew
Meet me for that pawpaw tree

Story, so because a guy spends some money to have a comfortable environment for a first date makes the lady useless? That's how these girls will be dating married politicians and be forming lady boss

LalaLushness:

Booboo tell them again lol
They think all Nigerian ladies are useless like the ones they date mtcheew
Meet me for that pawpaw tree

Lol @ pawpaw tree

How u dey na?

mekaboy:


Story, so because a guy spends some money to have a comfortable environment for a first date makes the lady useless? That's how these girls will be dating married politicians and be forming lady boss online.

Show me where I typed it
It's simple English read n comprehend..Yh same way you too could be gay hence why you have no clue

Kondomatic:
Make love just dey there dey waste?

With this your stinginess?

KennyID17:


Lol @ pawpaw tree

How u dey na?

Friday vibe dey wait you since o .. make me dey follow dregs chats ..
u don chop?

Kondomatic:
Nah abnormal people dey chop corn?

lolzzz.....

LalaLushness:

Friday vibe dey wait you since o .. make me dey follow dregs chats ..
u don chop?

Chop?

How I go chop when I never sure say u don chop?

LalaLushness:

Show me where I typed it
It's simple English read n comprehend..Yh same way you too could be gay hence why you have no clue

Even the working class lady as u said , deserves a comfortable first date. Even if the lady can pay at the end of the day, that does not mean the guy won't come prepared.

You claim you only do western mentality, but u could not comprehend where the guy said this is not the western world but Nigeria.

You talk about area, which area do u stay, let's know if the ladies their don't deserve a comfortable date?

KennyID17:


Chop?

How I go chop when I never sure say u don chop?

Oya come let me go and cook ... follow me

jashar:

lolzzz.....

Love is not expensive and we're in recession

Berbierklaus:

With this your stinginess?

You're not financially responsible if young women do not see you as a stingy person - Tallesty.

mekaboy:


Even the working class lady as u said , deserves a comfortable first date. Even if the lady can pay at the end of the day, that does not mean the guy won't come prepared.

You claim you only do western mentality, but u could not comprehend where the guy said this is not the western world but Nigeria.

You talk about area, which area do u stay, let's know if the ladies their don't deserve a comfortable date?

Yes but what if the guy just can't afford it then .. doesn't mean he can't give her comfirtable date !!!
Why condemn him just cause he took you to buka or tantaliser ... please a well rounded and mature guy can give you the best date without spending one kobo

You are the reasons why some Nigerian ladies seek money first when u too you are not content ... GO AND STEAL NA for comfortable date
I only stated soend according to your wallet if she a well rounded chic she will offer to pay for something
My mum always told me never take anything from a man ( its gateway to ask for something in return) .. if you are married then its a family that is different ...

LalaLushness:


Yes but what if the guy just can't afford it then .. doesn't mean he can't give her comfirtable date !!!
Why condemn him just cause he took you to buka or tantaliser ... please a well rounded and mature guy can give you the best date without spending one kobo

You are the reasons why some Nigerian ladies seek money first when u too you are not content ... GO AND STEAL NA for comfortable date
I only stated soend according to your wallet if she a well rounded chic she will offer to pay for something
My mum always told me never take anything from a man ( its gateway to ask for something in return) .. if you are married then its a family that is different ...

And how much do u expect a guy taking a girl to tantalizer to budget? That's the question.

Normal people go to eateries, so that you took a girl to an eatery does not mean she is after your money. That's something a normal guy should be able to do. That he took you on a date to an eatry does not mean your taking money from him.

Well rounded or not, there are basics here. The only place u might not spend much in Naija is your house. In fact you might actually spend more on generator .

mekaboy:


And how much do u expect a guy taking a girl to tantalizer to budget? That's the question.

Normal people go to eateries, so that you took a girl to an eatery does not mean she is after your money. That's something a normal guy should be able to do. That he took you on a date to an eatry does not mean your taking money from him.

Well rounded or not, there are basics here. The only place u might not spend much in Naija is your house. In fact you might actually spend more on generator .

Lol your case just weak me
I give up .. wtever u say

LalaLushness:


Oya come let me go and cook ... follow me

LalaLushness:


Yes but what if the guy just can't afford it then .. doesn't mean he can't give her comfirtable date !!!
Why condemn him just cause he took you to buka or tantaliser ... please a well rounded and mature guy can give you the best date without spending one kobo

You are the reasons why some Nigerian ladies seek money first when u too you are not content ... GO AND STEAL NA for comfortable date
I only stated soend according to your wallet if she a well rounded chic she will offer to pay for something
My mum always told me never take anything from a man ( its gateway to ask for something in return) .. if you are married then its a family that is different ...

I wish all ladies in Nigeria would have the western mentality like you, but our economy does not support it. If you wait for ladies with the western mentality here, you might just have to travel to the western world to meet them

mekaboy:


And how much do u expect a guy taking a girl to tantalizer to budget? That's the question.

Normal people go to eateries, so that you took a girl to an eatery does not mean she is after your money. That's something a normal guy should be able to do. That he took you on a date to an eatry does not mean your taking money from him.

Well rounded or not, there are basics here. The only place u might not spend much in Naija is your house. In fact you might actually spend more on generator .

Mr 10k take a chill pill...your mates also take people on dates of 100k...the women your arguing with are making sense..there is no standard amount.